![Page 1: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/1.jpg)
How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror
Becker Morgan Group Inc.
April 1, 2017
Joe Tye, CEO and Head CoachValues Coach Inc.
Copyright © 2016, Values Coach Inc.
![Page 2: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/2.jpg)
Your first product is a better you.
![Page 3: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/3.jpg)
“Being in business is not about making money. It’s a way to become who you are.”
Paul Hawken: Growing a Business
![Page 4: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/4.jpg)
Set a goal so big that you can’t achieve it until you grow into the person who can
![Page 5: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/5.jpg)
![Page 6: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/6.jpg)
![Page 7: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/7.jpg)
![Page 8: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/8.jpg)
![Page 9: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/9.jpg)
![Page 10: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/10.jpg)
You will never exceed the expectations that you set for yourself.
![Page 11: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/11.jpg)
You will never exceed the limitations that you place on yourself.
![Page 12: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/12.jpg)
![Page 13: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/13.jpg)
Success and failure won’t change you...
They will make you more of who you already are.
![Page 14: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/14.jpg)
![Page 15: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/15.jpg)
![Page 16: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/16.jpg)
![Page 17: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/17.jpg)
3 things that disempower your lion
![Page 18: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/18.jpg)
Disempowering source #1
Low self-esteem
![Page 19: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/19.jpg)
Low self-esteem is one of the most potent weapons YOWE has to prevent you from thinking big and acting on your dreams
![Page 20: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/20.jpg)
Everyone experiences this at least some of the time –
Even big shot CEOs at big companies (except at that level it’s called Imposter Syndrome)
![Page 21: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/21.jpg)
Low self-esteem is often an excuse for not trying
![Page 22: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/22.jpg)
Low self-esteem can keep you glued
to TV…
![Page 23: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/23.jpg)
When your best self would be taking night school classes
![Page 24: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/24.jpg)
Disempowering source #2
Self-limiting beliefs
![Page 25: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/25.jpg)
Self-limiting beliefs are the impediments you place upon yourself
![Page 26: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/26.jpg)
Old Young Broke
The Terrible Too’s
![Page 27: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/27.jpg)
Or whatever other excuse fits
No one would support me
I don’t have the skills
I don’t have time
The Big But’s
![Page 28: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/28.jpg)
You must believe you are capable of achieving your authentic goals and >>>>>>>>
![Page 29: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/29.jpg)
That you deserve to enjoy the fruits of your
success
![Page 30: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/30.jpg)
“Argue for your limitations and, sure enough, they are yours.”
Richard Bach: Illusions
![Page 31: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/31.jpg)
Disempowering source #3
The negativity of others
![Page 32: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/32.jpg)
Never allow the emotional vampires to drag you down
![Page 33: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/33.jpg)
At all costs avoid the company of negative people
![Page 34: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/34.jpg)
How to see the Lion in Your
Mirror – 7 Strategies
![Page 35: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/35.jpg)
Strategy #1
Get very clear about your personal values
![Page 36: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/36.jpg)
What are your values?
![Page 37: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/37.jpg)
![Page 38: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/38.jpg)
![Page 39: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/39.jpg)
The goals you achieve
The contribution you make
The person you become
![Page 40: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/40.jpg)
Will be determined by the values that
guide your life
![Page 41: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/41.jpg)
Strategy #2
Make fear your ally
![Page 42: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/42.jpg)
Fear is the most serious of all learning disabilities!
Edward Hallowell: Worry
![Page 43: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/43.jpg)
The absence of fear is not courage!
![Page 44: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/44.jpg)
The absence of fear is…
![Page 45: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/45.jpg)
No Fear, No Courage…
![Page 46: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/46.jpg)
Big Fear, Big Courage…
![Page 47: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/47.jpg)
![Page 48: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/48.jpg)
Anxiety
Fear
Worry
![Page 49: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/49.jpg)
Anxiety
![Page 50: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/50.jpg)
![Page 51: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/51.jpg)
Three bad things happen when you in the thrall of anxiety…
![Page 52: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/52.jpg)
Bad Thing #1
Memory is distorted: past successes seem small and insignificant while past failures seem huge and certain to be repeated.
