Your Reading - Kit , April 25, 1973 - 19:20 - Ringsted, Denmark

Hidden Messages Report

Kit, Taurus

Born April 25, 1973 @ 19:20Ringsted, Denmark

Created the 31st Jul 2016

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Hidden Message Report INTRODUCTION

We are all looking for unconditional love. Most of us never got it. When we fall in love we think,"Now, finally, here is someone who will give me the (unconditional) love I've always wanted."

So we marry. Then it starts---because we're not programmed for love. Instead, we are programmedto duplicate our parents' relationship. Because of this programming, even if we found someone wholoved us unconditionally, we would have to push them away.

How can we attract what we are not programmed to receive? We can't---until we take a consciouslook at what we are programmed to attract. Only then can we change our lives.

This program is designed to help us do just that.

Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. Forthe benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listedbelow:

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Sun 5 Tau 24 Pluto 2 Lib 14

Moon 5 Aqu 34 N. Node 9 Cap 53

Mercury 12 Ari 25 Asc. 3 Sco 34

Venus 9 Tau 32 MC 18 Leo 00

Mars 21 Aqu 13 2nd cusp 0 Sag 52

Jupiter 10 Aqu 14 3rd cusp 6 Cap 57

Saturn 17 Gem 54 5th cusp 21 Pis 24

Uranus 20 Lib 25 6th cusp 15 Ari 39

Neptune 6 Sag 52

Tropical Placidus Standard time observed

Aspects and orbs:

Conjunction: 10 Degrees

Opposition : 10 Degrees

Square : 10 Degrees

Trine : 10 Degrees

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Sextile : 7 Degrees

HIDDEN MESSAGES

PROGRAMMING

She was an extremely beautiful woman in her mid-thirties. She was also an extremely successfulbusiness woman---equal to or better than many men in her profession. She'd come to me for aconsultation because she was considering remarrying. Although her two previous marriages hadbeen unsuccessful, she longed for a man with whom she could be happy. She was in my officebecause she honestly wondered if that were possible.

In the course of the consultation, she shared with me that her mother was successful in her career.Message: BE A SUCCESS IN YOUR CAREER. She also shared that her mother had been marriedseveral times, so she was programmed for multiple marriages. Each time my client married, hermother encouraged her to leave her husband. Her mother's message was: MARRY, BUT DON'TSTAY MARRIED. As a child, my client saw her mother win every argument with each of herhusbands. Message: ARGUE WITH MEN AND WIN. My client's father was strong, but distant andunaffectionate. Message: MEN ARE DISTANT AND UNAFFECTIONATE. My client created thissituation in her marriages and felt unloved by her husbands. Each of her stepfathers put up a goodfight, but ultimately they left. Message: MEN WILL PUT UP A GOOD FIGHT AND THENLEAVE.

The combination of verbal and non-verbal messages produced a woman who resented men, yet keptturning to them to make her happy. Because she was programmed for marriage to be stormy and her

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husbands to leave, she created just that. She married strong men and wound up emasculating them.She was looking for love, but her programming would not let her keep it.

Her fianc played right into the program. He was stubborn and determined. He was not a success inhis career, although he had great potential. Each time he came close to success, he'd fall short. Hisambitions were high, but he became a dilettante. He made a great impression, but had no money. Hisprogramming explained it all. At one point in time, his father had been very important and successfulin his career. When the young man was just a boy, his father had been nominated for an extremelyprestigious award. Winning this award would have meant financial security for the rest of his life.Unfortunately, another nominee was selected as the winner. From that point on, the son wasprogrammed to COME CLOSE, BUT FALL SHORT, and that's exactly what he did in every area oflife.

His parents had not gotten along. His proud, stoic father had given him the message that THEWOMAN SHOULD PUT THE MAN FIRST. He also felt that MEN WERE MORE INTELLIGENTTHAN WOMEN.

These two were programmed for each other. Here was a chauvinist up against a powerful woman; abusiness failure up against a business success. Neither one, however, was programmed for a warm,loving relationship, though that's what they both wanted. When faced with a situation like this, thefirst reaction might be to discourage a marriage, since it seems doomed to failure. Yet, these twopeople were attracted to each other precisely because they could give one another what each wasprogrammed to receive. And, in spite of their programming, they loved one another. This love could,if they chose, be the impetus to help them see and release their programming and create a warm,loving relationship.

