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It’s Time for Purim Mishloach Manot!

On Purim, we emphasize the importance of community and tzedakah by sending Mishloach Manot, which are gifts of food to friends and family to foster relationships and create a sense of community, as well as helping the needy. Bags are $5.00 each and order forms will be mailed soon. Donations Wanted: If you or someone you know has a business and is able to donate goodies for our gift bags, please contact the synagogue office. Volunteers Needed: Volunteers are needed to stuff bags on Sunday, February 26 at 10:00 a.m. in the library. Drivers Needed: to deliver bags around the community on Sunday, March 4.

Interested in helping? Email us at [email protected]

February 2012 • Volume 26 • Issue 2 A Reform Congregation Embracing Our Jewish Tradition

News & Happenings from Temple Beth Tikvah

Purim Events Cover

Shabbat Shirah Page 3

One Congregation, One Book Page 3

Nominations for TBT Board Page 3

Remembering Rabbi Levine Page 5

URJ Mitzvah Day Page 5

Rabbis Round Table on Israel Page 5

College Connection Page 7

B’nai Mitzvah Page 7

Recycle with ECEC Page 7

B’not Torah Pages 8—10

Rosh Chodesh Women’s Spiritual Group 1

Seniors Luncheon with guest, Rabbi Donald Tam Page 11

Men’s Club goes to Gwinnett Gladiators Game Page 11

Food of the Month Page 13

Contribution Reports Pages 14 - 17

Jewish Disability Awareness Month Events Page 18

A Look Inside

Our Gates

The TBT Sisterhood Presents…

Purim Carnival 2012Purim Carnival 2012

Sunday, March 4 from 12 - 2:00 p.m. Put on your Costumes and join us after Religious School for a joyous celebration of fun & games including face painting, a bounce house, Little Red Barn Petting Zoo, and NEW activities for 2012!

Pizza, Drinks and Hamentashen will be on sale. Unlimited Play Wristbands!

$10 TBT Member Advance price $15 Non-Member or at the door price

Adults and kids 2 & under are free!

Registration forms will go home with your child on Sunday, February 12th and will also be passed out to our ECEC students. If your child is not attending our school programs, please contact Wendy Schmitz at [email protected] for a registration form—you don’t have to be a member or have a child in our school to attend!

Volunteers Needed: Ages 10 and older are needed to help with games, crafts and

food. Please contact Wendy Schmitz at [email protected] with questions

or to volunteer. To bake cakes for the cake walk, please contact Maria Schwartz at

[email protected].

Come hear the story

of Queen Esther!

Megillah Reading & Purim Shpiel

Wednesday, March 7 at 7:00p.m.

Bring your groggers, wear your costumes… It’s Purim time again!

Join us for a wonderful multi-generational celebration as we hear the story of Queen Esther, Mordechai and mean Haman (booo!!!) and share some hamantashen.

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Addiction in the Jewish Community

Min Hameitzar Karati Yah In distress I called onto God. (Psalm 118)

I remember the day when I was first confronted with a congregant who was sharing about a spouse’s addiction. I had no idea. Now, that seems to be a silly statement. To say, “I had no idea” almost implies like I should have been able to tell because I was a rabbi. My conversation with the spouse related to a request for support.

At the time…I didn’t have much to offer. I had no books. I was unable to think of any sources for inspiration. I was a recently ordained rabbi and while I surely knew that there were people with addictions in the Jewish community… I never met any. Or, to be more precise, I didn’t know who might have been.

That has all changed. As I settled into my rabbinate over the past ten years, I have shifted a lot of my energy from programming and organizing to advancing healing and wholeness. In faith communities, there are plenty of things that folks just don’t want to talk about. Addiction is one of them. As a result, folks often feel like they cannot go to or depend on their clergy to support them in what seems to be an issue out of their realm.

I would like to say that I am proud of our synagogue’s leadership for acknowledging the need in the Jewish community to have a safe place to go to talk about addictions. We are one of the few synagogues in the country to host a 12-step meeting. We are host to a local Families Anonymous group, supporting families who love someone with an addiction. Not everyone who comes is Jewish, but many are – from within our synagogue community and from other congregations.

But now I would like to ask you to help me break the taboo of silence and shame about confronting addiction in the Jewish community. Jewish Family & Career Services is beginning to look at its own clinical offerings for individuals in recovery. Our own congregant, Jeff Fain, is working to develop a new non-profit organization called Nachshon to support Jewish families and individuals confronting addiction.

Along with Nachshon, TBT will be hosting Rabbi Mark Borovitz as a Guest Scholar. Rabbi Borovitz has been in the trenches, not just as a community rabbi who serves as the spiritual leader of the Beit T’Shuvah recovery program in L.A., or even as the rabbi of their congregation, but as someone who turned to a life of crime at a young age, who served his time in prison, only to emerge as a transformed

human being who became a rabbi. He is going to be our teacher and I invite everyone to join us – whether you or someone you love faces an addiction or not.

Look at the schedule of events to see where you can join me to learn from Rabbi Borovitz, hear his story, and be inspired to help transform the lives of all who are in the darkness of addiction.

In Psalms, it says Min Hameitzar Karati Yah – “In distress I called onto God.” The term hameitzar has the same Hebrew root as Mitzrayim – Egypt. When we are in distress, when we are in an Egypt (sometimes an Egypt of our own making), we can find hope if we can call out to God for help. When our neighbors, friends and family members call out from hameitzar, we can serve as God’s agents and lend a hand. Join me in doing so…

Rabbi Mark Borovitz, senior Rabbi and spiritual leader of the Beit T’Shuvah recovery program and synagogue in Los Angeles, is the author of “The Holy Thief: A Con Man’s Journey from Darkness to Light,” which chronicles his journey from a con man to Rabbi and community leader. He will discuss the issues of addiction, co-dependency and related harmful behaviors in the Jewish community. Rabbi Mark draws attention to the problem of addiction and to the powerful ammunition against it, both in counteraction and prevention.

Rabbi Borovitz will speak to the metro Atlanta community on Sunday, February 12, 2012 at 7:00 p.m. at Temple Beth Tikvah. This event is co-sponsored by JF&CS and Nachshon, a new community resource. RSVP is required: [email protected].

Additional opportunities: Parents and students in grades 8-12: Monday night, February 13 at 7-8:30 p.m. Location: Temple Beth Tikvah RSVP: [email protected] Other religious schools will be invited

Jewish Mental Health Professionals and Addiction Counselors: Tuesday, February 14 at 10-11:30 a.m. Location: Jewish Family & Career Services, 4549 Chamblee Dunwoody Road, Atlanta 30338 www.yourtoolsforliving.org RSVP: [email protected] A closed program for Jewish professionals who are licensed social workers, psychologists, psychotherapists, addictionologists, addiction counselors and psychiatrists



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NOMINATING COMMITTEE ANNOUNCEMENT

As we are now into the second half of our school/fiscal year, it won’t be long before we host TBT’s Annual Congregation Meeting and select a new Board of Trustees. A majority will be continuing in their existing terms, but we do have a few slots to fill.

Per TBT’s Constitution, the Nominating Committee is requesting the Congregation submit recommendations for Officers and members of the Board of Trustees. The Nominating Committee shall prepare a slate of its recommendations and then submit to the current Board of Trustees for Approval, then vote by the Congregation at the Annual Congregation Meeting. As a result, if you have any suggested candidates, please email Andy Goldstrom at [email protected] no later than February 29, 2012 (yes, it is a leap year this year). Please indicate whom you would recommend, whether it would be for an Officer or Board position and why you think they would be a good candidate. Andy will follow-up directly with everyone who makes a recommendation. Note that Officers need to have served on the Board of Trustees previously. Thank you.

Andy Goldstrom and Bart Schwartz Co-Chairs, Nominating Committee


SHABBAT SHIRAH (Sabbath of Song)

TBT’s 6th Annual Celebration of Jewish Music

Saturday, February 4th 4:30 – 6:00 p.m.

S’EUDAT SH’LISHEET Please bring a dairy nosh to share

MUSIC with our Cantor, Rabbi, Choirs & instrumentalists

HAVDALAH

Notes from Cantor Kassel

One Congregation, One Book - Cantor Kassel to Review My Jesus Year Thursday, February 16 at 10:00 a.m.

An odd title for a synagogue book review, but I’m sure you’ll enjoy reading this book, possibly identify with the author’s quest, and certainly appreciate the candor and humor with which Benyamin Cohen writes. Taken from http://www.myjesusyear.com/media/ -“One day a Georgia-born son of an Orthodox rabbi discovers that his enthusiasm for Judaism is flagging. He observes the Sabbath, he goes to synagogue, and he even flies to New York on weekends for a series of “speed dates” with nice,

eligible Jewish girls. But, something is missing. Looking out of his window and across the street at one

of the hundreds of churches in Atlanta, he asks, “What would it be like to be a Christian?”

