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Mental health;

NARCISSISTIC

RELATIONSHIP

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RADIANT # Kenya’s Number-One

Campus magazine

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03. Editor’s note

05. Take 5 with Becky the DJ

07. Editorial

11. Campus life A Visit to MMUST

Is MASENO made up of crack heads?

17. Fashion Styled by Remy

27. Life n style Kalenjin queens

26. Entrepreneurship

30. Dating &

Relationship

35. Celeb buzz By Carol_becky

52. Radiant Top

25 under 25

55. Radiant sports

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Editorial board

Chief Editor Shaddie Galanxo

Sub editors

Sherith Joy Ngaruiya Victor Oketch

Mc Raj

Editorial

Cerullo Abraham Kevin Wesonga Collins Mbuthia

Design Joshua

Photography Radiant photography

Remy couture

Shareholders Samuel Uhuru Naughty Shiko

COPYRIGHT

Radiant is a Shaddiegalanxo Publication. All rights reserved. It is released twice a month. Contributions are welcome.

All due care will be taken with material submitted, but the magazine and publishers cannot be held responsible for loss or damage. The editors reserve the right to edit, amend or alter material in any way deemed

necessary. Radiant cannot be held responsible for unsolicited material. The opinions expressed here are not necessarily editors and publishers of

Radiant Magazine

@Radiantmagazine

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n behalf of Radiant family I feel honored and really

humbled to thank our previous readers for giving our first

edition [dated June 15th ] a very warm welcome. It’s so funny you guys

loved her even when she didn’t have a theme or a defined outline. As her

parents we appreciate that; for a child’s upbringing is a community’s

responsibility and without you she is just a book with colored pictures.

Just like a little kid, Radiant had a lot of flaws that we had to seek

professional consultations from other magazines that have already

thrived to know how to know what to and what not to feed her. She is our

only daughter and like young parents we will never stop being insecure.

Especially in a country where female kids are being molested by their own

fathers and mothers cover up. A country where young girls are being

raped, their body parts detached and distributed all over town. Such a

shame!

We are calling for Sponsors and young without a platform to

take this as an opportunity to showcase their talents. Young journalists to

submit their articles through our email address

[email protected] for editing. nd any good writer

reading this note and is interested in joining the radiant family, don’t be

afraid , this is your time to shine. Represent your campus.

O Shaddie Galanxo

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You must have seen her in king kaka’s

‘dundaing’or maybe in Ochunglo Family’s

NA IWAKE hit song with her round yummy

African dearie wrapped in a Kenyan flag

1. WHAT THREE WORDS DESCRIBE BECKY? BECKY: I am BOLD, BAD & BOUNJEE. BEST VIXEN 2019 BY PULSE MAGAZINE 2. WHY DEJAYING ISNT IT A MAN’S THING? I am a full time a video vixen, being a DJ is just a part time job but it’s not a man’s thing. Haven’t you seen women turn tables? 3. RELATIONSHIP STATUS? Pass that 4. FAVOURITE ARTIST YOU’VE WORKED WITH? I like them all equally. I don’t have a favorite, remember it is business and you have to treat so.

5. SONGS YOU’VE

FEATURED IN? So many I Am almost loosing count I remember Kadogo by Alikiba Dundaing Twende Nalo Mpenzi mtazamaji- By kansol ft Ochungulo

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here has always been a

cold war between Juja boyz and Technical university of

Mombasa over who has the highest number of

crack heads. TUM believe they are the coolest kids and they don’t just do the local stash Juja-maicans are proud. They claim they

do imported designer drugs from oversees. This is actually true because drugs round the coastal regions are mainly imported by drug lords or disguised tourists; by designer we are talking coke

and heroine. And so they have a point over jkuat. On the other hand Jujamaicans [ named after juja

because its locatedina town called juja along the thika super highwa and Jamaica for a reason idont

know] a.k.a pedi wa cbd or landlords wa Sincity claim they are the OGs. Actually I grew up in juja

and I will tell you for free, juja ndo baba yao.

