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Growing Families Through Adoption

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Contents Meet the StaffPublisherMary Wynne [email protected]

EditorSusan [email protected]

Associate PublisherAdvertising SalesJennica [email protected]

Creative DirectorKatie [email protected]

Advertising CoordinatorKaren [email protected]

Editorial AssistantWendy [email protected]

Business Manager | AccountingRoxanne [email protected]

Public Relations and EventsWendy [email protected]

CONTRIBUTING WRITERSKaren Ring, Mike Berry, Lindsay Eckert, Liz Henderson, Carolyn Loub, Nicki Turner, Mary Susan Buhner, Susan Bryant

PHOTOGRAPHERMichelle Tiek

Contact Us:Hamilton County FamilyPO Box 40206Indianapolis, IN 46240(317) 417-3031 or (317) 710-6622

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On The CoverThe Stanley Family:

Gerald, Gretchen, Grant, Grady,Gillian & Gia

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Special thanks to Jones Nursery andNoelle Grace Designs for theirparticipation in our cover shot!

8 | GreetingsIt's that time of year!

10 | On the Radar2013 Arthritis Walk, Fishers Freedom Festival,

Twins in Carmel & Lemonade Day

14 | Décor Next DoorFurniture painting

16 | The Adoption OptionUnderstanding the differences and the process

22 | What's Cool After SchoolSwimming and Tennis

24 | Party On!

Birthday party tips and ideas for every age

26 | To Your HealthChildren's mental health

28 | Exploring IndianaDay trips perfect for summer months

30 | Mommy MagicKeeping calm, carrying on

32 | Summer Fun GuideFun activities to keep you busy all summer long!

34 | Reci-pleaseHerb grilled chicken

35 | Five Garage Sale Tricksof the Trade

Hit the ground running as the season kicks off!

36 | Ask the ExpertLandscaping and gardening professionals

38 | In Our OpinionVirtual violence

40 | To Do With Your CrewFamily fun activities

42 | The Last LaughFavorite funny family moments

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of eight adopted children gives a firsthand experience of his family’s adoption journey.

If you’ve been waiting for the garage sale season to begin, you will appreciate Five Garage Sale Tricks of the Trade – learn the strategies of scoring big with other people’s “junk!” Find out how to turn those inexpensive finds into new trea-sures with simple furniture painting techniques – detailed in Décor Next Door.

Of course we’ve also got the kids covered with articles on birthday party ideas, tennis opportunities and swimming lessons in our area.

As always, our staff is excited to bring each issue of this publication to you. And being residents of Hamilton County ourselves, we might just see you around town this summer!

We welcome your feedback – please email me at [email protected] with your thoughts and comments!

By the time May and June finally arrive, my family is ready to get outside! With spring taking so long to make its appearance this year, we are even more anxious to enjoy the warmer weather. (Darn ground hog!)

The next couple of months will be filled with fun in Hamilton County , which is why we have compiled our Summer Fun Guide with lots of ongoing activities – summer concerts, movies, festivals and farmers markets, just to name a few. And if you are considering an in-state adventure this sum-mer, check out Exploring Indiana for some great one tank trips!

For an interesting and informative take on the process of adoption, check out Mike Berry’s The Adoption Option. This father

GreetingsMAY/JUNE 2013

Jennica ZalewskiAssociate Publisher

It's that time of year!


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Fishers Teen Named Honoree for 2013 Arthritis Foundation Walk

Fishers Freedom Festival’sAnnual 5K Walk/Run and TwoMile Family Walk

Run, jog or walk in the 25th annual Fishers Freedom Festival’s 5K Eventon Saturday, June 29th at Roy G. Holland Park. Activities include the 5Kevent, a non-competitive family fun two-mile walk and a Kiddie Run.There is no charge to participate in the Kiddie Run and all children willreceive a special commemorative prize.

Last year’s event attracted a crowd of nearly 1,400 participants –so come join in the fun!

For more information and to register online, visit the Fishers Freedom Festival’s website at www.FishersFreedomFestival.org.

The Arthritis Foundation will host its 11th annual Arthritis Walk on Saturday, May 18th at Military Park in downtown Indianapolis. This year’s honoree is 14-year-old Emily Gebhardt, a freshman at Hamilton Southeastern High School. Emily was first diagnosed with arthritis when she was just eight years old.

Although arthritis is often viewed as strictly an “old person’s disease,” there are, in fact, 6,400 children in Indiana who live with chronic joint pain – and 300,000 more nationwide.

Join Emily for this year’s walk and help support the many efforts of the Arthritis Foundation to help people of all ages with this disease!

To learn more visit www.arthritiswalkindy.com.

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For more information, visit www.indianapolis.lemonadeday.org.

Think you’re seeing double in Carmel?

You probably are! Carmel High School’s class of 2012 has 17 sets of twins! If you think that might be a record, you could be right. Guinness World Records states the current record is 16 for the number of twins in a high school class.

In order to be the official new record holder, the twins at Carmel have to go through a rigorous process of paperwork with Guinness. Look for an announcement soon!

entrepreneurs on Lemonade Day

Lemonade Day is a free, fun initiative designed to teach kids of all ages how to start, own and operate their own business: a lemonade stand!

This year Lemonade Day is Saturday, May 18th – so be on the lookout for these smallest of businesses in your neighborhood and help them learn the

basics of supply and demand while enjoying a refreshing glass ofice cold lemonade!

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DÉCORFURNITURE PAINTING:

N EXT DOOR

New products make it fun to “play” with paintby: Carolyn Loub, mom of 4

Give your old furniture a new lease on life with paint! New products and techniques make it easy to add style and flair to any ordinary piece of furniture. From sleek and modern to rustic and shabby, furniture painting is faster, easier and more fun than ever.

Chalk PaintNot to be confused with chalkboard paint, chalk paint is a water-based, low VOC paint that can be used on virtually any surface and requires no sanding, priming or removing of old paint. How great is that?

Chalk paint can be applied to wood, metal and plastic. I’ve used chalk paint on various items from dressers to chandeliers, and even a laminate countertop!

Annie Sloan Chalk Paint (ASCP) is a British line of chalk paint available in 30 different colors that can be combined to create a larger palette. It’s easy to work with and dries quickly to a matte finish. Applying a soft wax to your finished piece protects the finish and adds sheen. ASCP is wonderful for creating furniture finishes reminiscent of French and Swedish antiques.

ASCP is expensive at $40/quart, but a little goes a long way. You can make your own chalk paint using latex paint, water and un-sanded grout. Recipes are available online.

Restyled in Carmel sells ASCP and offers painting workshops, finished pieces and cus-tom work.

The Painted Cottage in Westfield sells chalk-painted furniture and takes custom orders.

