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SCOTTISH LIFE (GA) Scottish National News Volume 13 Issue 5 October 2016 When Anyone, Anywhere, At Any Time, Reaches Out For Help, I Want the Hand of GA and Gam-Anon Always To Be There; And For That I Am Responsible. EDITORIAL 24 HOUR HELPLINE 0370 050 8881 SUBSCRIPTIONS If you would like to receive the magazine direct to your home, write to one of the addresses on the front page enclosing a cheque for £10 to cover postage for one year and of course include your name and address. (Southern Ireland £16) Gamblers Anonymous Scotland G.A. Service Office, St Columbkiilles Halls, Room 3, 2 Kirkwood Street, Rutherglen, G73 2SL Office Hours 10am-5pm Tel. 0141 353 3223 G.A. SCOTLAND WEBSITE www.gascotland.org [email protected] Gamblers Anonymous Scotland Website Members Pages Username-Member Password- r3cov3ry Hello Fellowship, hope the Scottish Lifefinds you all well and cheery. Whether you are feeling Happy, Sleepy, Sneezy, Grumpy, Dopey, Bashful, or clever like the Doc, with the nights closing in there’s a great opportunity on page five to give a little something back .We had an American visitor this monthhis story, as told in 1968, is on pages ten and eleven.. Remember the upcoming Convention; the booking form is on page four. Thanks to everyone who contributed this month. It is, as always, greatly appreciated. Happy New DayPam SCOTTISH CONVENTION Salutation Hotel, Perth 29th Sep 1st Oct 2017

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SCOTTISH LIFE (GA)

Scottish National News Volume 13 Issue 5 October 2016

When Anyone, Anywhere, At Any Time, Reaches Out For Help,

I Want the Hand of GA and Gam-Anon Always To Be There;

And For That I Am Responsible. EDITORIAL

24 HOUR HELPLINE

0370 050 8881 SUBSCRIPTIONS If you would like to receive the magazine direct to your home, write to one of the addresses

on the front page enclosing a cheque for £10 to cover postage for one year and of course

include your name and address. (Southern Ireland £16)

Gamblers Anonymous Scotland

G.A. Service Office,

St Columbkiilles Halls, Room 3,

2 Kirkwood Street,

Rutherglen, G73 2SL

Office Hours 10am-5pm

Tel. 0141 353 3223

G.A. SCOTLAND WEBSITE www.gascotland.org

[email protected]

Gamblers Anonymous

Scotland Website

Members Pages

Username-Member

Password- r3cov3ry

Hello Fellowship, hope the ‘Scottish Life’ finds you all well and cheery. Whether

you are feeling Happy, Sleepy, Sneezy, Grumpy, Dopey, Bashful, or clever like the

Doc, with the nights closing in there’s a great opportunity on page five to give a little

something back .We had an American visitor this month–his story, as told in 1968, is

on pages ten and eleven.. Remember the upcoming Convention; the booking form is

on page four. Thanks to everyone who contributed this month. It is, as always,

greatly appreciated. Happy New Day–Pam

SCOTTISH CONVENTION

Salutation Hotel, Perth 29th Sep – 1st Oct 2017

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Useful Numbers as of 01/06/2014

Citizens Advice Scotland Debt Advice Centre

Aberdeen 01224 569 750 Aberdeen 01224 523 738

Dumfries 0300 303 4321 Dumfries 0800 019 1278

Dundee 01382 307 494 Dundee 01382 431 167

Edinburgh 01315 548 144 Edinburgh 0131 200 2360

Falkirk 01324 626070 Falkirk 01324 506735

Glasgow 0141 552 5556 Glasgow 0808 801 1011

Inverness 0844 4994 111 Highland 0800 090 1004

Perth 01738 450580(1) Perth 01738 450580

Saltcoats 01294 467 848 Saltcoats 08001383328

What to take with you to the Citizens Advice Bureau www.cas.org.uk/bureaux

You should not delay seeking advice even if you haven't got all the information listed below.

In some cases there may be only a limited time in which to take certain action. It is important

that the adviser who deals with your problem has as much information about your case as

possible. (It may take longer to deal with your case if you cannot provide the relevant information)

Debt/money problems

Details of your income

Details of all those that you owe money to (creditors)

Copy of original agreements

Copy of any court papers

Proof of income

Wage slips/benefit/tax credit details

Details of household expenditure/bills (food, utilities, etc.)

Copy of the latest correspondence you have received

Housing problems

Tenancy agreement/letters from your landlord (for rented accommodation)

Mortgage details (if applicable)

Title deeds (for owner occupiers)

Proof of income

Wage slips/benefit/tax credit details

HELP NEEDED

We have members in outlying areas that cannot get to a meeting. Contact with a group or

individual can be sporadic for these people. Do you have time for a five minute chat via

phone or Skype? If you are willing to give this a try call the office on 0141 353 3223.

