1. 1. AFTER PITY, WHAT NEXT? A WAKE UP CALL86 OUR TEAM BEATRICE CHIZARAM MADU INNOCENT ENEBELI HOUSE OF HOPE JOHN CROSS MABEL MADU STELLA EZEONYEKA PETER AUGUSTINE BARR. MRS. BASSEY NTUK Editor-In-Chief/publisher Assistant Editor/creative Consultant Contributor Contributor / Social Analyst Correspondent - Lagos Correspondent - Port Harcourt Graphic Artist Contributor ANTHONY MADU Marketer HOPE OKPANACHI Marketer CHINYERE NWOGA Marketer ALEX NWANKWO Manager ADE ONI Photographer CHIDI OKPARA Photographer CHIZOBA UNACHUKWU Marketer 1 CELEBRATING A WOMAN OF WORTH CHIEF MRS. HERA OKIRO FIDA NIGERIA-ABUJA CELEBRATES TWO DECADES THE CHURCH HAS BECOME THE GREATEST KILLERS OF TALENT - ASU EKIYE 69 81 QE CONTENT 36SUPERWOMAN 8
2. 2. * * * * * * * * Organizers of Queen Esther Beauty Pageant and awards Publishers of Queen Esther Magazine Human Capacity building Zion Models: A modeling agency Career Counseling Women and Youth Development Character moulding and development Public and motivational speaking FIRST EDITION OF QUEEN ESTHER BEAUTY PAGEANT 2010 QUEEN ESTHER MAGAZINE CREW THE CEO QUEEN ESTHER PROJECT DELIVERING LECTURES ON HUMAN CAPACITY DEVELOPMENT AT THE NYSC ORIENTATION CAMP IN ONDO STATE THE ZION MODELS For speaking engagements or enquiries call: 08160313484, 08023712007 queenesther540@yahoo.com THE ...Rising up to the Occasion ueen stherPROJECT SECOND EDITION QUEEN ESTHER BEAUTY PAGEANT 2012 BEATRICE CHIZARAM MADU MD/CEO QUEEN ESTHER AWARDS THE QUEENESTHER MAGAZINE 2
3. 3. ocieties pay a huge price for ignoring the proven abilities of women to forge Sdevelopment; the recognition of the role of women in stabilizing societies informs the quest for more women in developmental initiatives. Women are said to be highly compassionate, therefore naturally suited to the task of building lives and bringing succour to the less privileged. The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpation on the part of men toward women. The International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA) has come to lay the foundation of a new culture of respect for women, the protection of women and child rights, bringing their experiences, perceptions and legal training to bear on the transformational process, they have come to advocate that the opportunities and life chances of women are equal to that of the men. Giving a voice to the voiceless, you would say. It was a period of Joy for the members of FIDA Nigeria Abuja branch as they celebrated two decades. and Iyabode Ogunseye the Chairperson shares her vision and tells us more about the group that is determined to make a difference. Still talking about making a difference, what difference would have made when you leave planet earth? This was a question that presumably came to the minds of many people who witnessed the Burial Ceremony of late Chief Mrs. Hera Okiro, the wife of former IGP Sir Mike Okiro. I could not ignore this question myself as I listened to many sympathizers testify to the exemplary and worthy life she lived, leaving her footprints on the sands of time. influence society positively could also be the motivating factor for Sir Mike Okiro to author a book entitled Overcoming Security Challenges a book that couldn't have come at a better time when we as a nation are faced with serious security challenges. A public presentation of this book was recently made at the Sheraton Hotel Abuja. It was indeed a memorable day for both Contestants and Awardees at the Queen Esther Beauty Pageant and awards 2012 which was recently held at the Ladi kwali Hall of Sheraton Hotel Abuja. We bring you all the details in this Edition. Share in our interview with Asu Ekiye, the darling of many Gospel music lovers, you will find his success story very enriching. Avail yourself with our regular columns and you will be glad you did. Queen Esther Magazine, in its uniqueness is positioned to make a statement in the media world. God bless you as you contribute to make this a reality. Beatrice Chizaram Madu Editor-in-Chief Editorial 3 Perhaps the desire to impart and