Eco-Friendly Natural Clay PaintCeCe Caldwell’s Paints is an American line of eco-friendly, 100% natural mineral paint, pack-aged in recycled containers. The paint has no

VOCs, and was developed to be an earth and people-friendly product that could safely be used by anyone. It is self-priming, so a primer coat isn’t necessary.

While the paint is “green,” it’s available in more than 30 colors inspired by America’s landscape. The paint colors can be combined to expand the palette and create vari-ous finishes. This paint lends itself well to a “distressed” look, as you can remove areas of paint with a damp cloth, rather than sandpaper. Their sealing wax, made from insect and plant sources, has very low odor.

The Pauper’s Castle in Westfield sells CeCe Caldwell’s Paints and offers painting work-shops, finished pieces and custom work.

Milk PaintMiss Mustard Seed’s Milk Paint is an all-natu-ral paint that is environmentally friendly, non-toxic and contains no VOCs. Milk paint comes in powder form and must be mixed with water prior to use. Used with the Milk Paint Bonding Agent, the milk paint can be used on previ-ously painted or varnished surfaces. Without the bonding agent, milk paint will resist some prefinished or pre-painted surfaces to achieve an authentic “chippy” look.

If you want to give your furniture a primitive look, milk paint is the product for you. 530 Resale with locations in Noblesville, Zionsville and Indianapolis offers milk paint products and classes.

Alkyd Enamel PaintTo give furniture a sleek look with paint, I recommend using Benjamin Moore Advance

or Sherwin Williams ProClassic. Both are water based, alkyd enamel paints that provide a smooth, durable finish. This makes them an excellent choice for contemporary furniture or high-traffic pieces like kitchen and bathroom cabinetry. I’ve painted furniture and cabinets using these products, and the result is a hard acrylic finish that isn’t pliable like other latex paints.

If you need more inspiration or want to pur-chase painted furniture, check out the unique pieces available at Bella Chic in Carmel.

So, what are you waiting for? Break out that garage sale find or hand-me-down and get painting! All you need is some paint and a little creativity to turn drab furniture into something fabulous.

For more great ideas, visit Carolyn’s blog at www.sweetchaoshome.blogspot.com.


I didn’t want to adopt children. At least, that’s what I

thought 15 years ago when I first met my wife.

The year was 1998 and I was a 22-year old college kid

with peach fuzz on my face, and a head full of dreams

sitting on my shoulders. I remember very clearly the

night my wife Kristin (then fiancé) told me, as we sat in

my car in front of our college campus library, that, “We

were going to adopt our children.” I disagreed sternly.

It wasn’t that I was against adoption. I just didn’t

understand it. I came from a family where every kid

grew up, went to college, found a husband or wife and

created little people who looked like them.

Fortunately, my heart changed. My perspective did as

well. Today, I love adoption. I’m a huge fan. We began

the process in 2001, working first with Families Through

International Adoption (www.ftia.org), and then moving

exclusively into domestic adoption, working with Adop-

tion Support Center (www.adoptionsupportcenter.

com) in Indianapolis.

In April 2002 we brought our daughter Jaala home.

Then, between June 2004 and May 2012, we adopted

our other seven children; two through private adoptions

and six through foster care. We have learned many

lessons over the past 11 years of our adoption journey.

The biggest realization is that the world really doesn’t

understand adoption. Along with my heart change, I

gained an understanding of what adoption really was.

In my heart, that was a bigger issue than I would have

acknowledged 15 years ago. I was resistant because I

didn’t understand it.

Adoption OPTIONby: Mike Berry, dad of 8

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Understanding the differences and the process

The Stanley children. Grant and Grady are biological brothers, Gillian

and Gia are adopted from Guatemala and Colombia, respectively.


That’s true for our culture as well. Up until a decade ago, the

world saw adoption as something only couples with fertility

issues, or extremely wealthy couples did. It was not the sort of

thing the average middle class family, with or without fertility

issues, or a normal bank account chose to do. Now, thanks

to public adoptions by celebrities like Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt

and Sandra Bullock, and movies like Juno and The Odd Life of

Timothy Green, it’s more of a cultural norm and the world is

becoming familiar with it. But, familiarity and understanding

are very different.

So, what are the different types of adoption? What should a

couple know before they begin the process? How will they

know which option is right for them? What are the costs

associated with each? What emotions will couples experience

through this process?

Michele Tiek works with an organization called The Jeremiah

29:11 Project, which is a non-profit organization formed to

financially assist families with adoption. She shares, “Anytime

a new child comes into a home, there is great joy! We are so

thankful for the way that God brought each of our children into

our home and for their unique journey.” (Find out more about

The Jeremiah 29:11 Project by visiting www.Jeremiah29-11

project.com.)

I would echo her words based on our own experience. There

is great joy when your child arrives home. But, there are also

trials. Couples or families can expect a healthy dose of both.

Understanding the DifferencesHere are the three main options for adoption:

Domestic Adoption:

By definition, this is any adoption that takes places within

the country you live in. The average cost for this option is

$17,000-$25,000 if you work with an agency. This includes

birth mother living expenses, home study fees, lawyer costs

and a few other miscellaneous costs. It really comes down to

which agency you work with or if you work with an agency at

all. Couples or families may choose to do a private adoption

with just a lawyer. This will save on cost but there is more risk.

“Agencies will provide the adoptive families with known

medical history of the birth mother, known medications taken,

etc. Families often get ultrasounds of the baby and even get to

attend doctor appointments with the birth mother,” Tiek stated.

This process is usually faster than international adoption

or foster-to-adopt, averaging anywhere from four to twelve

months, from the beginning of the process to placement.

Children are usually placed at birth.

International Adoption:

By definition, this is any adoption that takes place outside of

the country you live in. The most well-known countries that

people adopt from are China, Russia and Ukraine. However,

there are many other countries that are open to this process.

The average cost is around $25,000-$50,000, which goes

toward travel expenses, various agency fees, specific country

expenses and home study costs. On average, this process can

take anywhere from twelve months to four years. Each country

is different when it comes to the types and ages of children

that are available for adoption.

Foster-To-Adopt:

By definition this is any adoption that happens as a result

of working with the foster care system. Couples or families

who choose this option must go through foster care training

and then indicate their desire to be a foster-to-adopt home.

This option can be a very long and drawn out process. On

average is takes anywhere from two to four years to finalize

an adoption. There are little to no costs associated with

this option.

The Legal SideAlong with understanding the options, it is important to be

aware of the legal side of the adoption process. In all three

options, couple or families will work with a lawyer or a legal

team. Many adoption agencies have designated lawyers, or

law firms, whom they work with regularly.