G.A. Scotland Website

Members Pages

Username member

Password r3cov3ry

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***REMEMBER GAM-ANON***

Gam-Anon can help and support the partner, relative or friend of any

compulsive gambler. Our gambling and its consequences, sometimes

affects those around us. It can be beneficial for those affected to

contact Gam-Anon.

Please email: [email protected] (or contact the G.A. office)

Literature

o Deviations along the road to Recovery

o GA Handbook (orange)

o Towards Recovery In Prison

o The 12 Steps Of Recovery

o Newcomers Handbook

o The 12 Steps Of Unity

o Climbing The 12 Steps

o GA Manual

o Who Am I?

o Unity Checklist

o Towards 90 Days

o Beyond 90 Days

o Sponsorship Booklet

Please ask your group Secretary for any literature you require

Parkhead Friday Morning Ravel Row

Open Meeting

25th of November 2016

Speakers to be arranged

All Welcome

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BUILDING BRIDGES

SCOTTISH CONVENTION 29/09/17 - 01/10/17

Salutation Hotel Perth

Plan Cost Deposit Breakdown Tick No. attending

A £180 £50 Friday night meal, Lunch Sat & Sun

2 nights B&B. Dinner dance

B £120 £50 Saturday night B&B. Lunch Sat & Sun

Dinner dance

C £140 £50 Friday night meal

2 nights B&B. Dinner dance

D £80 £25 Saturday night B&B. Dinner dance

E £90 £25 Friday night meal. Dinner dance

Lunch Sat & Sun

F £75 £25 Lunch Sat & Sun. Dinner dance

G £25 £10 Day visitor (per day) Lunch

H £10 £10 Day visitor (per day) No Lunch

DEPOSIT to be paid A.S.A.P.

Airport pick-ups available Edinburgh/Dundee

Registration from 4pm Friday

No single room supplements

All plan (except C&D) include workshops, welcome pack, tea & coffee

Payment Details: Cheques made payable to CONVENTION ACCOUNT

Account Number: 14305565

Sort Code: 80-22-60 (please remember to put your name in the remitter name)

Return to: Murray Dewar, 12 Coppice Drive, Scone, PH2 6SU

Email: [email protected]

Telephone: Jack & Sheila Stewart- 01738 812884

Name:…………………………………………………………………………………………………………

Contact Details:…………………………………………………………………………………

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IT COSTS NOTHING TO LAUGH RANK ROTTEN PRODUCTIONS ARE BACK

ORGANISING A PANTO THIS YEAR. IF ANYONE FROM THE FELLOWSHIP WOULD LIKE

TO GET INVOLVED, REHEARSALS ARE HELD ON SUNDAY AFTERNOONS

1.30PM TO 3.30PM IN PARTICK BURGH HALLS.

IF YOU WOULD LIKE ANY FURTHER INFORMATION PLEASE CONTACT ALEX K ON

07867 510325 07867 510325

MANY THANKS

WEB TEAM We still have a large number of groups that do not have Secretary Login details for the website. Without this access these groups will be unable to get pins displayed on the website and will also be missing out on important information which will be sent to Secretaries to pass onto members. If you, or any of your group are visiting groups or you know who the Secretaries are can you please pass on the message of how much better the website would be if all groups participated. Please try and let the Secretaries know that they can get login details easily by completing a form on the website or by contacting the web team directly at

[email protected]

New Meetings

Wednesday Edinburgh (West) 12:30pm to 2:00pm

Wester Hailes Healthy Living Centre, 30 Harvesters Way,

Edinburgh EH14 3JF

The Editor reserves the right of refusal on all submissions and may shorten/amend articles where appropriate. Views

and opinions reflected in articles in the Scottish life (GA) are not necessarily the aims and ideals of GA or the Editor.

Inverness Sunday 1pm to 2.30pm

M.S. Centre Burnett Road

Inverness

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Step One:

Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon GA Unity

1. Am I in my group a healing, mending, integrating person, or am I divisive? What

about gossip and taking other members’ inventories?

2. Am I a peacemaker? Or, do I with pious preludes such as “just for the sake of

discussion,” plunge into argument?

3. Am I gentle with those who rub me the wrong way, or am I abrasive?

4. Do I make competitive GA remarks, such as comparing one group with another or

contrasting GA in one place with GA in another?

5. Do I put down some GA activities as if I were superior for not participating in this or

that aspect of GA?

