how to be well-spoken
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Becoming well-spoken
March 6, 2015
Characteristics of the well-spoken
• Creating well-formed sentences
• Being articulate• Having a large and diverse vocabulary• Speaking clearly (not mumbling)• Having a good pace, tone, and intonation (not too loud,
fast, or monotone)
• Being fluent – words come easily to you
• Being able to explain things easily• Being straightforward and meaning what you say• Being thoughtful and courteous to the needs of the listener• Using little filler and empty language
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How do you fill your gaps
…Um, Uh
…You know
…Like
…So
…Okay…Right
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What you project
• Unsure
• Evasive
• Unprepared
• Self-conscious• Unfocused
• Inexperienced/young
• Unprofessional
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6-step program
1. Admit
2. Commit
3. Recruit
4. Pause
5. Practice
6. Pay it forward
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1. “I don’t know (but I will if you tell me)”
2. Ding
3. Ear lobe
4. Shock collar
5. Rubber band on your wrist
6. Buzzer in your pocket
Triggers
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Try this
1. Slow down
2. Breathe in and relax your shoulders
3. Pause. Think. Answer.
4. Gesture
5. Tell a story
6. Drink beer
7. Don’t stress; it is natural (just not every 3rd word)
What’s your first step?
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