Download - People think about you
People think about youAll the Time!
How do you feel when…. Someone yells during the movie you are
watching?
Someone throws a tantrum in the middle of a store you are in?
A student gets really upset over a small problem, such as breaking a pencil?
How do you feel when…..Someone says “good job” to you?
Someone sits calmly and quietly next to you on the van?
A student gives you a compliment?
Expected vs. Unexpected Expected behaviors- following the rules of a
situation Ex. sitting quietly in a movie theater
Unexpected behaviors- don’t follow the rules of a situation
Ex. yelling to your friend in the middle of the movie
How do these behaviors make people feel?
Expected vs. UnexpectedClip-Boy Meets World Pilot 2:24- 4:46
Classroom BehaviorExpected Behaviors Unexpected Behaviors
Pick any social situation Expected Behaviors Unexpected Behaviors
Good thoughts/ Weird thoughtsPeople are constantly having thoughts about
you- When you are sitting quietly- When you are eating your lunch- When you are talking
• Each of us can make people have good or weird thoughts about us by how we behave
• Complete worksheet
Review Worksheet and ClipReview, from worksheet, things that make
you have good thoughts about people
Watch clip- Elf
Fill out thought bubble for what the person is thinking about the other person’s behavior
Why is it important to know that people think about you?Have good or weird thoughtsMight give you a reputation for doing or not
doing somethingMight affect if they want to be around you
How we react to problems affects how people think about us and act towards us
For example….If people think we act expected and have
calm reactions,
If people think we are over-react and act unexpectedly,
Size of the problemLevel 1 and 2- small problems- Things that make you uncomfortable (ex.
bumping into a person)
Level 3- more serious problem- A small injury, losing a cell phone
Level 4 and 5- problem that upsets a lot of people and causes physical pain or money problems
How do we react? It’s important to figure out how big a
problem is because if you over-react, others feel awkward, uncomfortable, or annoyed
How much emotion should we let out when you are upset and how much much is supposed to stay in?
What are you thinking about this person?http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/2403831/t
he-last-oreo-on-earth
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0g-d0f6i3KE (4.52- 7:54- Boy meets world pilot)
What’s the size of the problem?1. Corey- not being able to go to the baseball
game on Friday
2. Kid not getting an Oreo on top of his cupcake
1-5 ScaleComplete worksheet providing 2 examples
for each level of the problem
Review 1-5 scale problems
5 4 3 2 1
1-5 Scale Continued….New Project- Make a poster labeling level 1 to 5 problems- Glue picture next to the level of the problem
Classroom 1 to 5 scaleReview of level of the problem
How big Appropriate of a problem? Reaction
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1-5 Scale• Read comic:
- What’s the level of the problem?
- How big is her reaction?
- What could she have done instead?
Over-reactionsAnswer first 2 questions on worksheet
Watch clip and complete worksheet
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8bJT_ddJEUQ&feature=relmfu
Review Over-reactions WorksheetWhat over-reactions did you see to small
problems?
What over-reactions did you see to things that made someone happy or excited?
1-5 Scale ProblemsWatch clip and identify problems that “The
Extremes” over-react to
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=03Nh7Rq96aY
On your worksheet,1. Write in problems we identified on the board2. Then complete the level of the problem and
one appropriate reaction for each problem
Let’s see what you have learnedComplete Problem Rating Scale
independently
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