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Old St. Joseph’s Church Est. 1733 | Philadelphia’s Jesuit Parish 321 Willings Alley Philadelphia PA 19106 215-923-1733 www.oldstjoseph.org on Facebook at OSJ19106 April 26, 2020 | Third Sunday of Easter A Quiet Space for God This week’s bulletin essay comes from parishioner John Green, the Director and vice president for Partner Engagement for the Ignatian Volunteer Corps of Philadelphia/South Jersey. How do we find God in quarantine? This question leads me to definitions as I am a very literal person. In exploring the meaning of quarantine, I am immediately redirected to a word that draws on much more emotion: isolation. Isolation is loosely defined as the state of being in a place or situation that is separate from others. The feelings of loneliness, yearning, confusion and fear all accompany the act of being isolated from my family and friends, the Old Saint Joseph’s family, my IVC (Ignatian Volunteer Corps) community and my neighborhood community. I am reminded of the time in 1995 when, as a Jesuit Volunteer, I participated in my first silent retreat. I was petrified. This kid who kindergarten teachers tried not to engage in conversation too early in the day was going to need to be quiet for a long period of time. But what happened to me is similar to the experience that I am having now in quarantine. When you clear the noise, the chatter, the distractions, there is a quiet that settles over you and directs you to that center of your being. There’s a warm light that radiates from your heart, that vibrates and grounds you. It’s where I find God. It’s also where I find others who I call on. The usual suspects are there; my partner, sharing the highlights of the day, my parents sharing about drive by visits with grandkids, my friend passing dinner to her mom through the car window. But more significantly, it’s the other people who come alive in that space that I won’t see even when this (period of isolation is lifted. My grandfather, who died in 1979 when I was seven, is still a strong presence, somehow so gentle and comforting. My grandmother helping me color an Easter card while sitting in her apartment in Atlantic City, telling me she’d never seen someone who could color so well. And my Nana is there, laughing in her unique way that is similar to how my brother laughs today. It’s a place where relationships can begin. I find myself wondering about my partner’s parents. They come alive in the stories told, and new stories begin as I become more curious about the impact they made, the love they sowed, and the legacy that is so much a part of my current daily life. In my work for the Ignatian Volunteer Corps I am heading up a college/university partnership named after Fr. Charlie Currie SJ, who passed in January 2019. I never met him but find myself coming to know the great impact he made in pairing education and the call to serve others. Strangely enough I’ve been visited by my dog Paco who passed a week after I moved to Philadelphia in August 2015. I credit him with teaching me about love, patience and commitment. There is also great healing that can occur as we reside in this place in our hearts. I am frequently struck by feelings of regret, missed opportunities continued on next page

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Old St. Joseph’s Church Est. 1733 | Philadelphia’s Jesuit Parish

321 Willings Alley Philadelphia PA 19106

215-923-1733

www.oldstjoseph.org on Facebook at OSJ19106 

April 26, 2020 | Third Sunday of Easter 

A Quiet Space for God 

This week’s bulletin essay comes from parishioner John Green, the Director and vice president for Partner Engagement for the Ignatian Volunteer Corps of Philadelphia/South Jersey. 

How do we find God in quarantine? This question leads me to definitions as I am a very literal person. In exploring the meaning of quarantine, I am immediately redirected to a word that draws on much more emotion: isolation. Isolation is loosely defined as the state of being in a place or situation that is separate from others. The feelings of loneliness, yearning, confusion and fear all accompany the act of being isolated from my family and friends, the Old Saint Joseph’s family, my IVC (Ignatian Volunteer Corps) community and my neighborhood community.  

I am reminded of the time in 1995 when, as a Jesuit Volunteer, I participated in my first silent retreat. I was petrified. This kid who kindergarten teachers tried not to engage in conversation too early in the day was going to need to be quiet for a long period of time. But what happened to me is similar to the experience that I am having now in quarantine. When you clear the noise, the chatter, the distractions, there is a quiet that settles over you and directs you to that center of your being. There’s a warm light that radiates from your heart, that vibrates and grounds you. It’s where I find God.  

