Dated 14 Aug 2016

Listening to speech of Jain monk (Shamaji m.s. at Amalner)

Sub - Anger

1. To make a curd you need boiled milk however you need to allow it to cool. Similarly you need to keep head cool.

2. Life is similar to a Tennis match – a. Service wellb. Reply wellc. Play cool and d. Start with a prayer

3. We have an international illness and everyone is suffering rich, poor, child, old man, student, teacher, spouse, in-laws, parents, employee, employer, etc and that is “angry”

4. Few examples of anger a. Communication between Son-in-law and mother –in-law , wanting to take his wife back.

Issue was on the same day of next day! Son-in-law saying I will not see her face if not sent her today, whereas mother –in-law says for her son-in-law is no more! Son-in-law does a suicide, daughter becomes widow forever!

b. A son was trying to clean a costly car and let house flies fly using stick. Father misunderstands and thought he is damaging his costly car, and hits him with the stick. Son loses his hands, gets into coma. After treatment asks him how would he eat, or play with the friends, or go to school. Finally does the suicide.

5. There are two types of wife. a. First waits in the morning when earliest would her husband starts for the office? b. And second type of wife waits evening when would her husband return from the office

earliest? Which type of wife do you have?6. Customer asks for “istri”. A owner of shop has a habit of pronunciation adding “e” like “eschool”

instead of school. Stri means woman. His wife was fighting at shop with him. He says take her away. Customer said, not this, but he needs “cloth wali” (to be used for cloth). Shop Owner says she has cloth. Customer says not this, but which has a “current”. Shop owner says this also gives “current” of 440 V.

7. Are you like heater or cooler?8. Elders can not communicate well; children do not know how to have patience!9. Do you want to be like match-stick? Which burns self and other as well!10. Questions for men

a. Tea or you…which get hot soon?b. Tea or you – which get cooler soon?c. Please decide on answer, who is better. Tea or you?

11. 4 types of anger a. Like ice cream (lasts for few minutes)b. Like vegetable (lasts for few hours)

c. Like Murraba ( made of raw mango) (lasts for months to year)d. Like a building (which is permanent) (lasts for years)

12. Few people say they get anger but just for 2 minutes. But that is equally damaging. a. Earth quake is for 3-10 seconds, makes a huge damage & losses. b. Few seconds of sleep while driving can be responsible for an accidentc. 5 minutes of storm can make a city dirty

13. 4 T – One needs to avoid a. getting angry (temperature), b. Watching too much TVc. Keep Talking and d. Keep saying all the time “tasty”

14. Suggested to try for 1 day, 3 days, 8 days, 11 days , 30 days, a year to avoid anger, keep cool, be mature