![Page 53: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/53.jpg)
Bad Thing #2
Perception is distorted: the dangers facing you are blown out of proportion while you underestimate the resources you have.
![Page 54: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/54.jpg)
Bad Thing #3
Vision is distorted: you cannot see the possibilities for a great outcome because you are so fixated on images of doom.
![Page 55: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/55.jpg)
Anxiety tries to become fear.
Paul Tillich: The Courage to Be
![Page 56: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/56.jpg)
Fear
![Page 57: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/57.jpg)
Fear can paralyze or it can catalyze
![Page 58: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/58.jpg)
You’ve heard that the acronym F.E.A.R. stands for Fantasized Evidence Appearing Real.It also stands for…
![Page 59: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/59.jpg)
Fabulous Excuse for Avoiding Responsibility
![Page 60: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/60.jpg)
Are people afraid of change?
![Page 61: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/61.jpg)
![Page 62: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/62.jpg)
Confront your irrational fears
![Page 63: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/63.jpg)
Worry
![Page 64: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/64.jpg)
Worry is like paying interest on a debt that you probably don’t even owe!
![Page 65: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/65.jpg)
Toxic worry is abuse of the God-given gift of imagination!
![Page 66: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/66.jpg)
![Page 67: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/67.jpg)
Strategy #3
Make adversity your teacher
![Page 68: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/68.jpg)
Every great accomplishment was once the “impossible dream” of a dreamer who simply refused to quit when things got tough.
![Page 69: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/69.jpg)
“It’s not what happens to you it’s what you do about it.”
W Mitchell
![Page 70: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/70.jpg)
Everything can look like a failure in the middle!
![Page 71: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/71.jpg)
![Page 72: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/72.jpg)
“Brick walls are not there to stop you, they are there to make you prove how much you want something.”
Randy Pausch: The Last Lecture
![Page 73: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/73.jpg)
The walls are not optional
![Page 74: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/74.jpg)
Letting them stop you is
![Page 75: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/75.jpg)
How much do you
want it?
![Page 76: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/76.jpg)
Once more into
the breach!
![Page 77: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/77.jpg)
77
Strategy #4
Erase the malignant echo of negative self-talk
![Page 78: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/78.jpg)
Negative self-talk is telling yourself lies…And then believing those lies to be true.
![Page 79: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/79.jpg)
The most important speech any of us ever give (the one you were never trained to give) is...
![Page 80: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/80.jpg)
![Page 81: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/81.jpg)
81
What is the first word a child learns to say?
![Page 82: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/82.jpg)
![Page 83: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/83.jpg)
For a variety of evolutionary reasons, the human mind automatically gravitates toward negative, frightening and depressing thoughts.
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi: The Evolving Self: A Psychology for the New Millennium
![Page 84: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/84.jpg)
Experts refer to ANTs – automatic negative thoughts
![Page 85: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/85.jpg)
Psychologists say that up to 80% of self-talk is negative – and that we can abuse ourselves at a speed of 400 words per minute!
![Page 86: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/86.jpg)
You would never tolerate anyone else speaking to you the way you allow your spoiled inner brat to get away with.
![Page 87: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/87.jpg)
Like graffiti on a subway car – after a while you don’t notice it
![Page 88: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/88.jpg)
You might even think it’s beautiful
![Page 89: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/89.jpg)
But…
![Page 90: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/90.jpg)
The Inner Child is shadowed by an Inner Spoiled Brat
![Page 91: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/91.jpg)
The split personality of your Inner Spoiled Brat
![Page 92: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/92.jpg)
If only we won the lottery!
![Page 93: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/93.jpg)
You don’t deserve to win the lottery!
![Page 94: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/94.jpg)
94
A crucial point!
That voice will always be in the second person. It’s not you talking!!!
![Page 95: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/95.jpg)
“I’m not good enough”
![Page 96: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/96.jpg)
You’re not good enough
![Page 97: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/97.jpg)
Why is that?