This situation occurs all the time. Our hidden messages are so deeply ingrained in our subconsciousthat we respond to them unknowingly. For example, if one of your hidden messages is that YOUCANNOT BE HAPPY WHILE A FAMILY MEMBER IS UNHAPPY, you will find that you arenever happy because there is always someone who needs your help. Even if you are miles away, justknowing that a relative might be unhappy about something can upset you. After awhile, this message

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can be triggered simply by the suggestion of happiness--as soon as you feel good you have to feelbad. This totally destroys your enjoyment of life.

Another common message is that YOU WILL NEVER BE AS GOOD AS YOUR FATHER (ORMOTHER, OLDER SISTER, YOUNGER BROTHER, ETC.). If you received this message, youwill see to it that you fall short of your goals so as not to surpass him. If he has not been much of asuccess in his life, where does that leave you?

We have been told that if we will live up to the potential indicated in the natal chart, our lives willwork. Why, then, are so many lives not working? The answer is simple: they ARE working, or atleast the hidden messages are working, running our lives. By knowing what these messages are, wecan be free to be our highest and best, to be limitless.

YOUR FATHER'S MESSAGES

THE SUN

Your father takes you from the security of the home and teaches you how to act in society. He helpsyou form your public image, the face you want the world to see. The Sun represents your father.

Sun in Taurus:

Your father is practical, stubborn and loves the basics of life. He taught you to appreciate money and

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what it can buy. He may have taught you to relax, even to be lazy.

Sun in 7th house:

Your father's message is to find a mate, get married and make that person the center of your life. Thecatch to this message is that HE is to be your mate, which makes it difficult to commit to any otherrelationship. If you are married, you will treat your mate like your father. You are programmed togive and put the other person ahead of yourself, which means you will attract people who take andput themselves first.

Sun in hard aspect to Moon:

You are programmed to have difficulties in interpersonal relationships because of difficultiesbetween your parents at the time of your birth. Your tendency to clash with people can affect yourhealth.

Sun-Mercury angle more than 10 degrees:

Your father taught you to stand back from situations and people in order to see them objectively.This applies to him as well. Because of your objectivity, you are able to converse with others withoutconstantly bringing the conversation back to yourself and your opinions.

Sun in hard aspect to Jupiter:

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Your father is self-indulgent and tends to exaggerate. He can make promises and not deliver. Thisleads to compensation: he can prove his love by giving you gifts. You do the same thing.

Sun in soft aspect to North and South Nodes:

You have a good rapport with your father and with men in general. You can attain power andauthority in this lifetime.

YOUR MOTHER'S MESSAGE

THE MOON

The most important person in your early years is your mother. Because the Moon rules both themother and the subconscious, her influence reaches you on the deepest levels. It might be said thatsince the subconscious is the repository of all past-life experiences, your mother triggers thismemory, which is why her influence is so strong.

Your mother's main message is to look for emotional security. The house in which the Moon isplaced natally indicates that area of life in which you hope to find this security. You received thismessage either directly or indirectly. She told you where to look for it, and you spend the rest of yourlife looking for it where she said it would be. The sign in which the Moon falls describes yourmother, as do the aspects to the Moon. The aspects also tell you if it will be easy or difficult to findthe security you seek. Because the Moon is changeable, the promise of emotional security is elusive.Perhaps this is why you keep returning to the place where it is supposed to be, hoping it will be therethis time.

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Keep in mind that these messages are not necessarily verbal. You can receive them from her actionsas well as her words; by her presence as well as her absence.

Moon in Aquarius:

Your mother is unusual and may feel she was born before her time. She taught you to be your ownperson, but you may feel caught between two worlds: old and young, traditional and non-traditional,etc. You may be pulled between doing what you want to do versus doing what you feel you ought todo. At times she can be very traditional, even rigid. At other times, she can let it rip. She is trulyeclectic. You may often ask yourself, "Am I crazy or is the world crazy?" This is because, while youlove people, you don't need them. Most people don't feel this way and, as a result, will tell you thereis something wrong with you. They don't understand that when the group is happy, you are happy.Herein lies your security.

Moon in 3rd house:

Your mother's message is to think emotionally and remember not just what happened, but how youfelt about what happened. Your emotional security need may be fulfilled through talking. You areprobably quite psychic, but may find it difficult to discern between intuition and emotion. Thefemale influence in your early environment was strong. The Moon here can indicate not just yourmother, but other female relatives. Travel may help fulfill your need for security. Your mothertaught you to take your ideas personally, to identify with them emotionally, and to think defensively.However, your true freedom comes from letting go of your emotional attachment to your ideas.