So begins Benyamin Cohen’s hilarious journey that is My Jesus Year -- part memoir, part spiritual quest, and part anthropologist’s mission…. By year’s end, to Cohen’s surprise, his search for universal answers and truths in the Bible Belt actually make him a better Jew.

BEGINNING HEBREW FOR ADULTS

starts Sunday, February 5 at 11:00 a.m.

This class is open to any adult who finally wants to learn Hebrew beginning with the first letter of the Hebrew Alef-Bet (alphabet). However long it takes, we will work our way through the alphabet and before you know it, you’ll be able to follow along with the Hebrew in services!

Just show up. I’ll provide you with materials. Class meets on Sundays when Religious School is in session.


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Many of you know that I believe strongly that engagement of all of us in synagogue life is critical to the future of not only Temple Beth Tikvah, but to Judaism itself. While at home

during the winter holidays, I had the opportunity to begin to sift through the many webcast topics from the December URJ Bienniel Conference in Washington, DC. One of the topics especially caught my eye, “Campaign for Youth Engagement: Committing to the Jewish Future.” I learned that Youth Engagement has been adopted by the URJ as a major intense initiative.

The title sparked my interest because it cited this theme of “Engagement” that I think is critical for our synagogue’s future, & it seemed to focus on “youth” as well. Some have heard me say that “if a young person feels really connected to the synagogue, it is natural that his parents would want to maintain that membership because (1) it is important to their child, and (2) even when the child leaves home, the parents feel connected to that which provided connection for their child.” I even believe this is true in an indirect manner. A particular family unit in a synagogue may not have their own children, but if they sense that for the congregation’s children the synagogue is vibrant, feeds and nurtures its youth, and promotes securing the future of Judaism and synagogue life, then observing this sense of connection yields a sense of hope and well-being for the community as a whole - whether or not one has children in the home.

I listened to the entire webcast, from start to finish and found the words of Rabbi Jonathan Stein of Temple Shaaray Tefila, New York City, very poignant. I want to share with you some of his thoughts. He states the issues, and thus our obligation, far better than I.

“There is an underlying theme and issue at the heart of the struggle to successfully engage our youth, and this is it. Teens and parents cannot identify what is the value added to their lives from being Jews. If the synagogue means that it is a place for you, for your kid, to celebrate a Bar or Bat Mitzvah and have a party why would you stay connected afterwards. Why would you stay when the last one in your family goes through this rite of passage. But, if …the synagogue is a place where you see good friends, where people care about you, where you get to learn and grow and give back and stay connected, then the choice will be obvious. [. . .] I know from my (36) years in the rabbinate, that it is relationships and community that keep people involved and connected.”

Temple Beth Tikvah, in keeping with a Jewish way of thought, has a long history of viewing the children of the congregation as the children of us all. This is why it was never the intent of our congregation that Religious School fees would cover the total costs of Religious School. It was always felt to be important that the community as a whole, the synagogue as a whole, feel the responsibility of educating our youth. So too is it our responsibility as a synagogue community to ensure that we create and provide a community that helps people feel connected -- both youth and non-youth alike.

My wish for you and for us as a synagogue community is that you find your connection. Partake in that one something that might have meaning for you.

Come share in an adult education experience (we’re even talking about offering an interactive video “skype”-type adult ed. session! You’ll be able to learn a bit with others from the comfort of your home or office.)

Worship with us on a Friday evening or Saturday morning

Let’s have Shabbat Dinner together at our Fridays with Friends (next one is February 3rd!)

Volunteer in the Religious School or the Early Childhood Education Center

Assist with the seniors’ luncheon

Let the Sisterhood know you want to help with the Purim Carnival

Rabbi Tony Hammond, of Bromley Reform Synagogue of London shared the following with his congregants.

“In the case of our own shul, we need to bear in mind that Bromley Reform Synagogue ‘makes’ Jews in South East London and North Kent . Just as Abraham is reported in the Torah as ‘making’ souls, so does our shul - and not at all exclusively in providing a rabbi and a community which, together, allow people to convert to Judaism. Bromley Reform Synagogue makes the Jews who live in this part of the world Jewish, in the sense that it is the means by which Jewish values can be enacted communally, Torah can be studied communally, children can be taught, as is said in our Shema,

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News and Happenings from Temple Beth Tikvah

Shalom Chaverim - שלום חברים

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Shalom Chaverim continued

and people can take upon themselves the yoke of the kingdom of heaven, that is, accept the duties of our commandments. So much can be passed down in the home, but in our times Judaism in the home depends more and more on Judaism in the synagogue.”

You know, so too is it here at Temple Beth Tikvah that Jews are made, that Jewish souls are nourished and it is you, the Jewish souls of this community, that make Temple Beth Tikvah. One does not live without the other.

May you step through the shul’s doorways and find your Jewish self nurtured here.

Shalom,

Steven C. Gerson President

Interim Rabbi, Temple Beth Tikvah, 2004 – 2006

לברכה צדיק זכר

May the memory of the righteous be a blessing

The Board of Trustees and many of our members would like to remember Rabbi Levine in a meaningful way. As many of you know Rabbi Levine was an ardent supporter of Israel; and, in fact was buried there. The Board feels honoring Israel, youth and education is a very fitting tribute to Rabbi Levine.

Temple Beth Tikvah will be collecting donations to be sent to Atlanta’s sister region in Israel, Yokneam-Meggido. A large portion of this community are Ethiopians who are slowly being absorbed into Israeli society. TBT will designate that these funds are used for higher educational aide for needy students.

If you would like to be part of this tribute to Rabbi Avi Levine, please send your checks to the Temple Beth Tikvah office no later than March 1, 2012. Please indicate that this donation is for the Rabbi Levine Tribute.

Remembering Rabbi Avi Levine

Bernstein Starr Greene

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What can Temple Beth Tikvah’s Early Childhood Education Center offer your family?

All of our students should have received their report cards by the time you read this message. In reading each and every report card, I was pleased to see how well our students are doing with our curriculum. It always makes me proud to see how hard our students and teachers are working and how much emphasis they put into the religious school classroom. Thank you to our dedicated teachers who make our religious school program as great as it can be.

Confirmation letters for 2014 B’nai Mitzvah dates have been mailed. The excitement over date choices had people rushing in with their forms. I am pleased to report that nearly all of our students received one of their date choices. If your child is eligible for a Bar/Bat Mitzvah during the year 2014 and you have not yet chosen a date, please call as soon as possible so we can be sure your child has a date set aside for him/her.

Our next Shabbat and Family Service is taking place on Friday, February 10th. On this day our 4th grade students will accompany Rabbi Greene and Cantor Kassel. They will be joined by their teachers, Robin Karlin, Carolyn Lippman, Marla Ramaglia, Michelle Rodabaugh, along with our dedicated music teacher, Lara Rozenman. Please join our students for this very meaningful service.

Our Family Education Days in February are scheduled for Sunday, February 5th for the 3rd graders and Sunday, February 12th for our 7th grade class.

On Tu B’Shevat we celebrate the new year for the trees. This is a time for growth and life. It is so wonderful that we acknowledge this meaningful day, rejoicing in the beauty of nature and the growth of the tree. Every year at Temple Beth Tikvah we celebrate by eating many fruits and nuts from trees. Tu B’Shevat will be celebrated in Sunday School on Sunday, February 5th. It is a nice holiday to celebrate in our synagogue with the students for several reasons. It is a less acknowledged holiday outside of Israel so to bring it to our students is very meaningful and rewarding for us all.

On January 29th Camp Coleman and 6 Points Sports Academy did presentations on their camps. It is important for our children to attend Jewish camps during the summer in addition to their regular religious school. Studies have shown that children who attend summer camp have a deeper appreciation of their Jewish identity as well as helping to strengthen their Jewish bonds.

Hassia Levin

Religious School Education Director

Our Early Childhood Education Center offers our children a priceless opportunity at a Jewish “head start” in school and in life. Our curriculum integrates all the holidays, Jewish values, traditions, symbols, and holidays. The synagogue itself becomes more than a place of worship, it becomes their second home. Our teachers incorporate secular lessons of colors, numbers, and letters into Jewish themes. We use a multi sensory approach to learning, where children learn best by using all of their senses. Our teachers offer a caring, loving, and stimulating environment where your child learns at his/her developmental rate and level.

Most importantly, learning at Beth Tikvah’s Early Childhood Education Center goes above and beyond academics, it involves developing character, building relationships with others and with God, and building positive self-concepts.

