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@ALEM BEeKEB SJYYQ
KDVJKJB]XAB ]DZHG FDY hdupljs & fekalajs
Frdk tgj KDVJKJB]X AB ]DZHG Xjrajs
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Mjkdbstretj ydur ldvj watgdut wdrms Patgdut sdubm gjer jehg dtgjr‑s wdrms At‑s tgj spjhael idbm, tgj tduhg, tgj lddo…]gj Maeld`uj fdrkjm ab KDVJKJB]X AB ]DZHG
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]gj iddo, KDVJKJB]X AB ]DZHG FDY HDZSLJX & FEKALAJX, as mjsa`bjm td gjlprjkabm us td keoj takj ab dur mey td akprdvj dur pgysadld`ahel stetj ebm wjll ijab` watgabdursjlvjs ebm watg dur ldvjm dbjs hgebbjljm iy wey df hdkkubahetadb tgrdu`g tduhg ebmkdvjkjbt ‘ lafj‑s kdst iesah abstabhts.
]gj sakpljst tduhg ‘tgj fjjlab` df soab `rezab` soab ‘ es e farst ebm iesah hdkkubahetavjabstabht dftjb ijhdkjs rjplehjm ab dur gjhtah kdmjrb mealy rdutabjs tgrdu`g dtgjr(tjhgbahel) kjebs df hdkkubahetadb suhg es tgj tjljpgdbj, vdahj kjsse`ab`, jkeals, jth.At as akpdrtebt fdr dur pgysadld`ahel ebm sparatuel wjll-ijab ,̀ es wjll es dur hd`batavj ebmsdhael mjvjldpkjbt, td keoj jffdrts td jbsurj tget tgjsj iesah abstabhts rjkeab abteht. Ieiajsbjjm tgajr kdtgjrs‑ tduhg td survavj, hgalmrjb sjjo pgysahel hdbteht frdk tgjar perjbts, ebmell fdrks df keturj rjletadbsgaps ijtwjjb emults rjquarj pgysahel tduhg td sykidlazj kutuelrjhd`batadb ebm ubmjrstebmab`, suhg es e gebm-sgeoj, pet db tgj ieho, jkirehj, jth.
KDVJKJB]X AB ]DZHG mdjs bdt abvdlvj sdpgastahetjm mjvahjs dbly gukeb abtakehy
KDVJKJB]X AB ]DZHG FDY HDZSLJX & FEKALAJX jb`e`js tgj rjemjr ab dppdrtubatajstd akprdvj tgjar gjeltg ebm wjll-ijab`, es wjll es hrjetab` abtaketj kdkjbts abvdlvab`rjlexetadb ebm trebqualaty tgrdu`g tduhg ebm kdvjkjbt. ]gj iddo as mjsa`bjm watg sakpljkdvjkjbts tget heb ij pjrfdrkjm iy eby “pear‛ abhlumab` lafj pertbjrs, perjbt-hgalm,sailab`s, jth.
]gj kdvjkjbts ab tgj iddo ga`gla`gt tgj sa`bafahebhj df “`avab` ebm rjhjavab`‛ td jsteilasgkutuel ubmjrstebmab` ebm gerkdby ijtwjjb pears, pertahulerly watgab tgj fekaly. ]grdu`gkdvjkjbts mjshraijm ab tgj iddo, pertbjrs ij`ab td fabm tgjar dwb fljxaialaty ebm ielebhjebm mashdvjr tgjar pertbjr‑s bjjms ebm lakatetadbs td fdrk fluam ebm pekpjrab` rjsults.
Pj dwj at td dursjlvjs td sjt esamj sgdrt irjeos ab dur mey mjvdtjm td rjljesab` pgysahelstrjssjs ebm mjjpjbab` hdbbjhtadbs watg dur ldvjm dbjs.
]gj kdvjkjbts mjshraijm ab KDVJKJB]X AB ]DZHG FDY HDZSLJX & FEKALAJX erj
suateilj fdr jvjrydbj watgab idubms df eb abmavamuel‑s pgysahel hepeialatajs ebm maseialatajs.Kutuel ubmjrstebmab` ebm tgj gerkdbadus ielebhj df sakplj kdvjkjbts ab pears strjb`tgjbrjletadbsgaps ab tgj fekaly rj`ermljss df tgjar `jbmjr, pgysahel lakatetadbs, e`j dr ettehgkjbt(spdusel, perjbt-hgalm ebm sailab`s) ebm heb gjlp rjmuhj strjssjs erasab` frdk mealy ehtavatajsebm kendr lafj-hgeb`js suhg es rjldhetadb, dr prjperetadb fdr jxekabetadbs, rjhatels,abtjrvajws, eumatadbs ebm dtgjr jvjbts.
