Your Reading - Sigridur , January 11, 1958 - 11:20 - Hella, Iceland

Hidden Messages Report

Sigridur, Capricorn

Born January 11, 1958 @ 11:20Hella, Iceland

Created the 29th Jul 2016

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Hidden Message Report INTRODUCTION

We are all looking for unconditional love. Most of us never got it. When we fall in love we think,"Now, finally, here is someone who will give me the (unconditional) love I've always wanted."

So we marry. Then it starts---because we're not programmed for love. Instead, we are programmedto duplicate our parents' relationship. Because of this programming, even if we found someone wholoved us unconditionally, we would have to push them away.

How can we attract what we are not programmed to receive? We can't---until we take a consciouslook at what we are programmed to attract. Only then can we change our lives.

This program is designed to help us do just that.

Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. Forthe benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listedbelow:

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Sun 20 Cap 47 Pluto 1 Vir 59

Moon 6 Lib 48 N. Node 7 Sco 28

Mercury 27 Sag 38 Asc. 4 Tau 00

Venus 16 Aqu 04 MC 3 Cap 21

Mars 13 Sag 32 2nd cusp 14 Gem 11

Jupiter 29 Lib 48 3rd cusp 25 Gem 06

Saturn 20 Sag 36 5th cusp 12 Can 25

Uranus 10 Leo 25 6th cusp 27 Can 31

Neptune 4 Sco 36

Tropical Placidus Standard time observed

Aspects and orbs:

Conjunction: 10 Degrees

Opposition : 10 Degrees

Square : 10 Degrees

Trine : 10 Degrees

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Sextile : 7 Degrees

HIDDEN MESSAGES

PROGRAMMING

She was an extremely beautiful woman in her mid-thirties. She was also an extremely successfulbusiness woman---equal to or better than many men in her profession. She'd come to me for aconsultation because she was considering remarrying. Although her two previous marriages hadbeen unsuccessful, she longed for a man with whom she could be happy. She was in my officebecause she honestly wondered if that were possible.

In the course of the consultation, she shared with me that her mother was successful in her career.Message: BE A SUCCESS IN YOUR CAREER. She also shared that her mother had been marriedseveral times, so she was programmed for multiple marriages. Each time my client married, hermother encouraged her to leave her husband. Her mother's message was: MARRY, BUT DON'TSTAY MARRIED. As a child, my client saw her mother win every argument with each of herhusbands. Message: ARGUE WITH MEN AND WIN. My client's father was strong, but distant andunaffectionate. Message: MEN ARE DISTANT AND UNAFFECTIONATE. My client created thissituation in her marriages and felt unloved by her husbands. Each of her stepfathers put up a goodfight, but ultimately they left. Message: MEN WILL PUT UP A GOOD FIGHT AND THENLEAVE.

The combination of verbal and non-verbal messages produced a woman who resented men, yet keptturning to them to make her happy. Because she was programmed for marriage to be stormy and her

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husbands to leave, she created just that. She married strong men and wound up emasculating them.She was looking for love, but her programming would not let her keep it.

Her fianc played right into the program. He was stubborn and determined. He was not a success inhis career, although he had great potential. Each time he came close to success, he'd fall short. Hisambitions were high, but he became a dilettante. He made a great impression, but had no money. Hisprogramming explained it all. At one point in time, his father had been very important and successfulin his career. When the young man was just a boy, his father had been nominated for an extremelyprestigious award. Winning this award would have meant financial security for the rest of his life.Unfortunately, another nominee was selected as the winner. From that point on, the son wasprogrammed to COME CLOSE, BUT FALL SHORT, and that's exactly what he did in every area oflife.

His parents had not gotten along. His proud, stoic father had given him the message that THEWOMAN SHOULD PUT THE MAN FIRST. He also felt that MEN WERE MORE INTELLIGENTTHAN WOMEN.