Moon in hard aspect to Sun:

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Conflict between your parents at the time of your birth created a pattern of difficulty in yourinterpersonal relationships. You are not programmed to get along with others or for things to flowsmoothly. This can affect your health.

Moon in soft aspect to Mercury:

Your mother is able to express herself clearly, and there is good communication between the two ofyou. This extends to communication with all women and the public in general. There is harmonybetween your conscious and subconscious minds, giving you the ability to articulate your thoughtswell.

Moon in hard aspect to Venus:

Your mother does not really know how to show love and may give you things (gifts, food, praise)instead of love. This creates the concept of compensation: if you don't feel loved, you'll eat, spendmoney or indulge yourself in some way. This aspect can manifest as laziness. You can attract self-indulgent, even lazy people to you.

Moon in hard aspect to Jupiter:

This aspect tends toward overindulgence and exaggeration. Your mother buys love and compensatesfor lack of it. You tend to exaggerate your moods and attract people who overdo a good thing. Youmay overwhelm people by coming on larger-then-life.

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Moon in soft aspect to Neptune:

There is a natural spiritual attunement between you and your mother. She gave you the desire toserve unselfishly. She also gave you a love of music, art and beauty, as well as an appreciation of metaphysics. You both have creative and artistic potential. You feel she is special. You may have amystical quality about you that attracts people.

Moon in soft aspect to Pluto:

There is a strong, psychic bond between you and your mother. You understand each other's feelings.She gave you positive, healthy messages about sex which now gives you the freedom to enjoyyourself. You are a very magnetic person and channel your emotions well. Your intuitive ability isstrong. You are nurturing without being smothering.

MESSAGES FROM AUTHORITY FIGURES

Saturn is reality and often, restriction. In the natal chart, it can represent your mother, father,grandparents, family ---anyone who imposes a restrictive influence on your life and tries to teachyou reality through discipline.

Saturn in Gemini:

The authority figures in your life tended to see the negative while insisting that they were seeing the

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positive. They called this being realistic. They said you could do two things at once, and thenquestioned your ability to do so. It may be difficult to express your ideas completely, possiblybecause you see both sides of every question.

Saturn in 8th house:

The authority figures in your life gave you many fears: fear of the unknown, fear of sex, fear ofpower, fear of death, fear of being controlled, etc. They gave you a strong sexual message, which isto manipulate by withholding. This leaves you fearful of what might happen should you NOTwithhold. You will work through all these fears and messages in this lifetime.

Saturn in soft aspect to Mercury:

The authority figures in your life taught you to think practically, logically and conservatively. Youcan analyze situations objectively.

Saturn in soft aspect to Mars:

The authority figures in your life taught you to be brave and strong. You can take direction as well aslead, which gives you a good rapport with others. You do not fear leadership and are not tooimportant to take care of the small details. You are disciplined and hard-working. Your energies arewell-directed.

Saturn in soft aspect to Jupiter:

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The authority figures in your life were judicial, fair and taught you to balance what you want to dowith what you feel you ought to do. Their philosophy helps you combine God's law with man's law.You are able to see both sides of the picture. You have a wisdom that belies your age. Your messageis: every cloud has a silver lining.

Saturn in soft aspect to Uranus:

You are able to break loose, be yourself and still not lose your dignity. This is because the authorityfigures in your life gave you permission to do so. You are a combination of the traditional and non-traditional, and can combine the best of old and new. You can deal with the masses and still remainin charge of your life.

PLUTO

Pluto is another indicator of your mother's ---and sometimes your grandmother's---message. Plutorepresents total change, control, and transmutation. It is the all-or-nothing planet. Pluto deals with allthe mysteries of life: life itself, where it originates, where it goes when it leaves this plane. Pluto andthe aspects it makes in your chart describe your mother's message about and your attitude towardssex.

Pluto's house placement indicates where there can be a power play with your mother, where youwill both try to dominate and control, and where you can bring about a total transformation. Youcontrol because you don't trust. You don't trust the people who rule the house in which Pluto falls.

While Pluto represents your mother's message, it can also represent your grandmother's. Use

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whichever word applies to you.

