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    and attachment theory

    Crittenden and Mary D. S. Ainsworth

    has grown exponentially in the years since

    child syndrome" (Kempe, Silverman, and

    area has experienced many of the conflicts

    emerging field #nderlying these problems

    ive theoretical approach to child maltreatd 'ampton, 19)! Itis the purpose of this

    theory in regard to its ade*uacy in account

    abuse and child neglect

    ntified as a social issue earlier than child

    'owever, in regard to the early literature,

    metimes impossible, to ma$e because cases

    were included indiscriminately under the

    chapter will be to disentangle the conditions

    vant attachment theory is to understanding

    e focused on identifying the characteristics

    re not usually found to be mentally ill, they

    gressive, punitive, domineering, and incon

    .s more cases of less severe child abuse

    the incidence of clear parental deviance

    cultural and child influence increased The

    h abuse included unemployment, /ob dis

    s, and social isolation oflowincome, mul

    ly, there has been a focus on those charac

    art by grant 2.33 from the &ational 4enter one first author

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    ent theory 433

    make them targets for abuse. Premature,

    ally difficult children have all been identi:

    en and Wrench, 1!!" #ational $enter on

    " Parke and $oil mer, 1!'.

    ns of abuse and increases in both the dataes being tested lead to t*o general conclu:

    *ere related to abuse (lo* income, stress,

    neighborhoods, unemployment, infant birth

    conditions, limited parental education, and

    ysical punishment and (- that abusers *ere

    nonabusers.

    (1!3 to integrate all of this information

    abuse occurred *hen a deviant parent of anlly stressful situation (*ithin a society that

    has this hypothesis never been tested under

    assess the several factors, but also very little

    e probability that these factors are causally

    elative influence of the correlates of abuse

    . 0urthermore, the research has not ade:

    bers of families *ith one or more risk con:

    children. 2he emphasis has largely been onepossible and seeking linear, additive e/pla:

    ct is considerably more scant (Wolock and

    ere is evidence that failing to provide ade:

    sed to providing inappropriate care is asso:

    maternal depression, social isolation, and

    , $halmers, 5utten*ieser, and Williams,

    lansky, 1!6. o*ever, it is not clear that2here is certainly evidence that not all lo*:

    re neglectful, as *ell as evidence that some

    higher 78 mothers are unresponsive to their

    contribution that a theoretical perspective

    se conditions together logically in *ays that

    pattern of occurrence of neglect.

    have pursued a more sophisticated approach

    e models described above. 5oth ;arbarinoproposed comprehensive ecological models

    h models replace naive simplicity *ith infi:

    tion of the necessary, sufficient, and contrib:

    even one case may be impossible" for large

    nrealistic. What is needed is a *ay to narro*

    that can both e/plain the pattern of occur:

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    ENDEN AND M. D. S. AINSWORTH

    altreatment and describe the rocess b!

    from one erson to another #Aber and

    & '()',. Such a model should also be suf0

    ations for interention.

    /critical causes/ of maltreatment 0 that"ould lead to imroements in the other

    to imroed famil! functionin%. 1ecause

    t caused maltreatment mi%ht not be the

    correct it& such causes mi%ht iml! one

    atment and another for the amelioration

    at an2ious #or insecure, attachment is a

    the ori%in of famil! maltreatment and there man! adanta%es of such a h!othesis.

    uch of the e2istin% 4no"led%e about mal0

    h not simle& concet "hile concurrentl!

    use from ne%lect. Second& because attach0

    eor!& it is resonsie to differences in the

    hment at different oints in the lifesan.

    imossible to deelo aroriate dia%0

    "ithout an a"areness of deelomentall!

    !& '()'* Sroufe and Rutter& '()5,. Third&

    atible "ith a famil! ersectie on mal0

    ible "ith an aroach focused entirel! on

    theor! also ermits the inte%ration of

    onditions and eents "ith interersonal

    es uon the deeloment of attachment.

    ersecties in the conte2t of a focus on

    e considered to ar! across both families

    als6 ast e2eriences& current conte2tual

    sses as "ell as random #or une2ectable,

    el into an oerl! simlistic eer!thin%0is0

    althou%h issues re%ardin% maltreatment

    ! e2erimental means& attachment theor!

    ic h!otheses that can be tested "ith mal0

    e2tent to "hich attachment0related con0

    e comared to that of other theoretical

    or! is comatible "ith ecolo%ical theor!

    and redicted hierarch! of influences.

    some of the basic concets of attachment

    secificall! to maltreatment& considerin%

    r those roositions.

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    ment theory 435

    vely new, open-ended theory with eclectic

    evision of psychoanalytic theory, particularly

    etapsychology, it has been infused by pres-ith an emphasis on ethology and evolutionary

    -systems theory and cognitive psychology.

    mpt to understand the disturbed functioning

    nced traumatic losses or early separations, it

    ent that offers eplanations for some types

    by, #$%$, #$&3, #$'(). *ince "owlby+s prelim-

    $5'), it has stimulated research into socio-

    e growth of interpersonal relationships anddings of such research with continuous clari-

    ensions of applications. For eample, it sug-

    een anomalies of attachment in the parent

    rth, #$'().

    that there are species-characteristic patterns

    because they function to promote species sur-

    ene survival. he propensity to develop these

    ically and evoed by specific and epectableconditions. Attachment theory applies this

    l occurrence of infant attachment to the par-

    to the infant, as well as to attachment com-

    between adult partners !Ainsworth, #$'5,

    construct

    e survival of humans and, especially, human

    proimity to an attachment figure is main-

    ially accomplished through complementary

    f behavior. Infant signals such as crying tend

    into closer proimity. *uch infant behaviors

    g situations, such as those involving loud

    e persons or ob/ects, and being left alone, as

    r pain. 0nce close bodily contact is attained,

    tend to be terminated and other behaviors,

    ocali1ing, function to maintain contact with

    .