These two were programmed for each other. Here was a chauvinist up against a powerful woman; abusiness failure up against a business success. Neither one, however, was programmed for a warm,loving relationship, though that's what they both wanted. When faced with a situation like this, thefirst reaction might be to discourage a marriage, since it seems doomed to failure. Yet, these twopeople were attracted to each other precisely because they could give one another what each wasprogrammed to receive. And, in spite of their programming, they loved one another. This love could,if they chose, be the impetus to help them see and release their programming and create a warm,loving relationship.

This situation occurs all the time. Our hidden messages are so deeply ingrained in our subconsciousthat we respond to them unknowingly. For example, if one of your hidden messages is that YOUCANNOT BE HAPPY WHILE A FAMILY MEMBER IS UNHAPPY, you will find that you arenever happy because there is always someone who needs your help. Even if you are miles away, justknowing that a relative might be unhappy about something can upset you. After awhile, this message

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can be triggered simply by the suggestion of happiness--as soon as you feel good you have to feelbad. This totally destroys your enjoyment of life.

Another common message is that YOU WILL NEVER BE AS GOOD AS YOUR FATHER (ORMOTHER, OLDER SISTER, YOUNGER BROTHER, ETC.). If you received this message, youwill see to it that you fall short of your goals so as not to surpass him. If he has not been much of asuccess in his life, where does that leave you?

We have been told that if we will live up to the potential indicated in the natal chart, our lives willwork. Why, then, are so many lives not working? The answer is simple: they ARE working, or atleast the hidden messages are working, running our lives. By knowing what these messages are, wecan be free to be our highest and best, to be limitless.

YOUR FATHER'S MESSAGES

THE SUN

Your father takes you from the security of the home and teaches you how to act in society. He helpsyou form your public image, the face you want the world to see. The Sun represents your father.

Sun in Capricorn:

Your father taught you the value of the dollar and the importance of power and authority. He taught

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you to assume responsibility, to take yourself seriously, and to act with dignity.

Sun in 11th house:

Your father taught you to be a friend, and to make your friends the center of your life. The catch isthat HE is to be your close friend. This means he assumes the role of both father and friend, whichcan be confusing. He also taught you to be an authority to your friends. As a result, you want to leadany group in which you are involved---and the group turns to you for leadership.

Sun-Mercury angle more than 10 degrees:

Your father taught you to stand back from situations and people in order to see them objectively.This applies to him as well. Because of your objectivity, you are able to converse with others withoutconstantly bringing the conversation back to yourself and your opinions.

Sun in hard aspect to Jupiter:

Your father is self-indulgent and tends to exaggerate. He can make promises and not deliver. Thisleads to compensation: he can prove his love by giving you gifts. You do the same thing.

YOUR MOTHER'S MESSAGE

THE MOON

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The most important person in your early years is your mother. Because the Moon rules both themother and the subconscious, her influence reaches you on the deepest levels. It might be said thatsince the subconscious is the repository of all past-life experiences, your mother triggers thismemory, which is why her influence is so strong.

Your mother's main message is to look for emotional security. The house in which the Moon isplaced natally indicates that area of life in which you hope to find this security. You received thismessage either directly or indirectly. She told you where to look for it, and you spend the rest of yourlife looking for it where she said it would be. The sign in which the Moon falls describes yourmother, as do the aspects to the Moon. The aspects also tell you if it will be easy or difficult to findthe security you seek. Because the Moon is changeable, the promise of emotional security is elusive.Perhaps this is why you keep returning to the place where it is supposed to be, hoping it will be therethis time.

Keep in mind that these messages are not necessarily verbal. You can receive them from her actionsas well as her words; by her presence as well as her absence.

Moon in Libra:

Your mother wants peace at any price---even if it means war. She can be charming, saying the rightthing at the right time to the right person. She passed this gift along to you. Partnership is importantto her, and she gave you the message to get married. Your emotions tend to swing from one extremeto the other. Security comes through balancing every area of your life: emotional, intellectual,physical, spiritual.

Moon in 6th house:

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Your mother said your emotional security need can be fulfilled through service to others, by beingneeded, and by being busy at all times. You may find that you are protective of and emotional aboutyour work. You may be a surrogate mother in your work, nurturing others in some way. You mayfind security in being healthy--or unhealthy--depending on your mother's message. Your truefreedom comes from letting go of your emotional attachment to the task at hand and by serving Godin all that you do.