4. 4. Adopt the Royal Style Advertise in CONTACT US FOR THE MAGAZINE COVERAGE OF YOUR EVENTS:- EVENT ANCHORING / MC :-For all occasions. Call to hire our professional and spectacular event anchor / MC. USHERING: Well groomed female and male ushers for all events MODELING:- Models for your adverts and fashion exhibitions Weddings Dedication / Naming Ceremonies Seminars / Workshops Anniversaries / Birthdays Conferences Entertainment Church Programmes House Warming Exclusive Interviews Fashion Shows Business Adverts Product Launch Documentaries THE ...extolling the true virtues of womanhood.... ...redefining values ueen stherMAGAZINE IYABODE OGUNSEYEIYABODE OGUNSEYE Chairperson FIDA AbujaChairperson FIDA Abuja Wins the crown at the Queen Esther beauty pageant & Awards Wins the crown at the Queen Esther beauty pageant & Awards Determined to make a difference in the lives of indigent women and childrenDetermined to make a difference in the lives of indigent women and children UNIPORT UndergraduateUNIPORT Undergraduate SERENA FRANCISSERENA FRANCIS N700 Topdignitariesinattendance Buries wife in grand styleBuries wife in grand style Mike OkiroMike Okiro Former IGP Sir,Former IGP Sir, ...extolling the true virtues of womanhood.......redefining values THE ueen stherMAGAZINE REV. NGOZI MBAIKE First Among Equals Raising A Generation Of Giants Success Inspires Me Story Of The Miraculous Couple Dedicates Twins After 21years Of Marriage STELLA RITA ASOGWA Find out what happens when Women pray PST. OPI AGHA gives insights into the mysteries of prayer and family success As 600N Other Services Marketing Advert Vacancy: Articulate, well-groomed and competent applicants are required for immediate employment @ Queen Esther Magazine Call:08160313484 Our Mission Our mission is to enhance glamour in event coverage and advertising. 08133222831, 08160313484, 08034062687, 08179913850 - Abuja 08023712007, - Lagos07031065195 08033034326 - Port Harcourt e-mail: queenesther540@yahoo.com Advert Hotlines: THE ...extolling the true virtues of womanhood.... ...redefining values ueen stherMAGAZINE 4
5. 5. AFTER PITY, WHAT NEXT? A WAKE UP CALL 5 oday, our society is awash with news pieces Tof information about child abuse of every kind and many forms of violence against women. Child cruelty, child sexual abuse and rape in particular are on the increase in recent time. Our heart as a society bleeds when we hear about inhuman treatment unleashed on defenceless children by adults. Sometimes it would be machete cuts, hot water bath as well as acid bath to mention but a few. What about non-training of children in the school and marrying off children at a very young age by some parents, on the mere excuse of lack of money. Even when some are sent to school, they are left to wonder along the roads, at risk of road accidents and other hazards. Child neglect in our society is assuming an alarming rate, be it poor health, lack of safety precautions and muscling of child rights. The negligence is becoming unpardonable. It affects everyone directly or indirectly. We plan and spend billions of money to build super structures but fail to protect those to inherit the expected future. Women are not left out in this act of neglect and cruelty. We have continued to seek ways to escape the inequalities of our laws which places all womanhood at the mercy of manhood. The majority of women in African still suffer violation of their most basic human rights. For instance they are not always allowed to enter freely into marriage. Women's right to personal liberty and security including the right to health are also frequently violated through domestic institutional and community violence such as battering, sexual violence and other cultural worms that disregard the feelings, rights and perceptions of women. Other discriminating burdens placed on women including the burden of fertility and the burden of female circumcision. Others include the burden to prove rape both in the community and in a court of law. Polygamy continues to be practiced widely among all ethnic groups and among Christians as well as Muslims and practitioners of traditional religions in most parts of Africa. Women have less educational and employment opportunities and are relegated to the status of second class citizens. In addition, many customary practices in Africa do not recognize a woman's right to inherit her husband's property. And many widows are rendered destitute when their in-laws take virtually all of the The majority of women in Africa still suffer violation of their most basic human rights. The women of this nation must be awakened to a sense of awake, must make an effort to awaken those who are dead asleep, bring publicity to their cause and to effect change. Take bold dynamic actions to stop the injustice that women are subjected to. Resistance to tyranny is obedience to God.
