workshop feb 2011

FAMILY MATTERSWORKSHOP

Presented by

MV KOTU

NEUTRALITY OR NEUTRAL MODE

38.27%

29%28%

18.5%

16.04%9.87%

CHALLENGES

COMMUNICATIONFINANCESSPIRITUALITYCHILDRENNEUTRALITYSEXUAL

NEUTRALITY

the state or CHARACTER of being neutral, especially in a dispute, contest, etc.

the state or POLICY of being neutral, especially nonparticipation

in war.

REALITY:

IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO HAVE 100% TROUBLE-FREE

COMMUNICATION

WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING TO GIVE AND TAKE IN LIVING TOGETHER

AND THIS ALWAYS CAUSES US TO LOSE SOME OF THE STRENGTHS WE POSSESS

TRIANGULATION

TRIANGULATION

It’s frightening to admit, but a couple in conflict instinctively behaves like two nations preparing for war. In each case, the warring parties create alliances in order to strengthen their respective hands.

TAKING SOMEONE FOR GRANTED

Think about this question for a moment. Are you as polite, kind and considerate to your partner as you are to a casual acquaintance? For most of us, the answer is no. How come? How is it that this same person that you now hardly give a moment’s thought to, unless it’s negative, could be the same one to whom you once were so loving, giving and appreciative?

WHAT REALLY MAKES SOMEONE TO DECIDE TO BECOME NON INVOLVED

YOUR SPOUSES BRAIN IS FIRING ON ALL CYLINDERS

MEET MY PARTNER……..

POWER DIFFERENCES

THIS IS MY SPOUSE AND THIS IS POOR ME

WE ARE BOTH PROFESSIONALWRESTLERS

CAN ANYONE OUT THERE PLEASE HELP ME!

MY SPOUSE IS LIKE A JIGSAW

MINE IS LIKE A MAZE

AND THIS MAKES IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR BOTH OF US TO GET ALONG WELL

END OF SESSION ONE

QUESTION 2

PART 2

NEUTRALITY

the state or CHARACTER of being neutral, especially in a dispute, contest, etc.

the state or POLICY of being neutral, especially nonparticipation

in war.

WE NEED TO EXCERCISE THE GRACE TO REALIZE THAT WE WERE NEVER THE SAME

THE SOCIABLE PARTNER

HE/SHE LIKES CROWDS

THINKS AND FUNCTIONS BETTER IN A GROUP

LIKES TO CONSULT ABOUT EVERYTHING

THE SO WHAT PARTNER

ALWAYS THINKS AND ACTS SUPERIOR AND TOO SPEACIAL

DOES NOT CARE MUCH ABOUT OTHERS’ OPINIONS

RARELY CARES ABOUT HOW I FEEL

THE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE KIND OF PARTNER

HE/SHE IS TOTALLY DIS-INTERESTED IN ALL I DO OR SAY

NEVER VOICES OUT HIS/HER FEELINGS

THE PATH TO NON-INVOLVEMENT

AT FIRST ITS FRIGHTENING

THEN SURPRISING

THEN IT ENDS UP FEELING GOOD TO IMITATE

BE BLESSED

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