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27/4/2014 Parenting Styles | Education.com http://www.education.com/reference/article/parenting-styles1/ 1/8 Parenting Styles Parenting style refers to the normative patterns of behavior and tactics that parents use to socialize and control their children. Early work on parenting styles in the 1950s (e.g., Sears, Maccoby, & Levin, 1957) documented that adults who were nurturing and able to exert control were especially influential on children's development of self- regulated and disciplined behavior. Others (Lewin, Lippitt, & White, 1939) documented that adult leadership styles in classroom-like settings resulted in different levels of engagement on the part of children, with relatively warm and egalitarian styles resulting in greater task involvement, more self-regulated and autonomous behavior, and more competent performance than either highly controlling or permissive styles. From this work evolved a general approach to the study of parenting styles focused on socialization strategies reflecting demandingness and responsiveness. Demandingness, or control, refers to the degree to which parents attempt to integrate a child into the family social system by enforcing family rules and standards for behavior, setting expectations that are developmentally appropriate, and providing structure; responsiveness, or warmth, refers to parental attempts to support the development of their child's individuality and self- assertive tendencies by being attentive to the child's emotional well- being, special needs, and interests. BAUMRIND'S TYPOLOGY OF PARENTING STYLES Following this early work, Diana Baumrind (1971) conducted extensive observations of parents interacting with their children in their homes and concluded that four dimensions of parent-child interactions reflecting types of responsiveness and control could predict reliably children's social, emotional, and cognitive functioning. Parental control reflected consistent enforcement of rules, provision of structure to children's activities, and persistence in gaining child compliance; maturity demands reflected

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    Parenting Styles

    Parenting style refers to the normative patterns of behavior and

    tactics that parents use to socialize and control their children. Early

    work on parenting styles in the 1950s (e.g., Sears, Maccoby, & Levin,

    1957) documented that adults who were nurturing and able to exert

    control were especially influential on children's development of self-

    regulated and disciplined behavior. Others (Lewin, Lippitt, & White,

    1939) documented that adult leadership styles in classroom-like

    settings resulted in different levels of engagement on the part of

    children, with relatively warm and egalitarian styles resulting in

    greater task involvement, more self-regulated and autonomous

    behavior, and more competent performance than either highly

    controlling or permissive styles. From this work evolved a general

    approach to the study of parenting styles focused on socialization

    strategies reflecting demandingness and responsiveness.

    Demandingness, or control, refers to the degree to which parents

    attempt to integrate a child into the family social system by

    enforcing family rules and standards for behavior, setting

    expectations that are developmentally appropriate, and providing

    structure; responsiveness, or warmth, refers to parental attempts to

    support the development of their child's individuality and self-

    assertive tendencies by being attentive to the child's emotional well-

    being, special needs, and interests.

    BAUMRIND'S TYPOLOGY OF PARENTINGSTYLES

    Following this early work, Diana Baumrind (1971) conducted

    extensive observations of parents interacting with their children in

    their homes and concluded that four dimensions of parent-child

    interactions reflecting types of responsiveness and control could

    predict reliably children's social, emotional, and cognitive

    functioning. Parental control reflected consistent enforcement of

    rules, provision of structure to children's activities, and persistence

    in gaining child compliance; maturity demands reflected

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    expectations to perform up to one's potential, and demands for self-

    reliance and self-control; clarity of communication reflected the

    extent to which parents solicit children's opinions and feelings, and

    use reasoning to obtain compliance; and nurturance reflected

    parental expressions of warmth and approval as well as conscientious

    protection of children's physical and emotional well-being.

    These dimensions were then used to develop a typology of

    qualitatively different parenting styles based on levels of

    responsiveness and control: authoritative, authoritarian, permissive

    indulgent, and permissive uninvolved (Baumrind, 1971; Maccoby &

    Martin, 1983). Authoritative parenting is responsive and demanding

    in that parents communicate high expectations, provide clear

    standards for behavior, monitor child behavior, and discipline based

    on reasoning and explanation rather than power assertion or

    withdrawal of love. Authoritarian parenting is similar to

    authoritative parenting in terms of being demanding; however,

    parents are described as less responsive in that they are more likely

    to use power assertive disciplinary techniques and rely on love

    withdrawal to gain child obedience. Permissive indulgent parents

    display relatively high levels of responsiveness but low levels of

    control. Specifically, this style is typified by low levels of control and

    maturity demands, but high levels of solicitation and demonstrations

    of warmth. In contrast, permissive uninvolved parenting is described

    as being relatively low on both warmth and control. At its extreme,

    this style is considered to be rejecting or neglectful of children.

    CORRELATES OF PARENTING STYLES

    There is widespread recognition that Baumrind's dimensions

    describe socialization processes central to the development of

    childhood and adolescent social and cognitive competence (Grusec &

    Goodnow, 1994; Maccoby & Martin, 1983). Baumrind's studies

    established that elementary-aged children of authoritative parents

    display adaptive levels of self-reliance and self-esteem, and socially

    responsible, independent, and achievement-oriented behavior;

    children with authoritarian parents display relatively less

    independent behavior and lower levels of self-reliance and self-

    esteem; and children with permissive parents display less positive

    behavior and self-reliance but high levels of self-esteem. Work by

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    Steinberg and his colleagues (Steinberg, Lamborn, Darling, Mounts,

    & Dornbusch, 1994) supported the validity of the four-dimension

    typology in that adolescents with authoritative parents fared best

    with respect to a range of social, emotional, and academic

    competencies; students with authoritarian parents reported

    relatively lower levels of psychological well-being; those with

    indulgent parents were characterized as enjoying high levels of

    psychological and emotional well-being but lower levels of

    achievement coupled with higher levels of misconduct; and students

    with uninvolved/neglectful parents were characterized as

    demonstrating the lowest levels of competence in all areas.