6. 6. 6 deceased husband's property. Apart from denying widows inheritance, some African customs subject them to physical and emotional abuses. Societal perceptions are usually shaped by religion, tradition, folklore and fables. Most religious and traditions hold tenaciously to the belief that women must not occupy leadership positions in the society but should remain compliments of male leaders. There are also incredible reports that several business operate with a get pregnant, get fired policy. There are indeed a lot of institutional constraints to women empowerment these include lack of structures to advance women issues and lack of commitment and political will to effect changes on issues of gender mainstreaming. The Nigerian law through the penal code permits and condones the widespread problem of domestic violence by encouraging beating of wives in as much as it does not amount to grievous harm. Another example is the Sharian Penal Code laws which ensures that woman is convicted and sentenced to death by stoning for the offence of adultery, even when she is legally divorced while the man is set free. In the case of traditional laws especially in the south east Nigeria, the wife is often regarded as one of the properties to be inherited after the death of her husband and a female child is generally not expected to entertain any expectation when she loses her father in death. Under the above conditions, it is extremely difficult for a woman to be involved in developmental processes that are basically male dominated without incurring the wrath of their male dominated communities and a child reaching his or her full potentials in life. The call for an end to all forms of violence and discrimination against women and child abuse of any kind emphasizes the need for a more radical approach through economics, social and political development. It is not enough to call for prosecution of child abuse and violence against women perpetrators and showing pity to the victims. Blaming parents and the society at large does not bring the harsh reality to a halt either. Showing pity to victims of child molestation and discrimination and violence against women is good but it should go beyond that. Paying mere lip service to it is not the answer. It should be a thing of the past. Rhetoric commitment in this regards needs to be translated into firm action in that area of influencing policies and legislative changes that can curb gender based violence although there are international laws promulgated to protect the rights of women, ratification and implementation is usually difficult for most African governments. The women of this nation must be awakened to a sense of awake, must make an effort to awaken those who are dead asleep bring publicity to their cause and to effect change. Take bold dynamic actions, to stop the injustice that women are subjected to. Resistance to tyranny is obedience to God. They should boldly advocate for equality. Being on the vanguard potential development through quality awareness should be accorded the priority that it deserves. Women are advised not to expect men, to freely and willingly hand over power to them. They must wrest it from men. They need to take their destinies in their own hands and use their God-given talents and endowments to build their societies they should also use their numerical strength to achieve political ends. It is often said that most women lack confidence and that when they are included in decision making processes, they usually succumb to the pressure to act like men they therefore
7. 7. 7 promote the agenda of men who usually dominate such setting. Women should be most confident to actively participate in decision making process. Women are their own worst enemies as they do not support their fellow women to vie for elective posts. They need to be united to accomplish this. Women must support one another to get to leadership positions where they can collectively contribute to sustainable development of their societies. It is strongly recommended that traditional stereotypes and structures of domination should be eliminated by encouraging debate and dialogue re- educating society on gender balance and providing roles for women over and above the religious and cultural interpretations of women as being inferior. An organized awareness campaign should be created as an effective tool for communication and mobilization which will give visibility to women's quest for gender equality. Men should also realize and accept women as their partners in progress in achieving sustainable development. Equality between men and women is critical to development and there can be no effective development in any area where women do not play a central role alongside men. The government should encourage the efforts of organizations focused on protecting the rights women and children by providing them with political, financial and technical support. The International Federation of Women Lawyers FIDA are noted globally for their committed efforts in fighting the cause of women and children, I commend them and also recommend that their efforts be established and enabled through adequate assistance to function properly. Women should use their God-given talents and capacities to redress encumbrances in the system that is male dominated. Women should endavour to break free from all structural and societal factors militating against their development and progress by advocating strongly and unanimously for their rights according to internationally agreed standards forming deliberate alliances with men to mediate and acquire negotiation towards enduring all forms of discrimination and violence against women. They can also broaden the understanding of political decision-makers of the importance of women's contribution to nation building and to initiate discussions on how the upbringing and roles of men and women affect their attitude towards violence. Working and networking together women can increase awareness amongst themselves of the ways and means by which their views, knowledge and skills concerning their stake in their communities can be expressed, shared with others and affirmed through positive action. They should realize that women generally have perceptions< potentials and skills that can be brought to bear on development issues> time to promote child welfare eliminate all forms of violence and discrimination against women is now! By Beatrice Chizaram Madu and John Cross.