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Michele Jackson is the founder of Harden-Jackson LLC,

in Carmel where she serves as Chair of the Adoption and

Reproductive Law Practice Group and concentrates her law

practice in adoption, surrogacy and international family law.

She is also the founder and CEO of MLJ Adoptions, Inc. MLJ

Adoptions is an international adoption agency based in

Indianapolis. (Read more about Michele’s work at www.ml-

jadoptions.com and www.hardenjacksonlaw.com.)

When speaking of specific adoption law, as it relates to

international adoption, Jackson shares, “Always use a

licensed agency that is licensed in your state and has Hague

Approval. Be patient – international adoption involves state,

federal, foreign and international laws and typically four to

seven different governmental agencies. It is a difficult and

complicated process.” In terms of domestic adoption, she

encourages prospective couples or families to trust their

agency and follow the instructions they provide.

“Know what type of relationship you may have with your

child’s birth family and be open to opportunities for

connection, rather than being scared to connect,” Jackson

said.

Taking The Next StepThe biggest question that most couples or families

considering adoption ask is, “What are the next steps in this

process?” The decision to choose one option over the other

really comes down to family make up, lifestyle and financial

ability. I recommend meeting with people who have gone

through the specific process you are considering. Ask lots

of questions and spend time researching everything online.

Don’t rush into anything. Take your time. This is a life-long

decision. But, it’s a decision with enormous blessing!

Follow Mike’s parenting blog at

www.confessionsofaparent.com.

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to connect.

Know what type of relationshipyou may have with your child's

birth family and be open to opportunities for connection,

rather than being scared


Saturday, May 11thfrom 9am-1pm

at White River State Park

This is a free and fun dayfor the whole family!

Games and giveaways,education for mom and baby,

wellness activities andshopping, bounce houses,

live music and more!

Don’t miss out – visitwww.marchforbabies.org

to learn all about theday’s events!

Indy’s Child

Family Fairand

March for

BABIESCome be a part

of theIndy’s Child

Family Fair with the March of Dimes!


WHAT'S AFTER SCHOOLby: Lindsay Eckert

As summer begins, parents are feeling the heat

to get their children’s vacation off to a great

start. The right activities for your kids can help

them build character and learn about achieving

goals. Tennis and swimming are fun ways to

incorporate self-discipline and strategic thinking

while making kids’ excitement for sports sizzle.

Rick Witsken, Team Witsken Tennis owner, has

a lengthy resume of success on the court and

starting the sport as a 7-year-old built the foun-

dation for more than an extraordinary swing.

“Tennis players are very successful human be-

ings; I benefited from tennis in my professional

development because [it’s a sport] based on

individual achievement. I relied on myself and

knew I had to make my own way as a singles

player. That mind-

set helped my

entrepreneur-

ial skills,”

Witsken

said.

According

to www.livestrong.

com, tennis

also boasts a

host of life-long

health benefits. The

running and physical motion associated with

the sport increases bone mass to prevent

players from facing osteoporosis later in life.

Tennis tones muscles while burning calories and

increasing metabolism to maintain or achieve a

healthy weight.

Witsken says tennis is also a sport that pairs

well with swimming. His club tennis teams meet

on community courts next to pools – a coinci-

dence parents should use to their advantage.

“Skilled development in the pool is helpful for

tennis. The cardiovascular training for swimming

really helps on the court. When it’s 100 degrees,

the swimmers’ tough training methods make

them more competitive in a three-set match,” Witsken said. “Being multi-sport oriented

also prevents burn out.”

Opening a child’s athletic horizons can start at an early age and the instructors at Car-

mel’s new Goldfish Swim School believe swimming is great for building enthusiasm for a

sport and keeping kids’ minds well-rounded.

Katie Lee, a former collegiate swimmer and mother of three, is the owner of the fran-

chise’s newest location that’s home to teaching more than just the back stroke. “We love

swimming here and we’re in the business of building confidence,” Lee said. “The kids are

excited to be learning a new sport and they don’t even realize we’re teaching so many

other things other than swimming; they’re also learning a passion.”

Swimming provides some unique benefits as well, according to Discovery Health. The

water’s capability to lighten the body’s weight makes it a low-impact sport with highly-

beneficial results ranging from increased range of motion as all the major muscle groups

are used, a deeper sleep at night and improved asthma symptoms as it increases lung

capacity and teaches proper breathing skills.

With so many benefits of these two activities, swimming and tennis are definitely the

sports of the season.

Interested in learning more?Here’s a sample of the many swimming and tennis opportunities available in our area.

SWIMMING and TENNIS

SWIMMING

Carmel Swim Clubwww.carmelswimclub.org

Fishers Area Swim Team (FAST)www.fasttigers.com

Goldfish Swim Schoolwww.goldfishswimschool.com

TENNIS

Barbara S. Wynne Tennis Centerwww.tennisprogram.com

Carmel Racquet Clubwww.carmelraquetclub.com

Fishers YMCAwww.indymca.org

Hamilton County Community Tennis Associationwww.hccta.org

Team Witsken Tenniswww.teamwitsken.com

Southeastern Swim Club (SSC)www.southeasternswim.org

Stony Creek Swim Centerwww.stonycreekswimcenter.com

Viper Aquaticswww.viperaquatics.org


by: Susan Bryant, mom of 2

“What are we going to do for my birthday this year Mom?” If only adults had the same enthusiasm for their birthdays. A birthday party is a highlight in a kid’s year however, and thinking about the many ways it could be celebrated is half the fun.

For some years, a low-key celebration with family at home is the right choice; other years a more elaborate party might be in order. If you have several children, you know what works for one age group won’t necessarily be appealing to another. Here’s some tips on how to ap-proach your party planning this year and ideas for creative ways to celebrate.

BabiesOf course we all know that a one-year-old does not look forward to, understand or possibly even enjoy their first birthday. But – that doesn’t mean we can resist throwing a party anyway! That first birth-day is a big deal. Along with celebrating a baby’s “big day,” it signifies for parents the often hard work of making it through a baby’s first year.

Keep in mindPlan a day that does not diverge too far from your baby’s normal schedule. The hullabaloo of family and friends can quickly overwhelm this tiny guest of honor, making “It’s my party and I’ll cry if I want to” the theme of the day. For the best results, save the blowout party ideas for when a child is a little older and can enjoy the effort.

Good options A party at home works well. Grab the video camera and focus on the simple joys your baby delights in – the squish of cake through chubby fingers, helium balloons that magically float and the antics of everyone making a fuss over them. These simple (and inexpensive) thrills are all they need. Soon

enough, this approach won’t cut it, so enjoy the minimal effort it takes to make your baby happy now.