Question is how does Maseno come in ? Maseno is as silent and dangerous as deep still waters and can swalloh these wannabe kids if they want to. They are just mature to indulge in these

petty fights. If you have watched Game of

Thrones, there are some silent villains called the white walkers who live across the wall with an

army of the dead. They are so silent that the rest don’t notice their existence. And so they continue

to fight among themselves for thrones, until the walkers decide to strike with much power that even the others combined couldn’t beat them. From Uganda, a country where illicit liquor with up to 95% alcohol content is legal, the first campus you meet is Maseno. That means all imports fom Uganda have to pass through them and this explains why the nearing towns have the highest number of mad men. Luanda is said to host the

highest number of mad men in Kenya. A factor mainly brought about by the illegal offloading of

illegal goods in the town in fear of transits being busted by cops in Kisumu.

Even the locals plant marijuana in large scale, and centers near the school like Mbale are just a few

that people d ealers have been busted.

Radiant is a campus magazine and if your town is doing meth you are! Haha. Compiled by an Anonymous writer

T

“ Which Campus Hosts the Highest Number of Crack heads?

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HE University of Choice. Located in the cassava tropical rainforest of Kakamega, with cafeteria as 5 shillings, apart from knowledge abundant food supply is what a comrade needs, the 2nd best library in

the whole country, super cool hostels which are even better than the private universities. Where else do you want to go? The university prioritizes students as their main stakeholders. MMUST is the only university that offers bachelor of degree in optometry. Wait; what about sports? We were the champions of rugby nationally in 2018. And this doesn’t just end there we are the best in rugby. The serenity around MMUST is just amazing. Students with special needs get scholarships and even those that have talents also been awarded talent scholarship. Our alumni’s don’t tarmac for long unlike other normal universities’. They have owned highly ranking in competency by many employers. Instead of reading about us on paper please spare your time and come venture the University of Choice

By CLIFTON KISERA [Former President of MMUST]

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Are you proud of your university, email us [email protected]

[mess] meals going as cheap

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Tylor Remy is the founder and

CEO of Remy Couture and Styled

By Remy.

1st Runners up Male Fashion

Icon of the Year , Regal Awards.

TYLED BY REMY is a company that offers a wide variety of services such as Styling, Photography, Laundry, Coats

and suits for hire. We also sell local and imported suits for

both genders. We started operating two years ago within and around Maseno town in Nyanza Kenya.

I look up to Ashock Sunny Tailored Limited and Brian Manase of Crystal Collections. These are designers who happen to understand

what they do. I’m proud of having them as my mentors

We are located behind Kwique Café, Maseno Sacco building.

Follow us on Instagram @styled_by_remy

Sales 0790823183.

Favorite quote; If you happen to be more fortunate than

others, build longer tables not taller fences

S

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Kaleh queens

call them the Kale-genes Mursik queens. kalenjin is Kenyan tribe with the most beautiful ladies in the country Their ravishing smiles and exceptionally real flexibility wherever they are is astonishing, women who decades ad decades haven’t kale queens don’t lose

their feminine nature even when they join campus where the unlike other

ladies reset from their default setting to slayqueen mode . If kalenjin ladies were a

magazine, I’d call her Radiant. Kalenjin girls make the best wives.

There might be a few exception but trust me a kalenjin woman is a gem every man should get. They have

unquestionable respect for men, compare them to the Ugandan ladies whom kibe of kiss fm claimed he admirers for their respect. Very good and loyal in bedroom sports. Haha you already have a mindset on your bedroom type a girl. Come on they just don’t talk about it like kamba and mijikenda ladies do, but I can assure you they are good. Intelligence Kalequeens are super intelligent. Ever wondered why

high political seats and government postions held by women are majorly kalehs? If you ever need a woman

who will give you intelligent children, rush to that pokot, or kipsigis lady. Or any other kalenjin sub tribe they all are.

And nomatter how powerfull she gets her respct for men will always prevail. What a gem!?

