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Mal 2:15 NLV Has not the Lord made them one in flesh and spirit? And what does He desire but God-like children? Be careful then in your spirit, and stay faithful to the wife you married when you were young.
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Mal 2:15 NLV Has not the Lord made them one in flesh and spirit? And what does He desire but God-like children? Be careful then in your spirit, and stay faithful to the wife you married when you were young.
Mal 2:15 NCV God made husbands and wives to become one body & one spirit for his purpose – so they would have children who are true to God. So be careful, and do not break your promise to the wife you married when you were young.
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1. Let Jesus be ______________ by always having personal
prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local
church.
Mt.6:33
Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,
andallthesethingswillbegiventoyouaswell.
write
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1. Let Jesus be ______________ by always having personal
prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local
church.
Mt.6:33
Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,
andallthesethingswillbegiventoyouaswell.
FIRST
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2. _____________ speak negative of each other to any other
person and to not permit any other person to speak negative
about each other!
ICor.13:7
It(Love)alwaysProtects
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2. _____________ speak negative of each other to any other
person and to not permit any other person to speak negative
about each other!
ICor.13:7
It(Love)alwaysProtects
NEVER
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3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
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3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation
HARD
ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
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3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation
HARD
1. You Get More of What You Affirm
2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!
3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation
4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead
ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
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3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation
HARD
1. You Get More of What You Affirm
2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!
3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation
4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead
ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
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3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation
HARD
1. You Get More of What You Affirm
2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!
3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation
4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead
ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
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3. Work _____________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming
words dominate our conversation
HARD
1. You Get More of What You Affirm
2. Affirmation Shifts & Releases your own positive emotions!
3. Affirmation Wards off Temptation
4. Affirmation Provides a Model to Those You Lead
ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
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4. Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny!
Prov.17:22(NKJV)
Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine
Choice
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4. Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny!
Prov.17:22(NKJV)
Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine
Pretend
Choice
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4. Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny!
Prov.17:22(NKJV)
Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine
Pretend
Believe
or
Choice
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5. __________ Complaining! Never seek to use each other as
dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the
most pleasant
Phil.2:14
Doeverythingwithoutcomplaining
IThess.5:18
Ineverythinggivethanks
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5. __________ Complaining! Never seek to use each other as
dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the
most pleasant
Phil.2:14
Doeverythingwithoutcomplaining
IThess.5:18
Ineverythinggivethanks
Hate
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6. Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s
motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other
and focus on solutions à_____________motives!
ICor.13:7
It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes
When we
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6. Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s
motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other
and focus on solutions à_____________motives!
ICor.13:7
It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes
NOT
When we
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7. When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek
______________________ options, remember that Jesus
wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we
need it.
ICor.13:5
Loveisnotself-seeking
When we
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7. When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek
______________________ options, remember that Jesus
wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we
need it.
ICor.13:5
Loveisnotself-seeking
Win / Win
When we
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1. Let Jesus be FIRST by always having personal prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local church. Mt.6:33Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,andallthesethingswillbegiventoyouaswell.
2. NEVER speak negative of each other to any other person and to not permit any other person to speak negative about each other! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaysProtects
3. Work HARD to let kind, encouraging, affirming words dominate our conversation ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
4. Let laughter lead & PRETEND we are funny! Prov.17:22(NKJV)Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine
5. HATE Complaining! Never seek to use each other as dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the most pleasant Phil.2:14DoeverythingwithoutcomplainingIThess.5:18Ineverythinggivethanks
When we DISAGREE - let’s agree to:
6. Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other and focus on solutions à_NOT_motives! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes
7. When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek _WIN / WIN_ options, remember that Jesus wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we need it. ICor.13:5Loveisnotself-seeking
Mal. 2:15
And why one?
Because
he was
seeking godly
offspring.
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Let’s agree to:
1. Let Jesus be ______________ by always having personal prayer times, faithfully tithing, serving and attending a local church. Mt.6:33Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,andallthesethingswillbegiven
toyouaswell.
2. ___________ speak negative of each other to any other person and to not permit any other person to speak negative about each other! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaysProtects
3. Work _________ to let kind, encouraging, affirming words dominate our conversation ICor.13:4LoveisKind!
4. Let laughter lead & _______________ we are funny! Prov.17:22(NKJV)Amerryheartdoesgood,likemedicine
5. __________ Complaining! Never seek to use each other as dumping grounds & remember that positive people are the most pleasant Phil.2:14DoeverythingwithoutcomplainingIThess.5:18Ineverythinggivethanks
When we DISAGREE - let’s agree to:
6. Never raise our voices in anger or judge each other’s motives. Try very hard to believe the best about each other and focus on solutions à_____________motives! ICor.13:7It(Love)alwaystrusts,alwayshopes
7. When we can’t agree soon, let’s give each other space, seek ______________________ options, remember that Jesus wants equal change from both of us and seek counsel if we need it. ICor.13:5Loveisnotself-seeking
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Never
Hard
Pretend
Hate
NOT
Win / Win
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In my Present or Future Marriage I want these
7 Character traits to bring Rest & Intimacy.
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In my Present or Future Marriage I want these
7 Character traits to bring Rest & Intimacy.
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In my Friendships & my Soul I want to
walk in these 7 Character traits
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