It’s also where I find others who I call on. The usual suspects are there; my partner, sharing the highlights of the day, my parents sharing about drive by visits with grandkids, my friend passing dinner to her mom through the car window. But more significantly, it’s the other people who come alive in that space that I won’t see even when this  

(period of isolation is lifted. My grandfather, who died in 1979 when I was seven, is still a strong presence, somehow so gentle and comforting. My grandmother helping me color an Easter card while sitting in her apartment in Atlantic City, telling me she’d never seen someone who could color so well. And my Nana is there, 

laughing in her unique way that is similar to how my brother laughs today.  

It’s a place where relationships can begin. I find myself wondering about my partner’s parents. They come alive in the stories told, and new stories begin as I become more curious about the impact they made, the love they sowed, and the legacy that is so much a part of my current daily life. In my work for the Ignatian Volunteer Corps I am heading up a college/university partnership named after Fr. Charlie Currie SJ, who passed in January 2019. I never met him but find myself coming to know the great impact he made in pairing education and the call to serve others. Strangely enough I’ve been visited by my dog Paco who passed a week after I moved to Philadelphia in August 2015. I credit him with teaching me about love, patience and commitment.  

There is also great healing that can occur as we reside in this place in our hearts. I am frequently struck by feelings of regret, missed opportunities  

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and an inventory of experiences I wished I could “do over.” But there’s a difference: the suffering that often takes place when you ruminate about lost time and sustained regret when the world is so loud and chaotic feels softened when you clear your distractions and go deeply into the space inside. It’s like an elixir that speeds up healing and smooths the jagged edges.  

So, let’s be clear about something before I go any further. There is no comparison between quiet, chosen isolation for a period of time and being forced to quarantine. It’s not the same to spend time with friends and family or to bring them to mind when they are not there. Zoom calls with loved ones will never feel like a greatly needed hug.  

What I ask you to consider is that tension that exists in between. I’ve often said that it’s hard to find personal space when you are surrounded by people, and it’s just as hard to find the satisfaction of company when you are alone. What I am learning during this time of isolation is that it is in the dichotomy, the polarity, the dialectic, that we find God. That space inside, that warmth of  

 

familiarity that provides comfort, where you see people for who they are and feel fully seen yourself, that is where you will find God. Where God speaks to you through your loved ones. Where God enlightens you with passion and creativity. Where God fills you with ideas and plans and answers your questions. Where God is with you, loving you and reminding you that you are not alone.  

Learn to understand and embrace this balance. Hunger begets satiation. Rest fuels activity. Loss brings us closer to intimacy. Resistance can bring about great relaxation. Exhaustion can build endurance. Isolation can reinforce the life and love that we carry with us always. That allows those who have passed to live, and those who live and love to reside in us always. All these things are true when you invite God into the process. So, in truth, there is no act of finding God in quarantine, but the act of allowing God to find you in quarantine. And to challenge yourself to be found, continuously, once we’ve moved through this difficult time. 

—John W. Green 

  

Front page image: by Valentin Antonucci on Unsplash.  

 

 

In your prayers, please remember  our sick and homebound brothers and sisters and our ministry at Pennsylvania Hospital. 

Douglas Adler, Christina Bergonzi. George Bernato, Debbie Brooks, Audry Brunet, Chuck Capaldi,  Vivian Close, Ann Crowther, Jane Crowther, Mary Kay Crowther, Fr. Ed Dougherty SJ, Barbara Epting,  Harry Gregory, Tessie Griffin, Sharon Krinksy, Jerry Levins, Glen Malunis, Allan May,  Fr. Jerry McAndrews SJ, Frank McLaughlin, Giancarlo Mazzoleni, Barbara Paul, Owen Petrzelka. Tamara Lucia Sanchez Porta, Raymond Scannapieco, Sara Smith, Anne Francis Tozzi, Craig Walsh, Lawrence and Sandra Williams, Fr. Thomas Wheeler SJ, Sharon Winge and Pat Yusko. 