Unfortunately they are poor in the kitchen and you shouldn’t even compare them to miss Madhupu. They are

terrible! Kalenjin ladies don’t know how to cook. Sometimes I look at my mom and whish she had

Adhiambo’s kitchen skills. Don’t wonder, Adhiambo is my Luo girlfriend. I don’t know why I chose her, all I know is

that I’m embracing intercultural relationships. And you too should try that!

I

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SMART CASUAL LOOK Black loeather jacket Navy blue tommy pants Leateher print bag Glasses Vandrose golde watch

SMART CASUAL LOOK Brown Vintage woolen Coat Vintage Half coat Multi-colored Tie plus pocket square and tie clip Blue tommy hillfinger jeans Spiked casual shoes

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Official / Classic Look Blue stripped double breast suit Brooch Tie Label pin Vandross gold watch Glasses Umbrella heels

Official outfit Maroon floral double breast suit Selected tailoring silk designer pocket square Label pin

Vandrose gold watch

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Pink double breast suit Brooch Tie Label pin Vandross gold watch Glasses

Official classic look Black double breast suit Brooch Tie Label pin Vandross gold watch Glasses

All accessories available at

at Remy_Couture.

Models courtesy of

Remy Couture

IG styled_by_remy

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Narcissistic personality disorder in

relationships

ost people today are in relationships and affairs,

which obviously is an awesome thing. However,

most are dealing with abusive `relationships; this

can be emotional, physical, mental or

psychological abuse. How much do you know your partner?

Other than, the constant texting, sex escapades, night outs

date nights and other romantic show offs we have picked.

Yeah, I guessed it right. You don’t know much. Narcissistic

personality disorder is a trait that most people don’t know

that they are dealing with. Even the sick one feels he/she is

okay.

Narcissism is a lifelong personality trait that is becoming

common and most people haven’t known about. That partner

who never accepts they are wrong, ghosts you and comes

back after sometime like nothing happened, that one whom

you can never have an honest conversation with... or the one

who gaslights you, make you mad to their advantage…

Yeah you are dealing with a narcissist and believe however

cute or handsome they are, they are the worst. Why? You will

be left with a broken spirit.

Stay put for the Radiant Magazine Issue

And quickly rush to the mental health awareness cover come

July 15th

M

Mental health

By Sherith

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Healthy living

Workout to increase your butt size

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RADIANT Rader ; “I’m caught up between my profession

job and my side hustle, which is not doing that well but I

just love it. I’m a teacher by profession I’ve not

graduated yet but at least it’s a promising career but

modeling and photography just runs in my veins. I love it

with all my life but my teaching profession doesn’t allow.”

The question you should have asked is whether to following your passion would be better

than your career. The question clearly shows you decided the path out of the grade you had

in your kcse and not passion. The only reason people have to follow this path of sticking on

a job out of requirements is always lack of choice. If you have the choice which I presume

you do, go for it. By choice I mean you can finance your way through life as you waddle in

photography and modeling. Because no matter where you go, modeling and photography

will haunt you. So get a course shift or just start acquiring professional skills on this before

you are out of time. [email protected]

.

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S we enter into a new month amid covid 19 struggles

such as online classes and exams, financial crisis, teen

pregnancies and domestic violence we still managed

to prepare you the best snaps of teens all over Kenya.

Radiant celeb buzz section will be taking you through te

latest gossips, latest hit songs, ravishing models all

over Kenya, upcoming teen celebs and even the already thrived

celebrities. Keep it locked on Radiant for even more trends.

Follow us on our Instagram page to know who is who on the top 25 under 25 and do the rankings together. Don’t forget to follow your top 25 under 25them too.Family take care of each other. INSTAGRAM @_carol_becky_

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integrity is measured by conduct. Make sure you

pin this down.

