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Mal 2:15 NLV Has not the Lord made them one in flesh and spirit? And what does He desire but God-like children? Be careful then in your spirit, and stay faithful to the wife you married when you were young.
Mal 2:15 NLV Has not the Lord made them one in flesh and spirit? And what does He desire but God-like children? Be careful then in your spirit, and stay faithful to the wife you married when you were young.
Mal 2:15 NCV God made husbands and wives to become one body & one spirit for his purpose – so they would have children who are true to God. So be careful, and do not break your promise to the wife you married when you were young.
1. Let Jesus be ______________ by always having personal
prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local
church.
Mt.6:33
Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,
andallthesethingswillbegiventoyouaswell.
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1. Let Jesus be ______________ by always having personal
prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local
church.
Mt.6:33
Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,
andallthesethingswillbegiventoyouaswell.
FIRST
2. _____________ speak negative of each other to any other
person and to not permit any other person to speak negative
about each other!
ICor.13:7
It(Love)alwaysProtects
2. _____________ speak negative of each other to any other
person and to not permit any other person to speak negative
about each other!
ICor.13:7
It(Love)alwaysProtects
NEVER
3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation
HARD
ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation
HARD
1. You Get More of What You Affirm
2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!
3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation
4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead
ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation
HARD
1. You Get More of What You Affirm
2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!
3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation
4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead
ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation
HARD
1. You Get More of What You Affirm
2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!
3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation
4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead
ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation
HARD
1. You Get More of What You Affirm
2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!
3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation
4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead
ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
4. Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny!
Prov.17:22(NKJV)
Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine
Choice
4. Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny!
Prov.17:22(NKJV)
Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine
Pretend
Choice
4. Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny!
Prov.17:22(NKJV)
Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine
Pretend
Believe
or
Choice
5. __________ Complaining! Never seek to use each other as
dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the
most pleasant
Phil.2:14
Doeverythingwithoutcomplaining
IThess.5:18
Ineverythinggivethanks
5. __________ Complaining! Never seek to use each other as
dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the
most pleasant
Phil.2:14
Doeverythingwithoutcomplaining
IThess.5:18
Ineverythinggivethanks
Hate
6. Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s
motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other
and focus on solutions à_____________motives!
ICor.13:7
It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes
When we
6. Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s
motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other
and focus on solutions à_____________motives!
ICor.13:7
It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes
NOT
When we
7. When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek
______________________ options, remember that Jesus
wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we
need it.
ICor.13:5
Loveisnotself-seeking
When we
7. When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek
______________________ options, remember that Jesus
wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we
need it.
ICor.13:5
Loveisnotself-seeking
Win / Win
When we
1. Let Jesus be FIRST by always having personal prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local church. Mt.6:33Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,andallthesethingswillbegiventoyouaswell.
2. NEVER speak negative of each other to any other person and to not permit any other person to speak negative about each other! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaysProtects
3. Work HARD to let kind, encouraging, affirming words dominate our conversation ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
4. Let laughter lead & PRETEND we are funny! Prov.17:22(NKJV)Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine
5. HATE Complaining! Never seek to use each other as dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the most pleasant Phil.2:14DoeverythingwithoutcomplainingIThess.5:18Ineverythinggivethanks
When we DISAGREE - let’s agree to:
6. Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other and focus on solutions à_NOT_motives! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes
7. When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek _WIN / WIN_ options, remember that Jesus wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we need it. ICor.13:5Loveisnotself-seeking
Mal. 2:15
And why one?
Because
he was
seeking godly
offspring.
Let’s agree to:
1. Let Jesus be ______________ by always having personal prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local church. Mt.6:33Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,andallthesethingswillbegiven
toyouaswell.
2. ___________ speak negative of each other to any other person and to not permit any other person to speak negative about each other! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaysProtects
3. Work _________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming words dominate our conversation ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
4. Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny! Prov.17:22(NKJV)Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine
5. __________ Complaining! Never seek to use each other as dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the most pleasant Phil.2:14DoeverythingwithoutcomplainingIThess.5:18Ineverythinggivethanks
When we DISAGREE - let’s agree to:
6. Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other and focus on solutions à_____________motives! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes
7. When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek ______________________ options, remember that Jesus wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we need it. ICor.13:5Loveisnotself-seeking
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Never
Hard
Pretend
Hate
NOT
Win / Win
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In my Present or Future Marriage I want these
7 Character traits to bring Rest & Intimacy.
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In my Present or Future Marriage I want these
7 Character traits to bring Rest & Intimacy.
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In my Friendships & my Soul I want to
walk in these 7 Character traits