Toddlers & preschoolersThat blissful ignorance of babyhood is gone, and your little one knows exactly what a birthday party is all about now! In your child’s mind, his or her birthday party is the social event of the season so catch their enthusiasm and have fun planning a party with all the Spider Man/Princess/Hello Kitty/Elmo-themed madness you can take.

Keep in mindConsider keeping the guest list to a minimum – no need to invite the entire preschool class if you feel this may overwhelm your child. It’s easy to have an event turn into a frenzy, so enlist the help of some other parents. Choose activities that don’t require elaborate instruc-tion or too much time waiting for turns. Keep it short; a couple of hours is fine. Long parties stretch patience – better to end the celebration with everyone’s good moods still intact.

Good options

Gymboree – www.gymboreeclasses.com

Recreation Unlimited – www.recreationunltd.com

My Gym – www.mygym.com/fishers

Silly Safaris – www.sillysafaris.com

Monkey Joe’s – www.monkeyjoes.com

Pony Ride Parties – www.ponyrideparty.com

Oogles and Googles – www.ooglesngoogles.com

Divas, Dudes and Doodlebugs – www.divasdudesdoodlebugs.com

Elementary schoolersThe party-planning stakes can get pretty high with this crowd who seem to get invited to a birthday every weekend. Don’t compete for the title of “biggest bash.” Find something the birthday boy or girl would really enjoy, even if it’s something simple, and go with that.

Keep in mindOlder kids have the patience and interest now for crafts and games

Birthday party tips and ideas for every age


and a bigger guest list is more easily managed. The sky is the limit on birthday party ideas, themes and places for this group. Decide your budget in advance so you can enjoy the day knowing you can afford next year’s party.

Good options

Pinheads – www.bowlatpinheads.com

Ben and Ari’s Arcade, Miniature Golf & Mini Bowling – www.benandari.com

Rolling Video Games – www.rollingvideogames.com

Stony Creek Swim Center – www.stonycreekswimcenter.com

Indy Dance Academy – www.indydanceacademy.com

Bounce U – www.bounceu.com

Sharkey’s Cuts for Kids Glamour Girl Parties – www.sharkeyscutsforkids.com

The Sweet Life Cake Decorating Parties – www.sweetlifefishers.com

Tweens & teensAt this age, kids will have their own definite ideas for how they want to celebrate their birthday. Give them some parameters and let them take a bigger role in the planning process.

Keep in mindConsider having a special day planned for your child with just one or two of his or her closest friends. A smaller guest list can bring down the cost from a big party, and let you splurge a bit on an activity meant for only the most special friends.

Good options

Hamilton County Sports Complex – www.thesportscomplex.net

Laser Flash – www.laser-flash.com

Climb Time Indy – www.climbtimeindy.com

Sky Zone – www.skyzonesports.com

Carmel Ice Skadium – www.carmeliceskadium.com

Kiln Creations – www.kilncreations.com

Beads Amore – www.beadsamore.com

Amanda Wood Event Design – www.facebook.com/AmandaWoodEvents

Whether your party is over-the-top or small and intimate, take the day to really celebrate what’s special about your son or daughter. Each birth-day brings your child one year closer to growing up and moving on. As he or she blows out the candles on the cake this year, you might just find yourself wishing for more parties to plan.

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As any parent can attest, raising kids can be difficult. Moodi-

ness, temper tantrums, impulsiveness – these are just a few of the

challenges parents often face with children. But when a rough patch

seems particularly long or worrisome, parents are left to wonder if a

more serious issue is behind these behaviors.

Children’s Mental Health Awareness Week is May 5 to May 11. Since

mental health issues are often considered “adult” problems, the goal

of this program is to shed light on the particular struggles children

encounter when faced with psychological and behavioral problems.

How do these problems reveal themselves? Susan Oxfurth, Clinical

Social Worker at North Meridian Psychiatric Associates in Indianapo-

lis, said the initial red flags of a mental health issue are most visible to

the involved parent.

“Parents are the best gauge,” she said. A drop in grades, headaches

without a medical problem, anxiety and loss of appetite can all be

signs that something may be upsetting your child. “If problem solving

isn’t working, an issue lasts a long time or there’s a sharp contrast in

moods, that’s when parents typically seek us out,” said Oxfurth. (See

sidebar for more “red flags” parents should be aware of.)

Unfortunately, a stigma around mental health disorders still exists,

and can prevent even well-meaning parents from seeking help for

their troubled child. According to a national survey by the Child Mind

Institute, nearly one in four parents reported being concerned about a

child's mental health. While the majority of concerned parents sought

treatment (87%), almost half (43%) waited more than a year and

nearly a quarter (22%) waited more than two years to get help.

Concerned parents are hardly alone however. The National Alliance

on Mental Illness reports that 4 million children and adolescents in

America suffer from a serious mental illness that causes significant

functional impairments at home, at school and with peers.

What are the first steps a parent should take if they think their child

needs help? Gloria Hood, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist,

Social Worker and Executive Director of the Indiana Center for Chil-

dren and Families suggests that parents choose a safe, private place

to talk with their child about any feelings, thoughts or events that have

been bothering him or her. Contacting a child’s teachers for feed

back on their child’s social, emotional and behavioral adjustment can

provide more insight. A visit with the child’s pediatrician to rule out

possible health concerns is also a good idea. If seeing a therapist is in

order, finding a professional who specializes in the area of concern or

the age of the child is important.

In fact, building a relationship early in life with a therapist can be a

source of support throughout one’s life. “I may see [kids] for a few

bumps that come up as a teenager, and they feel like we’re user

friendly and come back in college,” says Oxfurth.

With early intervention and the support of those around them, children

can develop the skills they need to tackle the mental health issues

that may arise for them now and in their future.

Parents should seek help if they see these behaviors in their children:

– Thoughts, threats or attempts to harm self or others (including animals)

– Academic failure

– Sudden change in emotions, behavior, sleep patterns or appetite

– Angry outbursts with aggression

– Frequent sadness or tearfulness without seeming cause

– Isolation, no apparent friend connections

– Excessive fearfulness

– Low self esteem

– Unusual sexual behavior, preoccupation or interest

Source: Gloria Hood, Executive Director, Indiana Center for Children and Families

Children’s Mental Health Kids face psychological challenges too

to yourby: Lindsay Eckert and Susan Bryant

HEALTH.

northMounds State Park (www.in.gov/dnr/parklake/2977.htm), just outside of Anderson, features 10 unique earth-works built by the prehistoric Adena-Hopewell people and dating back as far as 200 B.C. An interpretive center brings the history of the mounds to life. You can also tour the historic Bronnenberg House, which tells the story of the family who discovered the mounds in the 1800s and fought to preserve them.