Hello club Radiant!? Im @_ka.rey

Radiant magazine Mega brand ambasadorr

Fun loving lady with a touch of swimming,

reading novels, travelling

and…actually travelling is my number

one favorite thing. Catch me on instagram @_ka.rey or Tweeter as @coco_butter_

Karera Gatundu Kenya, NYERI COUNTY … NEIGHBOUR TO THE PRESIDENT i am lucyantonia a 22years old professional model. When life knocks down, bounce back bigger, better and full of life and focus on your dream. Radiant is fully presented in nyeri. Instagram handle is lucyantonia983,

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No matter how scary the

unknown future may seem, just

face it. Theres nowhere else to

go but forward. Maybe you

havn tfigured it out

SHANTELL FROM MASENO

RADIANT IS MY NUMBER ONE

CAMPUS READ must read. I’m a

model pursuing eco-tourism. Apart

from reading radiant magazine

travelling and swimming is my main

thing.

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Alma kagai 3rd year student at JKUAT . A professional model winner of queen of

catwalk kenya in 2019/2020. Im striongly enthustiastic about fashion and glamour and I believe Radiant is something I

would love to always read. @Alma kagia

Vallice Atieno from kitale. Passionate

model and a student too doing education science with it .

Get me on instagram as

Vellie vellice.

It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend. Please choose your friends

well.

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I fell in love with radiant magazine on the first edition even though I never featured. Its

something that filled a space campus student never knew existed in

their lives. Flavian MMUST

KARO KAY

I believe in passion, peace,

forgiveness and reconciliation

in life can make you reach

places follow these and

success will follow you

wherever you go.

@karo_kay

_zhanne_mwago on onstagram and

snapchat all the way from Karatina University.

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Mku naks Life is so short to waste on hatreade and

jelousy . pendana na wenzako. KEVOH

Life is fun when you have Christ by your side . its my birthday month. Happy birthday to me. I loved radiant magazine

1st edition. @tunna shazz

Dancer Teresia Makena says everyone can

dance. I love dancing because it keeps me stressfree and its also part of exercise for the body. Don’t be lazy

just because you are a lady.

@officialterry mk

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Its always wise to remain silent when you know

you know something better than than the rest @Tant arts

Valeh from Umoja and her bea Truckee the ceo and founder of kirinyaga designers

radiant to the massive. Follow us on ig

@Truckee labels.

Jackline njoroge 21years old representing University of Eldoret. In short, I’m now the face of

Radiant Mafgazine in Eldoret ! Hurray!!

Hood: Nyahururu

Follow me on Insta jacky_njororge Fb jacky njorogeh

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Are you cheating or are you being

cheated on???

Here’s what you should know;

1. A cheater can never forgive being cheated on, why should you?!

The game of cheating puts you on fear of being cheated on. When you haven't been caught for

long and you figure out your partner cheated, you have a thought that maybe he/she has been

doing it for long and you just found out, similarly to how you've cheated for long without

being caught.Don't forgive cheating

2. Once someone starts claiming you are cheating with someone, do it...

( heri uwachwe for a committed crime not an insinuated crime.) Once the trust is broken and

the doubt makes more sense than the reality, she won't let it go easily, especially if she keeps

thinking it's a woman you are constantly around or an ex you still talk to. She'll run with her

theory at all costs unless the other woman exits your life. If the other person is down and

wants to, fuck them then end it.

3. There's no one time cheating...mchovya asali hachovyi mara moja.

The joy of cheating is in the knowing it's forbidden and the other party is no way close to fuck

you like you usually fuck with him or her. The oblivion in not knowing when next it can

happen and how long it can run without being caught is pure bliss and adds fuel to the cycle.

If you find out your partner has been cheating, trust me it's not how he says it "I just slipped

that one time and it happened...we were drunk...it was a dare...she tricked me...you were

distant and I got needy bla bla bla" It's crap they fucked and they fucked too good to do it

again and when a story about you came up there'd be a "we haven't fucked in a long time...we

are not in good terms...ata tuko about ku break up"

Continues on next page

The cheating

guide

By PROFESSA

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4. If you are a cheater, don't DON'T DON'T develop feelings for the cheating party.