8. 8. rom the 19th to 21st june 2012, The members of FIDA Nig. Abuja branch and many of their associates came together to celebrate the two decades of FIDA Abuja Fbranch. The event which centred on the theme Nigerian Woman & Child in a troubled Nation, what future, What hope? . started with a street rally, a two day seminar and culminated with a gala night at Shehu Musa Yardua centre and a thanksgiving church service at Dunamis International Gospel Centre, Abuja. Celebrates Two Decades T he International Federation of Women Lawyers - FIDA- was formed in 1944 by a group of seven women lawyers from Cuba, EI Salvador, Mexico, Puerto Rico, and the United States of America. The Association is generally known as FIDA (which is an abbreviation of the original Spanish appellation Federation International de Abogadas). FIDA International is strictly a non-political and nonprofit making organization and membership can either be as a country or as individuals in countries where there are not enough members to constitute a group or where a country has not formed an officially recognized association. Its primary role is to promote the rights of women and children. With the advent of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, FIDA's objectives were broadened to include human rights for all. In 1952, the Association was admitted into the family of non-governmental organizations at the United Nations, while in 1954 it was granted a Consultative Status at the United Nations. It holds a class 2b status and is also a BRIEF PROFILE ABOUT FIDA Funmi Awomolo Chairperson, Planning Committee INTERNATIONALFEDERATION OFWOMENLAWYERS FEDERACION INTERNACIONAL DE ABOGADAS (FIDA) NIGERIA - ABUJA. CELEBRATES TWO DECADES member of CONGO (Conference of Non Governmental Organizations). The Association now has memberships in more than 80 countries in every region of the world and over 1000 individual members. FIDA NIGERIA: FIDA Nigeria was formed in 1963 and is a member of FIDA International. It has over 30 state branches covering all the regions of Nigeria. MEMBERSHIP: Membership is open to female lawyers called to the Nigerian bar and resident in Nigeria. 8 IYABODE OGUNSEYEIYABODE OGUNSEYE Chairperson FIDA Nigeria - AbujaChairperson FIDA Nigeria - Abuja
9. 9. INTERNATIONALFEDERATION OFWOMENLAWYERS A two day seminar organized by the International Federation of Women Lawyers FIDA Abuja, as part of the events marking the celebrations of two decades of FIDA Nigeria, Abuja and 2012 Law Week. The seminar saw speakers and resource persons in the legal profession whom amongst them were the keynote Speaker, Professor Dakas C J Dakas, Mrs. A O Mbamali (SAN), Wunmi Asubiaro Dada, Hon. Justice Goodluck, Chief Awomolo (SAN), Chief Mrs Stella Odife and Mrs. Biola Adimula delivering papers on the above subject. A school debate between Junior Secondary School, Area 11 and Junior Secondary School, Wuse FCT Abuja which centered on whether the Nigerian Child can achieve his or her optimum potentials or not, was also one of the items presented during the seminar session. Increasing cases of domestic violence and rape, Alternative dispute resolution or the multidoor, any effect on litigation? Does the child rights Act/Law offer adequate protection for the Nigerian Child? Enforcement of judgment garnishee proceedings, Mentoring and ethics in the legal profession The presentation of the British Council Gender report 2012. Topics ranging from:- The Nigerian Woman and Child in a troubled Nation: what future, what hope? PAPER REVIEW 9