6. Am I informed about GA as a whole? Do I support, in every way I can, GA as a

whole, or just the parts I understand and approve of?

7. Am I as considerate of GA members as I want them to be of me?

8. Do I spout platitudes about love while indulging in and secretly justifying behaviour

that bristles with hostility?

9. Do I go to enough GA meetings or read enough GA literature to really keep in touch?

10. Do I share with GA all of me, the bad and the good, accepting as well as giving help to

the fellowship?

‘There are two kinds of pride, both good and bad.

‘Good pride' represents our dignity and self-respect.

'Bad pride' is the deadly sin of superiority

That reeks of conceit and arrogance’

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THANKYOU

My name is Kathleen and I am a Compulsive Gambler and a member of Partick

Tuesday.

I would like to take this opportunity through the pages of Scottish Life to thank all my

friends in GA for the support and love which was shown to me during my time in

Prison.

I was sentenced on the 12th February 2016 and spent 6 weeks in Cornton Vale Pris-

on in Stirling, before being transferred to Saughton Prison in Edinburgh where I

served the remainder of my sentence being released on 27th June 2016. I am cur-

rently on an HDC tag which will be removed on the 11th November 2016.

During the time I was away, I received weekly visits from my son Thomas, my sis-

ters Una and Margaret Mary and my brother in law Tom. I also received weekly vis-

its from my friends in GA, and in particular my wee mucker Betty Boo, who never

missed a week over the whole period.

The cards and letters I received from all parts of the country from my many friends

whom I have met over the past 4 years and some I haven’t yet met, in GA kept me

going through it all. The highlight of my day was at 5.00pm when the mail was deliv-

ered. There are far too many people to mention individually, but please know that

by taking the time to write me a card or letter you played a big part in getting me

through to the end.

On a day that I was not particularly feeling good, when I received my mail that night,

one of the letters I received lifted my spirits no end. The person who sent the letter

will know who they are when I say that they asked me to look at my current situation

not as a prison sentence, but as an extended stay on the naughty step. That

kept me going for a long time. Thank you.

I couldn’t have imagined when I walked through the doors of Partick Burgh Halls on

a wet Wednesday in January 2013, that my life was about to be transformed, with

the help and encouragement of the men and women who have travelled this journey

before me. My gratitude for this great fellowship of ours cannot be put into words.

I am looking forward to travelling again with Betty Boo and Walter when I will be able

to thank you all personally.

My name is Kathleen, Compulsive Gambler, and No Gambling to Report.

‘With pride, there are many curses. With humility, there come many blessings’

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Carol – DENNISTOUN

GA is the place to be,

To help us to eventually see,

What we were doing to all that mattered,

Being selfish, telling lies, and life in tatters

That we were in the right place,

to help us stop at our own pace

Not to hurry and be so calm,

not spit the dummy out of the pram.

To help others along the way,

Then you can eventually have your say

Resentment is a thing of the past, cos I have finally got it at last

Be wiser today a Day at a Time. Then everything will be fine

I am a better person today, cos I’ve learned the hard way

To arrest this illness I have done,

I’m not cured but I can shun

Gambling today is not for me, a better life I can see

That’s why you need to come to GA.

‘Pride makes us artificial and humility makes us real’

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Section 3: What is addiction for the partner? Some hidden minor compensations for the spouse/partner from remaining married to/living or in a relationship with someone compulsively gambling. 9. Escape from boring predictable routine and from meaninglessness during

recovery.

Even although there is great relief once the gambling has stopped; that the worst

of the stress and stain are no longer present, then, such are the contradictions of

human nature, there can be some dissatisfaction with the present smooth

relatively predictable routine. So the spouse/partner/relative too may need to

learn the benefits of recovery without being tempted to go back to the unbearably

chaotic style of the addictive way of life.

Summary of the Effects of Removal of the Hidden Minor Benefits for the

Spouse.

All of the ways of coping which bring minor compensations are reasonable and

normal ways of living through adversity. Many of them are essential to the

survival of the spouse/partner/relative when things are at their worst. None of

them are clearly moral defects, character weaknesses or abnormal reactions in

themselves. But, when the addict changes their behaviour and begins to move

away from an addictive way of life, they are no longer so necessary, are no

longer even appropriate and may, if they continue, eventually become obstacles

and difficulties in the way of the addict’s (and therefore also of the

spouses/partners/relatives) recovery.

They can come to feel negatively about the addict’s recovery. It is only

occasionally that this is done quite consciously and deliberately. Unless the

spouse/partner/relative realises that living with an addiction has made them

become a person they would not otherwise have chosen to be, and unless they

can learn how to overcome it, they too will remain permanently corrupted and

soured by the experience.