    me of an infant+s attachment behavior is the

    trusted person !"owlby, #$%$). *ub/ectively,

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    ENDEN AND M. D. S. AINSWORTH

    ng o security. Attachment beha!ior may

    "istance a#ay rom an attachment igure$

    rce%tion o e&ternal threat an" no other

    Such beha!ior$ ho#e!er$ is not %eculiar

    e tolerable time %erio"s an" "istancesmost ol"er chil"ren an" a"ults eel lonely

    their lo!e" ones either ine&%licably or or

    %ort o an attachment igure "uring %eri0

    s "e!elo% through three %hases in the

    attachment usually being achie!e" about

    he emergence o beha!iors such as loco0

    ta'e initiati!e in 'ee%ing %ro&imity an"research has been "e!ote" to this thir"

    s #ay to a ourth an" much more so%his0

    ater a chil"/s thir" birth"ay$ #ith the

    , terme" a 2goal0correcte" %artnershi%3

    a"!ance is ma"e %ossible both by the

    ication bet#een the %artners through the

    an" by his or her increase" ability to see

    o another. As

    the chil" becomes morer has moti!ations$ eelings$ an" %lans o

    better able to communicate moti!ations$

    %artners$ become able to negotiate "ier0

    al agreement about them )Mar!in$ +,--4

    Mean#hile the chil"/s com%etence has

    e able to sustain coni"ence in the attach0

    ong %erio"s o absence rom them. The

    /s sense o security no longer "e%en"s so

    e attachment igure as u%on the mutual

    een built u% in the %artnershi%. Ho#e!er$

    l be han"ica%%e" either in %ers%ecti!e0

    icate moti!ation$ eelings$ an" %lans to

    ies or %ers%ecti!e ta'ing an" or clearer

    un"e!elo%e" or$ i "e!elo%e"$ be li'ely to

    "ing an" trust. Ne!ertheless$ normally$

    ase" on mutual un"erstan"ing an" trust

    n regar" to the other/s %erce%tion o "an0

    !er time$ "istance$ or other rele!ant con0

    curity.

    n be maintaine" #ithout actual %hysical

    erio"s o time. During absences$ "istal

    s letters an" %hone calls$ can tem%orarily

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    ment theory 437

    Furthermore, adolescents become active in

    outside the family, and more consciously

    lity for being an attachment figure to new

    affectionate relationships are wanted and

    nt, of course, is expected not only to manage

    his or her partner, but concurrently to be a

    nt figure in the nonsymmetric relationship

    to Bowlby, attachment first to the parents

    is basic to the security of all.

    tem

    one of the important speciescharacteristic

    d survival. The individual's overt behavior

    depends upon the relative strength of acti

    s, with the most intensely activated having

    systems may often act in synchrony as, for

    to the avoidance of the ob"ect feared and to

    ent figure other systems are usually anti

    tensely activated the other is at least tempo

    ral systems that chiefly compete with the

    oratory and affiliative systems. As long as the

    he more highly activated and his behavior is

    proximity to an attachment figure, he or she

    onment. $f an infant feels secure in his rela

    ever, he can use her as a secure base from

    ed with his world and the other people in itetical arrangement itself has survival value,

    cognitive, language, and social development

    is physical and social environment. Because

    ustaining reasonable proximity to a caregiv

    t gained under ris#y conditions.

    adults normally re%uire much less proximity

    n do infants, much the same principle per

    oo, en"oy being with those to whom they areey feel free to respond to other demands on

    follow up other interests and activities. ow

    gested, the attachment system functions pri

    ce system. Throughout life, attachment

    ivated under stressful conditions that evo#e

    opment of #nowledge about the world, com

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    ENDEN AND M. D. S. AINSWORTH

    red "# feeln$ sec%re a"!%t t&e a'ala"lt#

    d. T&%s, t&e nat%re !f t&e c!ndt!ns t&at

    fed "# eac& pers!n*s !)n e+perence, par

    &s !r &er past and present relat!ns&ps

    ruct

    s!n !f an attac&(ent s t&e de$ree t!

    s !f sec%rt# !r nsec%rt#. H!)e'er, -%al

    p!rtant. T&ese ndcate t&e 'ar!%s )a#s

    !r &er "e&a'!r, t&!%$&ts, and feeln$s

    fanc#, t&ree (a/!r patterns, t!$et&er )t&$%s&ed and are especall# &$&l$&ted n

    0Stran$e St%at!n0 1Ans)!rt&, 2le&ar,

    a/!r patterns are ndcat'e !f 136 sec%re

    , 176 an+!%sa'!dant attac&(ent, )t&

    a("'alent !r an+!%sresstant attac&

    T&e dsc%ss!n "el!) )ll f!c%s !n t&e

    !r and nfant pattern !f attac&(ent, t&e

    t# !r %nresp!ns'eness, and ad/%st(entst! acc!%nt f!r t&e "e&a'!r !f dst%r"ed

    ldren.

    attern of attachment. Infant patterns !f sel# related t! t&e "e&a'!r !f t&e attac&

    t&e c&ef e'dence !f t&s s! far pertans

    . S%c& e'dence ste(s fr!( t&e )!r9 !f

    s%"se-%entl# !t&er st%des &a'e #elded#, R!'ne, and Ta#l!r, 84: E$eland and

    ann, Span$ler, S%ess, and =ner, 8>6.

    st'e n &er resp!ns'eness t! nfant s$

    ect n nteract!n )t& &er and cres rela

    separat!ns fr!( &er. W&en &s attac&

    # act'ated 1f!r e+a(ple, "# separat!n

    rc%(stances6, &e tends t! "e easl# reas

    presence, and s s!!n read# a$an t! p%rs /%d$ed t! "e sec%rel# attac&ed t! &s

    er tends t! "e naccess"le, %nresp!ns'e,

    &s "e&a'!ral c%es s l9el# t! e(er$e as

    ent t! &er. 2eca%se &s "ds f!r pr!+(t#

    trated, attac&(ent "e&a'!r perssts and

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    ment theory 439

    e mingled with anger. Consequently, when

    behaves ambivalently and is hard to soothe.

    e accessible, he is vigilant for any indications

    isplays more distress at little everyday sepa+

    h behavior is characteristic of the anxiousnt.

    voidant pattern of attachment have experi+

    who are also inaccessible, unresponsive, or

    their behavioral cues. "hese infants behave at

    bivalent babies do. #hen the stress is rela+

    Strange Situation, they behave quite differ+

    on separation and upon reunion they display

    r than see$ing proximity to her. %thers dis+and proximity see$ing upon reunion. "his

    as a defensive maneuver, similar to the

    hildren after long, depriving separations from

    savoidant babies differ from the mothers of

    &insworth's sample in that the latter are

    esponsiveness and accessibility, whereas the

    d angry, whether overtly or covertly. )ecauseaversion to close bodily contact, it appeared

    ely to be expressed by rebuffing or withhold+

    the baby most needed it-for example, when

    activated at high intensity. "his implies that

    approachavoidance conflict whenever he

    other, for he not only feels angry because he

    e, but he also fears he may be painfully

    se seems to enable him to disconnect hissituational cues that usually activate it.Con+

    his mother's departure nor her return as cues

    her. *e avoids both the contact+see$ing and

    o$e rebuff. ecently, -rossmann et al. /9012

    number of their sample of orth -erman

    idant pattern, which they attributed to cul+

    ependence as early as the middle of the first

    attitudes of re(ection2. "his suggests that inclose bodily contact + with or without re(ect+

    r the anxiousavoidant pattern.

