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How to Stop a Bully
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Bullying hurts, it’s ok to cry.
• It hurts to have someone be mean to you. So go ahead and cry it out, but then learn how to handle bullying.
• There are techniques that will help you learn not to internalize the hurtful words.
• Remember - bullying is more about the bully than the victim.
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1st Identify bad behavior!
• Make sure someone knows their behavior is hurting you and it is not cool. Just say, “hey, that hurts when you say that”.
• Most bullies feel that bullying is fun and makes them look cool and that it is not really harming anyone.
• It is important you let someone know when they have crossed the line and that they are being mean and not funny.
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Don’t whisper or spread rumors.
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Don’t pass notes
• It may be an innocent message, but notes can make others feel bad, besides that kind of behavior interrupts learning.
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Avoid using mean words. They hurt all of us.
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Who gets targeted?• Kids that get bullied the most are seen as
“whiners” and “complainer”.
• Don’t be a “pick on me” kid.
• Learn to tolerate others.
• Look for solutions to problems don’t just complain.
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What not to do with a bully
• Don’t retaliate.
• Do not react with the same emotions.
• That will get you into trouble.
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Learn ways to respond to a bully
• Respond to a bully by using a neutral response such as:
• “Hmm, so that’s how you see it.”• “It’s good to know you feel that way.”• “Thanks for letting me know.” • “Is that really how you feel”?
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You deserve to feel safeabout being yourself at school.
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If you feel bullied and can’t tell an adult, tell a friend.
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When an adult is needed.
• If the bullying is extreme that is always a time for an adult to step in!
• Anytime violence occurs or is possible you need to speak out!
• If you are afraid tell a friend.• If you know of an extreme case tell
someone.
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I do not tolerate bad behavior.
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Practicing Positive Behavior
• I want you to feel safe in my classroom. • Together, we are a community.• We are all important. • We won’t have time for bad behavior.• There will be a lot of things for us to
celebrate throughout the year.• So let’s get started…
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Here’s to a great year!
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