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]gj eialaty td ehgajvj gerkdbadus kdvjkjbts fdrks tgj iesas df KDVJKJB]X AB ]DZHG
FDY HDZSLJX & FEKALAJX. ]gjsj sakplj kdvjkjbts erj mjsa`bjm fdr rjljesab` ieho ehgjsebm peabs, sgdulmjr ebm bjho tjbsadb, akprdvjm pdsturj ebm irjetgab`, ebm strjb`tgjbjmeimdkabel ebm pjlvah flddr kushljs.
Murab` dur mealy kdmjrb rdutabjs wj dftjb iualm tjbsadbs ab dur idmajs pertahulerly ab sdkj
df dur kushljs tget erj hdbtabuelly ab e hdbtrehtjm stetj. ]gas pgjbdkjbdb rjsults ab ehgab` ndabts ebm sgelldw irjetg, wgahg abhrjesj tjbsadb jvjb furtgjr. ]gj kdvjkjbts ab tgj iddotget ydu wall ljerb td pjrfdrk wall ljt ydu irjeo tgas hyhlj df tjbsadb ebm peab.
KDVJKJB]X AB ]DZHG FDY HDZSLJX & FEKALAJX prdvamjs sdlutadbs td mealy idmalymashdkfdrts watg e `jbtlj epprdehg ebm e ldvab` tduhg, fdubmjm db dur iesah gukeb abstabhtsdf kdvjkjbt ebm tduhg, fdr akprdvjm pgysahel ebm sdhael wjll-ijab`.
“A werkly rjhdkkjbm tgj iddo, KDVJKJB]X AB ]DZHG FDY HDZSLJX & FEKALAJX ,
wrattjb iy ky fdrkjr stumjbt ebm hdllje`uj, @alem Beekeb Sjrry. ]gj hleraty ebm prjhasadbdf tgj kdvjkjbts mjshraijm ab tgj iddo kdtavetj ebm ljt dbj jxpjrajbhj eb abtaketjhdbbjhtadb ijtwjjb twd pjdplj ab tgas kulta-pdler wdrlm. ]gj oabjtah ewerjbjss, ebmtgrdu`g at tgj rjlajf df peab ebm dtgjr pgysahel sykptdks, erj tgj fabjst ehgajvjkjbts dftgas iddo.‛ Xabea Geasrejla, Sg.M. (Ert df Kdvjkjbt), ]gjrepjutah HdubsjlXtumad Geasrejla fdr tgj Ert df Kdvjkjbt
E Bdtj Eidut Allustretadbs>]gas iddo as allustretjm watg pgdtds teojb watg spjhaelazjm pgdtd`repgy usab` jxpdsurjtjhgbaqujs tget mjpaht ehtadbs df kdvjkjbt watgab sgdrt takj spebs.
* Af ydu gevj eby kjmahel hdbmatadbs at as strdb`ly emvaseilj tget ydu diteabpjrkassadb frdk ydur fekaly kjmahel prehtatadbjr ijfdrj jb`e`ab` ab tgjkdvjkjbts mjshraijm ab tgj iddo ebm hdkkubahetj watg ydur pertbjrwgjb e kdvjkjbt ijhdkjs ubhdkfdrteilj.
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@jbjrel Abstruhtadbs fdr Sjrfdrkab` Kdvjkjbts
]gj abstruhtadbs pjrteab td twd pjdplj dr dbj hduplj, wgjrj Sertbjr 5 as tgjpjrsdb pjrfdrkab` tgj kdvjkjbt ebm Sertbjr 9 prdvamjs suppdrt.
]gj `jbjrel abstruhtadbs sjt dut ijldw wall ij ydur `uamj tgrdu`gdut tgj jbtarj iddo.
]ry td fdlldw tgjk td ehgajvj dptakel rjsults, iut eidvj ell, at as akpdrtebt tget ydu ebmydur pertbjr lastjb td jehg dtgjr‑s idmy leb`ue`j ebm hdkfdrt ljvjls watg jehgkdvjkjbt.
Jehg kdvjkjbt sgdulm ij pjrfdrkjm sldwly ebm ab utkdst tjbmjrbjss ebm dbidtg samjs df tgj idmy, ab drmjr td abhrjesj tgj speb df kdvjkjbt watgdut fjjlab` ebypeab. ]gjrjfdrj, at as sa`bafahebt td hdbmuht e hdbtabudus maeld`uj watg ydur pertbjr, ab drmjrtd vjrafy tget bd gerk dr peab as heusjm td jatgjr pertbjr.