![Page 98: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/98.jpg)
![Page 99: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/99.jpg)
99
Three steps for using the power of Metaphorical Visualization™ to erase the graffiti of negative self-talk:
![Page 100: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/100.jpg)
100
Step #1
Visualize the words as clearly as you possibly can as graffiti that has been scrawled on the walls of your mental attic.
![Page 101: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/101.jpg)
![Page 102: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/102.jpg)
![Page 103: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/103.jpg)
103
Step #2
Visualize a janitor (The Janitor in Your Attic™) painting over the graffiti and replacing it with positive affirmations.
![Page 104: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/104.jpg)
![Page 105: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/105.jpg)
Step #3
Replace the bad lies you tell yourself about yourself with good lies about yourself…
![Page 106: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/106.jpg)
![Page 107: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/107.jpg)
You can rewire the hardware by reprogramming the software!
![Page 108: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/108.jpg)
108
Caveat!
For your challenge to your Spoiled Inner Brat to be credible you must also take action if what Brat says is factually accurate.
![Page 109: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/109.jpg)
109
Strategy #5
Make your body play a constructive part in that inner dialogue…
![Page 110: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/110.jpg)
Your body tells your mind how you feel…
![Page 111: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/111.jpg)
Power Posing
![Page 112: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/112.jpg)
How your mouth tells your mind what to think…
![Page 113: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/113.jpg)
![Page 114: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/114.jpg)
Smile from the outside in and you’ll eventually be smiling from the inside out.
![Page 115: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/115.jpg)
Strategy #6
Create memories of the future
![Page 116: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/116.jpg)
Then put foundations under them.
Build your castles in the air…
Thoreau
![Page 117: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/117.jpg)
You can remember the future more clearly and more accurately…
Than you can remember the past.
![Page 118: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/118.jpg)
118
The difference between wishful thinking and positive thinking…
![Page 119: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/119.jpg)
119
Wishful thinking is hoping for something and waiting for someone else to make it happen.
![Page 120: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/120.jpg)
120
Positive thinking is expecting something and working to make it happen.
![Page 121: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/121.jpg)
Do you read your horoscope?
![Page 122: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/122.jpg)
Joe’s Youroscope
Surprising good news will come to you from out of the blue – but it will be disguised as an unpleasant chore so pay attention…
![Page 123: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/123.jpg)
Joe’s Youroscope (contd.)
What will at first seem like an incidental conversation with a stranger will evolve into a wonderful client relationship and personal friendship
![Page 124: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/124.jpg)
Joe’s Youroscope (contd.)
A worry that has been keeping you awake at night will prove to have been interest on a debt that you do not owe…
![Page 125: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/125.jpg)
Joe’s Youroscope (contd.)
Call a friend, call a prospect, and call your Mom.
![Page 126: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/126.jpg)
![Page 127: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/127.jpg)
Strategy #7
Take to heart the seven promises of The Self-Empowerment Pledge
![Page 128: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/128.jpg)
Seven Simple Promises That Will Change Your
Life*
* One for each day of the week.
![Page 129: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/129.jpg)
![Page 130: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/130.jpg)
If you’ve been waiting for someone else to empower you, you should know that…
![Page 131: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/131.jpg)
No one can empower you but – YOU – and once you have empowered yourself…No one can take that power away.
![Page 132: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/132.jpg)
If you knew it would change your life for the better – profoundly and permanently – would you invest …
![Page 133: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/133.jpg)
A minute a day for the next 365
days
![Page 134: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/134.jpg)
Would you give up one television commercial a day for a year to change your life?
![Page 135: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/135.jpg)
You
bet!If your answer is yes, here’s what you need to do.
![Page 136: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/136.jpg)
Every morning start your day by making that day’s promise – which will take you about 15 seconds.
![Page 137: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/137.jpg)
Repeat the promise again in in the middle of your work day.
![Page 138: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/138.jpg)
Once more before you leave for home.
I am responsible,
accountable, and
determined!
![Page 139: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/139.jpg)
And one more time right before you go to bed.
![Page 140: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/140.jpg)
4 x 15 seconds = 1 minute
![Page 141: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/141.jpg)
Repeat these promises
like you really mean
them!
