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DETECTING LYING & DECEPTION DURING AUDIT INTERVIEWS JERRY BALISTRERI, M.S., M.ED., ASTD CERTIFIED TRAINER (COPYRIGHT 2014) AHIA 33 rd Annual Conference – September 21-24, 2014 – Austin, Texas www.ahia.org 1

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DETECTING LYING &

DECEPTION DURING

AUDIT INTERVIEWS JERRY BALISTRERI, M.S., M.ED.,

ASTD CERTIFIED TRAINER

(COPYRIGHT 2014)

AHIA 33rd Annual Conference – September 21-24, 2014 – Austin, Texas

www.ahia.org

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Non-Verbal Communication

Professional Use

Are you good a “reading” people?

When in a meeting can you tell who is bored or wants

to leave?

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Professional Use

Can you tell if someone is lying or being deceptive?

Koko & All Ball

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Professional Use

Can you read an interview applicant?

Can you tell if a client is displeased when negotiating

a contract?

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Non-verbal Communication

Personal Use

Do you know what to look for if a date

is going well?

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Personal Use

You come home after curfew time and Mom is there to

greet you. Can you tell her mood even before she

speaks?

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Personal Use

Would you like to know if a person you’re about to

hire to come into your home to clean, care for an

elderly parent, or child is deceptive?

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Personal Use

Would you like to know the next time the car

repairman says you need to replace

an expensive part?

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Objectives

Develop skills in reading non-verbal “tells”.

Understand the limbic system and its role in non-verbal communication.

Identify behavior indicators associated with tension, stress, fear and deception.

Recall the three foundations of detecting lying & deception.

Know how to detect deception.

My Goal

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What Part of the Message… Mehrabian, Albert (1971) Silent Message, Wadsworth Publishing

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The Limbic System 11

We all have it!

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The Limbic System Continued

It is considered to be the “honest brain” in the non-verbal world (Goleman, 1995, 13-29).

Consequently it gives off a true response to information in the immediate environment.

Why? It reacts instantaneously, real time, and without thought.

In the non-verbal world, the limbic brain is where the “action” is. Many, but not all, non-verbal responses come from here.

The remaining parts of the brain are the thinking and creative parts. These are the non-honest parts of the brain. The brain that can deceive and deceives often (Vrij, 2003, 1-17).

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Base Lining

Definition:

Observing a person’s behavior when he or she is under normal, non-threatening circumstances.

When does base lining begin?

(Now - and it never stops)

Why is base lining important?

(When people deviate from their baseline, that is a red flag!)

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Base Lining Continued

What to look & listen for:

• Speaking tone (engage in chit chat)

• Number of words/minute, and word flow

• Eye blink rate (normal relaxed rate is 20/M)

• Check for limbic reactions

• Use of hands while speaking

• Use of hands while listening

• Where the person’s eyes are when asked a question

• Where a person’s eyes are when answering a

question

• How expressive their face is

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Detecting Lying & Deception is a

Three Pronged Approach 15

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The Science of Lying

Why do people lie? 1. Help someone & make ourselves feel good. (pro-social lie) Example – Answering, “Does this dress make my back side look big?” 2. Make ourselves look better while not hurting another. (self

enhancement lie) Example – I also have a Ph.D! 3. Personal benefit at the expense of another. (a selfish lie) Examples – I can’t do this presentation because I have to take my wife to the airport. Tax preparation. 4. Deliberately damage another. (anti-social lie) Example – I saw Bob take the money. Paul Ekman 2001 UC-San Francisco

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The Science of Lying Continued

“For every lie told, two to three more must be invented to cover the tracks of the first lie.” Scientific Content Analysis (SCAN) 1992

Liars must: • Remember the first lie • Create new lies that connect to the first lie • Have a great memory • Sound convincing without deceptive leakage Truthful people do not have to go through those mental gymnastics!

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Lying Statistics

Lying is becoming easier and easier for people these days. American’s lie – and are lied to – much more than we realize. The book “The Day America Told The Truth” says that 91 percent of Americans lie routinely. USA Today

In her book Liespotting, Pamela Meyer indicates we encounter nearly 200 lies a day.

Liespotting, 2010

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Lying Statistics Continued

Honesty by Profession

Top Seven 1. Nurses 82 %

2. Pharmacists 70% 3. Grade school teacher 70% 4. Medical doctors 69% 5. Military officers 69% 6. Police officers 54% 7. Clergy 47% 2014 Gallup Poll Honesty & Ethics

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Lying Statistics Continued

Honest by Profession

Bottom Dwellers Newspaper reporters 21% Lawyers 20% TV reports 20% State office holders 14% Car salesman 9% Members of Congress 8% Lobbyist 6 % 2014 Gallup Poll Honesty & Ethics

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Content & Structure

(statement analysis)

What creates content and structure? YOUR QUESTIONS!

There is no such thing as a bad interviewee. There are only bad interviewers. Questions must be structured clearly and concisely, so there is no room for the respondent to wiggle out of. Example: Do you know the location of the body?

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Content & Structure Continued

That was a poorly stated question for the following reasons:

1. What if an accomplice disposed of the body?

2. What if your suspect dumped the body in a river and the body is now miles downriver from the dump site?

Fraud related questions:

Where did you last see the ring before filing the claim?

What do you know about the fire?

How did you get injured?

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Content & Structure Continued

(asking the same thing different ways)

Scenario: Through earlier conversation, it came out the car accident happened on a sunny day.