‘Anger is the enemy on non-violence and pride is the monster that swallows it up’

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Gamblers Anonymous Scotland had the recent pleasure of a visit from Bill H. Atlanta City Georgia U.S.A. This is his story as it appeared on Sunday 14th July 1968 in The Atlanta Journal and The Atlanta Constitution.

Starts Quitters Group Stop Gambling? He hopes he can by Walker Lundy He can’t even match dimes for a coke now. He’s afraid if he does his $40,000 nightmare may begin again. The man who is a $50,000 a year salesman and who owns a $35,000 plus home in the heart of Northside Atlanta is a gambler. More truthfully, he is a compulsive gambler who has kicked the habit. He says he wants to rescue the other estimated 4,000 Atlantans who are addicted to gambling to the point that it inhibits the rest of their lives. He is starting the city’s first chapter of Gamblers Anonymous, the 2,500 member nationwide organisation that tries to help compulsive gamblers in much the same way that Alcoholic Anonymous gives help. The first meeting of Gamblers Anonymous, Atlanta style, is scheduled for Saturday at 7.30pm at the First Methodist Church, 360 Peachtree St. N.E., in room 101. The groups mailing address is Box 9701 Atlanta 303019. The telephone answering service is 237-7281. The man, who is starting the group, like the people he hopes will show for the meeting, will remain nameless. His story which stretches over almost half of his 37 years is plainly fantastic. He told it this week to Journal reporter. “I started when I was 15 playing pinball machines,” he said. “By the time I was 16, I was playing no-limit poker.” He said he worked part-time and also stole from his mother’s pocketbook to finance his early gambling. He joined the Air Force for four years at 19 and came of age as a gambler he recalled. He said he also ran a black market operation between England and Germany sending coffee to Germany in exchange for perfume and silk stockings. He said the operation netted him $3,000 a month and he spent it all on gambling. “I must have blown $50,000 overseas alone,” “I didn’t come home with a cent.” AFTER HIS HITCH he returned to the states, entered college and got married. He became too busy to gamble. After graduation from college, however, he moved to a city in South Georgia and began again. He took up golf and began betting on his game. He joined a Fraternity organisation and soon became $2,000 in debt in a poker game at the club. He stole enough money from his company to pay off the debt and managed to cover the theft before it was detected.

‘A man's pride can be his downfall, and he needs to learn

When to turn to others for support and guidance’

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THEN HE changed jobs and moved to Atlanta. That was about four years ago. The first year here he earned $29,000 in commissions. Early in the second year he joined one of the city’s most established private social clubs. “Then I really started to swing,” he said. A fellow member helped him enter a $1,000 “take-out” poker game, which required a $1,000 “donation” in order to get a seat at the table. Another club member introduced him to a professional bookie. The man began betting $100 on football and basketball games. Then he graduated to $500 and $1,000 per game. DURING the Atlanta Falcons first season, he bet $8,000 on the Falcons v Cleveland Browns game. He had four different bets with point spreads ranging from 23½ - 26½. “I won them all.” he said. The day before, he added, he had bet a total of $35,000 on 15 college football games and came away an $8,000 loser. His salary by now had climbed to almost $50,000 a year in sales commissions. He said he was betting all he could and was borrowing money from several banks to finance more gambling. He said he paid $24,000 to the bookie in four months-and still owed him $14,000. He paid the bookie $3,000 more and “told him if he wanted to shoot me to go ahead because I couldn’t pay him any more.” He said the bookie invited him back to play. Finally he said, he, “Hit bottom about six months ago.” He was $40,000 in debt mostly for bank loans. He telephoned the Gamblers Anonymous office in New York and was referred one of its members. “I told him the bookies put me to sleep,” the man recalled. “He said that I was like an alcoholic. He told me not even to flip a dime for a Coke.” The telephone call changed the man’s life. He finally stopped gambling, quit the social club and began paying off his debts. Today he says he still owes $19,000 and believes he is on the way to being cured of the impulse to gamble. He has not bet anything since the telephone call six months ago. He says he is sincere about helping other addicted gamblers. He believes they will show up at the first meeting and hopes to have members of the Louisville KY, club here for the occasion. “If we can get these people here in Atlanta to show up,” the man said, “that’s all that is necessary.” He is still at a loss to explain why he gambled and why he-and others find it so tough to quit. “Gambling is a form of escape I guess,” he said. “You’re in a dream world when you’re gambling.” The anonymous man hopes to stick a pin in that dream world, beginning Saturday night.