For our families, we offer a place where families can worship, learn, pray, and play together. We welcome our families to attend our synagogue’s programming. Whether it is our Sukkot services, Simchat Torah celebrations, Shabbat Shalom Yeladim dinners and services, or adult and parent education, we encourage our families in our Early Childhood Education Center to become involved at a level of their comfort.

Registration for the 2012-2013 school year has begun! Come see our dynamic program and what sets us apart from the rest!

Please let me know if you or someone you know is interested in our Early Childhood Program, I would be delighted to give you a personal tour. Feel free to contact me at [email protected] or call me at 678-350-0076.

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Youth News

RECYCLE+REDUCE+REUSE=REPAIR

Together we “CAN” make a difference!

Temple Beth Tikvah’s Early Childhood Center wants

your aluminum cans!

What do I have to do? All you have to do is save your aluminum cans and put them in our new recycling bin located in the back parking lot. We will continue to do this throughout the year, so stock up on sodas!!

Why should I do it? By doing this simple deed, you will be helping the ECEC as we earn money back from what we collect, but most importantly you will be helping our world and creating a better place for our children. It is so easy and it is a great lesson in Tikkun Olam, repair of our world.

When should I send in my cans? Send in one or send in a bunch– it doesn’t matter how many or when!

Can I send in other recyclables? We are only collecting aluminum cans.

College Students to Receive Care Packages for Purim

The College Outreach Committee will be sending care packages to our college students for Purim. Please let us know if your college student has changed their address since the fall or if you have not yet given us your college student’s address. Please email Lynda Bennett at [email protected] or Ginger Glazer at [email protected] with this information.

In the fall, we sent care packages to 45 of our college students. The packages contained the Jewish music CD “18 on 18” (by Dan Nichols and Eighteen), school supplies, Starbucks samples, coupons for Domino’s pizza, and candy. In addition, freshman received the book Jewish U which discusses how to incorporate Judaism into ones college years.

Most of the package items were donated, and we would like to thank the following donors for their generosity: Merri Robinson and Dan Nichols of Jewishrock.com, Copy Atlanta, John Hancock, Target (5950 State Bridge Road), Starbucks (4180 Old Milton Parkway), and Domino’s Pizza (10955 Jones Bridge Road). Also, we would like to thank TBT member, Rhonda Schweber for her assistance in procuring the book Jewish U.

We are planning on sending out the Purim packages in late February or early March. Please contact Lynda or Ginger if you can help us assemble the care packages.

B’nai Mitzvah

Olivia Morgan Goldstein will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on February 11, 2012. She is the daughter of Jennifer and Neil Goldstein and sister to Sophia. Olivia is a 7th grader at Hightower Trail Middle School where she is an Honor Roll student. Olivia plays competitive tennis and attends Stephan Diaz Tennis Academy. Olivia enjoys volunteering and working with children. Over the years, she has volunteered at Atlanta Food Bank, Medshare, TBT and Camp Chai.

Zachary Gordon Hall will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on February 11, 2012. He is the son of Susan Gordon and Richard Hall and brother to Joshua. He is the grandson of Florence Gordon and the late William Gordon, Stanley Gordon of Boca Raton, Florida and Glen and Dee Hall of McMinnville, Tennessee. Zach is a 7th Grade Honor Roll student at Dodgen Middle School where he plays the bassoon in the band and alto saxophone in the sax ensemble. He loves running and participates in competitive tennis. As part of Zach’s Mitzvah projects, he volunteered at TBT’s High Holy Day Experience and Operation Isaiah. Zachary is glad to spend his special day with so many friends and family.

Nathan Buffington will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah on February, 25, 2012. He is the son of Mara and Don Buffington and brother to Audra. He is the grandson of Murray and Glory Nadelle of Woodstock, Georgia, Janice McNeal of Atlanta, Georgia and Don and Pat Buffington of Atlanta, Georgia. Nathan is blessed to spend time with Great Grandparents Madge McNeal of Roswell, Georgia and Buffa and Don Buffington of Atlanta, Georgia and MaryAnn Yeargin in Summerfield, Florida. Nathan is in the 7th grade at The Davis Academy where he participates in cross country, Math Counts, Debate Team and is the 2011-2012 Geography Bee School Champion. He enjoys reading and hanging out with friends.



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B’not Torah

“I understand that one must face his own truth and be willing to stand up for what he believes.”

(Erika Eberhardt)

“I, too, listened to that voice which kept urging me on, even when I wanted simply give up; I took a deep breath and kept going.” (Charlene Milstein)

“When my three children had their Bat and Bar Mitzvahs, I felt bad that I could not read along…I promised myself one day would be my turn to learn.” (Helene Skolky)

Every once and a while we experience something that is deeply meaningful...that is extraordinary...that touches in a way that is not part of our normal day to day experience. For me, it is always a plus when it is tied to my Judaism, and especially when it is tied to my synagogue.

This happened to me on Shabbat morning, January 14, 2012, 19th of Tevet, 5772, ֵטֵבת תשע״ב (״ט בְּ ).

Three very special women, members of our synagogue family were called to the Torah as B’not Torah (Adult B’nai Mitzah). Erika Eberhardt, Charlene Milstein and Helene Skolky never knew how to read Hebrew, never knew trope. Some grew up having been surrounded by the sweet sounds of both, one had not. Each of them for different, yet not surprisingly, for very similar reasons, knew that pursuing the Jewish mandate to “find a teacher” and study, was one they were compelled to do. And they did. Erika, Charlene and Helene studied with Cantor Kassel for a three year period beginning with sounding out “aleph, bet, gimmel, daled...” Through their three years of study, not only did they master learning to read Hebrew, but they learned the prayers of Shabbat worship, learned to read from the Torah, learned trope for their respective parashat and chanted their respective Haftarah portions.

When our 13 year-old children are called to the Torah for the first time as a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, many times their D’var Torah relates to the week’s Torah portion and its meaning for them as they look to their futures growing into adulthood. Their visions are quite prospective. The lessons they bring to us from their understanding of Torah reflects their own short history, and greatly reflects their view forward as they see the world as it should be.

Like our community’s 13 year-olds, when Erika, Charlene and Helene were called to the Torah for the first time they too each shared a D’var Torah with the congregation, and of course their lessons from the Torah for us reflected a much longer personal history than that of a 13 year-old.

Their lessons helped us each be reflective and personally look back harder and deeper; they helped us look forward with the experience of having looked back, and in a special way helped us look within.

Please join me in wishing a hearty Mazel Tov to Erika, Charlene and Helene on becoming B’not Torah. Their D’vrei are to follow. Ladies: It is with much joy that your Beth Tikvah family embraces you and congratulates you for your dedication and the inspiration you have provided to us all.

Siman Tov u’Mazel Tov!

Steven C. Gerson President

Acceptance, Courage, and Compassion So I am sure you know the story of Moses being sent as a baby down the river. Pharaoh's daughter was cleansing her-self by the river and saw that there was a baby in the basket, so she sent her attendants to get the basket. She saw that the baby was different, not an Egyptian but a Hebrew child. She was so drawn to the child she decided that she had to keep him as her own. Pharaoh’s daughter raised the baby as an Egyptian prince and she named him Moses, which means "For I drew him out of the water."

I want to focus for a moment on Pharaoh's daughter's compassion. Imagine, her father had ordered all Hebrew baby boys to be killed, and here she has found a Hebrew baby floating in the river. The text says that she took pity on him. What was it that made her defy her father's wishes? What drew her to the baby so much? How was she able to have compassion for someone that she is supposed to despise? Some say that Pharaoh’s daughter easily went along with her father's decrees, but it was not until she came upon the innocent Israelite baby that she was able to have empathy and compassion with the Hebrew people. There are other commentaries that suggest Pharaoh's daughter felt like an outsider among her own people and had been questioning the idolatrous practices of the Egyptians. Why else would a princess need to go to the Nile to bathe? Surely her servants could retrieve water for her. There is something here that suggests she was not just at the river to bathe, but she was actually there to immerse and cleanse herself from the idolatrous and murderous practices of the land.

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When Pharaoh's daughter saw the baby and had compassion for him, she had already identified with the Israelites in her heart. The Midrash suggests that Pharaoh’s daughter converted and received the Hebrew name Batya which means daughter of God.