1. Can you tell me the time of day the accident occurred? (confirms daylight “sunny” hours)

2. Can you tell me what you think caused the accident? (opportunity to disclose shift blame, lie, etc.)

3. What were the road conditions like? (sunny day would imply good dry roads)

4. Did you swerve your car to avoid the accident? (swerve marks may be present on the pavement)

5. Did you see anyone swerve to avoid the accident? (swerve marks may be present on the pavement)

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Content & Structure Continued

Scenario: Two male students are sent to you because a school window was broken from a stone being thrown. Each student is blaming the other as the rock thrower. 1. Separate the students as rapidly as possible. (reduces the time to collaborate on a story)

2. Allow some time to pass before interviewing either student (it will imply you may have spoken to the other student first)

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Content & Structure Continued

What can you tell me about the window being broken? Possible replies: • I don’t know anything. (avoidance) • I didn’t hear or see anything. (denial, but implies

to be at the location) • I heard glass break, but by the time I turned

around I didn’t see anything. (places the person at the scene and close enough to see players)

• I saw Bobby throw the rock. (redirecting blame)

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Content & Structure Continued

Why do you suppose you are here? (disclose information or not) What would you say if I had a report from a neighboring home that indicated you were there when the window was broken? (response may contradict previous information, may lead to the truth if they believe someone saw them) What would you say if I had a report from a neighboring home that said they saw you throw the rock? (allows opportunity to disclose and adds pressure from the belief an observer saw what happened) Why is it that Bobby is saying you threw the rock? (use lies with caution)

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Content & Structure Continued

What to look & listen for?

1. Didn’t answer the question.

Example: Question - “Did you take the wallet?” Response “Why would I take that wallet? I

don’t need to steal, I make good money. I’m not the type of person that would steal.”

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Content & Structure Continued

2. Changes in tenses and nouns.

Susan Smith, TV Appearance October 1994

“I just can't stress it enough that we -- we just got to get

them home. We're -- that's just where they belong, with their mamma and daddy.”

Critical Review? When a pronoun takes the place of a noun, that’s an indicator of deceit and distancing. No first person usage.

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Content & Structure Continued

Susan Smith, TV Appearance November 1994 “I would like to say to whoever has my

children, that they please, I mean please bring 'em home to us where they belong. I have put my faith in the Lord, and I really

believe He's taking care of them. They're too beautiful and precious that He's not going to let anything happen to them.”

Critical Review? Changing pronouns (whoever to they)

Distancing (bring’em and them)

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Areas to Look For “Tells”

Face

Hands & Fingers

Arms

Upper Body (chest, shoulders, etc.)

Lower Body (feet & legs)

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Body Language

What to look and listen for: 1. Pacifying behaviors. (hands to face, neck, ears, suprasternal notch, etc.) 2. Any “blocking” maneuvers. 3. Question induced responses. (limbic) 4. Change from “baseline”. (breathing, sweating, dry mouth, voice pitch, etc.) 5. Speech errors. (enunciation, hesitations, etc.) 6. Create silent time between questions. (uncomfortable silent and watching induces more detail) 7. Observe the entire body but focus in on face and eyes. (knowing their eyes are being watched induces limbic reactions) 8. Subject asks for questions to be repeated. (thinking time, stalling)

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Stress Relief for Men & Women

Suprasternal notch – low confidence, stress reliever,

nervousness (women)

Neck/collar/face touching – low confidence, stress reliever,

nervousness (men)

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Detecting Deception

Deception and/or lying initiates a stress reaction in most people. The stress is fear of being detected or caught. Stress can be further induced via guilt.

Nervous fingers

Eye contact shifting

Rigid and/or defensive posture

Sweaty palms and/or face

Variations in pitch, amplitude, and rate of speech

Abnormal speech hesitation and speech errors (thinking)

Increased embellishments of story or parts of the story

Inconsistency in story

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Deception Mastered 36

Very smooth during the Lewinski

days.

Control of the body.

Control of language.

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Are you observant?

To get good at any skill requires practice

(basketball, golf, etc.)

Doctor/student story

What changed on Jerry?

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Bibliography

• 2008, Secrets of Body Language, History Channel.

• Blair, J.P., Horvath, F. (1996). Detecting of Deception Accuracy Using the

Verbal Component of the Behavior Analysis Interview Model, Michigan

State University.

• Cummings, S. (2008) Mystery at Bootleggers Cove, Dateline TV, NBC.

• Ekman P. Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and

Marriage. New York, NY: WW Norton & Company; 2001.

• Goleman, D. (1995). Emotional Intelligence. New York: Bantam Books.

• Lickley, Robin, Who Makes Better Liars, Queen Margaret University.

• Mehrabian, Albert (1971) Silent Messages, Wadsworth Publishing Co.

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Bibliography Continued

Meyer. Pamela, (2010) Liespotting, New York, St. Martin’s Press.

Morris, D. (1985) Body Watching. New York; Crown Publishers. Navarro, J. (2008). What Every Body Is Saying. HarperCollins

Publishers. Pearlman, G. (2007). How To Spot a Liar, The Palm Beach

Times. Smith, D, and Smith, S, Television Interview, 1994. “The Reid Nine Steps of Interrogation, In Brief.” Practical

Aspects of Interviewing and Interrogation. John Reid and Associates, Chicago, IL.

USA Today, 2014 Gallup Poll, Hoesty by Profession, December 16, 2013.

Varsamis, C. (2005). How To Detect Liars In Your Business & Personal Life, Article Alley.

Vrij, A. (2003). Detecting Lies and Deceit: The psychology of lying and the implications for professional practice. Chichester, UK: John Wiley & Sons, Ltd.

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Contact Information

Jerry Balistreri

(907) 346-3466

[email protected]

www.readingthetells.com

I hope we learned something today?

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