    nsensitivity or unresponsiveness. "here are a

    result in maternal insensitivity. !f a mother

    no one, it is expected that it will be difficult

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    such !" tht he cn #eco$e securel"

    deed' if she hs hd histor" of n-ious

    sed lielihood tht her o!n ttch$ent

    her infnts. &ecuse e/en nor$l infnt

    to her' the n1r"' esclted ttch$ent

    ent to her hs lred" #eco$e n-ious

    el" or /oid respondin1 or #eco$e n1r"

    f n-ious ttch$ent $" #e co$$uni2

    ro$ its prent. E/idence tht $others

    childhood e-periences !ith her o!n pr2

    ltionship !ith her infnt hs #een de$2

    he results of n Adult Attch$ent Inter2

    r1e' 5pln' nd Min' ()67, !ith thef the children in infnc" s !ell s their

    of 1e %Min' 5pln' nd Cssid"' ()67,.

    cceptin1 of their reltionships !ith their

    rel" ttched infnts nd children. This

    nts nd children necessril" hd $others

    re si$ilrl" secure. Rther' it su11ests tht

    nd ccepted the relit" of their o!n dif2

    e/en for1i/in1 their $others' !ere #estti/e effects of their pre/ious insecure rel2

    hildren !ith sensiti/e nd responsi/e

    s their $ens for doin1 so $" h/e

    cure reltionship !ith surro1te ttch2

    lin1 or ps"chotherp".

    ill" liel" to result in e-tre$es of unre2

    sponsi/eness on the prt of n dult in

    include unresol/ed tru$tic seprtionsent fi1ures. In t!o s$ples' prents !ho

    tch$ent fi1ure in childhood !ere prtic2

    ched infnts !hose #eh/ior did not fit

    e$ %Ains!orth nd Eich#er1' in press9

    7,. Periods of depression or other se/ere

    for the prent' recent deth of si1nificnt

    of #use' includin1 se-ul #use' $"

    close contct. Such situtions cn resultrentl ptterns of cre1i/in1 or in persis2

    e t!o conditions re e-pected to #e so$e2

    system. Althou1h ll 78 of the infnts in

    op the clssifictor" s"ste$ could #e cls2

    tterns' it !s #elie/ed fro$ the #e1innin1

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    ment theory 441

    nts would not fit this classificatory scheme.

    ors have identified infants whose behavior

    ny of three patterns described by Ainsworth

    in and #eston, 1981! $ad%e'arrow, Cum

    n, 198! +pie%er and ooth, in press-. woclassificatory system have been ta%en. 0ne

    describe the behavior of a number of appar

    behavior in the +trange +ituation could

    using the Ainsworth criteria ("ain and

    oach was the result of studies of samples of

    infants and infants of severely depressed

    ain and #eston as unclassified were lateriented ("ain and +olomon, in press-. It

    stituted a fourth pattern. Indeed it seemed

    ed disorgani*ation of one of the three ma3or

    +uch disorgani*ations did tend to imply even

    the basic patterns of which they were

    , a disorgani*ed pattern of infant attachment

    tency of maternal behavior rather than pertency is not the daytoday mi/ture of sen

    hat is associated with mothers of infants with

    . $ather, it appeared to occur when the

    t for a sufficiently e/tended period of time

    pectations about her behavior. his consis

    sudden inter3ection of uite different behav

    ions are especially frightening to the child if

    ior is itself threatening or if the mother hernd 5esse, in press-.

    6s behavior is thought to be consistently and

    both a basis for developing e/pectations and

    unsatisfying conditions. his situation has

    o e/panding the classificatory system. he

    on of many children of such mothers does

    devised by Ainsworth. Although the behav

    present, they are organi*ed differently thanthe development ofthe classificatory system.

    insensitive mothers may show in one obser

    ypes of behavior described by Ainsworth7 the

    indicative of secure or an/ious2ambivalent

    indicative of avoidant attachment, and the

    mbivalent attachment (Crittenden, 198 a,

    198.- In addition, many of the children

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    CRITTENDEN AND M. D. S. AINSWORTH

    aviors described by Ainsworth or one o the

    e Crittenden and Rad#e,%arrow research &ro!ps

    in& this pattern as avoidant(a)biva'ent *A(C+.

    are partic!'ar'y re'evant here beca!se they per,

    . In two separate sa)p'es- )a'treated chi'drenor ab!se,and,ne&'ect were re/!ent'y c'assiied

    t and open'y resistant or avoidant and over,

    ctive'y. "oth &ro!ps o chi'dren were very dis,

    ported by the presence- in )any cases- o c'ini,

    o stress *i.e.- stereotypic behaviors s!ch as

    he 'oor- wettin&+. 1!rther)ore- these patterns

    inants- b!t a'so in preschoo',a&ed )a'treated

    an&e Sit!ation wo!'d ordinari'y be epected to

    cate&ory o inant Stran&e Sit!ation behavior

    t'y tho!&ht o as a disor&ani2ed or) o one o

    tenden views the avoidant(a)biva'ent c'assii,

    arate pattern , that is- another or&ani2ation o

    Ainsworth as re'evant to the assess)ent osec!,

    avior o )a'treated chi'dren in the Crittenden

    ibed as or&ani2ed aro!nd reso'vin& the con'ict

    or proi)ity to the )other and his epectationshis behavior. That is- the )a'treated chi'd needs

    h his )other o''owin& separation as )!ch as

    t- his eperiences o previo!s )a'treat)ent

    the brie separation o the Stran&e Sit!ation-

    ct )ore i)perative. However- the )a'treated

    pect that his bids or contact wi'' be i&nored-

    hed. The abi'ity o s!ch chi'dren to )aintain

    ress o separation to&ether with their abi'ity toncontet!a' a&&ression directed away ro) the

    sta' and circ!)spect )eans o achievin& pro,

    y contro''ed- or or&ani2ed- pattern o behavior.

