““Equallyoked”Equallyoked”In a multicultural societyIn a multicultural society

““Endogamy” Endogamy” • Endogamy means, “In-marriage” … is when an

individual according to his/or her own social customs… (Comment: this maybe more like cultural community health principle, such as, a ‘social mores’ or also, an actual religious ‘law’)….

• ….marries an another individual within his or her own cultural “Social group”*.

• *Note; a “Social group” may be a village, a tribe, a sect or cult, a…region, or a de facto ‘Civil identity’, etc.

EquallyokedtarianismEquallyokedtarianism

•  The concept of…

…‘Equallyokedtarianism’ amongst a very diverse multicultural population is central to scientific human ecology, the biopsychosociocultural evolution of global civilization, and the conservation of ‘true’ humanitarianism…

UN/World Health OrganisationUnpublished Scientific Papers

EquallyokedtarianismEquallyokedtarianism

•  The concept of…

…‘Equallyokedtarianism’ amongst a very diverse multicultural population is central to scientific human ecology, the biopsychosociocultural evolution of global civilization, and the conservation of ‘true’ humanitarianism…

UN/World Health OrganisationUnpublished Scientific Papers

““Social Mores”Social Mores”

• “Social”…refers to…associating in a ‘social way’, i.e., “folkways”, socializing, socialization,.

• “Mores ” …that of moral codes, mental health values, valued standards of behaviour, spiritual ideologies,..

• * Also; positive customs, proper conduct/ good etiquette, health behaviours/ positive norms, and a healthy lifestyle.

• Use in a Sentence: “Their family abided in good social mores that reflected their sense of integrity.”

““Civil Identity”Civil Identity”• Ancestry• Ethnicity• Disability

– Mental– Physical

• Race & Color• Age• Gender

• Political Party• Familiar Status• Marital Status• Religion

– Beliefs– Creed

• Source of Income• Sexual Preference• Arbitrary

- Components of “CIVIL IDENTITY”

““Civil Identities” Civil Identities”

• Ethnicity: Euro-American • Political Party: Republican• Race: Anglo, Color: Light• Religion: Christian • Disability: None Known• Age: 21 1/2• Gender: Male• Sex Preference:

Heterosexual • Marital Status: Single

Couples who share the same (or very similar) ‘civil identities’ and, recognize, identify with, believe in, bond together and marry who are living in a multicultural society are considered ‘equallyoked’.

• Ethnicity: Euro-American • Political Party: Republican• Race: Anglo, Color: Light• Religion: Christian • Disability: None Known• Age: 21 • Gender: Female• Sex Preference:

Heterosexual • Marital Status: Single

Example 1 Example 2

Why “Equallyoked”? Why “Equallyoked”? • Motives - a couple who are ‘equallyoked’ may do

so for a variety of reasons - some of which include: • Beliefs about-

– Life, self-image, truth and God, death, etc. – Bonding for long term love, romance, and sex. – Marriage, family/children, and financial goals.

• Self esteem – individuals with a clear sense of ‘self’ -marrying someone of a ‘like’ civil identitycivil identity.

• Family identity – to maintain the integrity and the longevity of the extended family identity.

• Social mores – a preserved cultural standard in a multicultural society for the sake of community (biopsychosociocultural) health.

Psychosocial Health Psychosocial Health • As a Public Health Issue, it is true that Equallyokedtarianism

is a true social mores – and a phenomena observed amongst the most conservative segments of a very diverse multi-cultural society.

• Marriage Family and Child Psychology addresses the ‘self-esteem’ of the individuals who are (or aren’t) equallyoked as an important issue in mental health/ emotional health/ and self-preservation/ of the integrity of extended family identity.

• As a Civil Rights issue, justice of the peaces- as civil servants performs marriage ceremonies attaching a signature should be held responsible as attesting to the competence (or incompetence) of the individuals present while performing marriages as a community (psychosocial) health matter.

Marriage TherapyMarriage Therapy• In Marriage & Family Therapy: The ‘equallyoked’

couple is guided into a win-win problem-solving resolution of each individuals issues…

• Anticipating the collaboration skills that an ‘equallyoked’ couple needs in order to handle differences in a diverse multicultural society…

• The M/F Therapist mediates: New skills for keeping the emotional tone between the ‘equallyoked’ couple - happy and loving. No anger, depression, or anxiety and Therapeutic, sharing of affection, words of appreciation, hugs and smiles.

Some Schools Suggested• Liberty U., Lee U., Houghton Coll., Southern Adventist U., Johnson U.,

California Lutheran U., Northland Coll., Milligan Coll., Coll. of the Ozarks, Cedarville U., Anderson U., Samford U., Bryan Coll., Corban U., Hendrix Coll., Southwestern U., Centre Coll., Bethel Coll., Central Coll., Eastern U., Belmont U., Luther Coll., Eastern Mennonite U., Southern Methodist U., Macalester Coll., Muhlenberg Coll., Gustavus Adolphus Coll., George Fox U., Southeastern U., Emory U., St. Olaf Coll., Dordt Coll., Hope Coll., Roberts Wesleyan Coll., Concordia U., NE, DePauw U., Whitworth U., Lafayette Coll., Wittenberg U., Taylor U., Abilene Christian U., Sewanee-U.of the South, Valparaiso U., Texas Christian U., Ohio Wesleyan U., Franklin Coll., Ouachita Baptist U., U. of Mobile, Gordon Coll., Covenant Coll., California Baptist U., Millsaps Coll., Goshen Coll., Allegheny Coll., Union U., Westmont Coll., Waynesburg U., Biola U., Wheaton Coll., Regent U., Presbyterian Coll., Baylor U., Davidson Coll., Rhodes Coll., Transylvania U., Pepperdine U., Wofford Coll., Oklahoma Baptist U., Indiana Wesleyan U., Trinity U., Asbury U., Hanover Coll., Chapman U., Messiah Coll., Nebraska Wesleyan U., Illinois Coll., Augustana Coll. – SD, Point Loma Nazarene U., Erskine Coll., Augsburg Coll., Calvin Coll., Azusa Pacific U., Concordia Coll., U. of Evansville, North Central Coll., Vanguard U. of SoCal, Seattle Pacific U., Oklahoma Christian U., Patrick Henry Coll., Albion Coll., LeTourneau U., Oral Roberts U., John Brown U., Oklahoma City U., Wartburg Coll., Alma Coll., U. of Tulsa, Grove City Coll., Belhaven U., American U.

- The Study of Theoretical Equallyokedtarianism-as Bible Truth

““Equallyoked”Equallyoked”In a multicultural societyIn a multicultural society

Copyright: 1999 - Used By PermissionCopyright: 1999 - Used By Permission