‘What is pride? A rocket that emulates the stars’

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November 1st Reflection For The Day from the GA Blue Book

Those whom I most respect in the Gamblers Anonymous Program and, in turn, those from

whom I’ve learned the most seem convinced that pride is, as one person put it, the “root

sin”. In moral theology, pride is the first of the seven deadly sins. It is also considered the

most serious, standing apart from the rest by virtue of its unique quality. Pride gets right

into our spiritual victories. It insinuates itself into all our successes and accomplishments

even when we attribute them to God.

,

Do I struggle against pride by working the Tenth Step regularly, facing myself freshly and

making things right where they’ve gone wrong?

Today I Pray

May I be on guard constantly against the sneakiness of pride, which can creep into every

achievement, every triumph, every reciprocated affection. May I know that whenever things

are going well for me, my pride will be on the spot ready to take credit. May I watch for it.

Today I Will Remember

Put pride in its place.

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TOWARDS THE FIRST 90 DAYS

Up to this point, your life (if you are like us) has been unmanageable, directed by your uncontrollable urge to gamble. The pattern your life has been following can only have the following outcome:

Misery, Heartache and Financial Drain

For you and those closest to you

The Gamblers Anonymous way of life will obviously be very different to you. It may

even frighten you. But we can assure you, the Gamblers Anonymous way of life has

the following encouraging outcome

Happiness, Peace of Mind and Self-Respect

All that is required is an open mind and a genuine desire to stay away from your

next bet, one day at a time.

We welcome you to Gamblers Anonymous and please, please, if there is anything

you don't understand, ask someone to explain.

‘You are no longer alone. Accept the hand of friendship’

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Malcolm - Dundee Monday Hey Everyone, So, I must confess that I am one of those people who never writes or replies to

emails. Instead I chat a lot online, but, after the recent fall I had and the number of

emails I have received and phone calls from you wonderful people, I have felt the

need to change that attitude and so that's why I write to you all at this moment.

The fact of the matter is that I was two years and three months free of a bet. I went

to Aberdeen to play ten pin bowling and ended up in the environment of gambling

machines with my friend (who was playing the machine) and ultimately I ended up

putting my own money in.

This is a lesson too late for the learning but it’s not too late for me to warn everybody

of the dangers of being a compulsive gambler.

I have been in Gamblers Anonymous since 2009 and have made a lot of friends with

people in the Fellowship from all over Scotland I share a common problem and have

Faith that we are no more strangers in the big bad world, but, rather members of the

Fellowship. This really means a lot to me.

It feels very good to know that there are a lot of people around the world who are

very bold to proclaim their love for the Fellowship of G.A. The people of the Fellow-

ship will always be in my mind and I still have faith in my higher power.

‘God Grant Me the Serenity, To Accept the Things I Cannot Change, the Courage to

Change the Things I Can and the Wisdom to Know the Difference’

May the God (of your own understanding) keep you safe and may the Unity of the

Fellowship help us all to grow well and keep us off gambling ‘One Day at a Time’

PEACE and LOVE to everyone in the Fellowship in every nation around the world.

‘Vanity and pride are different things,

Though the words are often used synonymously

A person may be proud without being vain.

Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves,

Vanity, to what we would have others think of us’

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Frank-B Sunday Rutherglen 12 Steps

Hi my name is Frank and I am a recovering compulsive gambler...the obsession to

gamble has been removed by working my program on a daily basis, getting con-

nected to my Higher Power (GOD)...first thing on awakening. What a powerful and

beautiful thing to do.

As I am approaching thirteen years free from this cunning, baffling and insidious ill-

ness, COMPULSIVE GAMBLING...I am sending a small article into the Scottish Life.

It is not my first article, but, the first for some time.

At this time in my life I am at peace and content with my daily life...this was not al-

ways the case in the throes of my gambling addiction. The totally unmanageable life

I was living was dragging me into self-destruction...

Finally my higher power (GOD) put somebody in my path and guided me BACK to

Gamblers Anonymous. Since then I have always been involved in a group ,had a

sponsor, got into the literature...do and work the 12 Steps on a daily basis and carry

that message to the still suffering compulsive gambler...of which there are many, in

the rooms as well as out with rooms.

What a joy to see people recover and experience real recovery through the pro-

gram. Not your middle of the road solution - go to meetings and don’t place that first

bet - it’s a start, but, that’s all it is...I thank GOD for the people in G.A. that are

armed with the facts about their illness and also the solution The 12 Steps....

Principles before Personalities....I thank these people for their time and commitment

in keeping real recovery alive in G.A meetings. You can’t pass on something you

haven’t got .If you are truly beaten by your addiction...and are totally power-

less....You Need a Power Greater Than You.

May you now find...Hope, Belief and Courage...Recovery Works if You Work it.