    the disor&ani2ed cate&ory and the avoidant(

    other and to the ori&ina' Ainsworth patterns in

    here is so)e evidence that the disor&ani2ation

    o inants had been reso'ved by the a&e o 4 years

    i)i'ar'y both Rad#e,%arrow3s and Crittenden3sa&ed chi'dren who showed the *or&ani2ed+ A(C

    at yo!n& chi'dren or&ani2e their behavior )ost

    ior is predictab'e re&ard'ess o how sensitive or

    'der chi'dren who have had to cope with )a5or

    nte&rate that inor)ation into their set o epec,

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    ttachment theory 443

    anized pattern of responding. The nature of that

    research.

    ay occur at any age. Some of the indications of

    er children and adults resemble the indications of

    ancy: undue preoccupation with the whereaboutsd undue difficulty in separating from him or her,

    ent figure, chronic anger and resentment toward

    or use support from the attachment figure when

    absence of feeling toward him or her. !ther indi#

    to be observed in infancy are: compulsive com#

    e attachment figure, compulsive caregiving, or an

    iance and emphasis on independence from any

    figure. The conditions leading to such anxiety

    ing separation from an attachment figure or per#

    ponsiveness of an attachment figure, or inappro#

    ese conditions can have impact at any time

    $owever, they are more influential when they

    because previous experiences influence the way

    ived and interpreted.

    tional construct

    infant%s repeated experiences with his mother

    ions regarding the nature of future interactions.

    the basis for the infant%s development of internal

    f his mother and of himself &'owlby, ()*)+. fhis

    tly responsive and sensitive to his signals, he

    odel of her as responsive and accessible and of

    eliciting her response and worthy of it. Such an

    ly attached to his mother &Ainsworth et al., ()-+.however, is of a mother who either does not

    or who does not respond appropriately, whether

    interfering+ or inconsistent. The representational

    hese infants of the mother figure reflects the par#

    ior his experience with her has led him to expect.

    st her to give the ind of response he wants or

    s an image of himself as ineffective in obtaining

    worthy of it.

    fant forms a representational model of his father

    igure&s+ who constitute a prominent part of his

    that at first the models of such figures, as well as

    of self, are independent of each other. Although

    in the course of development it happens, these

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    chment figues !ecome moe o less loosel" inte7

    odel of attachment figues. As the child continues

    ents and esta!lishes ne% elationships %ith oth7

    e'peiences into his models of attachment figue

    'tent altes his model accodingl". Thus& at an"n )open model) moe o less open to ne% input

    !ased on additional e'peience& o ,pehaps not

    ood- ethining of pe(ious e'peience. Ne(e7

    e cuent model that the indi(idual tends to pe7

    d to see out some pesons and situations and

    child %hose e'peiences %ith attachment figues

    hole& the tas of integating e'peiences into a

    models is elati(el" simple. Occasional e'pei7

    fustation& o an'iet" do not loom lage enough

    all" positi(e natue of the models. Ho%e(e& fo

    %hose e'peiences ha(e led to an'ious attach7

    tion is moe difficult. 0o%l!" ,1234& 1256- sug7

    of e(en one attachment figue ae liel" to !e

    ho is inconsistent& sometimes offeing close com7

    it& "et often failing to do so& ma" lead a child to

    one of a esponsi(e mothe and anothe that isilal" t%o models of self& one of a peson %ho is

    and anothe of a peson %ho is incompetent and

    of models ma" altenate %ith one !eing uppe7

    times the othe.

    liel" to !e complicated !" anothe consideation

    (e!al communication impo(es& and the child

    competent. No longe ae the models !ased solel"

    es of e'peience& !ut integation and geneali$a7ceptual pocesses& so that the conceptual fomu7

    actual episodes of e'peience that ga(e ise to it.

    tual fomulation ma" !e much influenced !"

    po(ided !" the paent. Thus& a child %ho is

    ad& and is !eing depi(ed o punished entiel" fo

    %ho has onl" his !est inteests at heat& is liel"

    he as a %ondeful peson and of himself as gen7

    It is this set of models that ae liel" to !e most

    %heeas his othe model of his mothe as hash&

    to his needs and his model of himself as a lo(e7

    esentful of unfai teatment tend to be discon7

    ious pocessing& e(en though !ased on epeated

    ce.

    si(e pocesses ae paticulal" liel" to intefee

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    tachment theory 445

    models that are accurately based on experience

    nt, open to new input and consequent adjust0

    as an infant was anxious and avoidant in his

    and who defends himself from demanding close0

    , tends to close himself off from new experiences,r with others, that might invalidate his expecta0

    is feeling of distrust of closeness.

    red in the light of attachment theory

    synopsis of attachment theory provides several

    ich hypotheses can be drawn that may explain

    children and maltreating parents. "irst, attach0

    portant for individual functioning at all ages,

    e of attachments changes as a consequence of

    primary function of attachments is to promote

    of the young, which is precisely what is at risk

    Third, whereas humans are genetically predis0

    tterns of behavior, an individual$s actual behav0

    s determined by an interplay of environmental%

    ious experience with similar situations. The pre0

    ed as internal representational models of theuding the emotional flavor associated with expe0

    "ourth, actual patterns of attachment behavior

    ren$s developmental courses &rather than arrest0

    matic stage'. "ifth, the effect of the internal rep0

    nderlie anxious attachments is to change behav0

    current attachments more stressful and future

    e secure. "inally, attachment problems are not

    ne person$s psychopathology. (ather, they areccessful a relationship is in providing sufficient

    ls are freed to attend to other aspects of their

    s possible to predict and understand many seem0

    adoxical aspects of abuse and neglect. *n the fol0

    r of hypotheses drawn from attachment theory

    ith the research relevant to them. The intent is

    of the theoretical perspective offered, but rather

    asis for considering it seriously. The hypotheses

    of individual and dyadic functioning &-' anx0

    l conflict, &/' child strategies for coping with par0

    coping with the environment, &5' niche0picking,

    en the theory and the predicted outcomes is the

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    model of relationships. To the etent that the

    maltreatin$ families pro"ides a !asis for inferrin$

    dels% those models &an ser"e as the !asis for pre(

    relationships. Indeed% information on the nat#re

    in maltreatin$ and ade)#ate families has !een

    f the #nderl*in$ representational models and to

    the &hild+s atta&hment to his or her mother and

    ,ith net,or- mem!ers and professionals Crit(

    These models ,ill !e #sed in the present diss(

    der set of h*potheses.

