friendship chapter summary
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Friends & Social Media Summary
Hanging Out, Messing Around and Geeking Out
By: Don Grady
Developing & Maintaining Friendships
• Social media helps: >make friends >perform friendships >socialize w/ friends >negotiate peer groups >flirt >share stories >author public identities >public connectedness >access info. on others >articulating meanings >building friendships >strengthen friendships
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Developing & Maintaining Friendships• Social Media allows:
>reinforcing of relationships >constituting new social arrangements >“hanging out” >expanded connections with: school, worship centers, summer camps, work, etc. >public display of connections
Developing & Maintaining Friendships
• Social Media Issues: >friendship hierarchies (top 8) >creates attention needs >drama >status representations (ex. lots of friends, comments, likes, etc.) >stranger danger >influences teens and others >seeking attention >presentation of self >gossip >bullying >addiction >stalking
Discussion Developing & Maintaining FriendshipsDeveloping & Maintaining Friendships
• Social networking helps us to maintain and improve relationships.
Facebook, Myspace, Twitter and other social media can provide an additional
way can of communicating outside the regular limitations of work,
school, and other activities. While social networks can help to maintain and strengthen friendships they also
open the door for false representations of ones self and can help convey and spread drama and
rumors.
• Q: Do you think social networking sites create a false sense of who and
what friends are and do?
Internet & Social Media Addiction
• Signs of Addiction: >judge social network as popularity contest >maintaining multiple social networks >discuss intimate matters w/out fear of damaging face or damaging local reputation >urge driven
Social Media Addiction Quotes• “engrossed in searches” p.11
• “Facebook is better than real life” p. 28
• “adding anyone they know” p. 23
• “showing off her Photobucket account, Stephanie proudly proclaimed that she had more than 400 images in her album” p. 10
• “Youth today are ... borrowing from the photo albums of people they’ve never met” p. 13
• “accepts all Haitian friend requests” p. 24
Discussion Internet & Social Media AddictionInternet & Social Media Addiction
• Users on social networks who have urges to check or update their page
while searching through several other acquaintances profiles and
commenting where they desire often feel that friendships are being made
or improved. This can be problematic and may also result in less exercise
and experiences outside of the computer world.
• Q: How much time on social networks do you think is healthy?
Making Friends Using Social Media
• friendships tend to have less homogenous connections when developed online
• learn more about acquaintances and their backgrounds
• public display of established connections
• teens use friends to enact their identity
• develop set of shared social practices for friending
Making Friends Using Social Media
• Friending: >“I’d feel mean if I didn’t accept” p. 25 >sign of niceness >opening for potential friendships >deleting “friends” is socially inappropriate and can be problematic >top 8’s/friends -coveted #1 spot; reserved for best-friend, significant other, or close family member -explicit ranking -creates hierarchies
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Discussion Making Friends Using Social MediaMaking Friends Using Social Media
• Social media adjusts, and sometimes creates, the way we see and perceive others. The same can be said about
our own identities as our information is being shared. Problems and drama
can occur with the assistance of social networking sites through these
virtual unseen interactions where users search through others
background information and history.
• Q: Do you think it’s wise to share your personal information on a public social-networking site? Why or why
not?
• Q: What’s your feelings on accepting friend requests from users you hardly
know?