![Page 142: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/142.jpg)
Let’s take a look at the seven promises…
![Page 143: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/143.jpg)
Monday’s Promise: ResponsibilityI will take complete responsibility for my health, my happiness, my success, and my life, and will not blame others for my problems or predicaments.
![Page 144: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/144.jpg)
Tuesday’s Promise: AccountabilityI will not allow low self-esteem, self-limiting beliefs, or the negativity of others to prevent me from achieving my authentic goals and from becoming the person I am meant to be.
![Page 145: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/145.jpg)
Wednesday’s Promise: DeterminationI will do the things I’m afraid to do, but which I know should be done. Sometimes this will mean asking for help to do that which I cannot do by myself.
![Page 146: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/146.jpg)
Thursday’s Promise: ContributionI will earn the help I need in advance by helping other people now, and repay the help I receive by serving others later.
![Page 147: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/147.jpg)
Friday’s Promise: ResilienceI will face rejection and failure with courage, awareness, and perseverance, making these experiences the platform for future acceptance and success.
![Page 148: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/148.jpg)
Saturday’s Promise: PerspectiveThough I might not understand why adversity happens, by my conscious choice I will find strength, compassion, and grace through my trials.
![Page 149: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/149.jpg)
Sunday’s Promise: FaithMy faith and my gratitude for all that I have been blessed with will shine through in my attitudes and in my actions.
![Page 150: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/150.jpg)
![Page 151: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/151.jpg)
![Page 152: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/152.jpg)
Here’s WHY it works…
![Page 153: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/153.jpg)
You keep promising yourself that you will be responsible, accountable, and determined; make a contribution, be resilient in the face of adversity, have a positive perspective, and that your faith will shine through.
![Page 154: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/154.jpg)
Then you catch yourself whining and complaining, procrastinating, gossiping, blaming others for your problems, taking when you should be giving, and pretendingthat you have no power.
![Page 155: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/155.jpg)
Cognitive Dissonance
![Page 156: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/156.jpg)
Which is trying to simultaneously hold two incompatible beliefs
I am responsible,
accountable, and
determined! It’s not my fault,
they did it to me,
this is so unfair.
![Page 157: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/157.jpg)
At that point, one of two things MUST happen. Either you take the easy way and stop making the promises…
![Page 158: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/158.jpg)
Or you keep making the promises until you begin to change your attitudes and yourbehaviors.
![Page 159: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/159.jpg)
And as you do that, you will begin to achieve better results in every dimension of your life.
![Page 160: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/160.jpg)
Read these seven promises one more time…
![Page 161: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/161.jpg)
Ask yourself these two questions…
![Page 162: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/162.jpg)
Question #1:
If you personally were to take these seven promises to heart, would you be better off than where you are headed now – personally, professionally, financially, and spiritually?
![Page 163: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/163.jpg)
Question #2:
If everyone where you work made a good faith effort to live these seven promises, would you do a better job of serving customers and of supporting each other?
![Page 164: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/164.jpg)
If your answer to these two questions is…
And if you’re being honest, that’s what your answer will be.
![Page 165: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/165.jpg)
Then why wouldn’t you invest those 365 minutes in yourself? Do it, because no one can empower you but you.
![Page 166: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/166.jpg)
Will you give up one minute a day with…
![Page 167: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/167.jpg)
And one last thing…
Let me introduce you to the person you once were
![Page 168: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/168.jpg)
![Page 169: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/169.jpg)
![Page 170: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/170.jpg)
![Page 171: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/171.jpg)
![Page 172: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/172.jpg)
![Page 173: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/173.jpg)
![Page 174: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/174.jpg)
![Page 175: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/175.jpg)
![Page 176: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/176.jpg)
![Page 177: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/177.jpg)
![Page 178: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/178.jpg)
![Page 179: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/179.jpg)
![Page 180: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/180.jpg)
![Page 181: How to Energize the Lion in Your Mirror for Becker Morgan Group](https://reader035.vdocument.in/reader035/viewer/2022062901/58f2023a1a28abd33b8b4607/html5/thumbnails/181.jpg)
Wouldn’t it be nice to become that you again?