    Moreover, over the course of the high school years, the academic

    functioning of adolescents with neglectful parents declined and

    levels of delinquency and internalizing symptoms such as depression

    increased significantly, especially in comparison to that of students

    with authoritative parents.

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    Other researchers have documented similar advantages for children

    with authoritative parents such that they demonstrate competent

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    social interaction skills, self-reliant and independent problem

    solving, emotional well-being and overall psychological adjustment,

    and few maladaptive internalizing and externalizing behaviors

    (Grusec & Goodnow, 1994; Pomerantz, Grolnick, & Price, 2005).

    These children enjoy academic success, demonstrate socially

    responsible and prosocial forms of classroom behavior, and

    competent relationships with their peers. They also report strong

    intrinsic interest in learning, positive beliefs about ability and

    control, and mastery goal orientations toward learning (see Wigfield,

    Eccles, Schiefele, Roeser, & Davis-Kean, 2006). It is important to

    note, however, that few of these findings reflect comparisons of

    parenting styles based on Baumrind's typology, but rather on

    parenting described more generally along dimensions of control or

    warmth or in terms of authoritative versus non-authoritative

    parenting.

    CLASS, ETHNICITY, AGE, AND GENDER

    The benefits of authoritative parenting have been documented

    mostly in samples of middle-class families in industrialized Western

    societies. However, some evidence indicates that parenting in

    working class and low socio-economic status families tends to be

    more authoritarian, with fathers using power assertive discipline

    more often than mothers. Children raised in more communal and

    extended family networks such as those found in Native American

    cultures, tend to be treated more permissively than European

    American children. Chinese mothers tend to demonstrate more

    controlling, authoritarian parenting practices than their European

    American counterparts (Fisher & Lerner, 2005). Research on age-

    related differences suggests that as children get older, outward

    displays of warmth and affection and direct disciplinary encounters

    by parents lessen, as verbal communication and discussion increase.

    Parents also tend to provide greater opportunities for autonomy and

    self-regulation as children enter adolescence and early adulthood

    (Maccoby, 2007).

    Despite these group-level differences, the positive effects of

    responsiveness and developmentally appropriate levels of control are

    quite similar for all children. However, work on gender differences

    suggests that girls tend to be generally more susceptible to

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    socialization practices than boys, whereas parental control tends to

    be more critical for boys' well-being than for girls' (Pomerantz et al.,

    2005; Weiss & Schwartz, 1996). Authoritative parenting also tends

    to predict social competence and adaptive psychological functioning

    for African American, Asian American, European American, and

    Hispanic American children; positive relations between authoritative

    parenting and academic outcomes have been found mostly for

    European American children.

    CONCEPTUAL AND METHODOLOGICAL ISSUES

    Although findings have been fairly robust and consistent with

    respect to the benefits of responsive and demanding parenting,

    several conceptual and methodological issues preclude strong

    conclusions about the effects of parenting styles on children. A

    central issue is that most researchers document parenting on the part

    of just one parent, most often the mother. Little is known about the

    frequency with which both parents display similar parenting styles or

    about the effects of discordant styles on children's development.

    Similarly, few studies document parenting styles within the context

    of broader family systems. It also is not clear how consistent

    parenting styles are across contexts and age of the child. In this

    regard, the degree to which consistency moderates the effects of

    parenting styles on child outcomes is not known. However,

    inconsistent parenting has been related to aggressive and

    noncompli-ant behavior throughout childhood and adolescence

    (Wentzel, 1994).

    Additional concerns surround the methods employed to document

    parenting styles (Maccoby, 2007). In studies of young children,

    observations of mother-child interactions during prescribed

    laboratory-based activities typically are used to identify specific

    parenting styles. Or mothers are asked to self-report on their

    parenting behaviors. In the case of observational studies, issues focus

    on how to capture behavior in real time and take into account the

    sequential and reciprocal nature of parent-child interactions.

    Decisions concerning whether to interpret interactions as a function

    of time, event, or context also are cause for debate. The use of

    mothers' reports has been met with concern given the psychological

    investment that mothers have in presenting themselves and their

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    children in the best light. In studies of older children, self-report

    methodologies typically are used to ask children about their parents'

    behavior. In this case, researchers place importance on children's

    cognitive understanding of their parents' actions rather than on

    objective forms of behavior. However, the degree to which these

    reports are reliable and valid assessments of parents' behavior as

    opposed to characteristics of the child is not well understood.

    Of final interest are the processes and mechanisms by which

    parenting styles might have their influence on child outcomes. To

    illustrate, reasons for why responsive parenting should be related to

    a child's academic performance have not been well articulated.

    Darling and Steinberg (1993) argued that parenting styles are part of

    a more complex system of parental inputs that include goals and

    expectations for their children (e.g., expectations for academic

    performance) and provisions of opportunities, resources, and

    instruction (e.g., academic enrichment programs, help with

    homework) targeted at achieving specific outcomes (e.g., mastery of

    academic subject matter). Additional research and theorizing that

    clarifies these possibilities is needed.

    See also:Parent Involvement[1]

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