    in$ mothers are epe&ted to ha"e ,or-in$ mod(

    t% &ontrol% and re5e&tion. Their epe&tations of

    ro#nd the idea that others ,ill attempt to domi(

    ds of the other and re5e&t them ,hen the* press

    et. Their model of themsel"es ,ill !e tied to the

    ,ill not ,illin$l* $i"e #p% needed ps*&holo$i&al

    e)#entl*% &oer&ion and "i&timiation ,ill !e &en(

    ons of themsel"es. The a&&ompan*in$ affe&t ,ill

    epe&ted to ha"e models &enterin$ aro#nd the

    he* ,ill not per&ei"e others as ha"in$% or !ein$

    * need. Neither ,ill the* see themsel"es as effe&(nd s#pport of others. The affe&t a&&ompan*in$

    one of emptiness and depression.

    ontrast% ,ill ha"e models &entered aro#nd ideas

    &it*. The* ,ill per&ei"e others as helpf#l and

    i"e themsel"es as &apa!le of o!tainin$ help and

    and also of pro"idin$ s#pport to others. The

    e one of satisfa&tion Crittenden% /012!3.

    ral h*potheses% !ased on atta&hment theor* andor-in$ models% re$ardin$ the !eha"ior of mal(

    atin$ parents.

    families ,ill !e epe&ted to form anio#s atta&h(

    . 7or maltreated &hildren% this ,o#ld mean an(

    nts3. 7or maltreatin$ ad#lts% this ,o#ld in&l#de

    e ad#lts+ parents% to their partners% and to their

    anio#s atta&hments ,o#ld !e distorted internal

    f the self and others3. The )#alit* of pre"io#s

    infl#en&e% !#t not ,holl* determine% the nat#re

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    ence that relationships in abusing families are anx3

    tigations using the Strange Situation procedure

    to assess the $ualit% of the child&s relationship to

    ren, ranging in age from Ito 4 %ears, have been

    tached to their mothers ('rittenden, !"a, !"b)!") +aensbauer and armon, !"-) Schneider3

    on, and 'icchetti, !"# and to show the anxious0

    cular. 1onlaborator% derived evidence of anxious

    ing mothers and their children comes from a stud%

    n&s response to protective da%care ('rittenden,

    fer $ualit% of attachment from observations of par3

    s previousl% noted, maternal insensitivit% (i.e.,ponsiveness# in interaction with the child has been

    xiet% in the Strange Situation (Ainsworth et aI.,

    d Ta%lor, !"4) 'rittenden, !"a) Sroufe, !"#.

    ence that abusing mothers are more harsh, interfer3

    ative when interacting with their children (/urgess

    den, !", !") 'rittenden and /onvillian, !"4)

    feld, !"2) ash, 8ohnson, and 9ovit:, !"2) ob3

    7!) 6asserman, +reen, and hianon, !"2#. Such

    ervations of children across the full range of child3

    inference that maltreated children of all ages will

    ched to their parents.

    e nature of adult attachments to parents, partners,

    primaril% from famil% histor% data regarding the

    such relationships. /ased on the inferred nature of

    of relationships, it would be expected that mother3

    uld be non3egalitarian (i.e., composed of a domi3

    artner# and that there would be conflict over thesenerall% consistent with this h%pothesis in terms of

    en marriages, and, especiall%, wife abuse (/aldwin

    ohl and errenohl, !") 8ohnson and orse,

    of ental ealth, !77) =err%, 6ells, and 5oran,

    , !"#. oreover, following a separation, man%

    another abusive partner or remain single, whereas

    more liel% to remain with the children&s father or

    rson, Schellenbach, and 'onger, !") >riedman,rom, !7!) 9otelchuc, !"-#. This suggests an

    he abusing parents to incorporate new information

    s increasing the lielihood of the repetition of pre3

    :ation of the concept of maternal bonding to the

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    numerous suggestons that ma!treatng mothers

    ther %h!#ren &He!'er, ()*+ Hur#, ()*- "n%h

    gh there s no 'orma! assessment o' the $resen%e

    seems reasonab!e to assume that a mother 0ho

    n'ant su''%ent!" to mantan !'e has 'orme# a$ossb!e that the nature o' that bon# s #''erent

    than 'or a#e2uate mothers. One stu#" that has

    orte# that mothers 0ho !ater abuse# or neg!e%te#

    ther atttu#es to0ar# the $regnan%", n ther

    me#ate!" 'o!!o0ng #e!ver", an# n ther behav>

    # &5ra", Cut!er, Dean, an# 6em$e, ()**/. Ho0>

    !ess sub7e%tve measures 'oun# no ev#en%e o'

    ng mothers &Ege!an# an# aughn, ()8(/. Stu#es

    ''e%tveness o' nterventons to m$rove bon#ng

    ts su%h that t s un%!ear 0hether or not e3ten#e#

    9or home vstaton are he!$'u! &5ra" et a, ()**

    Saun#ers, an# Ingram, ()8;/.

    an3ous atta%hment o' an abusng $arent to her

    0th the e3$e%taton o' an an3ous re!atonsh$

    . Abusng $arents have re$orte# beng abuse# b"

    )*; S!ver, :arton, an# Dub!n, ()+*/ or beng

    oo# &6ote!%hu%1, ()8mo#a! %!ass'%atons #''ere# 'rom that

    te# %h!#ren 0ho 0ere not avo#ant ten#e# to be

    ra%ton 0th ther mothers, neg!e%te# %h!#renthan ether #''%u!t or %om$u!sve!" %om$!ant

    %e that neg!e%tng a#u!ts 'n# t #''%u!t to !eave

    hment re!atonsh$s 0th rron'am!a! $artners

    then the neg!e%tng mother=s o0n mother serves

    e %h!#ren, thus enab!ng the mother to avo# the

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    ch individuals take on reciprocal, care"giving

    that anxious attachments will be associated with

    the individual that, in extreme cases such as

    to behavior that would otherwise be considered

    is, of course, the situation of the abused infant.