Something I reflected on was Pharaoh's daughter’s courage. Just as she had the courage to stand up for what was right, I too had to gain the courage to be able to stand before you here today. As someone who converted to Judaism not so long ago, I often feel as though there is just so much to learn. There were and still are lots of concerns and questions that I have, just as there is always some-thing to feel insecure about. I could not imagine that I would be here celebrating this moment of becoming a “Bat Torah”. This task seemed so great, but I was motivated because it is something I wanted to be able to do. I truly believe education is something that no one can take away from you. So I decided that I needed to get educated in the language of prayer. When I converted I told myself that I needed to learn Hebrew, so that I could be able to fully participate in the service. I have learned that in taking Hebrew and studying with the Cantor, that no task is too big. I and my 2 other colleagues often needed lots of encouragement, but in the end through hard work and with God’s help, we were each able to accomplish something that is very meaningful to us.

Some other important themes in this Torah portion are civil disobedience and liberation. I understand that that one must face his own truth and be willing to stand up for what he believes. God was able to use Pharaoh's daughter to help in the redemption of Israel. We can't even imagine how things would have turned out if she had given into self doubt and fear or even if she decided to go along with the laws of the land because she was trying to be a good citizen. It has been said that Pharaoh’s daughter feared God more than she feared Pharaoh, which is why she was able to make the decisions that she did. If God was able to use Pharaoh's daughter for something so important and miraculous, imagine if we open ourselves up to the possibility of God, how special our everyday lives could be.

Erika Eberhardt

At sometime in our lives, everyone is asked to do some-thing they have difficulty in doing. I am sure that all of you find many chores challenging but if given proper help and advise, can accomplish them.

Today, has been that kind of challenge for me. Like Moses, when God asked him to return to Egypt and lead the Jews to freedom, he felt much self doubt and fear. Could he accomplish it? I too felt that I would never be

able to accomplish reading and chanting Hebrew.

Three years ago, I spoke to Rabbi Greene and asked if there was a way for someone to teach an adult Hebrew class starting in "Pre K". By Rosh Hashanah a class was formed with Cantor Kassel at the helm. Again like Moses I got through the first year and really had to force myself to continue. What if I can't ever learn this? After all, this is a whole new language - with letters that are symbols and dots and dashed that mean something. What will happen if I say the word incorrectly? What if I say "eh" instead of an "oo"? I just don't think I can do it.

Just ask my family, along with my classmates and Cantor, they had to listen to me complain of my inabilities. But, somewhere in the background I kept hearing someone or something saying - you can do this - you are going to become a Bat Torah. And as God spoke to Moses, I truly believe He spoke to me.

Like Moses, who overcame his fear and led the Jewish people out of Egypt, I too have conquered my fear.

With the help of the clergy, my classmates and God, I worked hard to overcome what seemed an insurmountable challenge. Like Moses, I overcame tremendous self-doubt. It is our nature as human beings to think that the task before us is too much to handle. But Moses listened to God and followed the Divine voice.

I, too, listened to that voice which kept urging me on, even when I wanted to simply give up, I took a deep breath and kept going.

And like Moses, I remain humble before God, thankful for the blessings of this community and everyone who supported me in this journey.

May we all—together—continue to follow in the footsteps of our ancestors, - learning from the Torah, of their trials and tribulations, as well as the sweet moments of success. It is my hope that my own experience, so different from Moses, - yet also similar, might inspire someone else to listen to that voice inside you. May we grow from strength to strength together. Shabbat Shalom.

Charlene Milstein


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In the Torah portion Shemot when Moses approaches the burning bush, God speaks to him from the flames and tells him to return to Egypt to free the Israelites from bondage. Moses has fear that the people will not believe him, because he is not a good speaker.

Just like Moses, this journey for me to learn Hebrew and study Torah has come with a lot of self doubt and fear.

When Moses is told by God to speak to Pharaoh and say “Let my people go”, Moses claims he is tongue-tied and cannot do what God asks…

Well I know what it is like to live in fear, be very shy and be very afraid of things that I have never done before also.

There are so many parallels between my Bat Torah Torah portion, Shemot, and my life. This portion kicks off the reading from the 2nd book of the bible, Exodus. I grew up in a religious family, where only my brother was allowed to go to Hebrew school. It was extremely rare for a female to have a Bat Mitzvah.

I always had a thirst for learning about women in Judaism, and also learning Hebrew.

When my three children had their bat and bar mitzvahs, I felt bad that I could not read along.

I knew our synagogue’s melodies for the songs just from memory.

I promised myself one day would be my turn to learn.

Between working and raising three children in New Jersey, there was no time for me to learn.

A few years ago my family and I moved to Atlanta.

When we went to services at Beth Tikvah, I knew two things. One thing I knew was I wanted to belong here. The second thing I knew was this was where my journey would start.

I introduced myself to Cantor Kassel and told her how I wished I could read Hebrew.

Two months later it all began. I was enrolled in Hebrew One.

It is now 3 years later, and with a lot of fear and self doubt which I have had many times along the way, I am thrilled and amazed that I learned Hebrew, and I can chant from the Torah.

My whole life I have been a caretaker, doing for others.

Today, I have learned Hebrew and Torah for myself.

Thank you so much to Cantor Kassel for her continuous love and support these 3 years. Thank you to Rabbi

Greene for encouraging me not to give up.

To my two colleagues, Charlene and Erika, it has been amazing studying with both of you, and I am so glad we have met.

Last but not least to my wonderful family who constantly listened to me chanting, crying, and complaining:

They never let me falter.

My final message is just like Moses, believe in yourself, and age is just a number, and never give up on your dreams.

Helene Skolky

Let’s Talk About Israel!

Curious About What Rabbi Greene and Other Local Rabbis Think About Current Israel Affairs?

The Israel Committee has formed a discussion group on Israeli Affairs, both political and cultural. Participants are provided with timely articles from the Israeli and other press on which to base our discussions. Our next meeting will be on Thursday evening, February 2, 2012, when Rabbis Fred Greene, Michael Bernstein, and Adam Starr join us at TBT to lead a discussion and share their views on current Israeli affairs. If you want to know what your Rabbi is thinking, don’t miss this!

Join ARZA!

ARZA (www.arza.org) is the sole organization within the reform movement exclusively focused on strengthening the connection between American Reform Jews and Israel. If you want to express your commitment to the Jewish people and Israel, support Reform values in Israel, and strengthen your personal connection to Israel, please consider joining ARZA. The dues are only $36/year, with $2 retained by TBT to support Israel programming in the synagogue. Contact the synagogue office to join.

Gene Carasick Chair

http://www.arza.org/

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Rosh Chodesh Women’s Spiritual Group

Spirituality is the nutrient of the neshama (soul). Celebrate your feminine spirit and its link to the Hebrew calendar.

(TBT Women of all ages and knowledge are welcome.)

Join us on Wednesday, February 1, from 7:00-8:30 p.m. in the Oneg room.

*Reserve these future dates: Wednesday, March 7 for PurimPurimPurim with TBT! April 11 - Rosh Chodesh Nisan and Women’s Seder

May 2 - Iyar and Sivan

7:00 - 7:30 p.m. - We will begin with gentle yoga/stretch/breathing to unwind and focus on the meaning of the Hebrew month of SHEVAT. (If you have physical limitations, have no fear. You can participate sitting in a chair.) If you can't arrive until 7:30 p.m., you can join us then.

7:30 - 8:15 p.m. - We will focus on an activity that enables us to connect to the meaning of SHEVAT… A Time to Plant. Hear and discuss the story of Tamar, whose name means “date palm tree.” What do we need to sustain us? What do we need to prune away?

8:15 - 8:30 p.m. - Focused meditation and relaxation.

What to bring - A candle in a container and a yoga mat if you have one. Wear comfy clothes.

For more information, contact Pam Chanin at [email protected]

Tickets are discounted to

$15.00 in the premium area.

Based on previous years demand, please email us to reserve your spot at [email protected]. Checks should be made out to TBT Men’s Club and mail them to the TBT office.

For questions or more information, contact Rob Kremer by phone at 770-410-9998 or by email at [email protected].

Social Action in Action

Speak up, judge righteously, champion the poor and the needy. (Proverbs 31:9)

People who are oppressed and poor and who cannot plead for themselves nor pay others to plead for them need us to speak for them. Proverbs 31:9 is a teaching that God expects us to speak up on behalf of the vulnerable in our society to government legislators who make the civil laws that we live by. Poverty and hunger in our country and state have increased significantly. You can join the great tradition of Jewish social justice advocates from Moses to Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel who spoke truth to power to enact just laws or to oppose unjust ones.

If you are interested in being part of a TBT delegation or for more information please contact Jeff Willard at [email protected] or call 770-886-1704. No experience is needed. We will train you.