Ab drmjr td hdbtreht ydur pjlvah flddr kushljs (SFK) fdlldw tgjsj `uamjlabjs(tgas sykidl* abmahetjs takj df usj ab tgj iddo)>
5. ]eoj e mjjp irjetg (try td abgelj tgrdu`g ydur bdsj ebm jxgelj tgrdu`g ydur kdutg).9. Pgalj jxgelab` hdbhjbtretj db ydur SFK - hdbtreht ydur spgabhtjrs ebm mrew tgjk
tdwerms tgj absamj df ydur idmy (ake`abj tget ydu erj mdab` e ‗laftab` ehtadb‑)8. Db ydur bjxt jxgelj ydu sgell mrew ydur bevjl tdwerms ydur ieho (iy hdbtrehtab`
tgj mjjp eimdkabel kushljs - trebvjrsus eimdkabas). ]gas sgell ij mdbj watgdut ebykdvjkjbt df ydur lukier spabj ebm/dr pjlvas. Qdu sgell ojjp ydur spabj ebm pjlvas abbjutrel pdsatadb.
=. Ojjp irjetgab` wgalj gdlmab` tgj SFK ebm trebsvjrsus eimdkabas hdbtrehtadb es ldb` esydu heb jvjb wgjb ydu erj pjrfdrkab` e kdvjkjbt.
]gj kushljs df tgj pjlvah flddr suppdrt pjlvah dr`ebs (suhg es tgj ilemmjr, abtjstabjs ebmutjrus ab fjkeljs), ebm wdro ndabtly watg tgj stdkehg kushljs ab tgj keabtjbebhj dfhdbtabjbhj es pert df tgj urabery ebm ebel spgabhtjrs. At as strdb`ly su``jstjm tget ydu ljerbkdrj eidut tgjsj kushljs.
Jehg kdvjkjbt mjshraijm ab tgj iddo as abmjpjbmjbt ebm tgj drmjr df kdvjkjbts as df
bd sa`bafahebhj.Ell kdvjkjbts abmahetj tgj `del df tgj kdvjkjbt, abstruhtadbs fdr idtgpertbjrs, ebm kdvjkjbt muretadb ebm rjpjtatadb. Kdst df tgj kdvjkjbts elsd abhlumj“]aps‛ tget dffjr eltjrbetavj dr emmatadbel abstruhtadbs ebm/dr e “Xu``jstadb‛ rjfjrrab` tdrjhdkkjbmjm dhhesadbs df usj.
Bdtj> ]gj abstruhtadbs kjbtadbjm ab tgj iddo erj suateilj fdr gjeltgy pjrsdbs wgd fdlldwstgjk hldsjly. Af ab mduit, hdbsult e mdhtdr ijfdrj pjrfdrkab` tgj kdvjkjbts.]gj rjspdbsaialaty as jbtarjly updb tgj rjemjr.
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Dpjbab` tgj hgjst, rjljesab` tjbsadb ab tgj sgdulmjrs ebm akprdvjm irjetgab`
Sertbjr 5> Xat squerjly db e hgear sd tget ydur ieho ebm iuttdhos erj tduhgab` tgj ieho df
tgj hgear, ebm reasj ydur erks up ebm td tgj samjs (laoj e iarm ab fla`gt). Hdbtreht tgj pjlvahflddr kushljs.* (Se`j 0)Sertbjr 9> Xtebm ijgabm ydur pertbjr ebm `jbtly strjthg tgjar erks ieho.Muretadb> =-6 sjhdbmsYjpjtatadb> 8-6 takjs]aps> ]ry tgas kdvjkjbt watg eb dvjriell ijgabm ydur sgdulmjr ilemjs.Xu``jstadb> Jxhjlljbt wey td rjlajvj tjbsadb ijfdrj ebm eftjr jb`e`ab` ab eb jxekabetadbdr sakaler strjbudus jvjbt.