    forming an attachment to his primary caregiver

    ches him that this attachment figure may be ahere is evidence that anxiously attached children

    gry with the parent and also seek excessive close"

    children would be expected to defend and pro"

    ndangers them. #ndeed, many investigations of

    by the child$s unwillingness to implicate the per"

    the child$s protection from parental reprisal has

    bused children, especially girls, have been found

    s though the parent"child roles were reversed

    , *9++ -orris and ould, *9/0 Steele and 1ol"

    is not dissimilar to 3owlby$s concept of compul"

    way of maintaining closeness to an attachment

    ing pervasive anger with the person being cared

    uld be expected to show similar incompatible

    n although the child is particularly sought as the

    er possesses and who will love her back. #n fact,

    other$s intrusiveness may be interpreted by thegger her own re!ection of him. The child$s use of

    e mother and often promiscuous seeking of affil"

    have similar effects the mother did not want to

    but neither did she want a demonstration of her

    without her or to obtain support from someone

    esire to establish more satisfying and secure rela"

    scents and maltreating adults would be expected

    iduals who will tend to contribute to the main"tionships. -any would unwittingly carry into

    wariness or suspicion of other people and exces"

    from the few who were known well. hen cur"

    unsatisfying, there could easily be a precipitous

    ully, more rewarding attachment. owever, the

    and5or previous partners would remain stressful

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    !" de#andin$ness% distust% and h!stilit& !uld

    . *uthe% thee is a eas!na(le li+elih!!d that

    pe)eive (!th the sp!use and an& )hilden as

    n)e athe than as e)ipients !" nutuan)e.

    e)t% the paad!, is that individuals h! despe-

    supp!t !" !thes ael& see+ it ! see# )!#-

    ve it. nde the stess !"a (ie" sepaati!n "!#

    en esp!nd t! the need "! thei #!thes ith

    !a#in$ a!und the !!# /Cittenden% 125a3

    126. Ne$le)tin$ adults esp!nd t! the !pp!-

    ithdaal and7! a denial !" "eelin$s !" l!ne-

    n% 122a3 P!lans+&% audin% A##!ns% and

    lteat#ent ill (e ass!)iated ith di""eent !$a-

    elevant t! the )hilden's intea)ti!n ith the

    ani8ati!ns )an (e e,pe)ted t! )han$e as a "un)-

    e)t the )!#petin$ desies !" #alteated )hilden.

    $es in the die)ti!n !" devel!p#ent athe than

    l p!)esses at an in"antile sta$e.

    ith thei #!thes% a(used in"ants have (een

    than !the in"ants3 h!eve% the eviden)e su$-

    ehavi! is tied t! the i##ediate intepes!nal

    !" innate in"ant te#pea#ent /Cittenden% 12%

    !thes' esp!nse t! su)h (ehavi! is !"ten t!

    "ant% thus in)easin$ his distess. Su)h a #!the in he atte#pts t! satis"& he (a(&. I"she )ann!t

    nd app!piatel& t! he )hild's (ehavi!al )ues

    n t! please he% !ne !uld e,pe)t the )!n"li)t t!

    "uthe endan$ein$ the in"ant.

    that% t!ad the end !" the "ist &ea !"'li"e% #an&

    t! a))!##!date thei #!thes% "ist% (& inhi(-

    nd% late% (& leanin$ t! t!leate thei #!thes'

    int and even t! )!#pl& ith he desies /Cit-and Di9alla% 1226. :& s! d!in$ the& )han$e the

    !# #utual an$e t! supe"i)ial )!!peati!n and

    dea(le eviden)e that #an& !lde a(used )hil-

    l% vi$ilant% and )!#pliant /een% aines% and

    Oppenhei#e% and 9indsa&% 1;56.

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    children make the transition from resistant to

    larly if there is no way for the child to predict

    e parent (as in abuse$and$neglect, see below, it

    for him or her to inhibit some behaviors and

    please the mother. "hus, by the second year ofatterns for coping with the distress ofliving with

    to have developed# a negative, resistant one and

    one.

    ct their children would be e!pected to foster dif$

    ponse. %ike abused children, neglected children

    achment figure when they are an!ious or under

    sed children, they have learned that their moth$signals. "hey learn that they are ineffective at

    and obtaining maternal cooperation in meeting

    , most children would be e!pected to intensify

    uced results, they would probably maintain a

    and demanding behavior. n the other hand, if

    ded to the intensified attachment behavior, they

    become depressed and withdrawn or to ignore

    heir pursuit of other satisfactions. 'n addition,g children and the active, disorgani)ed children

    raw forth a response from their environment,

    o their mothers. 'f their generally unresponsive

    and angered by their intensified demands, the

    ce the interpersonal conditions associated with

    .

    t

    these styles of interpersonal behavior will be

    of the children+s e!ploration of their environ$

    postulate that the attachment and e!ploration

    on best when balanced with each other. "hus,

    nger, the attachment system is activated, result$

    other and child. -hen child and mother feel

    l free to e!plore the environment safely. ecause

    ither protected ade/uately by pro!imity to theelief that she will be available, their ability to

    y would be e!pected to be impaired.

    ho were avoidant of their mothers could be

    d successfully only when there were (lno indi$

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    on!ent and "2# no indicators of !aterna$ stress

    tions the' co&$d e()ect to *e safe. When there

    or !aterna$ signa$s of danger, the' +o&$d face

    t. The st&dies &sing the Strange Sit&ation indi

    ons so!e a*&sed chi$dren are a*$e to !aintain, +hereas others are *oth s&fficient$' an(io&s to

    !other and a$so s&fficient$' angr' to *e &na*$e

    $', dis)$a'ing *oth aoidance and a!*ia$ence

    The aoidant chi$dren +o&$d th&s *e e()ected

    e()$orator' *ehaior, +hereas the !ore dis

    ght *e )reocc&)ied +ith !anaging their safet'

    '. St&dies *' Crittenden "/015a#, Dietrich et a$.

    ! "/0# s&))ort these e()ectations in ter!s of#8 a*&sed chi$dren, as a gro&), hae $o+er D7s

    $dren. When the D7 of the a*&sed chi$dren is

    their tendenc' to &se the co!)&$sie-co!)$iant

    *eco!es c$ear that there are i!)ortant +ithin

    t a*&sed chi$dren tend to hae higher than nor

    chi$dren +ho are )assie-+ithdra+n or diffic&$t

    "Crittenden and Di9a$$a, /011#.

    dra+n chi$dren +o&$d *e e()ected to find it dif

    fro! their !others to ena*$e the! to e()$ore

    esta*$ish re$ationshi)s +ith other )eo)$e8 the'

    &na*$e to e()$oit the $earning )otentia$ of their

    dent&ro&s neg$ected chi$dren +o&$d hae the

    rience, *&t at ris to their safet' and +itho&t the

    fa!i$' !e!*ers in attach!ent re$ationshi)s

    t other as)ects of their socia$ eco$og', s&ch as

    , and, for the chi$dren, schoo$ e()eriences. The

    tterns of *ehaior +o&$d genera$i;e to inc$&de

    inc$&de the )erce)tion and inter)retation of

    !ode$s of rea$it' and the tendenc' to re)eat

    or in ne+ sit&ations.