Rabbi Donald to Headline Seniors Luncheon

Monday, February 13, 2012 11:30 a.m. lunch and program

We are pleased to congratulate Rabbi Tam on his paper published in the Central Conference of American Rabbis Journal of Reform Judaism. His article was on Dr. Werner Weinberg, a professor at the Hebrew Union College who was instrumental in the reintroduction of Hebrew into the Modern Reform Synagogue.

Please join us as he tells the story of this unusual man. You don't want to miss this outstanding program.

All are welcome!

Please RSVP to Ruth Zeidman at 770-552-1966



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Tuesdays, February 7, 14, 21 and 28 Tai Chi at 9:30 a.m. Join the caring committee as they share in the art of relaxation through Tai Chi. Contact Esther Shultz for more information.

The Gift Shop is open during Religious School the following hours: Tuesdays from 5:00 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. Sundays from 9:30 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.

The synagogue staff will be happy to


Caring Committee

Saturday, February 4 Parashat Beshalach Shabbat Service at 10:00 a.m. Shabbat Shirah Celebration - 4:30 p.m.

Friday, February 10 Candle Lighting 5:59 p.m. Oneg Shabbat at 6:00 p.m. Family Shabbat Service - Hosted by the 4th Grade at 6:30 p.m.

Saturday, February 11 Parashat Yitro Shabbat Service 10:00 a.m. B’nai Mitzvah of Olivia Goldstein And Zachary Hall

Friday, February 17 Candle Lighting 6:05 p.m. Shabbat Service 8:00 p.m.

Saturday, February 18 Parashat Mishpatim Shabbat Service at 10:00 a.m.

Friday, February 24 Candle Lighting 6:12 p.m. Shabbat Shalom Yeladim 6:00 p.m. Shabbat Service at 8:00 p.m.

Saturday, February 25 Parashat Terumah Shabbat Service 10:00 a.m. Bar Mitzvah of Nathan Buffington

Gift Shop Hours

Sunday, February 19 at 7:00 p.m. Organizational Meeting for Relay for Life

Tuesday, February 21 at 7:30 p.m. Board of Trustees Meeting

Wednesday, February 21 at 7:30 p.m. Social Action Committee Meeting

Tuesday, February 28 at 7:30 p.m. TBT Officers Meeting

Meetings

Seniors Luncheon

Networking

Thursday, February 2 at 7:30 a.m. Business to Business Networking RSVP: [email protected]

Monday, February 13 at 11:30 a.m. Seniors Luncheon Join the Seniors for their monthly pot-luck lunch with special guest, Rabbi Emeritus Don Tam. Please RSVP to Ruth Zeidman. All are welcome!

TBT Happenings for February 2012

Sisterhood

Wednesday, February 1 at 7:00 p.m. Women’s Rosh Chodesh Spiritual Group Join your moon sisters for an evening of conversation and relaxation

RSVP: [email protected]

Volunteers Needed for Purim Carnival on March 4 from 12-2:00 p.m. Ages 10 and older are needed to help with games, crafts and food. Help also needed to bake and donate cakes for the cake walk. Please contact Wendy at [email protected]

Men’s Club

Sunday, February 12 at 3:15 p.m. Gwinnett Gladiators “Player” Experience space is limited.


Choir

Tuesday, February 7, 14 and 28 at 7:30 p.m. TBT’s choir will be having rehearsal in the sanctuary. If you are interested in joining our choir, please email Cantor Kassel.

Mishloach Manot

Sunday, February 26 at 10:00 a.m. Mishloach Manot Gift Bag Project Volunteer some time while your children are in religious school. We need help putting together all of these gift bags in time for Purim!


AJFF

February 8—29, 2012 Atlanta Jewish Film Festival For details on films, locations, dates and times, brochures are located in main lobby.

Shabbat

Friday, February 3 Candle Lighting 5:52 p.m. Fridays with Friends - Congregational Shabbat Dinner at 6:30 p.m. Shabbat Service w/Choir at 8:00 p.m.

Shabbat continued

Thursday, February 2 at 7:30 p.m. Rabbi Roundtable on Israel Joins us as local rabbi’s discuss their commitments on Israel from a Reform, Conservative and Orthodox prospective.

Thursday, February 2, 9, 16 and 23 at 10:00 a.m. Seniors for Enriched Living (SEL) Journey Through Genesis with Rabbi Greene at RUMC. You must register with SEL to attend.

Adult Learning

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Friday, February 3 at 12:00 p.m. ECEC VIP Shabbat

Monday, February 20 No ECEC Classes

Early Childhood Ed.

News and Happenings from Temple Beth Tik-

Healing

Submissions for the

March KT are due

to the synagogue

office on February 1. [email protected]

Religious School

Religious School Class Dates: Sundays, February 5, 12 and 26 Tuesdays, February 7, 14, 21 and 28

Sundays, February 5, 12 and 26 CAFÉ tikVAH Kibbitz and schmooze while your children are in class!

Sunday, February 5 at 9:30 a.m. Family Education Day for 3rd Grade

Sunday, February 12 at 9:30 a.m. Family Education Day for 7th Grade

Monday Nights - Post B’nai Mitzvah: Kesher - February 6, 13 and 27 Confirmation - February 6 and 13 Kivunim - February 6, 13 and 27

Mondays, February 6, 13, 20 and 27 Families Anonymous at 7:00 p.m. Interested in learning more? Contact Jeff at [email protected].

Sunday, February 12 at 7:00 p.m. Rabbi Mark Borovitz, COO and Spiritual Leader of Beit T’shuvah in L.A. Join us for this important presentation and discussion on Faith, Addiction and the Jewish Community. (Doors will open at 6:00 p.m.—this event is open to the community.

Sunday, February 19 at 9:00 a.m. URJ Mitzvah Day Join in with the Atlanta Area Reform temples for a day of Mitzvot. The day will begin at The Temple on Peachtree Street in Mid-town. To register, go to www.templesinaiatlanta.org.

TBT Happenings for February 2012

Saturday, February 4, 11, 18 and 25 from 9:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m. B.L.T. - Bagels, Learning and Torah Join Rabbi Greene every Saturday for an in-depth look into the Torah. Starting with Genesis, this group goes through the Torah one verse at a time.

Sunday, February 5, 12 and 26 at 9:30 a.m. Shacharit Morning Minyan Join us for morning prayers.

Sunday, February 5, 12 and 26 at 11:00 a.m. w/Rabbi Don Tam - Exploring the Worldview & Thought of Our Major Prophets, and Their Message for Today

Sunday, February 5, 12 and 26 Beginning Hebrew - Level I with Cantor Kassel

Monday, February 6, 13, 20 and 27 at 7:15 p.m. - Melton I - Purposes of Jewish Living

Monday, February 6, 13, 20 and 27 at 7:15 p.m. Melton Alumni - Jews in America: Insiders and Outsiders

Thursday, February 16 at 10:00 a.m. One Congregation, One Book - A Book Reading with Cantor Kassel - My Jesus Year: A Rabbi’s Son Wanders the Bible Belt in Search of His Own Faith by Binyamin Cohen

Thursday, February 16 at 7:15 p.m. Women’s Study Group -Dreamgirls of Jewish History: Ancient Babes and Middle Age Mammas with Rabbi Judy Beiner as the facilitator.

Sunday, February 19 at 10:30 a.m. Open Doors, Open Minds: An Interfaith Learning and Sharing Experience in Roswell at Zion Missionary Baptist Church

For a copy of our Adult Learning brochure, contact the office or go to www.bethtikvah.com/study/adults/

Healing cont.

One to One Support Looking for support? We can partner you with a congregant who has experienced a similar situations such as illness, divorce, loss of a loved one and other life crises. Contact the synagogue office for more details.

Adult Learning cont.

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Annual Turkey Drive a Success!