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Xtrjb`tgjbab` ebm ljb`tgjbab` tgj ieho ebm eimdkabel kushljs
Sertbjr 5> Xat squerjly db e hgear sd tget ydur ieho ebm iuttdhos erj tduhgab` tgj ieho dftgj hgear, ebm reasj ydur erks up eidvj ydur gjem (try td wrep tgjk erdubm ydur pertbjr‑sbjho) td e “geb`ab`‛ pdsatadb wgalj gdlmab` ab ydur stdkehg.Sertbjr 9> Xtebm ijgabm ydur pertbjr ebm wgalj gdlmab` tgjar jlidws, laft ydursjlf up dbydur taptdjs. Ojjp ydur ieho strea`gt ebm ijbm ydur objjs sla`gtly. Hdbtreht tgj pjlvah flddrkushljs.* (Se`j 0)
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Muretadb> 9-8 sjhdbmsYjpjtatadb> 9-= takjs]aps> ]alt ydur gjem ieho ebm ojjp ydur jyjs sgut wgalj ab tgj “geb`ab` pdsatadb.‛Xu``jstadb> Jxhjlljbt fdr rjljesab` kushlj tjbsadb eftjr sattab` fdr prdldb`jm pjradms.
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kdvjkjbtSertbjr 5> Xat squerjly db e hgear sd tget ydur ieho ebm iuttdhos erj tduhgab` tgj ieho dftgj hgear ebm ojjp ydur ieho strjthgjm ldb .̀ Hdbtreht tgj pjlvah flddr kushljs.* (Se`j 0)Sertbjr 9> Xtebm ijgabm ydur pertbjr ebm wgalj gdlmab` tgjar jlidws, laft tgjk up vjryherjfully.Muretadb> =-6 sjhdbmsYjpjtatadb> 8-: takjsXu``jstadb> Jxhjlljbt fdr rjlajvab` tjbsadb ab tgj uppjr idmy eftjr sattab` fdr prdldb`jmpjradms et tgj hdkputjr.
Xtrjthgab` tgj uppjr pert df tgj idmy
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Yjlajvab` tjbsadb frdk tgj sgdulmjr ilemjs ebm ieho
Sertbjr 5> Xat squerjly db e hgear sd tget ydur ieho ebm iuttdhos erj tduhgab` tgj ieho dftgj hgear, ebm reasj dbj erk up td ydur gjem watg ijbt jlidws. Qdur pertbjr wall abhlabj yduruppjr idmy dvjr td ydur samj.Sertbjr 9> Xtebm ijgabm ydur pertbjr. Jxjrt kdmjretj prjssurj mdwb updb ydur pertbjr‑ssgdulmjr, heusab` tgjar idmy td abhlabj dvjr td tgj samj, wgalj strjthgab` tgjar ijbt erkupwerm tdwerms tgjar gjem watg e `jbtlj pull et tgjar jlidw.
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Muretadb> =-6 sjhdbmsYjpjtatadb> 8-= takjs db jehg samj]aps> Et jehg rjpjtatadb, try td abhrjesj tgj speb df kdvjkjbt.
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Sertbjr 5> Xat db tgj flddr ab frdbt df ydur pertbjr, ab e hdkfdrteilj pdsatadb, watg ydurerks reasjm. Mdb‑t dvjr-erhg ydur ieho. Hdbtreht tgj pjlvah flddr kushljs.* (Se`j 0)Sertbjr 9> Xat db e hgear ijgabm ydur pertbjr. Sull ydur pertbjr‑s reasjm erks iehowerm.Muretadb> 9-6 sjhdbmsYjpjtatadb> 8-: takjs]aps> Ljeb ieho abtd tgj hgear (df ydur pertbjr).Xu``jstadb> @ddm fdr rjlajvab` strjss et tgj jbm df e wdroab` mey.
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Fub ebm ekusjkjbt, ljb`tgjbab` df tgj lj` ebm ieho kushljs
Kdvjkjbt> Xat dppdsatj jehg dtgjr gdlmab` gebms ebm lj`s epert.Sertbjr 5> Ldwjr ydur gjem ebm try td ij es lddsj es pdssailj. Ojjp ydur ieho strjthgjm ldb`.Sertbjr 9> Sull ydursjlf ieho usab` ydur idmy wja`gt td strjthg ydur pertbjr.Muretadb> 53-59 sjhdbmsYjpjtatadb> 6-7 takjs]aps> 5. Pgjb pjrfdrkab` tgas kdvjkjbt watg ydub` hgalmrjb ij ewerj tget tgj emvebhjkjbtab tgjar speb df kdvjkjbt as `rjet.
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9. ]ypahelly, kjb gevj sgdrt ieho ebm lj` kushljs ebm tgjrjfdrj strjthgjs sgdulm ij pjrfdrkjmjspjhaelly sldwly.Xu``jstadb> ]gas kdvjkjbt as jbndyjm iy ell, jspjhaelly ydub`stjrs.
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