10. 10. eynote Address by Professor Dakas C. J. Dakas. Professor Dakas impressive address was obviously in sympathy to the plight of Nigerian Kwomen and girl children and it drew attention to the serious problem of discrimination against women and the violation of the rights of women which are perpetuated through the discriminatory nature of Nigeria's socio-cultural laws. His address x-rayed many of the injustices Nigerian women face in a male dominated society and in the context of the turbulent times, Nigeria is faced with. He opined that women suffer most in conflict situations. According to him, issues of wanton discrimination against women is witnessed in many situations, the burden of prove in cases of rape, unequal representation of women and women having to operate by the standards set by men. Other instances are in terms of access to opportunities, in terms of access to resources and in terms of access to power. He also enumerated many of the socio-cultural and religious practices that discriminate against women and some of the discriminatory and obnoxious provisions that are found in our law books citing a section of the penal code which permits husbands to use physical means to chastise their wives as long as it does not result in grievous harm. Another example is the Islamic faith that ensures a woman is convicted and punished on the offence of adultery or rape, while the man is set free. The Christian religion, He says, also strengthens discrimination against women as some provisions in the Bible are often manipulated to undermine the rights of women. On a final note he emphasized that the struggle for women's right is not a struggle of the sexes but that women are asking for the opportunity to use their potentials and become the best they can be. He therefore adopted gender equality as a vital goal for development cooperation. His recommendations. 1. To constructively engage the public interest litigation. 2. To constructively engage religion because it is usually manipulated to oppress women. 3. To constructively engage culture as no culture is immutable. 4. Women to continue to play the pivotal role of shaping the roles their children play in the future knowing that gender is the construction of social roles. 5. To engage the law reform commission. 6. To pursue a more active legislative advocacy. To seek an amendment of some of the obnoxious laws and practices we find in Nigeria. 7. To establish the affirmative action which justifies that women have been unduly treated and therefore aims to rectify the injustices and facilitate some remedial measures to help put women back on their feet, provide adequate representation of women. 10
11. 11. 8. To constructively engage theatre. The Theatre is a popular culture in Nigeria that has a captive audience therefore can be used to set the agenda. Engaging Nollywood theatre, which usually depicts reality and mirrors the ills in the society, could be very beneficial in advancing the rights of women. Their scripts can be shaped to drive the agenda that is consistent with the rights of women. 9. Domesticate regional and international laws that advance the cause of women. The non-discrimination provision in Section 42 of our constitution is also identified as one of the documents that can be used to enhance the rights of women in Nigeria. 10. Economic empowerment: Women should be economically empowered because the struggle for equality is the struggle for power. 11. Education: Education grants you access to opportunities, therefore it is essential for women to get adequate education. The need for its consciousness should also be created. 12. Women in authority should use their position to leverage the conditions of women instead of asking for favours from men. rs. Biola Adimula, the presenter of the Paper tried to bring up issues that militate against the child. She made mind bungling revelations of how Msome socio-cultural practices in the north has contributed in denying children their rights. She remarked that though the child rights act has been documented to protect the child, it has never been adequately implemented, thus, the rights of children especially in northern Nigeria have been consistently violated. The issue and consequences of child marriage were brought to the fore. Consequences of child marriage were seen to be issues of health problems like Vesico Vaginal Fistula (VVF), Maternal health issues, premature pregnancy, HIV/AIDS, increased maternal mortality, increased infant mortality, increased illiteracy and increased level of poverty, Abuse and Violence, Isolation and abandonment. She stipulated ways that can be employed. To enforce the protection of child rights and to prevent child marriage which include. 1. Adequate education 2. Increased advocacy 3. Public enlightenment and having the political will. DOES THE CHILD RIGHTS ACT/LAW OFFER ADEQUATE PROTECTION FOR THE NIGERIAN CHILD? 11