‘God Grant Me the Serenity’

‘So in our pride we ordered for breakfast an omelet, toast and coffee

And what has just arrived is a tomato salad with onions, a dish of pickles,

A big slice of watermelon and two bottles of cream soda’

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Frank Dundee G.A.

I came to Gamblers Anonymous totally whipped and beaten by gambling, my mind

and life all over the shop. I was alone, in despair and hoping to find the strength and

desire to abstain from gambling.

I had gambled since I was a kid. At the age of forty three I was financially secure

and decided to retire and become a professional gambler. (Poor choice of career for

a compulsive gambler)

Me and my gambling were soon out of control and the chaos continued for another

four years; then G.A. and a slow healing since.

Today I am happy. I learned I had to conquer my fears: the following helped.

Happiness, anxiety, joy, resentment; we have many words for the many emotions

we experience in our lifetimes. But, deep down, at our cores, there are only two

emotions: Love and Fear.

All positive emotions come from Love; all negative emotions come from Fear.

From Love flow happiness, contentment, peace and joy.

From Fear come anger, hate anxiety and guilt.

If we’re in Fear we are not in a place of Love.

When we are in Love we cannot be in a place of Fear.

Can you think of a time when you’ve been in both Love and Fear? It’s impossible.

All of our invented Fears involve either the past or the future, only love is in the pre-

sent. Now is the only real moment we have and Love is the only real emotion be-

cause it’s the only one that occurs in the present moment.

Fear is always based on something in the past and causes us to be afraid of some-

thing we think may happen in the future.

To live in the present then, is to live in Love not Fear. Learn to Love ourselves;

Infusing ourselves with Love begins the washing away of our Fears.

Happy Days.

Thanks to everyone in G.A. & Gam Anon for helping me to find myself.

P.S. No chemical substances in use.

‘It was pride that changed angels into devils; it is humility that makes men as angels

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WARNING

When I am an old I shall wear purple

with a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me

And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves

And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.

I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired

And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells

And run my stick along the public railings

And make up for the sobriety of my youth.

I shall go out in my slippers in the rain

and pick flowers in other people's gardens

and learn to spit.

You can wear terrible shirts and grow fatter

and eat three pounds of sausages at a go

or only bread and pickle for a week

and hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.

But now we must have clothes that keep us dry

and pay our rent and not swear in the street

and set a good example for the children.

We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.

But maybe I ought to practice a little now?

So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised

when suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple

By Jenny Joseph

‘Pride is the master sin of the devil, and the devil is the father of lies

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‘To know a person observe how they gain their goal,

Rather than how they miss it;

For when we fail, our pride supports us,

When we succeed, it betrays us’

Personal Responsibility In Daily Effort

The Twelve Promises of Recovery

We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness

We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it

We will comprehend the word ‘Serenity’

We will all know peace

No matter how far down the scale we have gone, we will see our ex-

perience can benefit others

That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will disappear

We will lose interest in selfish things and gain interest in our fellows

Self-seeking will slip away

Our whole attitude and outlook on life will change

Fear of people and economic insecurity will leave us

We will intuitively know how to handle situations that baffle us

We will suddenly realise that Higher Power is doing for us what

we could not do for ourselves

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DAY AREA GROUP ADDRESS START Additional Info

MON Glasgow GA Parkhead Congregational Church, Ravel Row, (off Westmuir Street) Parkhead, G31 5EW