Make it a decision not to build a connection or feeling because once you do it's a temptation to fall

in love, and in a relationship, you'll constantly have thoughts of if they may be cheating on you too with someone else. Absence of complete trust is your doom. So don't have constant texts or calls,

end the continuous meet ups to talk and leave her if she starts talking or moving like she's about to ask for anything more than the situationship.

5. Clear texts, delete call logs, avoid taking photos or hanging out together. Keep the cheating

just on sex and tap water, nothing fancy or flashy like dates or getting each other presents, no

tagging on social media totally. No middle men like creating mutual friends who know both of you and the affair should die with both of you at all costs, no mention of even knowing each other or

having a thing between you two.

6. Ensure there is no change in your behavior or patterns.

Pull in every excuse as to why you'll be absent on a specific date; bulk schoolwork or tasks at work

that need you to be busy and offline to run them, hanging out with friends and the squad and etc. Make sure he/she doesn't have to notice it or question you on it regularly.

7. If noticed, always have an excuse and alibi.

Run the story with one bro or siz and ensure they can come up with the best answers to whatever she asks him and he won't, at all, rat you or let you be caught or look like a fool.

8. When caught or if caught, DENY! DENY! DENY! Don't accept the allegations.

Even with all the texts, photos or any form of proof, don’t. Find every excuse on the book but even at the possibility of death never admit to cheating or the thought of it. Ensure you show extreme

displeasure to the idea of cheating and the person you have been suspected of cheating with.

9.A man's cheating is different from a woman's.

No matter the excuse, a man cheats out of sexual urges, a woman cheats because she wants to

pindua the present serikali. If she cheats, leave bro and run fast.

110 Bonus

People’s assumptions normally stem from the opinions they hold of themselves, the more emotional the individual, the likelier they are projecting. If a woman accuses you of cheating when

you haven’t done anything, there’s a high chance she’s projecting her infidelity onto you.

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“Liverpool 30 year thirst

finally quenched”!

Imagine going thirsty for 30 years and

almost getting to the well in only to be

kicked out before you can draw your

barrel out. Well the reds finally since

their first league in 1990 got their win

in the Stamford Bridge after crashing

Manchester city lost to Chelsea 2-1 I

Stamford bridge last Thursday 26th

June klopes side will now look to write

more history. They need 15 point from

their past 7 matches to set a new

record for a top fight campaign; they

can also become the first team to win

every home game in a single season.

Hurray!!! Finally the Reds have not

walked alone. Claims have been said

that Chelsea has been behind just the

way Chelsea was behind this win so

has it been in the determinant on

other EPL winners

Is Chelsea behind every win in the

EPL?

2013-2014 Chelsea beat Liverpool to

hand over the league to City

2014-2016 Chelsea won the league

2015-2016 Chelsea drew with spurs to

hand over the league to leister

2016-2017 The next season they won

2019-2020 Chelsea beat man city to win

the league title for Liverpool

Does that mean Chelsea will win come

2020-2021?

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Yesterday !!

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VOTE OF THANKS

To all our representatives in

all campuses and colleges

across Kenya and readers in

UoN

Mmust

Kenyatta University

University of Eldoret

Kabianga University

Moi

Strathmore

Daystar

Jkuat

Sigalagala polytechnic

Kabarak university

Maseno

Karatina

Mku

Anyone is interested in being

our ambassador is free to

contact us on INSTAGRAM

and tweeter

@Radiant_Magazine

Radiant also thanks our

columnists, promoters and

staff for the work well done:

Bosire alias Professa, Sherith,

Collins mbuvi, Joshua ,

Carol_becky, Teddy carol, Mc

Raj,Cerullo Abraham,Kate

mumbi,Mercy,Kennondieki,ke

vin Wesonga,Dancan

kipngetich, Arkadi the

writer,Fetty Dion, Victor

oketch,Ted_mwendwa,Benas

Gerald, Shaddie Galanxo

Remy couture, for the

indomitable stylish touch.

Morgan coffee house

AND EVERYONE ELSE NOT

MENTIONED

HAVE A NICE JULY !!

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