    ed chi$dren are co!)$iant +ith ad&$ts, there is

    an' are aggressie, *oth in and o&t of schoo$ or

    a$ston, /0/8

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    ers. Such vigilance resulting from internal

    e could easily lead the abused child to mis

    and to respond with aggression himself. Of

    his aggression will only confirm his model.

    abused adolescent males and promiscuousther change in coping strategy !Silver et al.,

    more mature, although eually inappro

    ssociated with violence at home and reflect,

    tence and control that comes from ta(ing

    , the attempt to find security and acceptance

    reating and adeuate mothers have been

    he mothers) relationships with their infantsothers appear to have the social s(ills to

    ver, those relationships are neither stable

    b&. 'nstead, abusing mothers perceive their

    endable and they in tum are perceived by

    e. /ost abusing mothers) relationships are

    nd in violent uarrels and enduring bitter

    arents find it relatively easy to obtain 1obs,m any length of time. The most common

    e disputes with the employer or cowor(ers.

    e relation between fathers) 1ob satisfaction

    ildren. lthough this finding has been inter

    tatus leads to violence, it is eually possible

    o manage personal relationships so as either

    d personal satisfaction in the 1obs they have

    perative relationships with their children.

    en neglected tend either to be withdrawn

    organied, active, and aggressive.

    hips reflect distortions similar to those of

    They have very few friendships outside of

    ve tend to be seen infreuently and (nown

    - audin and olans(y, "#+$- olans(y,

    behavior would be predicted to be adaptive

    nse of promoting their immediate survival

    ongterm !ultimate& sense of personal men

    rvival. The maladaptation would be based

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    at defensive ode!s ip!" per#eptua! e$#!usion

    on of the eanin% of soe iportant per#eived

    of t&o patterns shou!d 'e #onsidered( #opu!sivetan#e. The #opu!sive!" #op!iant #hi!d in inter)

    nt inhi'its responses that the parent dis!i*es and

    parent prefers. This strate%" has the advanta%e of

    a! vio!en#e. It is a!so !i*e!" to tea#h the #hi!d to

    rpersona! 'ehavior of others+ this s*i!! a" prove

    ations. In addition, the #op!iant strate%" a"

    d-or nurturan#e of the parent ifthe parent desires

    . Ho&ever, these out#oes are the resu!t of the

    in &a"s that do not ref!e#t his fee!in%s. The an%er

    ons that !ed to inhi'ition a" 'e#oe asso#iated

    o a diinution of satisfa#tion in a#hieveent and

    % &ith an%er and #oer#ion. Thus, a #opu!sive

    % &ith a'use a" #oe to #onsist of /I0 e$#essive

    attendant ris* of s"steati# isinterpretation of

    10 superfi#ia! #op!ian#e in situations in &hi#h

    po&erfu! /&ith the ris* of never testin% the is)

    rdin% the possi'!e hosti!it" of others0, and /20s* of possi'!" e$#!udin% soe eotions fro per)

    pattern is often !a'e!ed anipu!ative and a"

    ponse of 'oth soe a'used #hi!dren and an"

    nsistent &ith the deve!opent of representa)

    as po&erfu! and hosti!e, the se!f as !ova'!e

    an eotiona! overtone of an$iet" and repressed

    eain overt!" an%r" and resistant fa#e different!" to e$perien#e #ontinued parenta! an%er and

    " their o&n fee!in%s. Thus, their ode! of others

    their ode! of these!ves #ou!d in#!ude 3ustifi)

    'ehavior. Therefore, overt!" an%r" a'used #hi!)

    e$#!ude inforation defensive!" or to s"steati)

    ver, the #osts of su#h a deve!openta! path&a"

    ed a'use and the possi'i!it" that an%er &i!! per)

    !s 'ehavior, thus !eadin% to the a##urate per#ep)and, in the e$tree, to de!inuen#". The 'a!an#e

    as opposed to defensive0 ode!s that #an be #on)

    idua! finds a ore responsive su'stitute atta#h)

    at the individua!s an%er &i!! #oe to doinate

    .

    tiona!e are s#ar#e, 'ut &hat !itt!e there are, are

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    e been abused but do not themselves abuse their

    more open about their anger over their mistreat

    ir decision not to follow their parents' model

    ". #oreover, these parents report having sup

    $ther nonabusing but formerl% abused parentstant supportive relationship during childhood.

    ve not onl% the immediate advantage ofhe1ping

    lt eperiences, but also the longterm advantage

    models to include more positive images of the

    sociated feeling of satisfaction. &uch changes

    the individual will be able to form other sup

    future.

    dence that members of abusing families do per

    e differentl% from other people. Although there

    hildren are constitutionall% or temperamentall%

    (+rittenden, 15a- geland and &roufe, 11-

    /", there is considerable evidence that their

    be so (Herren)ohl and Herren)ohl, 11".

    have been thought to have higher epectations

    ute intentions to them inappropriatel%, the evi

    ravit0 and riscoll, 12- 3osenberg and 3ep

    n abusing mothers have been shown videotaped

    ppear to respond more negativel% and feel more

    rodi and amb, 16". *his suggests that the

    epectations or attributions or with insufficient

    elopment- instead, the problem seems to be tied

    d emotional responses.

    of abused children, there is some evidence that

    ceptive of the social behavior of adults (+um

    ad)e9arrow, 11" and less perceptive of theiravior (+amras, :row, and 3ibord%, 12". ur

    such sensitivit% is tied to ;

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    dren, the to !ri"#r$ !#ttern% to &e con%idered

    e!re%%ion* #nd +ndi%ci!lined #cti(it$. Mo%t

    !#rent% too +nre%!on%i(e or the" to de(elo! #

    er, #% the$ de(elo! "o&ilit$, the$ the"%el(e%

    n#t+re o their en(iron"ent. In !#rtic+l#r, the$i"+l#tion ro" #ll #%!ect% o their en(iron"ent.

    d#!ti(e #nd d#ngero+%. It!ro(ide% the o!!ort+

    orld #% ell #% contingencie% in it/ hoe(er,

    o+t or the el#re o the $o+ng neglected child,

    l h#r". In #ddition, the child0% %e#rch or %ti"

    rg#ni1ed, relecting hi% l#c- o e'!erience ith

    t thin-ing #&o+t h$!er#cti(e children %+gge%t%

    er%ti"+l#ted, the$ #re +nder%ti"+l#ted to the

    % #ttention )2+#$, 35*. S+ch # r#tion#le o+ld

    ct+red &eh#(ior o %o"e neglected children.