Further north you will find the Fort Wayne Children’s Zoo (www.kidszoo.org), which earned the number one spot on the Indiana Tourism Office’s 2012 “Summer Gotta-Dos” list. Escape on an African Journey, head down under for an Australian Adventure, trek through an Indonesian Rain Forest…and still be home by bedtime.

southWhen temperatures heat up this summer, instead of escaping indoors, why not escape underground? At Blue Spring Cav-erns (www.bluespringcaverns.com), nestled in the rolling hills of Bedford, you can take an hour-long boat tour of America’s longest underground river and enjoy brisk temperatures that hover around 52º. Keep your eyes peeled for underground dwellers, such as the elusive blind cavefish. Above ground, a ½ mile hike leads to Indiana’s largest sinkhole covering over 15 acres.

If you prefer indoor exploration, head to downtown Columbusto explore kidscommons Children’s Museum (www.kidscom-mons.org). Kidscommons offers three floors of interactive

exhibits that allow children to climb a 17-foot wall, create music on a laser harp, power a robotic arm and fulfill every child’sfantasy – hanging out in the museum’s world famous gianttoilet.

eastBaseball may be America’s pastime, but in Indiana, it is all about basketball, baby! And the Indiana Basketball Hall of Fame (www.hoopshall.com) in New Castle is the place to celebrate the proud heritage of this sport from its origins in the 1890s to present day. After immersing yourself in the interactive exhibits housed in this 14,000 square foot museum, venture to nearby Knightstown and visit the Historic Hoosier Gym (www.the-hoosiergym.com). Although built over 90 years ago, this gym did not gain acclaim until it was chosen as the filminglocation for the movie “Hoosiers” in 1986. The gym remains virtually untouched since its last remodel in the 1950s allowing


Exploring Indianaday trips perfect for the summer monthsIf a summer vacation is not in the budget this year, never fear. With so many destinations just a short drive from Hamilton County, it is possible to get away without even crossing the state line. Below are just a few ideas for family getaways that can easily be managed in a single day.

by: Karen Ring, mom of 2

May/June 2013 | HAMILTON COUNTY FAMILY 29 www.hamiltoncountyfamily.com

Exploring Indianavisitors to step back in time and imagine their very own “Hoosier”-style game-winning shot.

For a trip of a different sort, take to the

rails. On Saturdays and Sundays during the months of May through October, the White-water Valley Railroad (www.whitewaterval-leyrr.org) in Connersville offers day trips to historic Metamora. Board the train for a sce-nic 90-minute ride and then spend the 2-hour layover exploring the restored canal town, complete with working gristmill and over 100 shops and restaurants. Themed train rides, such as Day out with Thomas™ and Dinosaur Train™, are also offered during the summer months.

westVisiting the Tippecanoe Battlefield (www.tcha.mus.in.us/battlefield.htm) located in the aptly named town of Battle Ground, affords the opportunity to walk the grounds of the historic battle that pitted Tecumseh’s Indian Confederacy against United States forces led by Governor William Henry Har-rison and served as a precursor to the War of 1812. A museum on the grounds relays events leading up to battle, as well as its aftermath.

Indiana Beach (www.indianabeach.com) in Monticello offers three distinct areas of fun: Boardwalk Funway with an array of rides that suit toddlers to adults; Ideal Beach Water-park, complete with sand beach and water rides galore; and Adventure Point, home to a zipline, rock wall and ropes course. Specta-tor admission is available for a mere $3.50 for those who prefer to watch the fun from the sidelines.

No matter which direction you head thissummer, there is an Indiana adventureawaiting you. Let the road trip begin!


One of my friends has a mom I admire for the fact that every

time I see her she is calm, cool and collected. She raised five

kids and I always wondered if she was this "together" when they

were all young. I decided to ask her recently just that – was she

always this calm when she was raising her children? She said,

"My advice is never let them see you sweat. If you let on that you

are freaking out on the inside, everything could fall apart." She

went on to say, “If I reacted to every situation like it was the end

of the world, eventually my kids would have expected for the

world to end.” Her advice reminded me of the current popular

saying that we see posted everywhere: "Keep Calm and Carry

On." This is not to say that as parents we should “fake it,” but

rather, to have the wisdom to know when to keep our emotions

in check.

It’s like the moment we have all experienced as a parents when

your kiddo falls off their bike and you jump to your feet to dust

them off with a happy voice to let them know that they are

indeed okay, as they stand there with their lip quivering, trying

to decide if they're going to cry or not. Our calm reaction helps

reassure them that they are not seriously hurt. As a parent, you

only have a few seconds to give them that reassurance before

that lip quivering turns into a full on meltdown. Most times, how

we react determines how our kids are going to react and handle

a situation.

I was recently thinking about a moment I had with my dad. He

was fighting cancer and in the hospital undergoing a bone mar-

row transplant. When I arrived at his room, I had to scrub in and

wear a gown, gloves and mask to stay sterile due to his extreme-

ly low blood count. He saw my face go scared when I walked

in the room and he immediately smiled and made a joke. I was

scared, contemplating if I was going to sob or not. He looked at

me, smiled and gave me a thumbs up. Although I was 20 years

old at the time, I was desperate for his reassurance. He gave

me the confidence that I needed to handle the situation. I think

about that day now that I am a parent myself – am I giving my

kids the confidence to keep calm and carry on? My dad did pass

away a few days later, but the lasting moment I carry with me is

his ability to reassure me and the wisdom to know that someday,

my own children will be watching me to learn how to navigate

difficult situations.

One of the best gifts we can give our children is reassurance. It

doesn’t have to be fancy, expensive or wrapped up in a grand

moment. It can, in fact, be done with a simple smile and a

thumbs up!

Mary Susan Buhner is a Life Coach for Moms and author of “Mommy Magic: Tricks for Staying Sane in the Midst of Insanity.” Visit her Mommy Magic Fan Page on Facebook and her websiteat: www.Mommy-Magic.com.

