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Mal 2:15 NLV Has not the Lord made them one in flesh and spirit? And what does He desire but God-like children? Be careful then in your spirit, and stay faithful to the wife you married when you were young.

Mal 2:15 NLV Has not the Lord made them one in flesh and spirit? And what does He desire but God-like children? Be careful then in your spirit, and stay faithful to the wife you married when you were young.

Mal 2:15 NCV God made husbands and wives to become one body & one spirit for his purpose – so they would have children who are true to God. So be careful, and do not break your promise to the wife you married when you were young.

1. Let Jesus be ______________ by always having personal

prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local

church.

Mt.6:33

Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,

andallthesethingswillbegiventoyouaswell.

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1. Let Jesus be ______________ by always having personal

prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local

church.

Mt.6:33

Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,

andallthesethingswillbegiventoyouaswell.

FIRST

2.  _____________ speak negative of each other to any other

person and to not permit any other person to speak negative

about each other!

ICor.13:7

It(Love)alwaysProtects

2.  _____________ speak negative of each other to any other

person and to not permit any other person to speak negative

about each other!

ICor.13:7

It(Love)alwaysProtects

NEVER

3.  Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming

words dominate our conversation ICor.13:4LoveisKind!

3.  Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming

words dominate our conversation

HARD

ICor.13:4LoveisKind!

3.  Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming

words dominate our conversation

HARD

1. You Get More of What You Affirm

2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!

3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation

4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead

ICor.13:4LoveisKind!

3.  Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming

words dominate our conversation

HARD

1. You Get More of What You Affirm

2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!

3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation

4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead

ICor.13:4LoveisKind!

3.  Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming

words dominate our conversation

HARD

1. You Get More of What You Affirm

2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!

3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation

4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead

ICor.13:4LoveisKind!

3.  Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming

words dominate our conversation

HARD

1. You Get More of What You Affirm

2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!

3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation

4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead

ICor.13:4LoveisKind!

4.  Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny!

Prov.17:22(NKJV)

Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine

Choice

4.  Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny!

Prov.17:22(NKJV)

Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine

Pretend

Choice

4.  Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny!

Prov.17:22(NKJV)

Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine

Pretend

Believe

or

Choice

5.  __________ Complaining! Never seek to use each other as

dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the

most pleasant

Phil.2:14

Doeverythingwithoutcomplaining

IThess.5:18

Ineverythinggivethanks

5.  __________ Complaining! Never seek to use each other as

dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the

most pleasant

Phil.2:14

Doeverythingwithoutcomplaining

IThess.5:18

Ineverythinggivethanks

Hate

6.  Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s

motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other

and focus on solutions à_____________motives!

ICor.13:7

It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes

When we

6.  Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s

motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other

and focus on solutions à_____________motives!

ICor.13:7

It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes

NOT

When we

7.  When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek

______________________ options, remember that Jesus

wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we

need it.

ICor.13:5

Loveisnotself-seeking

When we

7.  When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek

______________________ options, remember that Jesus

wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we

need it.

ICor.13:5

Loveisnotself-seeking

Win / Win

When we

1. Let Jesus be FIRST by always having personal prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local church. Mt.6:33Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,andallthesethingswillbegiventoyouaswell.

2. NEVER speak negative of each other to any other person and to not permit any other person to speak negative about each other! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaysProtects

3. Work HARD to let kind, encouraging, affirming words dominate our conversation ICor.13:4LoveisKind!

4. Let laughter lead & PRETEND we are funny! Prov.17:22(NKJV)Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine

5. HATE Complaining! Never seek to use each other as dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the most pleasant Phil.2:14DoeverythingwithoutcomplainingIThess.5:18Ineverythinggivethanks

When we DISAGREE - let’s agree to:

6. Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other and focus on solutions à_NOT_motives! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes

7. When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek _WIN / WIN_ options, remember that Jesus wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we need it. ICor.13:5Loveisnotself-seeking

Mal. 2:15

And why one?

Because

he was

seeking godly

offspring.

Let’s agree to:

1. Let Jesus be ______________ by always having personal prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local church. Mt.6:33Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,andallthesethingswillbegiven

toyouaswell.

2. ___________ speak negative of each other to any other person and to not permit any other person to speak negative about each other! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaysProtects

3. Work _________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming words dominate our conversation ICor.13:4LoveisKind!

4. Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny! Prov.17:22(NKJV)Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine

5. __________ Complaining! Never seek to use each other as dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the most pleasant Phil.2:14DoeverythingwithoutcomplainingIThess.5:18Ineverythinggivethanks

When we DISAGREE - let’s agree to:

6. Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other and focus on solutions à_____________motives! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes

7. When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek ______________________ options, remember that Jesus wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we need it. ICor.13:5Loveisnotself-seeking

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In my Present or Future Marriage I want these

7 Character traits to bring Rest & Intimacy.

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In my Present or Future Marriage I want these

7 Character traits to bring Rest & Intimacy.

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In my Friendships & my Soul I want to

walk in these 7 Character traits