Moon in hard aspect to Mercury:

There can be confusion between you and your mother, as you are communicating on two differentlevels. Your conscious and subconscious minds are at odds with each other, which can producenervousness, confusion and the inability to clearly express your thoughts. You may find it tiring totalk to your mother, as you have to explain things more than once. This carries over intoconversation with others, so that communication in general may be confused and unsettling.

Moon in soft aspect to Venus:

Your mother is loving and giving, and there is a beautiful bond of love between the two of you. You,in turn, are loving and giving. You attract fulfilling relationships and friends who care about you.

Moon in soft aspect to Mars:

You and your mother deal directly and forthrightly with each other. She taught you to channel yourenergies positively without wasting them. As a result, you are able to get things done quickly and

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easily. You have a good rapport with both men and women. You function well in competitivesituations.

Moon in soft aspect to Uranus:

Your mother is unique and gave you the freedom to be yourself. Your intuition is keen and yourpsychic bond with her is strong. You can be innovative, inventive and ahead of your time.

MESSAGES FROM AUTHORITY FIGURES

Saturn is reality and often, restriction. In the natal chart, it can represent your mother, father,grandparents, family ---anyone who imposes a restrictive influence on your life and tries to teachyou reality through discipline.

Saturn in Sagittarius:

The authority figures in your life may have been frustrated because they were not free, yet acceptedthis philosophically. They taught you to be judicial and balance man's law with God's law.

Saturn in 8th house:

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The authority figures in your life gave you many fears: fear of the unknown, fear of sex, fear ofpower, fear of death, fear of being controlled, etc. They gave you a strong sexual message, which isto manipulate by withholding. This leaves you fearful of what might happen should you NOTwithhold. You will work through all these fears and messages in this lifetime.

Saturn in hard aspect to Mercury:

The authority figures in your life have curtailed your thinking. You think you're being realistic when,in fact, you're being negative. The fear that something may go wrong has you looking for it. As aresult, you see flaws. This is what the authority figures in your life taught you to do. At times, thefear of what you might see can prevent your looking. Ultimately you do look because you want to beprepared for the worst.

Saturn in soft aspect to Venus:

The authority figures in your life gave you a secure feeling of being loved. As a result, you are loyalin love and able to maintain a long-term relationship. You do not take love lightly. When you love,you willingly assume your responsibility for the relationship. You are not looking for wild, excitinglove, but steady, reliable love.

Saturn in hard aspect to Mars:

The authority figures in your life probably gave orders instead of guidance and direction. As a result,you both resent and fear them. This can make you fight the establishment---you feel you could dobetter. Inhibitions prevent the constructive flow of energies. This can be sexually frustrating. Thereis a tone of suppressed anger about you.

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PLUTO

Pluto is another indicator of your mother's ---and sometimes your grandmother's---message. Plutorepresents total change, control, and transmutation. It is the all-or-nothing planet. Pluto deals with allthe mysteries of life: life itself, where it originates, where it goes when it leaves this plane. Pluto andthe aspects it makes in your chart describe your mother's message about and your attitude towardssex.

Pluto's house placement indicates where there can be a power play with your mother, where youwill both try to dominate and control, and where you can bring about a total transformation. Youcontrol because you don't trust. You don't trust the people who rule the house in which Pluto falls.

While Pluto represents your mother's message, it can also represent your grandmother's. Usewhichever word applies to you.

Pluto in Virgo:

Pluto in Virgo gives you the need to be in control of your health and your work. However, the needto be in control can adversely affect both. At some point, you may be able to totally let go of theneed to be in control. This will improve your health and allow you to truly serve.

Pluto in 6th house:

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Your mother's attempt to control your work makes you determined to be in control. The need toconstantly maintain this control and/or the inability to forgive those who control you can affect yourhealth, especially the elimination or reproductive areas. Forgiving them will free you of vindicationand heal you. There can be a total change in your work at some point in your life. You can becomeinvolved in something which was not invented or discovered at the time of your birth.