10am-12noon

Ravel Row Side to enter

2 GA Wee Monday Duns Scotas Church, 147 Ballater St, Gorbals, G5 OYT 7.30pm 9.30pm finish

3 GA Big Monday Anderson &Kelvingrove Church,Ellderslie St, G3 8DS(off St Vincent St.) 7.30pm Gam Anon7.30pm

4 GA Clydebank Radnor Parish Church, Radnor Park Spencer Street,G813AS(off Killbowie Rd) 7.30pm

5 GA Croftfoot United Free Church, Crofrtfoot Avenue,Croftfoot, Glasgow,G44 5HH 7.45pm

Enter off Carmunnock Road

6 Ayrshire GA Ardrossen Civic Centre, Cumbrae Room 150 Glasgow street, Ardrossan, Ayrshire, KA22 8EU 7.30pm

Elgin Moray College Elgin in the Community Hub room 6.30-8.30pm

NEW MEETING GREENOCK Elim Church, 48 Kelly Street. PA16 8TR

All Welcome 7.30pm 30th

MayNEW

8 Hurlford GA Hurlford The Thistle Pub, 2-4 Riccarton Road, Hurlford, Ayr-shire, KA1 5AQ 7.30pm Rear of Thistle

9 VENUE CHANGE Dunfermline Touch leisure Centre,30 Mercer Street,KY11 4OG 7.10pm NEW VENUE

10 Edinburgh GA Edinburgh Methodist Church The Square Centre, Nicholson Square, EH8 9BX 7.15pm

11 Lothian GA Blackburn Church Of Scotland East Mains St. EH47 7QR 7.30pm

12 Cumbernauld GA Cumbernauld Greenfaulds Meeting Rooms Lochinvar Rd, Green-faulds Cumbernauld G67 4AR 7.30pm

13 England GA Carlisle Church of Scotland , Chapel St. CA1 1JA 7.30pm

14 Airdrie GA Whinhall Beechbank Community Centre, Wester Mavisbank Ave, Airdrie, ML6 0HE 7.30pm

15 Dundee GA Dundee St Andrews Parish Church 2 King St. DD1 2JB 7.30pm

TUES

NB VENUE CHANGE Perth NB Perth Methodist Church, Scott St. Perth PH2 8JN

(Use Side Entrance) VENUE CHANGE 7.30pm Gam anon 7.30pm

17 Glasgow GA Maryhill Central Halls, 304 Maryhill Road,G20 7YE 2.00pm

18 GA Oxgangs Colinton Mains Parish Church, 223 Oxgangs Road North, Edinburgh, EH13 9ED 7.00pm

19 GA Coatbridge St Andrews School, Sports Community Centre, 7.30pm ML5 5EA

20 GA Partick Partick Burgh Hall, Burgh Hall Street, Glasgow, G11 5LW Next to Peel Street 7.30pm Beginners 7.30pm

21 GA Rutherglen St Columbkilles, Kirkwood St,, G73 2SL 7.30pm Room 5

22 GA Dennistoun Our Lady of Good Counsel, Craigpark, G31 2JF Off Alexandra Parade 7.30pm

Beginners 6.30-7.15pm

23 Dumbarton GA Dumbarton Ben View Resource Centre,Strathleven PlaceG82 1BA 7.30pm

24 Falkirk GA Falkirk Falkirk Old St Monans Parish Church, Manse Pl, Fal-kirk, FK1 1JN opposite M&S Falkirk High Street 7.30pm

Steps Please park in street {not church)

25 Hamilton GA Hamilton Whitehill Neighbourhood Centre, 9 Hunter Road, Whitehill, Hamilton, ML3 0LH 7.30pm

Beginners 1st Half

26 Aberdeen GA Aberdeen Ruthrieston Community Centre, 532 - 536 Holburn Street Aberdeen AB10 1LL 7.30pm

Gam-Anon22/9/15 thenEvery fortnight

27 Paisley GA Paisley Ralston Community Centre, Allanton Avenue PA1 3BL 7.30pm Beginners 7.30pm

WED

NEW Edinburgh West NEW Wester Hailes Healthy Living Centre,30 Harvesters Way,Edinburgh EH14 3JF

12.30pm-2pm NEW

29 Glasgow GA Partick Partick Burgh Halls, Burgh Hall Street, , G11 5LW 7.30pm-9.45pm

30 Glasgow GA Partick Partick Burgh Halls, Burgh Hall Street, , G11 5LW 1.00pm

31 GA Parkhead Congregational Church, Ravel Row, (off Westmuir Street) Parkhead, G31 5EW 5pm-7pm

Enter Ravel Row Side

32 GA Glasgow Wed Neighbourhood Centre, Daisy Street, Govanhill, Glas-gow, G42 8JL 7.15pm

Beginners 7.30pm Gam Anon 7.15pm-9.15pm

33 GA Blackhill Molendinar Community Centre, 1210 Royston Road, Blackhill, Glasgow, G33 1HE 7.00pm

34 GA Halfway The Archway Centre, Craigallian Ave, , G72 8RP 7.00pm

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35 GA Inverness Raigmore Hospital, Recreation Hall, IV2 3UJ 6.30pm NEW Peterhead NEW The Rescue Hall25 Prince Street Peterhead AB42 1QE 7.30pm

37 Coatbridge GA Coatbridge St Bartholemews Church, 1 Trent Street, ML25 2NT 7.30pm

38 Kilmarnock GA Kilmarnock Henderson Parish Church, London Road, , KA3 7AD 7.30pm NEW Peebleshire GA West Linton Castle Craig Hospital EH46 7DH 7-8.30pm

40 Kirkcaldy GA Kirkcaldy Saint Brycedale Church, Saint Brycedale RoadKY1 1ET 7.30pm

THU Glasgow GA Parkhead Parkhead Congregational Church, 77 Westmuir Street, Glasgow, G31 5EW 2.00pm