Mommy Magicby: Mary Susan Buhner, mom of 3

Keeping Calm, Carrying OnKids take their emotional cues from parents


MOviES in THE PARkFishers Movies in the ParkFridays through May 31 (no movie May 17)

Time: Dusk Price: FreeMore information: www.fishers.in.us/parks/movies Phone: 317-595-3150Location: Nickel Plate District Amphitheater, Fishers

Carmel Clay Parks Movies in the ParkFridays, June 7, July 12 and August 2

Time: 9:30PM Price: FreeLocation: Varies, see website More information: www.carmelclayparks.com/

SuMMER COnCERTSNoblesville SummerConcert SeriesThursdays, May 30 through July 25 (no concert July 4)

Times: 7:00 PMPrice: FreeLocation: Dillon Park for May/June concerts; Forest Park for July concertsWebsite: http://bit.ly/13tJpJs

Carmel Clay Parks Kids ConcertsMondays, June 3 through August 5 (no concert July 1)

Time: 10:00AM -11:00AMPrice: Free

Location: Rotates between West Park and River Heritage ParkMore information: www.carmelclayparks.com

Fishers Summer Concert Series Tuesdays, June 4 through July 16Time: 7pm-9pmPrice: FreeLocation: Nickel Plate District Amphitheater, Fishers For more information: www.fishers.in.us/parks/sum-merconcerts

Summer Concerts at the Carmel GazeboWednesdays, June 5 through August 7 (no concert July 3)

Times: 7:30 PM (Ruditoonz children’s concerts at 6PM on June 5 and July 10)Price: FreeLocation: Gazebo in Civic Square, CarmelMore information: www.carmelgazeboconcerts.org/

2013 Cool Creek Summer Concert Series Fridays, June 14 through July 9 (no concert on July 5)

Time: Gates open at 6pm and concerts begin at 7pm Price: $5 for adults; kids 12 and under, freeLocation: Cool Creek Park, CarmelMore information: 317 770-4407

Marsh® Symphony on the PrairieFridays, June 21 through August 30 (with the excep-tion of Wed., July 3)

Price: See website for ticket pricingPhone: 317-776-6000Location: Conner Prairie, FishersMore information: http://connerprairie.org/


GUIDEFARMERS MARkETSThe Green MarketFridays, May 3 through October 25

Times: 4:00PM-8:00 PM Location: Trader’s Point Creamery, ZionsvilleFor more information: www.tpforganics.com

Carmel Farmers MarketSaturdays, May 18 through October 5

Times: 8:00AM-11:30AMLocation: Center Green, next to the PalladiumFor more information: http://car-melfarmersmarket.com/

Noblesville Farmers MarketSaturdays, May 18 through October 12

Times: 8:00AM-12:30PMLocation: Riverview Overflow Parking LotFor more information: www.noblesvillemainstreet.org

Fishers Farmers MarketSaturdays, May 25 through September 28

Times: 8:00AM-noonLocation: Fishers AmphitheaterFor more information: www.fisherschamber.com/chamber/Farmers_Market.aspx

Westfield Farmers MarketFridays, June 7 through September 27

Times: 5:00PM-8:00PMLocation: North Union Street, next to City HallFor more information: www.dwna.org/site/events/farmers-market

FESTivALSCivil War DaysSaturday, May 18 and Sunday,May 19

Times: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PMPrice: Included with general admissionLocation: Conner Prairie, FishersFor more information: http://conner-prairie.org/

Nickel Plate Arts WeekendFriday, June 7 through Sunday, June 9

Times: See website for schedule of eventsPrice: FreeLocation: There will be art-based events taking place throughout Hamilton Co.For more information: http://nickelplatearts.org/

Fishers Freedom FestivalSaturday, June 29 through Sunday, June 30

Price: FreeLocation: Roy G. Holland Memorial Park, FishersFor more information: www.fishersfreedomfestival.org/

CarmelFestWednesday, July 3 and Thursday, July 4

Times: See website for schedule of eventsPrice: FreeLocation: Carmel Civic SquareFor more information: www.carmelfest.net/


Reci PleaseA true sign that warmer weather is here? The aromas from outdoor grills filling up the senses! Catching a deep breath of food cooking on a grill makes a person’s mouth start to water – and the savory fragrance of herbs can magnify the experience. Whether fresh or dried, herbs are an excellent way to avoid higher sodium options for enhancing a food’s flavor. This recipe is also delicious with pork chops substituted for the chicken breasts.

HERB GRILLED CHICKENNote: When using fresh herbs, use one tablespoon fresh herb for every teaspoon of dried herb.

• 4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts • 2 teaspoons dried rosemary • 2 teaspoons minced garlic • 2 teaspoons lemon pepper

STEPS: 1. Place chicken breasts in resealable bag.

2. In a small bowl combine spices and olive oil. Pour over chicken in resealable bag.

3. Marinate overnight.

4. Cook chicken on grill until fully cooked, with an internal temperature of 165°.

by: Nicole Turner, Registered Dietician, mom of 2

• 4 teaspoons olive oil• 2 teaspoons dried thyme• 1 teaspoon red pepper flakes

Side note: Looking for an easy side to accompany this recipe? Cut zuc-chini, yellow squash, and eggplant length-wise into 1/2-inch thick pieces and place in a resealable bag. Add quartered red onions and whole portabella mushrooms. Then, place 1/2 cup balsamic vinaigrette dressing over vegetables. Marinate overnight. Grill vegetables until golden and slightly firm. Remove from heat and cut into chunks.



by: Elizabeth Henderson

Go early!It’s true – the early bird gets the worm. Plan to get to the sale a few

minutes before it starts. You’ll get first picks and won’t miss out on

that special item you may discover.

Map out your route.Make a list of the garage sales you want to go to the night before.

Craigslist is a great resource for finding sales in your neighborhood.

Make a list of where you plan to go and then find the best route to

save both on time and gas.

Barter!People have garage sales to get rid of items they no longer want.

Don’t hesitate to offer a lower price. The worst they can do is say no.

Five Garage Sale Tricks of the TradeHit the ground running as the season kicks off!

Buy in piles.The more you buy, the better the bargain! After rummaging through

and making a pile of the items you want to buy, add each individual

item up and then offer the seller one amount. For example, if the

items in the pile add up to $30, offer $25. Sellers are usually willing to

cut you a deal when you buy multiple items.

Don’t be afraid of dirt.Anything can look good with a fresh coat of paint! When looking for

furniture, pay attention to the lines of the piece and the quality of the

material. With a little soap, water and a fresh coat of paint – anything

can be made new!

The thrill of the hunt wakes me out of bed every Saturday morning and spurs me to hop in the car and start the garage sale chase. I would be ly-

ing if I didn’t say I get an adrenaline rush each time I snatch up the perfect item at a bargain price. The saying is true – ones man’s trash is

another man’s treasure! Here are five helpful tips I’ve learned along the way:

Since drought conditions may continue, the smart thing to do is to plan your garden around drought tolerant trees, shrubs and perenni-als. You can still have a pretty garden with a variety of colors and textures without spending lots of money or time watering. Remember though, that the first year these plants are in your garden they must be watered frequently to develop their root systems.Here is a sample list of drought tolerant plants for our Midwest gardens.

Trees: American Beech, Black Oak, Bur Oak, Hackberry, Ginko (male only), Japanese Zelova, Washington Hawthorne

Shrubs: Barberry, Beautyberry, Caryopteris (‘Blue Mist’, ‘Bluebeard’), Flowering Quince, Nine Bark, Spice Bush, Spirea.

