5 Rules of the Texting Manmake it happen…

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Make it Interesting...● Most of the time the

conversation will start off boring● You will get stuck in boring

small talk if you do not do something to get out

● You’ll get stuck in ‘question’ mode

● Logical conversation’s do not last long

How to make it interesting...● Expand on something cool/interesting

that YOU are doing (no one word answers)

● Elaborate or tell a story about something that happened to you today ===>

● ROLE PLAY or talk about a ‘hypothetical situation’ very powerful and makes conversations fun! See Example ===============>>

● Talking about a hypothetical ‘road trip’ doing this is better than logical convo

Build tension is a non- creepy way ...● Let her know that you’re a

cool/good guy ● Be smooth, not overly sexual ● In the example text I say, “you

might have to trade a secret” This builds a little tension in a good way. it is playful and flirty

● Never come on too strong unless you’ve been talking for a while

Continue to Escalate the interaction...● Flirt and continue to build tension● Words like ‘cuddling’ ‘massage’

they are good to use. Not overly sexual ===========>>>

● Be playful

Give her space...● There is no need to over text● If she doesn’t respond back soon, it

is OK. Do not ask why she isn’t responding back. Be non-reactive

● if it takes her 2 hours to text back, wait at least an hour before you respond back

● Space = Attraction

Set up the date...● Plan is to set-up a date● Usually when meeting someone

through a dating app and texting - you have to meet within a week or it fizzles out.

Her: “what do you do?”

Me: “that’s classified, I can only tell you over sushi”

Always have a plan...● Be the man with the plan● Never ask, “what do you want

to do?” before presenting options.

● Have a plan for the date. An activity, dinner, bowling, salsa dance, coffee, hiking, climbing, etc. etc.

● Suggest to her an idea, a time, and a day. Trust me, she will appreciate it.