I would like to say thank you to the following families whose generous contributions made the Turkey Drive a very successful endeavor. Together we raised $2856.00 and Temple Beth Tikvah was able to make sizable donations to both North Fulton Community Charities and Jewish Family and Career Services. Your generosity helped many families to enjoy the holidays this year. Please continue to donate to the Food of the Month Program. The Holidays may be over but the need continues. Thank you so much! Marsha Mathis

Pam Alterman Ellen & Lee Altschuler Tammy & Todd Antin Melissa & Dominic Arcaroli Teri & Steven Astren Wendy & Dale Bearman Anne & Paul Beckman Rebecca & Jonathan Bennett Cathy & Mark Berman Jeannine & Michael Bernstein Bernice & Bernie Bickwit Lily & Robert Bock Terry & Gene Carasick Danielle & Jason Cohen Arlene & Steve Cohn Holli & Gordon Decker Laura & Dan DeRiemer Dyann & Mitch Diamond Wendy & Gary Dichtenberg Nicole & Justin Dombrow Erika & Rodney Eberhardt Barbara & Joe Feinberg Donna & Elliot Feller Sheri & Andy Flink

Marci & Andy Fried RoseAnn & Steve Gerson Cindy & Ed Getty Florence Gordon Ivie & Harlan Graiser Deborah & Rabbi Fred Greene Anna & Michael Gutkin Marcia & Larry Haber Rebecca & David Halusic Traci & Peter Hartog Stacey & Larry Heit Alice & Sam Herndon Ellen & David Herold Katie & Jamie Jaffe Stephanie & Daniel Joseph Nidhi & Namia Joshua Jill & Brad Kaplan Cantor Nancy Kassel Myrna & Ed Kaye Gina & Warren Kellis Jessica & Hoc Kho Lindsay & Ron Levin Judy Levine Emily Lewit

Lisa & Hadley Lowy Phyllis & Ira Madans Lois & Sid Malkin Joan & Jonathan Marks Marsha & Jim Mathis Rebecca & Ernie Mattace Marsha & Tom McMurrain Debra & Jeff Otto Rachel & Ryan Palazzo Shirley & Saul Plotkin Stan Reich Ellen & Rob Rickles Molly Rosenfield Jules & Chad Salinas Paula Sandfelder Kathleen & Joel Schoenblum Robin & Mike Schorr Kara & Bart Segal Silke & Adam Shilling Ruth & Rob Shultz Esther & Walt Shultz Wendy & Bob Siegel Beth & Mark Silver Bert Silverstein

Nancy & Sandy Simon Anne & Larry Skal Fern & Marty Soniker Linda & Steve Steinberg Vicki & Fred Steine Karen & Corey Stern Anne & David Strauss Leslie & Ron Swichkow Adele & Bob Toltzis Randi & Kevin Tucker Carol & Bruce Waldman Bonnie & Bruce Walkes June Wallach Carol & Fred Warshofsky Loretta & Cliff Weiss Debbie & Mark Weiss Traci & Robert West Nancy White Dana & Bram Wieskopf Jeff Willard & Steve Mahan Rachel & Todd Wilson Janine & Jared Wiskind Marla & James Zackheim Ruth Zeidman

Life is a Cabaret, Old Chum, and TBT Came to the Cabaret!

“What good is sitting alone in your room? Come hear the music play. Life is a Cabaret, old chum,

Come to the Cabaret.”

The January 7th High School Reunion “Cabaret” was a rousing success with over 130 attending to hear fabulous Broadway hits, Barbara Streisand melodies and other toe-tapping tunes performed by four talented women - Cantor Nancy Kassel, Laura Patinkin, Courtenay Collins and Judy Cole. TBT’s Social Hall was transformed into a posh version of the Kit Kat Klub with abundant food and drinks. The standing ovation at the end of the show attests to the wonderful performances and the very special evening that was had by all. Thanks to EVERYONE who helped make this extraordinary event possible.

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Getting to know your TBT Family - Introducing The Mathis Family

TBT is a very special community comprised of generous families who donate, volunteer, work together, support each other and pray together in our spiritual home. Some of us have been here a few years and others for quite some time. Together we create the TBT Family. As we enter 2012, we want you to become a little better acquainted with your extended family.

Jim and Marsha Mathis are one of the original founding families of TBT, who helped build this special synagogue to enjoy with their children and grandchildren. And they have certainly achieved this goal - the Mathis TBT family now extends to three generations, including their two children, Ned and Rachel, and their grandchildren Carter (5), Nathan (4) and Aaron (2).

Marsha continues to be a generous TBT contributor and volunteer. She has been a member of the Board of Trustees several times, served as Secretary and Vice President, and has also been a Kol Tikvah editor. The list goes on and on! What is Marsha’s passion? Giving back to the Atlanta Community at large. She consistently rallies, promotes and supports all of TBT's food and coat drives. She sincerely cares about our neighbors.

What is the greatest gift Marsha has received from TBT? The amazing friends she has made over the years.

We thank the Mathis family for what they bring to TBT!

Thank You to this Past Months Bucket Campaign Contributors We would like to take this opportunity to list all of the contributors for our first quarter of our Second Year Bucket Projects Campaign. Thank you for your support as we work together to fulfill our mission and sustain a strong TBT. Contributions as of January 20, 2012

Shari & Barry Alhadeff Pam Alterman Anonymous Steve & Terri Astren Dale & Wendy Bearman Adam Beckman Jonathan & Rebecca Bennett Matthew & Sandra Bennett Gordon & Patty Berger Jonathan & Barbara Berger Mark & Cathy Berman Gerald Bilsky & Judith Tolkan Arthur Blank Kevin & Jodi Blechman Sheryl Blechner Mary & Scott Block Todd & Jennifer Boehm Gene & Terry Apt Carasick Lois Clymin David & Roberta Coad Sid Cojac Glenn & Tamah Cooper Stephanie & Mark Craig Holli & Gordon Decker Dan & Laura DeRiemer Michael & Dyann Diamond Gary & Wendy Dichtenberg Lucy & Louis Duer Paul & Lisa Antinore Duer Rodney & Erika Eberhardt

Audrey Eisen Daniel Ellison Alan Epstein Stuart Farber Dave & Dalia Faupel Elliot & Donna Feller &y & Marci Fried Rory & Jenifer Friedman Steve & RoseAnn Gerson Robert & Cindy Goldstein Florence Gordon Harlan & Ivie Graiser Bernard & Susan Greenberg Fred & Deborah Greene Michael & Anna Gutkin Scott & Sharon Guttman Larry & Stacey Heit Robert & Rachel Herman Mark & Alicia Hirsch Stephanie & Daniel Joseph Doug & Donna Kallman Barry & Barbara Kanter Brad & Jill Kaplan Nancy Kassel Ed & Myrna Kaye Andrea & Eric Lamberg Lampert Family Steven & Wendy Lenhard Ron & Lindsay Levin Emily Lewit

Janice & Steve Liederman Gary & Michal Loventhal Ira & Phyllis Madans Marcus Jewish Community Ctr. Jonathan & Joan Marks Tom & Marsha McMurrain Jay & Anita Myer Robert & Marcy Nader Jason & Melanie Pickett Ellery & Hildy Potash Rhonda & Scott Povlot Rob & Ellen Rickles Robert & Donna Schacher Joel & Kathleen Schoenblum Gary & Debra Schwartz Terry & Bill Schwartz Rhonda Schweber Robert & Ilicia Shapiro Lori Shapiro & Gary Goldenthal Ira & Brenda Share Lisa & Doug Schiffer Debra & Spencer Shilling Walt & Esther Shultz Sy & Nancy Simon Nancy & Sandy Simon Larry & Anne Skal Terry & Missy Stein Anonymous Barry & Denise Straus Roberta Strauss

Ron & Leslie Swichkow Lloyd & Gail Tate Bruce & Bonnie Walkes June Wallach Sheri & Ron Weiner Mark & Debbie Weiss Loretta & Cliff Weiss Doug Wexler & Jane Greenberger

Nancy White Ruth Zeidman Seth & Ellen Zimmer

Tributes

In memory of: Nathan Mangen ∙ Bruce & Bonnie Walkes Shirley Kaplan Sandi Altman ∙ Brad & Jill Kaplan Leonard Paul James Simon Robert Tam ∙ Nancy & Sandy Simon Michael Clymin ∙ Lois Clymin Joseph Cunix ∙ Larry & Anne Skal

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Contributions

Contributions thru January 20, 2012

Rabbi Greene’s Discretionary Fund

In memory of: Isaac Mamberg Kashmira Kiesel ∙ Mariann Mamberg and Bruce Turiansky Tillie Kapp Dorothy Kaye Jake Evensky Ida Sauer Mary Evensky ∙ Myrna and Ed Kaye Sallie Millman ∙ Carol and Elliot Millman Rabbi Avi Levine ∙ Lisa and Hadley Lowy Anna Mahan ∙ Steve Mahan Saul Migatz Beatrice Clymin ∙ Lois Clymin Leo Licht ∙ Ruth Hilson Hyman Paris ∙ Jill and Paul Paris Anne Pater ∙ Lois and Sid Malkin Connie Goodman ∙ Renee and Sy Davis In honor of: The birth of our granddaughter, Sara ∙ Gail and Irv Laddin Mathew becoming a bar mitzvah ∙ Risa and Jeff Fibus The beautiful singing of Rabbi Greene’s daughter, Leora at the 6th grade Shabbat ∙ Mickey Katz Rabbi Greene ∙ Nadine Duhaney Ron Gurin’s birthday ∙ Sue and Larry Ellison The birth of Eli Pepin ∙ Renee and Sy Davis In appreciation of: Rabbi Greene for officiating at Austin Gabriel’s baby naming ∙ Barbara and Andy Sacks