Perennials for shade: Columbine, Hermann’s Pride Lamium (not aggressive), Variegated Solomon’s Seal, Sweet Woodruff

Perennials for sun: Amsonia, False Indigo, Cone Flower, Gallarida, Goldenrod (‘Fireworks’, ‘Golden Fleece’), Glove Thistle, ornamental grasses (‘Feather Reed’, ‘Fountain’, ‘Little Bluestem’, ‘Switch Grass’), Hens and Chickens, Russian Sage, Salvia (‘May Night’), Sea Holly, and Sedums

Tip: proper mulching and efficient watering with drip irrigation or watering with a hose early in the morning will decrease water usage.

– Submitted by Peggy Powers, Marion Co. Master Gardener Association since 1999, President: Friends Garden Club at HistoricAmbassador House in Fishers


askEXPERT:THE LANDSCAPING &

GARDENINGPROFESSIONALS

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Factors to consider for the treatment of Emerald Ash Borer need to in-clude an assessment of the canopy of the tree to determine the extent of damage. Trees with more than 30% of canopy affected are probably not worth saving. Even where less than 30% of the canopy is affected, de-cline will continue even in trees that are treated and this must be taken into consideration. The direct injection method has proven very effective in providing control and should be considered based upon the extent of damage. Consultation with knowledgeable professionals who are aware of the effect of the progression of damage as the insect moves through the canopy and of the current geographical distribution of infestation should help the landowner determine if treatment is warranted. For more information, visit the Purdue University website at www.extension.entm.purdue.edu/eab/index.php.

The following is a list of trees that would be suitable for replacing Ash trees: Elm, Oak, Ginkgo, Maple, Linden and Honeylocust.

– Submitted by Jeff Salsbery, President, Salsbery Brothers Landscaping in Carmel

“Do I still need to treat my ash trees for the ash borer? What types of trees do you suggest I use

to replace the ones I had to remove?”

“We have such dry summers in our area. What are some hearty plants that can survive an Indiana drought?”


"I’m overwhelmed with how to start landscaping my yard. What should I consider first?

And what will give me the most 'bang for my buck'?”

Start by asking yourself a few questions. Are you a do-it-yourselfer, or would you like to hire a contractor? Are you in a new home with minimal landscape supplied by the builder? Or do you have an existing home with mature landscape? How long do you plan to stay in the home? What are your maintenance requirements? Answering these questions will get you started in the right direction.

By contacting a professional, you can start with a good design which will save you from putting a lot of time and money into a project that doesn't look good in the end. Once you have some good design ideas, you can save by installing the project yourself if you are landscape savvy. If you are in a new construction home, you may have a great landscape in which case you just need to let it grow! Homeowners with mature landscapes may need to consider “rip and tear” projects leaving only key focal point elements and removing large overgrown plants.

How long you plan to stay at the home will help guide the landscape investment. For short term homes you want to focus on projects that will enhance the curb appeal and resale value. For homes where you plan to stay long term, larger landscape projects with bigger budgets are more common.

Finally, consider your maintenance needs. If you travel a lot or your schedule does not afford much free time for outdoor work, then you're like 99% of customers who request low main-tenance. Never fear, you can still have color without all the work. There are plenty of dwarf and compact varieties of plants that offer tons of color. Happy planting!

– Submitted by Kirk Pfiel, Landscape Designer, Allison-ville Nursery in Fishers


I think it can, but do I think that

it does? No, I honestly don't. Be-

cause if you've got an eye on your

child, and you are sure that he is not

aggressive or bottling up any anger,

then it can be an okay activity.

– Jenny V.

I agree with Laura. I have two sons who like

to play these types of games. One it brings out the

anger; one it has no effect on him at all. I believe

it depends on the aggressive behavior tendency

within the child. – Beth L.

I think if the child has a tendency toward

aggressive behavior, it can enhance that

behavior. And waiting until your child is of

an appropriate age to know the difference

between reality and violent fiction is a good

idea. – Laura L.

Virtual violence

In the wake of tragic mass shootings that seem almost commonplace now, we’re left to wonder what spurs this type of unfathomable behavior in the young perpetrators committing these acts. Many point to a culture of violence in our country, where activities like vio-lent video games are popular entertainment for kids. Some say that exposure to these games desensitizes children to violence, making it easier for them to tolerate and engage in actual aggressive behavior. Others argue that these types of games attract kids who already have violent tendencies, and don’t have a negative impact on well-adjusted children. Whatever the argument, it seems that surely we can think of a better way for kids to spend their free time than having them hunt down and kill something – even if it is done virtually. That’s my opinion. What’s yours? – Susan Bryant, Editor

In Our OpinionMAY/JUNE 2013

“Do you think playing violent video games can translateto real-life aggressive behavior in kids?"

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Let us hearyour opinion!

Not at all... parenting is the

issue. – Tanaia M.

I think playing violent video games can result in aggressive behavior amongst some kids,

but not all. I think these games could give kids ideas and thoughts that may result in inappro-

priate behavior when it's combined with the impulsiveness of this age group. – Donna W.

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We want to know what parents in our community think about important topics affecting our children. Send me a message at [email protected] to join our email panel.Your opinion matters and we want to hear it!


May | thurs 02 – sat 04Kid's Closet Connection - IndianapolisCome find fabulous new and gently used clothing, toys, equipment, maternity, baby gear, strollers, car seats, exer-saucers, high chairs, purses, diaper bags, bikes, bedding and much more.

Times: 9:00 AM - 7:00 PMPhone: 317-439-8922Location: Fishers Banquet Center, FishersWebsite: www.kidscloset.biz

May | fri 03Pajama-RamaPut on your cutest pair of pajamas, grab your favorite teddy bear, pack up an old blanket, and join us for Pajama-Rama! Families looking for a fun program to enjoy with their toddlers and preschoolers will love the Music Educator from Moriah Mu-sic who will lead us in songs and stories about some of our favorite animals. Best for families with children ages 1-7.

Times: 7:00 PMPrice: FreePhone: 317-774-2500Location: Cool Creek Park, CarmelWebsite: www.hamiltoncounty.in.gov

May | sat 04National Train DayThe Indiana Transportation Museum celebrates National Train Day a week in advance of the official date in order for it to coincide with the opening date of the 2013 season. Come for caboose rides, speeder trips, and more!

Times: 9:00 AM – 5:00 PMPrice: $5.00 per person, ages 2 & upLocation: Indiana Transportation Mu-seum, NoblesvilleWebsite: www.itm.org/

May | sat 04 – sun 05Indiana Ballet Conservatory presents CipollinoWith underlying themes of the struggle of the underclass against the powerful, good versus evil, and the importance of friendship during times of challenge, this humorous and enchanting story is perfect for both children and adults, and has rarely been staged in the U.S. With a musi-cal score that will delight and classical choreography to challenge and impress, Cipollino is a "must see!"