Pluto in Libra:

Pluto in Libra gives you the need to either be in control or be controlled in all partnerships. However, at some point in time, you can undergo a total change in your attitude toward partnershipas well as what you want in a partner. You will then be able to free yourself from your need to eithercontrol or be controlled, and relate to others as equals.

Pluto in 11th house:

Your mother's message is to be a friend, but to control any group in which you participate so thatthey don't control you. However, SHE is your most controlling friend and can switch roles fromfriend to mother. This confuses you and makes you mistrust her. Your friends see you as powerful,but manipulative.

Pluto in soft aspect to Moon:

There is a strong psychic bond between you and your mother. She may have had a similar bond withher mother. You find it easy to understand and get along with women. Your feelings for your homeand family are deep and positive. You are a magnetic person with a strong intuition. There is anatural mothering quality about you that does not smother or possess.

Pluto in soft aspect to Jupiter:

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You and your mother are good friends. You may share similar philosophies and/or give each otherthe space to have your own opinions. She taught you to be optimistic, generous and friendly. As aresult, you are well-liked. You have a natural understanding of universal law that gives youpeace--you know that everything is working out for the best.

Pluto in soft aspect to Neptune:

There is a positive psychic bond between you and your mother. Your spiritual side is active, and youhave vision and insight.

Pluto in hard aspect to North and South Nodes:

The misuse of psychic energies in past lives can lead you to use manipulation and control in order toget your way. This can backfire. The inability to trust your mother and the fear of being controlledmakes it difficult for you to trust.

THE FOURTH AND TENTH HOUSES

The fourth house relates to home, family and your deepest emotional security needs. It describes theparent to whom you look for the fulfillment of these needs. Traditional astrology gives the motherrulership over this house because she has been the nurturing parent, the one who stayed home andcared for the family. Today, though, mother often pursues a career, and it is father who provides theemotional security.

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The tenth house rules your career, your public image and the authority figure(s) in your life. It isyour father who teaches you how to get along in the world outside the home. As such, the tenthhouse traditionally relates to him.

There are no set rules as to which parent rules which house. Sometimes one parent fulfills both roles.Other times the parents reverse roles. Each chart must be analyzed individually to determine whichparent rules the fourth and which rules the tenth.

The relationship between the fourth and tenth is important because your home, family and thesecurity they give you determine how you will do outside the home. If you don't get what you needfrom one parent, you may turn to the other, who may or may not be able to fulfill your needs. Lackof emotional security in the home can lead to compensation in the career. The career, then, canbecome a parent replacement.

The signs on the cusps of the fourth and tenth houses add another dimension to understanding yourparents. When trying to determine which house is which parent, it is helpful to exaggerate thedescriptions enough to allow yourself to be able to make a distinction between the two.

Aquarius on 4th Cusp:

This parent is proud of him/herself, loves the limelight and must be center stage. He/she tends todramatize things.

Leo on 10th Cusp:

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This parent finds it hard to be a parent since nurturing does not come easily to him/her. He/she isunique and can feel like a square peg in a round hole.

Mars in 4th house:

This parent puts him/herself first. He/she is impatient, aggressive, and ambitious. He/she does bestwhen involved in a short term goal with a quick reward.

THE ROVING DELEGATES

The signs represent principles to be learned. The house cusp on which a sign falls tells us the areaof life in which that principle will be learned. Usually, the principle manifests in more than one areaof life, since the ruler, or ROVING DELEGATE of that sign, carries the message to another house.

It makes no difference what sign falls on the cusp in question. We simply link the sign with itsruler's house position. For example, with Virgo on the fourth and Mercury in the eleventh, the rulerof the fourth is in the eleventh. The same thing is true if Taurus is on the fourth and Venus is in theeleventh. The same concept applies in each case.

The house in which the fourth or tenth house ruler falls gives us more information regarding thatparent's messages.

Ruler of 4th house in 12th:

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This parent's influence is hidden and difficult to discern. The message is to find security in privacy. He or she could have directed you toward the spiritual, or the make-believe.

Ruler of 10th house in 7th:

The authority figure in your life acts like your equal. This parent can influence your spouse and/orchoice of spouse. You may marry someone who reminds you of him or her.

A FINAL WORD

Now that you've looked at your programming, you may be wondering if it will control you forever orif there is something you can do to change it, to move past it. There is. You can release it andyourself to God in complete faith and trust and just BE. When you come from BEING, you arecoming from unconditional love. You see beauty everywhere. You are one with the whole and knowthat you are protected and loved.

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