Rabbi Greene ∙ Cindy and Ed Getty ∙ Gailen and Russell Rosenberg ∙ Renee and Sy Davis Rabbi Greene for his caring and prayers ∙ Gail and Irv Laddin Rabbi Greene for housing our family Torah ∙ Marcy and Jerry Kaufman

Rabbi Tam’s Discretionary Fund

In memory of: Robert Tam ∙ Sam, Eddie, Liora and Amir Dressler ∙ Lois and Jay Barcus ∙ Bonnie and Bruce Walkes ∙ Florence Gordon ∙ Barbara and Jon Berger ∙ Fran and Gary Kamp ∙ Edna Adler ∙ Sara Baumwald ∙ The Residents of Hammond Glen ∙ Addie Myers ∙ Barry Kaiser ∙ Bernice and Bernie Bickwit ∙ Carol and Bruce Waldman ∙ Carol Shutzberg ∙ Ellen and David Herold ∙ Jane Greenberger and Doug Wexler ∙ Florence Nathanson ∙ Fran and Gary Kamp ∙ Suzanne and Howard Silverman ∙ Barbara and Jon Berger ∙ June Wallach ∙ Jackie and Larry Pepper ∙ Lois Clymin ∙ Fern and Marty Soniker ∙ Trudy and Marv Davis ∙ Mr. and Mrs. MJ Finck ∙ Pam Alterman ∙ Anne and Paul Beckman ∙ Paula Sandfelder ∙ Leslie and Ron Swichkow ∙ Ruth Zeidman ∙ Alice and Sam Herndon ∙ Sandy Hartman ∙ Renee and Sy Davis ∙ Esther and Walt Shultz Arthur Keyser ∙ Fern and Marty Soniker

Seymour Hart ∙ Bernice and Bernie Bickwit Tillie Kapp Dorothy Kaye Jake Evensky Ida Sauer Mary Evensky ∙ Myrna and Ed Kaye In honor of: The birth of our granddaughter, Sara ∙ Gail and Irv Laddin In appreciation of: Rabbi Tam for his caring and prayers ∙ Gail and Irv Laddin

Cantor Kassel’s Discretionary Fund

In memory of: Tillie Kapp Dorothy Kaye Jake Evensky Ida Sauer Mary Evensky ∙ Myrna and Ed Kaye Irving Cohen ∙ Wanda and Michael Cohen David Liederman ∙ Janice and Steven Liederman In honor of: Charlene Milstein on becoming a Bat Torah ∙ Linda and Leonard Sherman ∙ Sheila and Marty Rotter The High School Reunion Cabaret – it was most enjoyable ∙ Anne and Paul Beckman Jane Greenberger’s special birthday ∙ Addie Myers ∙ Carol Shutzberg Cantor Kassel ∙ Donna and Doug Kallman Erika Eberhardt becoming a Bat Torah ∙ Stephanie and Mark Craig The bar mitzvah of Matt Diamond ∙ Dyann and Mitch Diamond In appreciation of: Cantor Kassel ∙ Cindy and Ed Getty ∙ Risa and Jeff Fibus


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Contributions continued

Cantor Kassel’s Discretionary Fund continued In appreciation to: Cantor Kassel for your participation in our daughter, Elizabeth’s wedding ∙ Gailen and Russell Rosenberg A wonderful “Reunion” Cabaret concert ∙ Esther and Walt Shultz

Building Fund

In memory of: Robert Tam ∙ Sheryl S. Blechner In honor of: The birth of Melanie and Logan Cohen ∙ Sheryl S. Blechner The birth of Aubrey Leigh ∙ Sheryl S. Blechner The Bar Mitzvah of Michael Wynne ∙ Sheryl S. Blechner The B’not Mitzvah of Helene Skolky, Erika Eberhardt and Charlene Milstein ∙ Sheryl S. Blechner

Endowment Fund

In memory of: Robert Tam ∙ Anne and Larry Skal

General Fund

In memory of: Robert Tam Irving Holzman ∙ Deborah and Julian Isakow Ed Cleveland ∙ Carol and Bruce Waldman Dorothy Spielvogel Robert Tam ∙ Roberta and David Coad In honor of: My parents, Marilyn and Rabbi Don Tam, on their 40th wedding Anniversary ∙ Deborah and Julian Isakow The bar mitzvah of Adam Estroff ∙ Leigh and Mathew Nathan Charlene Milstein on becoming a Bat Torah ∙ Gloria and Bobby Miller ∙ Jeannine and Aaron Altmann

Campership/Israel Fund

In memory of: Ina Lieber ∙ Suzanne and Howard Silverman Louie Herbin Irving Pepper ∙ Jackie and Larry Pepper In appreciation of: Rabbi Greene ∙ Nadine Duhaney

Kehillat Chesed (Caring) Fund

In honor of: The speedy recovery of Doug Wexler ∙ Addie Myers Jane Greenberger’s special birthday ∙ Ruth Zeidman

Prayerbook Fund

In memory of: Albert Davis Lucy Waxman ∙ Renee and Sy Davis Rhonda Knowles ∙ Loretta and Cliff Weiss

Religious School/Education Fund

In memory of: Robert Tam ∙ Kathy and Mike Levin Hal Segal ∙ The Stoumen Family Claire Blumenthal ∙ Anne and Paul Beckman In honor of: Erika Eberhardt becoming a Bat Torah ∙ Kathy and Mike Levin Tom McMurrian’s 70th birthday ∙ Deborah and Julian Isakow

Religious School Scholarship Fund

In memory of: Seymour Hart ∙ David and Ellen Herold

Torah Fund

In memory of: Colonial Dr. Robert Tam ∙ RoseAnn and Steve Gerson

In honor of: The speedy recovery of Allan Apple ∙ Susan and Morray Scheinfeld

Zalkin Memorial Library Fund

In memory of: Mansour Ahlzadeh ∙ Ilana and Andy Zalkin Robert Tam ∙ Ilana and Andy Zalkin ∙ Wendy and Dale Bearman Ben Findley ∙ Jane Greenberger and Doug Wexler Michael Clymin Sara Harris Beatrice Clymin Saul Migatz ∙ Gail, Mark, Jeff and Steven Rudel

Please send all of your contributions to:

Temple Beth Tikvah 9955 Coleman Road Roswell, Georgia 30075

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In the Community

Jewish Disability Awareness Month

2011 Events & Awareness Programming

Kick-off Event – Free Movie Screening of Darius Goes West

Sponsored by the Coordinated Network for People with Disabilities

Sunday, February 6, 2011 - 1:00 pm – 3:30 pm, The Marcus Jewish Community Center of Atlanta The Coordinated Network for People with Disabilities, which is comprised of representatives of Jewish Family & Career Services, The Amit Program and The Marcus Jewish Community Center of Atlanta, is screening Darius Goes West. This movie documents the trip of Darius Weems and his crew, as they travel from Athens, Georgia to Los Angeles, California. The film documents accessibility challenges throughout the trip, and the friendship of Darius and his crew as they attempt to “pimp his ride”. ALL ATLANTA HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS AND THEIR FAMILIES ARE INVITED TO PARTICIPATE. Following the film, Darius will be speaking with us on Skype. There is no charge, but seating is limited so reservations are required. For reservations or more information, email [email protected] or call (404) 961-9966.

Atlanta Jewish Film Festival 2011

There are two films in this year’s Jewish Film Festival that highlight the lives of individuals with disabilities. They are: I’m Ready - Established routine plays a critical role in this moving relationship between an elderly father and his son. An Israeli Short Film (16 minutes), Hebrew with English subtitles. Sunday, February 20th – 11:45 a.m. and Sunday, February 27th – 11:15

Ingelore Filmmaker Frank Stiefel artfully compiles this moving tribute to his mother, a deaf Jewish woman who endures unimaginable isolation and suffering in Nazi Germany only to reclaim her dignity and freedom. English Documentary Friday, February 11th – 2:45 p.m.

The Taylor Family Speaker Series - Time Out for Parents Wednesday, February 9, 2011 from 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m David Alexander, M.S., L.P.C. - Mr. Alexander will talk on the importance of taking time for yourself when raising a child with special needs. At Congregation Beth Shalom

The HeArt of Giving - Sponsored by The Amit Program, February 12, 2011 at Worthmore Jewelers at 8:30 p.m. A night of art, entertainment and fun featuring the art of individuals with disabilities. For more information go to: www.amitatlanta.org

2011 Larry Bregman, M.D. Educational Conference - Sponsored by Jewish Family & Career Services - Reaching New Heights - March 5, Dance 7:30 p.m. (hosted by Down Syndrome Association) at The Selig Center March 6, Conference Registration 8:00 a.m., at The Selig Center - Bregman offers adults with developmental disabilities, their families and their caregivers the opportunity to learn about topics that might not be addressed in other venues. This symposium provides opportunities for participants to socialize with others who share their interests and needs in a unique conference atmosphere. For information, to register, or to volunteer, please visit www.bregman.org or call Brenda at 770-677-9345.

