communication: the "heart" of listening

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COMMUNICATION SKILLS FOR MODERN-DAY DOCTORS AS LECTURED BY BIEN ELI NILLOS, MD FAMILY AND COMMUNITY MEDICINE UNIVERSITY OF SAINT LA SALLE The “Heart” of Listening

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Page 1: Communication: The "Heart" of Listening

COMMUNICATION SKILLS FOR MODERN-DAY DOCTORS

AS LECTURED BY BIEN ELI NILLOS, MDFAMILY AND COMMUNITY MEDICINE

UNIVERSITY OF SAINT LA SALLE

The “Heart” of Listening

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Communication Cycle

Receives Information (Hears)

Process Information (Listens)

Relays Feedback

Receives and

Process Informatio

n(Listens)

Sends Informatio

n or Feedback

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Let’s take a test first

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Choose two per number

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Quadrant One

Quadrant Two

Quadrant Three

Quadrant Four

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Quadrant Two

Quadrant Three

Quadrant Four

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THINKING/PLANNING

ASKS FOR: Data Information Facts

FOCUSED ON: Process Task Goal Doing things the right

way

UNDER STRESS: Avoids

NEEDS/LIKES: Logical thinking Documentation Rational Approach Careful Planning

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Quadrant One

Quadrant Three

Quadrant Four

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DOING/DIRECTING

TELLS ABOUT: Progress to goals Actions required Solutions to problems

FOCUSED ON: Task Goal Winning/being

successful Making things happen

UNDER STRESS: Becomes autocratic

and tells

NEEDS/LIKES: Options Flexibility Directness Conciseness

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Quadrant One

Quadrant Two

Quadrant Four

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SUPPORTING/COLLABORATING

ASKS FOR: Information, re: others’

skills/interests Input Feedback

FOCUSED ON: People Relationships Collaborations How situations “feel”

UNDER STRESS: Acquiesces or yields

NEEDS/LIKES: Friendliness Participation Inclusion Involvement

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Quadrant One

Quadrant Two

Quadrant Three

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VISIONING/CREATING

TELLS: Visions Ideas Stories, analogies

FOCUSED ON: Big picture

Models/theories/concepts Bringing visions into

reality

UNDER STRESS: Blames others

NEEDS/LIKES: To understand how the

details fit their picture Innovation and creativity Others to handle the

details

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“The first duty of love is to listen.” - Paul Tillich