Entrance Ravel Row side

42 GA Maryhill Central Halls, 304 Maryhill Road,G20 7YE 7.30pm Gam Anon

43 GA Rutherglen St Columbkilles Church Hall Room 5, Kirkwood Street, Off Main Street,, G73 2SL 7.30pm

44 Edinburgh GA Edinburgh Oxgangs Neighbourhood Centre, 71 Firrhill Drive, Edinburgh, EH13 9EU 7.00pm

45 GA Edinburgh Methodist Church, The Square Centre, Nicholson Square, Edinburgh, EH8 9BX 7.30pm

Gam Anon same time as GA

NB Venue Change Livingstone 126 VICTORIA STREET, CRAIGSHILL , EH54 5BJ 7.30pm From 04/02/15

47 Ayr GA Ayr Forrester halls, New Road, Ayr, KA8 8EX 7.30pm

48 Dundee GA Dundee St Peter Pauls Church Hall, Milton Street, DD3 6QN 7.30pm Gam Anon

49 East Kilbride GA East Kilbride East Mains Baptist Church, Maxwell Drive, East Kil-bride, G74 4HG 7.30pm

Beginners within meeting 7.30pm

50 Erskine GA Erskine The Erskine Hotel, Floor 5 Room 1, PA8 6AN 7.30pm Finish 9.50pm

51 Falkirk GA Falkirk Salvation Army, Main Street, Stenhousemuir,FK5 4BH 7.30pm

52 Kelso GA Roxburghshire The Parish of Kelso North and Edna, 42 Bowmont Street, Kelso,TD5 7JH 7.30pm

Access through blue door Bowmont st.

53 Kilmaurs GA Kilmaurs The Cabin, Townhead, Kilmaurs, KA3 2TY 8.00pm Next to Wheatsheaf pub

54 Kirkintilloch GA Kirkintilloch AR Centre, 29 Townhead,, G66 1NG 8.00pm

NEW Hamilton GA Hamilton

Hamilton Accies Football Ground, New Douglas Park, ML3 0FT.

1pm-2.30pm NEW

FRID Glasgow GA Parkhead Congregational Church, Ravel Row, (off Westmuir Street) Parkhead, G31 5EW

10am-12noon

Enter Ravel Row side-Beginners 9am-10am

57 GA Anderson Kelvingrove Church, Elderslie St,, G3 8DS off St. Vincents Street 7.30pm

Beginners same time as meeting

58 Glasgow GA Glasgow St Stephens Church, 260 Bath Street, , Glasgow G2 4JP 7.30pm

Gam Anon 7.30pm Beginner 6.45-7.25pm

59 GA Cambuslang Cathkin Community Wing, Cathkin Primary School, Burnside Road, Burnside, G73 4AA 7.30pm

60 Dundee Joint Dundee St Andrews Parish Church , 2 King St, DD1 2JB 6.30pm Joint Steps

61 Dumfries GA Dumfries Activity resource centre Burns St., DG1 2PS 7.00pm

62 Motherwell GA Motherwell St Brendans RC Church, 51 Barons Road,, ML1 2NB 7.30pm

SAT Edinburgh GA Oxgangs Colinton Mains Parish Church, 223 Oxgangs Road North, Edinburgh, EH13 9ED-Upstairs 10.00am

Beginners Downstairs

64 Hamilton GA Hamilton Fernigair Hall, 150 Carlisle Road, Hamilton,, ML3 7TX 10.00am

65 Glasgow GA Rutherglen Reuther Hall, Victoria Street, G73 1DS 10.00am Gam Anon 10am-noon Beginners 9am-10am

66 Aberdeen GA Aberdeen Ruthrieston Community Centre, 532 - 536 Holburn Street Aberdeen AB10 1LL

9.45am-11.45am

NEW Kirkcaldy GA Kirkcaldy NEW Pathhead Parish Church, Harriet St, KY1 2AG 10am-12am NEW VENUE

SUN Glasgow GA Maryhill Central Halls, 304 Maryhill Road, G20 7YE 6.00pm Steps

69 Edinburgh Joint Leith St Andrews church Easter Road Edinburgh EH6 8HT 7.30pm Joint Steps

70 GA Rutherglen St Columbkilles Halls 2 Kirkwood St, G73 2SL 7-9pm Steps

NEW Partick GA Partick NEW Partick Burgh Hall, Burgh Hall St, G11 5LW 11.45am-1.45pm

Next to Peel Street

NEW Inverness GA NEW M.S. Centre, Burnett Road Inverness 1-2.30pm NEW

As of 22/10/2016 there are 72 Gamblers Anonymous meetings throughout Scotland

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