 

   

Announcements

Catholic Relief Services’ Rice Bowl A message from the Archdiocese 

I write to you during this difficult time in our country and our world. So many of our sisters and brothers are being impacted daily by COVID‐19. Each day we search for signs of hope peeking through the darkness. Realizing this is a most difficult time for all of us, especially parishes which have been financially impacted by the suspension of Mass, I hesitate to write about donations to Rice Bowl. 

Catholic Relief Services Rice Bowl is needed more now than ever with our global and local families impacted in so many ways by the COVID‐19 pandemic. 75% of the donations will assist Catholic Relief Services in programming to rebuild overseas while 25% will help Nutritional Development Services stock up on food in high demand at the area food cupboards and soup kitchens. The requests from these cupboards in parishes and community centers keep growing as families are impacted by loss of jobs and diminished resources. 

—Anne Ayella, CRS Diocesan Director 

You can make your Lenten gift to CRS Rice Bowl through OSJ’s ParishSOFT Giving until May 10, or directly to crsricebowl.org. 

Virtual Advocacy Training 

As decisions are made in Congress about COVID‐19 relief efforts, our vulnerable sisters and brothers need advocates on their behalf. That’s why Catholic Relief Services will host a virtual advocacy training this Wednesday, April 29 from 2:00‐3:00 PM. Please RSVP to [email protected] for more information and a password to the Zoom meeting. 

Requiescat in Pace 

Fr. Michael Hricko SJ passed away on Friday, April 24, 2020. Fr. Hricko was a member of the Manresa Jesuit Community at Saint Joseph’s University.   

Fr. Hricko ministered here at Old St. Joseph’s from 2003‐2011, and he taught at Saint Joseph’s Prep from 1981‐1997. 

We remember Fr. Hricko fondly and pray Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him; may his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen. 

 

Electronic Giving Update 

We have upgraded our electronic giving program  so that now you can contribute both from your computer and by using your cell phone, whether or not you register as a parishioner. Our new program is called ParishSOFT Giving. Visit the Make A Donation page of our website ,oldstjoseph.org, to find detailed instructions on starting out with or upgrading to ParishSOFT Giving. Please note: everyone who now uses Online Giving will need to upgrade to ParishSOFT Giving by May 15. Thank you!  

   

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Eucharist for the Homebound   To arrange to receive Communion at home, please contact the parish offices. The Sacrament of Anointing   The Sacrament of Anointing  (the sacrament of  the sick)  is offered during  the 12:05 PM Mass on  the  first Saturday of each month. Homebound or hospitalized persons wanting to receive  the  Sacrament  of Anointing  should  call  the  parish office. Sacrament of Matrimony   If you want to be married at Old St. Joseph’s, please visit our website,  oldstjoseph.org  and  read  the material  under  the heading Weddings. Please call the parish office at 215‐923‐1766 at least nine months before your desired wedding date. Rite of Christian Initiation   If you are an adult wishing to be baptized, or to receive First Eucharist and Confirmation, or are a baptized non‐Catholic seeking full communion with Catholic Church, please call the parish office or email [email protected]. Mass of Christian Burial   To schedule a funeral or memorial Mass, ask your funeral director to call the parish office.   Parish Pastoral Council   ([email protected]) Parish Finance Council   Paul Shay, chair Historic Preservation Corporation Board   Fr. Walter Modrys SJ, president Adult Education    Rita O’Brien and Jeanmarie Zippo   ([email protected])  Eldership   Pat Nelson ([email protected]) Parish Life    Joe Casey ([email protected]) Ignatian Spirituality and Formation   Len Mancini ([email protected]) Women, Faith and Fellowship   Rana McNamara ([email protected]) Young Adult Community   ([email protected]) Altar Servers   Maria Ramirez ([email protected]) Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion   Bill Stewart ([email protected]) Hospital Ministry   Luanne Balestrucci ([email protected]) Homebound Ministry   Neal Hébert ([email protected]) Lectors   Lou Anne Bulik ([email protected]) Ushers   Nikola Sizgorich ([email protected]) Children’s Liturgy of the Word   Peggy Connolly ([email protected]

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