Love is Blind But Friendship is Clairvoyant

May 2009

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If You Think You Can…You Will !

If you think you are beaten, you are.

If you think you dare not, you don't.

If you'd like to win but think you can't,

it’s almost certain you won't.

Life's battles don't always go

to the stronger or faster,

but sooner or later, the one who wins

is the one who thinks;… I can.

-Walter D. Wintle

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Some day…You Will, said the skyFor the bird in the cage it will need a lot ofpatience…Change is the only constant,Some day the cage will disappear;Then you will fly again…. &will teach others too, to fly…to explore life!!!!

…Think YOU can & you WiLL!!!

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Tuesday, 21 April, 2009

♥ Intellectual intimacy:This isn't about discussing highly

intellectual ideas. The important thing isdiscussing your thoughts. They may be

thoughts about food, finances, health,crime, work, politics, etc. They revealsomething of what's gone on in your mindthroughout the day.

♥ Social intimacy:This has to do with spending time around

the events of life. Some of these eventswe experience together; others happenwhile we're apart and are shared throughopen communication. Much of life involves

doing. When we do things together, wenot only develop a sense of teamwork, wealso enhance our sense of intimacy.

♥ Emotional intimacy:Feelings are our spontaneous, emotional

responses to what we encounter throughthe five senses. I see the fire truck racing

down the road and I feel troubled. Youtouch my hand and I feel loved. When weshare emotions, we build emotional

intimacy.

♥ Spiritual intimacy:Often the least excavated of all thefoundations of marital intimacy, yet thishas a significant impact on the others. It

doesn't require agreement of belief onevery detail. Instead, we seek to tell eachother what's going on in our inner self.It's discussing our thoughts about spiritual

realities. The purpose isn't agreement, butunderstanding.

♥ Physical intimacy:Because men and women are different(long live their differences!), we oftencome at sexual intimacy in different ways.The husband's emphasis is often on the

physical aspects—the seeing, touching,and climax are the focus of his attention.The wife, though, comes to sexual

intimacy with more interest in therelationship. To feel loved, appreciated,and treated tenderly brings her great joy.

Sexual intimacy requires understandingand responding to these differences.

An essential ingredient of intimacy isallowing your spouse to be

him/herself without striving toconform him/her to your ideals.

In intimacy, we try to grow closer

together, not to eliminate the"otherness," but to enjoy it. Men and

women are different and we mustnot, even with good intentions, seekto destroy those differences.

What keeps us from experiencingintimacy? All of us are egocentric; theworld revolves around us. Yet, when

we focus on self, we lose intimacy.

The opposite of self-centeredness,then, is love. Love concentrates onthe well-being of the spouse. We take

time to listen to the thoughts,feelings, and desires of our spouse.We seek to understand and to

respond with empathy. We choose todo things with each other, eventhings that may not be our favorite

activities, simply because we want tobe with each other.

In the context of such intimacy we

become supportive and caring of eachother, which builds a stronger, morecontented marriage.

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1.Embrace your past. Assemble ascrapbook together, pull out your weddingvideo, or write your own personal romancestory. Reliving special memories together is agreat way to strengthen your bond.2.Be kids together. Have a pillow fight,challenge each other to a game of hopscotch,or cuddle on the couch and laugh as youwatch cartoons.3.Wrap your mate in love. While yoursweetie showers sneak his towel into thedryer, and as he steps out, wrap him in fluffywarmth. Or use the same idea to warm herfeet when she snuggles in bed on a chillyautumn night.4.Speak the languages of love. Surpriseyour "amante" (Italian for "lover") with someinternational sweet talk.5.Write love notes to each other. Spell it outin his oatmeal with raisins, on her dashboardwith yarn, or use lipstick on your bathroommirror. Compose your own poem, borrow averse from Song of Songs, or just write "I loveyou."6.Turn on the charm.Who says you have tostop flirting once you're married? At yournext party, wink at him across a crowdedroom, or slip your arm around her as youmake social small talk. That personalconnection amid the crowd is like saying,"This is great, but I'd rather be with you!"7.Connect online. E-mail your spousethroughout the day, just to say you're thinkingof him.

8.Remember the little things. When youstep in to help with the day-to-day "drudge"chores—making dinner, bathing the kids—your spouse knows she's appreciated andloved. And completing a chore for yoursweetie frees more time and energy for thetwo of you to enjoy other activities together.9.Send it snail mail. Take time to write anencouraging note, slap a stamp on it, and mailit. Your spouse will love the surprise—especially since it won't be a credit card billor junk mail!10.Celebrate everything. Most couplescelebrate the anniversary of their marriage orfirst date, but how about the anniversary ofyour engagement, or first kiss? (If you don'tremember, make it up!) There have been allkinds of milestones throughout yourrelationship, so mark each one with flowers, acard, or a romantic interlude.11.Just say it. Your spouse needs to hearthose three simple words daily. Whisper it,sing it, shout it. Say it.

Say it Now &ALWAYS!!!

11 quick and simple ways to express love

Say it now or it might be just a bit too late to let

Patience is good but certain things in life must be instant!

now!

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The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled,

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you

with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or

love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other

a reason, a season or a lifetime.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

People come into your life for

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are

They may teach you something you have never done.

They are there for the reason you need them to be

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,

It is said that love is blind but

Friendship is clairvoyant.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

your turn has come to share, grow or learn.

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

relationships and areas of your life.

Your job is to accept the lesson,

need you have expressed

their work is done.

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I quit my job, my relationship, my

spirituality... I wanted to quit my life.

I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.

"God", I said. "Can you give me one good reason not to quit?" His answer

surprised me...

"Look around", He said. "Do you see the fern and the bamboo?"

"Yes", I replied.

"When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of

them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the

earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the

bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the Fern

grew more vibrant and plentiful. And again, nothing came from the bamboo

seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo." He said.

"In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would

not quit.

In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo see. I would not

quit." He said.

"Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to

the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant...But just 6 months later

the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent the five years growing

roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I

would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle."

He said to me.

"Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you

have actually been growing roots?"

"I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you."

"Don't compare yourself to others." He said. "The bamboo had a different

purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful."

"Your time will come", God said to me. "You will rise high"

"How high should I rise?" I asked.

"How high will the bamboo rise?" He asked in return.

"As high as it can?" I questioned,

"Yes." He said, "Give me glory by rising as high as you can."

I left the forest and bring back this story. I hope these words can help

you see that God will never give up on you.

HE will never give up on you!

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