    #re #&le to oer little to their child &e$ond the

    t#in lie. The$ neither re%!ond to their child0%

    their child0% #cce%% to # %ti"+l#ting en(iron"ent.

    neither le#rn %tr#tegie% or eng#ging their !#rent

    oring the en(iron"ent. Their !#%%i(it$ i% # or"

    e%+lt% ro" # l#c- o ##rene%% o the !otenti#l

    S+ch children c#nnot &e de%cri&ed #% co!ing ith

    g (icti"i1ed &$ it.

    lect. The e(idence !re%ented %+gge%t% th#t the

    #ltre#t"ent dier% #ccording to t$!e o "#ltre#t

    !re%ent#tion i% di%torted in to #$%. Fir%t, it

    re#t"ent i% o %i"il#r %e(erit$ or th#t %e(erit$ i%

    cond, it #%%+"e% th#t the condition% o #&+%e #nd

    %i(e. O co+r%e, neither #%%+"!tion relect% ther#tion#le #% !re%ented ith the%e di%tortion% or

    to highlight the dierenti#l n#t+re o the to

    the contr#r$, it i% nece%%#r$ to gr#!!le #t le#%t

    %it+#tion%. D#t# on to gro+!% o children #re

    #(e &een onl$ "#rgin#ll$ "#ltre#ted #nd tho%e

    #nd neglected.

    "#rgin#ll$ "#ltre#ted gener#ll$ %ho # !#ttern

    hich i%, #% e'!ected, le%% e'tre"e th#n in "#l "ild de(elo!"ent#l del#$, gener#l coo!er#

    r#ction ith their !#rent%, #nd "ildl$ #n'io+%

    3, 35#, 3#, &*. Si"il#rl$, their "other%

    #nce in childre#ring !r#ctice%. The !ri"#r$ di

    en #!!e#r% not to &e the "#ltre#t"ent it%el &+t

    Where#% their "other% #re in %o"e #$% #nd #t

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    ive, at others they are harsh and/or unre-

    children both to determine what causes the

    ior and also to develop internal models of

    that are consistent and useful in predicting

    , generalized anxiety and sometimes undis-children to social and academic problems.

    n, in contrast, experience general unrespon-

    of harshness. ften both their exploration

    for attention lead to parental punitiveness.

    unresponsiveness that the abused and the

    an ma#e regarding their parents' behavior

    ir parents and themselves. Although the sit-

    d and unpleasant, children who experiencecan often learn to cope with the predictable

    not true for the abused-and-neglected child.

    istortions and, further, finds that his own

    be expected that the coping strategies used

    flagrant acting out with extreme disregard

    d withdrawal, severe psychosomatic illness,

    ns of deflecting the anger of the threatening

    of these !%rittenden, &((a, b, c".

    mpt to apply the principles of attachment

    nt. In the process, a number of points have

    has pervasive psychological effects* the

    e+ually well to cases with or without physi-

    utcomes of maltreatment are developmentalferent aspects of personal functioning at dif-

    affect the direction of future development

    problematic and immature stage. Third,

    different ages, there is developmental coher-

    nd izley, &(&, p. ". )ourth, the devel-

    outcome of individual differences as well as

    y, the experience of abuse is +uite different

    ith regard both to parental behavior and togies.

    ot intended to focus on dyadic, attachment-

    t to the exclusion of organismic or societal

    d to provide a means of !&" identifying a

    the impact of many associated conditions

    maltreatment affects so many areas of indi-

    d !" identifying those individuals and fam-

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    le to other sour"es o# i#lue"e a$ to su%%est

    The a$vata%e o# "osi$eri% a&ious atta"h

    is that it im(lies a (ro"ess throu%h whi"h its

    as o((ose$ to merel* i$eti#*i% the "orrelates

    e (arsimoious without !ei% trivial.theoreti"al a((roa"h is a trasa"tioal e"olo%i

    eviromet asso"iate$ with maltreatmet a$

    as well as o (aretal "hara"teristi"s. As i$i

    il$ varia!les $o ot) i well "otrolle$ stu$ies)

    $ o maltreati% #amilies. O the other ha$

    ilit* to eli"it materal res(osiveess) es(e"iall*

    usatis#*i% materal !ehavior. Su"h situatios

    rs(e"tive o# atta"hmet theor*) as re#le"ti% theather tha as !ei% a (aret or a "hil$ "hara"ter

    or* is ot ui$ire"tioal i its a((roa"h to "au

    i$ivi$uals- e&(erie"es with atta"hmet #i%ures

    hreatei% as well as what (atters o# "o(i% are

    #lue"e) there is "osi$era!le evi$e"e that the

    omi" status are also the "orrelates o# maltreat

    some so"ietal "o$itios have !ee asso"iate$

    altreatmet #or e&am(le) i"reases i uem

    te$ with i"reases i a!use /0usti"e a$ Du"a)

    1234. The ature o# the asso"iatio is ot "lear.

    th a uem(lo*e$ #ather a!use their "hil$re) it

    h* some #amilies) a$ ot others) are vulera!le

    t o# their "hil$re. It is (ro(ose$ here that $is

    i(s i the #amil* leave #amil* mem!ers vuler

    situatios su"h as uem(lo*met. The (oit is

    are irrelevat to the i"i$e"e o# maltreatmet.the 7ualit* o# relatioshi(s is o a "otiuum)

    te&t ma* $etermie the (oit alo% the se"ure

    i"h ris+ #or maltreatmet !e"omes immiet.

    t o# $eleterious so"ial "o$itios ol* allows oe

    "e o# maltreatmet. owi% the ature o# #am

    a$ the i$ivi$uals- asso"iate$ re(resetatioal

    to s(e"i#* more (re"isel* whi"h #amilies a$9or

    t vulera!le to e&teral stressors.e$ to su((ort this a$ the other h*(otheses

    % or o# (oor 7ualit* as a result o# (oorl* mea

    servatios) et". This is es(e"iall* true i ol$er

    ets. I a$$itio) ver* little o# the evi$e"e was

    e&t o# testi% atta"hmet theor*. This is u#or

    o# itsel#) $imiish the (otetial o# atta"hmet

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