Pluto in soft aspect to Mercury:

You and your mother are able to communicate without speaking, the psychic bond between you is sostrong. You are this way with others as well. You can spot truth from falsehood and are a naturaldetective. Your intuition is so much a part of you that you do not see it as unusual.

Pluto in soft aspect to Jupiter:

You and your mother are good friends. You may share similar philosophies and/or give each otherthe space to have your own opinions. She taught you to be optimistic, generous and friendly. As aresult, you are well-liked. You have a natural understanding of universal law that gives youpeace--you know that everything is working out for the best.

Pluto in soft aspect to Neptune:

There is a positive psychic bond between you and your mother. Your spiritual side is active, and youhave vision and insight.

Pluto in soft aspect to North and South Nodes:

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You have a natural understanding of psychic forces and use them positively. There is a deep bondbetween you and your mother. She is an important teacher to you.

THE FOURTH AND TENTH HOUSES

The fourth house relates to home, family and your deepest emotional security needs. It describes theparent to whom you look for the fulfillment of these needs. Traditional astrology gives the motherrulership over this house because she has been the nurturing parent, the one who stayed home andcared for the family. Today, though, mother often pursues a career, and it is father who provides theemotional security.

The tenth house rules your career, your public image and the authority figure(s) in your life. It isyour father who teaches you how to get along in the world outside the home. As such, the tenthhouse traditionally relates to him.

There are no set rules as to which parent rules which house. Sometimes one parent fulfills both roles.Other times the parents reverse roles. Each chart must be analyzed individually to determine whichparent rules the fourth and which rules the tenth.

The relationship between the fourth and tenth is important because your home, family and thesecurity they give you determine how you will do outside the home. If you don't get what you needfrom one parent, you may turn to the other, who may or may not be able to fulfill your needs. Lackof emotional security in the home can lead to compensation in the career. The career, then, canbecome a parent replacement.

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The signs on the cusps of the fourth and tenth houses add another dimension to understanding yourparents. When trying to determine which house is which parent, it is helpful to exaggerate thedescriptions enough to allow yourself to be able to make a distinction between the two.

Cancer on 4th Cusp:

Since Cancer and mother traditionally rule this house, there is a good possibility that your motherrules your fourth. This parent is sensitive, emotional, very attached to the home and family, andtakes things personally.

Capricorn on 10th Cusp:

Since Capricorn and father traditionally rule this house, there is a good possibility that your fatherrules your tenth. This parent is conservative, disciplined, stoic, and concerned with what theneighbors will think.

THE ROVING DELEGATES

The signs represent principles to be learned. The house cusp on which a sign falls tells us the areaof life in which that principle will be learned. Usually, the principle manifests in more than one areaof life, since the ruler, or ROVING DELEGATE of that sign, carries the message to another house.

It makes no difference what sign falls on the cusp in question. We simply link the sign with itsruler's house position. For example, with Virgo on the fourth and Mercury in the eleventh, the ruler

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of the fourth is in the eleventh. The same thing is true if Taurus is on the fourth and Venus is in theeleventh. The same concept applies in each case.

The house in which the fourth or tenth house ruler falls gives us more information regarding thatparent's messages.

Ruler of 4th house in 6th:

Your emotional security need is fulfilled through working, serving others and being busy all thetime. This parent can influence the kind of work you do---and can even do the work for you. He orshe can influence your health as well, giving you the message to be either healthy or unhealthy.

Ruler of 10th house in 8th:

You have strong issues relating to authority and power as a result of this parent's influence. You willwork through these issues, however,. This parent gave you your sexual attitudes. He or she helpsyou look beyond the obvious and investigate life's mysteries. He or she helps you deal with jointfinances in your career.

A FINAL WORD

Now that you've looked at your programming, you may be wondering if it will control you forever orif there is something you can do to change it, to move past it. There is. You can release it andyourself to God in complete faith and trust and just BE. When you come from BEING, you arecoming from unconditional love. You see beauty everywhere. You are one with the whole and know

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that you are protected and loved.

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