Times: Sat., 7:00 PM; Sun., 2:00PMPrice: $25-$28Location: Indianapolis Museum of Art’s Tobias Theater, IndianapolisWebsite: www.IndianaBalletConservatory.org

May | tues 07Marvelous MomsFor children ages 2-5 & their caregivers. Come join us for books celebrating Mom and a craft. No registration is required.

Times: 10:00 AM and 11:00 AMLocation: Carmel Clay Public LibraryWebsite: www.carmel.lib.in.us

May | sat 11Indy's Child Family Fair @March for BabiesThe March for Babies walk is approxi-mately 3.1 miles long. Registration opens at 9 a.m. along with the Indy's Child Fam-ily Fair. The walk will begin at 10 a.m. After the walk everyone will return to Celebra-tion Plaza for the Indy's Child Family Fair, which will include booths, a kids' zone, entertainment, live music, food, and much much more!

Times: 9:00 AM - 1:00 PMPrice: FreeLocation: White River State Park, Indianapolis

Website: www.indyschild.com/SitePage-18659.114134-Indys-Child-Family-Fair.htm

May | sat 04 – sun 05Storytime Express @ the Library: Let’s RaceFor children ages 2-5 & their caregivers. Join us for a book and craft – just what your family needs to kick-start a library visit. No registration is required.

Date: Thursday, May 16, 2013Times: 10:00 AM and 11:00 AMLocation: Carmel Clay Public Library, Carmel Website: www.carmel.lib.in.us

May | sat 18Lemonade Day!Lemonade Day is a FREE, fun initiative designed to teach kids of all ages how to start, own and operate their own business - a lemonade stand! See website for more information on how to participate.

Location: City Wide!Website: indianapolis.lemonadeday.org

May | tues 21Swamp ThingsRoll up your sleeves and prepare to get a little dirty and a little wet as we dip for wildlife from the safety of the boardwalk. Appropriate for ages 9-13. Registration required by 5/14.

Times: 5:00 PMPrice: R$4/NR$6Phone: 317-595-3458Location: Ritchey Woods Nature Pre-serve, FishersWebsite: www.fishers.in.us/


To Do With Your CrewMAY/JUNE 2013

May | fri 31Teen Summer Beach PartySummer's finally here so let's celebrate! The teens are taking over the library! Games, prizes, hot dogs, ice cream! Ap-propriate dress required (no bikinis please) but you may get a little wet. Space is limited so you must register by Wednes-day May 29th.

Times: 6:00 PM - 10:00 PMPrice: FreePhone: (317) 773-1384Location: Hamilton County East Library, NoblesvilleWebsite: www.hepl.lib.in.us

June | sat 01Chocolate Fest at the SchoolhouseJoin us for CHOCOLATE FEST. Chocolate plants, chocolate plant combinations, chocolate colored shrubs and different chocolate food tastings thru the day. Don't forget the chocolate covered crickets! It is Garden Thyme's ten-year anniversary in business!

Times: 10:00 AM - 4:00 PMPrice: FreeLocation: Garden Thyme at the Old Schoolhouse, NoblesvilleWebsite: www.pinkpeppercorn.com/

June | fri 07 – sat 08Family Camp OutPitch your tents, roll out your sleeping bags and join Carmel Clay Parks for a night of tye-dying tee shirts, roasting hot dogs, scavenger hunts and more. Prereg-istration by Wed., June 5.

Times: 5:00 PM - 9:00 AMPrice: $10 per personLocation: River Heritage Park, CarmelWebsite: www.carmelclayparks.com/

June | sat 08 – sun 09Bioblitz: Conner Prairie’s Wild SideExplore the biodiversity of our Hoosier landscape as you catch insects, identify wild animal tracks and droppings, use microscopes to study micro-organisms in

soil and water, and interact with local and exotic animals. Times: 10:00 AM - 5:00 PMPrice: Included with general admissionPhone: 317-776-6000Location: Conner Prairie, FishersWebsite: connerprairie.org/

June | sat 08IU Health North Hospital Gallery WalkJoin the monthly tradition of the Second Saturday Gallery Walk in the Carmel Arts & Design District. Enjoy the merchant events/activities, entertainment, culture and shopping of the Carmel Arts and Design District.

Times: 5:00 PM - 10:00 PMPrice: Free admissionLocation: Main Street, CarmelWebsite: www.carmelartsanddesign.com/

June | fri 14 – sun 16The Center Presents: ERTH’s Dinosaur Petting ZooThe artists of Australian theater and visual arts company ERTH have created awe-some prehistoric creatures, from cute baby dinos to teeth-gnashing giants that live in a petting zoo like no other. These life-like dinosaurs come to life in an eye-popping display that is fun, educational and imaginative for all ages.

Price: See website for ticket pricingPhone: (317) 843-3800Location: The Palladium, CarmelWebsite: thecenterfortheperformingarts.org

June | fri 14 – tues 18Beanstalk! The Musical!Filled with hilarious characters, toe-tapping tunes, and more twists than a climbing vine, Beanstalk! The Musical! is guaranteed to grow… and grow… and grow right into your heart.

Times: See website for timesPrice: Tickets start at $10Location: The Tarkington, CarmelWebsite: www.thecenterfortheperformin-garts.org

June | weds 19Dad & Lad FishingFathers and children will enjoy a relaxing day outside trying to catch the big one! This program is open to dads with their lads or lasses and is a great opportunity to create memorable experiences. Appropri-ate for ages 6 & up. Registration required by 5/24.

Times: 9:30 AMPrice: R$2/NR$3Location: Cheeney Creek Natural Area, FishersWebsite: www.fishers.in.us/parks/sum-merconcerts

June | fri 28‘Round the Campfire, Carle’s ChameleonWe will read Mixed up Chameleon by Eric Carle and focus on animal adaptations and camouflage. This program is best suited for families with children in elemen-tary or preschool. Parents are required to stay. Registration required by 6/24.

Times: 7:00 PMPrice: R$4/NR$6Phone: 317-595-3458Location: Ritchey Woods Nature Pre-serve, FishersWebsite: www.fishers.in.us/

For more ideas, visit www.hamiltoncountyfamily.com



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Send it to [email protected] be included in our next issue!

lasterday = yesterday

hanitizer = hand sanitizer

torrible = terrible + horrible

movie-ater = movie theater

lellow = yellow

nokay = no? okay.

hosapill = hospital

all my byself = all by myself

pasketti = spaghetti

kernola = granola

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Learning to talk is a major milestone for kids – and with so many words in the English language, a few are bound to get reinvented. Here’s a selection of the vocabulary words our readers hear from their little ones.

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