introverted leaders mentors meeting march 20 2015 v2
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Karl [email protected]
Associate Professor, McGill UniversityAssociate Fellow, Green Templeton College, Oxford University
Millennial Leaders
Women Leaders
Introverted Leaders
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+ 300 interviews with C Suite Executives in North America, Europe and Asia
Sir Richard Branson, General Martin Dempsey, Muhammad Yunus, Calin Rovinescu, Dick Evans, Pierre Beaudoin, Robert Brown, Michael Sabia, Robert Dutton, Moya Greene, Kevin Lynch, Pierre Lortie, Robert Milton, Arthur Porter, Mike Roach, Paul Tellier, Caryn Lerner, Robert Rabinovitch, Andre Navarra, Sheila Fraser, etc..
+ Co-taught a MBA course, Role of the CEO with Zoe Yujnovich, CEO Iron Ore Company of Canada
+ Interviewed +150 CEOs and C-Suite executives about being an introverted leader, strengths and career paths
Terms developed by Carl Jung to describe personality
Important to understand that there is a spectrum not absolutes
Extrovert – tend to: gain energy from social interaction in large groups, rush into things, understand concepts by talking about them, can be rash and prone to more risky behaviour, enjoys working in groups
Introvert – tend to: gain energy or recharge in solitude, enjoy interacting with either one on one or in smaller groups, very thoughtful, thinks before they speak, enjoys working alone
Extrovert –---- Ambivert ----- Introvert
Prefer more stimulating environments
Prefer less stimulating environments
Typical strengths:
Take time to do analysis
Let others develop their own ideas
See bigger picture
Good listeners
More rational
Appear more considerate
Identify good ideas
Typical strengths:
More ideas – greater range to chose from Better social skills in some contexts Better at using words – praise Original good/bad ideas, aggregate other’s
ideas Bring energy Stronger in bigger groups More open minded?
Give introverts time to think
Meet with introverts one-on-one and in small groups
And then really listen
Great presenters when they have time
Don’t embarrass them with praise in public
Given them time and room to “bounce off the wall with ideas”
Use your strength of listening to listen, but be an active enthusiastic, non-judgmental listener
Let them be the center of attention in your group from time-to-time (this you don’t mind)
Don’t judge them quickly. Their silence isn’t consent or rejection. They’re thinking it over.
Give them time to commit. If they commit, they’ll stick.
Provide silence. Too much talking feels like pressure to a quiet person.
Don’t evaluate them by their up front work. Don’t pressure them to be up front. But, if they want
to be up front, work with them. Tell them what’s important. Don’t just send them out
to get it done. Respect their space. They shut down or lash out when
you get in their face. Bonus: Ask a question and wait.
Source: Dan Rockwell, Leadership Freak blog
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