changing limiting beliefs: the secrets revealed
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The secret to move ahead in life is pretty simple. It is all about changing limiting beliefs into empowering ones. If you are able to do that successfully, there is no doubt you will be a far happier, confident and successful person.TRANSCRIPT
Changing Limiting Beliefs: The Secrets
Revealed
Michael Leehttp://www.choosetobelieve.net
The secret to move ahead in life is pretty simple. It is all about
changing limiting beliefs into empowering ones. If you are able to do that successfully, there is
no doubt you will be a far happier, confident and successful
person.
Beliefs have the power to influence your outcome and destiny in life. But while positive beliefs can be
extremely motivating and can help the individual get far ahead
in life, negative beliefs always work the opposite way by holding people back and lowering their
self esteem.
Identifying Limiting Beliefs.
Changing limiting beliefs is not as hard as you think it might be. First, tell yourself that you will do all that it takes to overcome your negative beliefs; and this you can do by identifying them
in the first place.
There is no point being in denial. If you have some beliefs that you
know is detrimental to your progress, admit it to yourself.
For instance, you believe it is a bad time to turn into an entrepreneur because you think the economy is
in bad shape. That’s the only reason why you are sticking to a dead end job, even though you
have a great idea that has every potential of becoming successful.
Instead of telling yourself that the time is not right time to begin
your dream venture, believe that despite the condition of the
economy, there is (and always will be) space for a great
product or a superior service.
Just affirming this will change your entire perspective. You will find yourself enthused enough
to make an exit route from your job in order to set up your
venture.
Changing limiting beliefs has the power of igniting your passion.
If you are really passionate about what you want to do, you will even find that things will fall in place sooner than later.
Shedding Emotional Baggage and Reframing Evidence.
More often than not, limiting beliefs remain with an individual because of either two things... first, there are some emotional payoffs; and secondly, there are supportive
evidence to their beliefs.
Let's cite examples and solutions for both cases. In the first case (having emotional payoffs),
somebody who is dying to break out of the mould of being stuck in a dead end job, may be stuck to it
because he has a family to support. He has trained himself to believe
that if he does what his heart desires, he will let down his family.
If you can relate to this, the solution is simple... you’ve got to shed it. If supporting your family
is what you are worried about, think of a backup plan. Save up enough for a period of time, so
that you can opt out without the guilt.
In the second case (having supportive evidence to the
belief), an individual may tell himself that there are failures all around him due to recessionary pressures so he shies away from
the idea of entrepreneurship.
The solution to this dilemma is to reframe it. For instance, if you are telling yourself that
there have been other entrepreunial failures, don’t blame it on the recessionary
pressures. The reason for their failure may have been
due to their inability to think through their business plan. All you have to do is make a fool proof business plan and
follow through.
It may seem difficult at first, but following these suggestions can
help a great deal in changing limiting beliefs. At the end of the
day, you will feel much more empowered, just like a butterfly
who has broken out of a cocoon and is ready to fly away to enjoy the wonders that life has to offer
ahead!
Presentation By:Michael Lee
Persuasion Expert and Authorhttp://www.choosetobelieve.net