Disabilities Day at the Capitol - February 24, 2011 at the Capitol. For additional information, please visit the Georgia Council on Developmental Disabilities website: www.gcdd.org

The Rayim Connection - Dr. Jeffrey Lichtman, the National Director of Yachad will be visiting the Toco Hills community the weekend of March 4-5, to bring the message of inclusion to the community. He will be speaking in the Toco Hills shuls on Shabbos, as well as to the community motzei Shabbos and to Rayim Connection families (other families with children who have special needs are welcome to attend) Sunday morning. Many more details will follow.


http://www.bregman.org/

http://www.gcdd.org/

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By Marla Shainberg

For the third year in a row, I bundle up and head out to the Selig Center on a winter Sunday morning. Why would I choose to leave my house on a cold weekend at such an early hour? Because I am guaranteed to have a magical experience in an incredibly warm and inviting atmosphere. I get to join hundreds of spirited and upbeat folks for fun, food and fellowship.

Volunteers dressed in orange T-shirts start arriving early to make sure that breakfast items are put out, signs are hung, the registration table is organized and the bags full of goodies are ready to go for a very special group of people. As the mob of participants multiplies quickly, the whole building comes to life with a vibe of high energy, enthusiasm and inspiring human interactions.

I am a volunteer who looks forward to seeing my buddy from last year who hugs me and remembers my name and the sweet girl who shows me the matching bracelets she made for herself and her friend at the jewelry-making class. I feel a sense of exhilaration when I peek in the room during “Bregman” Idol and hear squelches of excitement as I watch the group dancing, singing and high fiving as they jam to the tunes. I am so proud of the group when the police-man passes by and raves about the interactive and inquisitive people he taught in his session about personal safety. As I help participants find their way to the next session, I am delighted to see one participant’s face light up as he introduces the girlfriend he met at last year’s conference. I am also impressed when a young participant stops by the registration table to find out how he can sign up to be on a panel for a session or part of the planning committee for next year’s conference. When I help pour lemonade in the lunch room, I notice it is loud with laughter and chatter as experiences are shared with friends and caretakers.

A certificate of participation is handed out at the end, which marks a major highlight of the year for most. As they exit the building, there is already chit chat about returning next year. A caretaker whispers in my ear that it is the most her client has smiled in months, which makes me realize that it is the most I’ve smiled in one day since last year’s Bregman conference.

The Larry Bregman, M.D., Educational Conference is a two-day conference for adults with developmental disabilities, their families and caregivers. It is one of the many events planned in February as a part of Jewish Disabilities Awareness Month. The first evening features a dance for the participants, followed by the second day filled with workshops. The workshops emphasize topics such as being part of the community, being a self-advocate and living a healthy lifestyle. This year’s conference, themed “Avenues of Change,” takes place February 25-26 at the Selig Center. For information, contact Eve Bogan at 770.677.9344 or [email protected].


My Day of Smiles…Why I Volunteer at the Larry Bregman M.D. Educational Conference

Pictured are some of our students taking in a photo opportunity with Rabbi Greene at the last Gesher Youth Group event before the winter holidays. From left to right with Rabbi Greene are Sammi Kiel, Edward Vitulli, Spencer Berman, and Matthew Kiel.


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Temple Beth Tikvah acknowledges with sorrow the passing of:

Robert Tam ∙ Brother of Rabbi Don Tam ∙ Uncle of Andra Lefkovitz ∙ Uncle of Deborah Isakow Claire Blumenthal ∙ Mother of Rick Blue Fred Schwartz ∙ Father of Bill Schwartz Corrine Goodman ∙ Grandmother to Allison and Jessica Goodman

May God console you among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.

Condolences

Planning a simcha or group gathering? The Tam-Blank Social Hall is the Place to Be.

For more information on renting our Social Hall, contact the synagogue office at 770-642-0434.

Schmooze News & Kudos Corner

Mazal Tov to…

Shelby Steinhauer, for being named Fulton County’s 2011-2012 Overall Teacher of the Year – she is a French teacher at Milton High School

Sally and Mark Vosk on the birth of grandson, Eli Liam Pepin, born on January 5, 2012 to Rachel and Lee Pepin

Michael Alterman, son of Pam Alterman on his engagement to Melissa Steinberg a fall wedding is planned

Thank you to…

Ian Staviss, Samantha Staviss and Richard Staviss for volunteering in the synagogue office

If you have some “schmooze news” you would like to share with the congregation, or say “thank you” for a job well done, please email your schmooze news and kudos to [email protected].

In Loving Memory “It is hard to sing of oneness when our world is not complete, when those who once brought wholeness to our life have gone and naught but memory can fill the emptiness their passing leaves behind”. The following Memorial Plaques have been placed onto the Memorial Board this past month:

Albert Jacobowitz ∙ Husband of Michelle Jacobowitz Rabbi Israel Gerber

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our Tree of Life

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Welcome New Members Temple Beth Tikvah welcomes the following new members to our family:

Jennifer and Mark Mosbacher 2863 Tynewick Drive, NE Roswell, GA 30075 770-645-8238 Lily

Welcome!

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Get Involved! TBT Committees and Chairpersons

Adult Education To Be Determined Budget & Finance Harlan Graiser [email protected] Chavurot Ivie Graiser [email protected] College Outreach Lynda Bennett [email protected] Ginger Glazer [email protected] Communications Dave Faupel [email protected] Fundraising Laura DeRiemer [email protected] Gift Shop Pam Alterman [email protected] Carrie Bickwit

[email protected] Rhonda Schweber [email protected] House Ted Nathan [email protected] Human Resources Karen Moss [email protected]

Israel Gene Carasick [email protected] Kehillat Chesed (Caring) Leslie Swichkow [email protected] Membership Recruitment Kim Peters [email protected] Lori Goldstrom [email protected] Membership Transition Scott Block [email protected] Michael Braun [email protected] Men’s Club Neil Goldstein [email protected] Nominating Committee Bart Schwartz [email protected] Andy Goldstrom

[email protected] Outreach To Be Determined Purim Mishloach Manot Wendy Lenhard [email protected] Suellen Bergman [email protected]

Ritual Esther Shultz [email protected] Rosh Chodesh Women’s Group Pam Chanin [email protected] Security Michael Gutkin [email protected] Seniors Ruth Zeidman

[email protected] Sisterhood Heather Braun [email protected] Sheri Weiner

[email protected] Social Action Jeff Willard [email protected] Rodney Eberhardt [email protected] Social Committee To Be Determined Youth Group Julie Perlson [email protected]

Synagogue Information

Synagogue Office - 770-642-0434

Fax Number - 770-642-0647

School Office (Perri) - 770-642-4168

Preschool (Jenifer) - 678-350-0076

Assistant to Clergy - Michelle Leder

Financial Secretary - Jenny Korsen

Admin. Assistant - Bernice Isaac

Office Manager - Becky Sullivan

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Address Change

Please make note of the following families who have recently moved. We wish them all the best in their new homes.

Mariann Mamberg and Bruce Turiansky 1850 Highgrove Club Drive Milton, Georgia 30004 678-580-0885




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Publication’s Title and Number: Kol Tikvah • Volume 26 Issue 2

Issue Date: February 2012 Frequency: Monthly

Authorized Organization’s Name and Address:

Temple Beth Tikvah • 9955 Coleman Road • Roswell, GA 30075

Joanna Grisham, Ph.D. Licensed Psychologist

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• Anxiety • Grief and Loss

• Depression • Relationship Issues

• Trauma • Assertiveness

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Fred Greene

Rabbi

Donald A. Tam

Rabbi Emeritus

Nancy Kassel

Cantor

Hassia Levin

Education Director

Jenifer Friedman

ECEC Director

Steve Gerson

President

Paul Beckman

Vice President

Jonathan Bennett

Vice President

Debra Schwartz

Vice President

Ron Swichkow

Treasurer

Rhonda Povlot

Secretary

Seth Zimmer

Chairperson,

Board of Education

Attention Postmaster:

Time Sensitive Materials

In home date February 1, 2012

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Documents

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ecec page

israel page

book page

tbt board page

bnai mitzvah page

college connection page

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