12. 12. ALTERNATIVE DISPUTE RESOLUTION OR THE MULTI-DOOR: ANY EFFECT ON LITIGATION? By Hon. Justice O. Goodluck (Hon. Judge, FCT Multi-Door Court) Recommendations Hon. Justice O. Goodluck defines alternative Dispute resolution ADR or the Multi-door as a process of resolving dispute outside the courtroom litigation. She explains that ADR is not a substitute for litigation but simply complementary to litigation and particularly important in the protection and enforcement of family, social and economic rights. She pointed out that matters relating to psychological needs and values are better resolved by the ADR. She presented some forms of ADR which are negotiation, mediation, conciliation and arbitration. The advantages of ADR were also highlighted to be creates substantial reduction in the financial cost of litigation and the number of cases that clog the court system and the time cases drag in court. Litigation builds a culture of amiable settlement of differences and peaceful co-existence promotes law and order, enhances police efficiency by reducing the number of complaints. Aids the reduction of ethnic, religious, social and political conflicts, strengthens the public security, peace and development, rule of law and sound democratic culture. The constraints of ADR were also presented to be - ADR may not be binding on parties to it except in the case of Arbitration. - There is difficulty in the enforcement of ADR and - ADR cases do not and cannot constitute judicial precedents. This report represents several statistics from civil societies, national bureau of statistics, NGOs brought into one document as a gender inequality report with the aim of using the information to take action. The report informs us that we need to focus on our girls because girls are our future. The report looks in the focus axis of six key areas that concern women and girls. The report reveals that only 15% of our women own a bank account. It also informs us that income inequality is established because of the taxation regime in Nigeria that sees men as breadwinners. The report reveals that Nigeria is on the 118 position against 134 that is on the gender equality index. This appears to be worrisome. According to the report 3% of female Nigerians complete secondary school in eight northern States. The report tells us that there is high rate of female genital mutilation in southwest and high rate of physical violation of unmarried women in the southern. Nigeria is also recorded to be the lowest in terms of women entrepreneurship. Prioritize agriculture and rural development Keep our girls in schools Give our girls a second chance at life Increase the health budget Reduce Health maternal mortality. THE PRESENTATION OF THE BRITISH COUNCIL GENDER REPORT 2012 Highlight: by Wunmi Asubiaro Dada 12
13. 13. 13 Chairman of the occasion Speaker of the House of Representatives Hon. Aminu Waziri Tambuwal and the Chairperson FIDA Nigeria - Abuja, Iyabode Ogunseye Chairman of the occasion Speaker of the House of Representatives Hon. Aminu Waziri Tambuwal and the Chairperson FIDA Nigeria - Abuja, Iyabode Ogunseye L-R: House Leader Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande, speaker of the House of Reps and Iyabode Ogunseye L-R: House Leader Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande, speaker of the House of Reps and Iyabode Ogunseye House Leader Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande and the Chairperson FIDA Nigeria-Abuja Iyabode Ogunseye House Leader Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande and the Chairperson FIDA Nigeria-Abuja Iyabode Ogunseye House Leader Hon. Mulikat Adeola AkandeHouse Leader Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande
14. 14. 14 Chief A.S. Awomolo (SAN) and WifeChief A.S. Awomolo (SAN) and Wife Keynote Speaker Prof. Dakas C.J. DakasKeynote Speaker Prof. Dakas C.J. Dakas Air Comandore Udo (middle) with the AwomolosAir Comandore Udo (middle) with the Awomolos Hon. Razaq and Hon. Mulikat Adeola AkandeHon. Razaq and Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande The Speaker flanked by FIDANSThe Speaker flanked by FIDANS R-L: Barr. Halima Alfa, Bimbola Hundeyin, Hon. Mulikat Adeola AkandeR-L: Barr. Halima Alfa, Bimbola Hundeyin, Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande
15. 15. 15 House Leader Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande unveiling De Abogadas (A Publication of FIDA Abuja) House Leader Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande unveiling De Abogadas (A Publication of FIDA Abuja) General Chris Garuba(Midle) with people of the legal professionGeneral Chris Garuba(Midle) with people of the legal profession The Speaker Hon. Aminu Waziri Tambuwal(Middle) flanked by Hon. Lynda Ikpeazu (left) and Hon. Olivia Agbajoh -former members House of Reps. The Speaker Hon. Aminu Waziri Tambuwal(Middle) flanked by Hon. Lynda Ikpeazu (left) and Hon. Olivia Agbajoh -former members House of Reps. Chief A.S. Owomolo (SAN)Chief A.S. Owomolo (SAN)
16. 16. 16 Prof. C.J. Dakas and Mrs. Mercy AgbanucheProf. C.J. Dakas and Mrs. Mercy Agbanuche L-R: Chief Mrs. Stella Odife, Funmi Awomolo Ozioma IzuoraL-R: Chief Mrs. Stella Odife, Funmi Awomolo Ozioma Izuora Afam Osigwe NBA Chairman Abuja BranchAfam Osigwe NBA Chairman Abuja Branch Ijeoma Alisi, the PRO FIDA Nig. Abuja BranchIjeoma Alisi, the PRO FIDA Nig. Abuja Branch Hon. Lynda Ikpeazu (left) and The Hon. House LeaderHon. Lynda Ikpeazu (left) and The Hon. House Leader Mrs Mercy Agbamuche, Air Comodore Udo and Gen. Chris GarubaMrs Mercy Agbamuche, Air Comodore Udo and Gen. Chris Garuba
17. 17. 17 Afam Osigwe, NBA Chairman Abuja branch flanked by FIDANS Afam Osigwe, NBA Chairman Abuja branch flanked by FIDANS Nachamada Shaltha and FriendNachamada Shaltha and Friend
18. 18. 18 Hon. Justice O. GoodluckHon. Justice O. Goodluck Ozioma Uzuora and Funmi AwomoloOzioma Uzuora and Funmi Awomolo Barr. Esther Omaka and FriendBarr. Esther Omaka and Friend FIDANS Birthday CelebrationFIDANS Birthday Celebration Mrs. Biola Adimula (Middle)Mrs. Biola Adimula (Middle)
19. 19. 19 Students of Junion sec. Sch. Area 11 receiving their trophy from FIDA Nig. Abj. Chairperson Iyabode Ogunseye Students of Junion sec. Sch. Area 11 receiving their trophy from FIDA Nig. Abj. Chairperson Iyabode Ogunseye The Winners of the School debate Junior sec. Sch. Wuse Zone 1 receiving their prize. The Winners of the School debate Junior sec. Sch. Wuse Zone 1 receiving their prize. Cross section of Women Lawyers at the eventCross section of Women Lawyers at the event L-R: S.P Olabisi Olawole and Hon. Lynda IkpeazuL-R: S.P Olabisi Olawole and Hon. Lynda Ikpeazu
20. 20. 20 Ene EdeEne Ede Chief Mrs. Stella Odife and a guestChief Mrs. Stella Odife and a guest
21. 21. 21 Funmi Awomolo and Chairperson FIDA Nig. AbujaFunmi Awomolo and Chairperson FIDA Nig. Abuja
22. 22. 22 Mrs. A. O. Mbamali (SAN)Mrs. A. O. Mbamali (SAN) Mrs.Evelyn Hauwa ShekarauMrs.Evelyn Hauwa ShekarauHon. Olivia Agbajoh- Former Member House of Reps.Hon. Olivia Agbajoh- Former Member House of Reps. Ijeoma Alisi, PRO FIDA Nigeria-Abuja.Ijeoma Alisi, PRO FIDA Nigeria-Abuja. L-R:WunmiAsubiaroDada,FIDANig.-Abj.Chairperson&FunmiAwomoloL-R:WunmiAsubiaroDada,FIDANig.-Abj.Chairperson&FunmiAwomolo
23. 23. 23
24. 24. 24 The Chairperson FIDA Nig. Abj. branch receiving her AwardThe Chairperson FIDA Nig. Abj. branch receiving her AwardIyabode Ogunseye and the Chairman of the Gala Nite OccasionIyabode Ogunseye and the Chairman of the Gala Nite Occasion Gala Nite
25. 25. 25
26. 26. 26
27. 27. 27
28. 28. 28 Benjamin UbiriBenjamin Ubiri TV Personality
29. 29. 29 The Publisher Queen Esther Magazine -Beatrice Chizaram Madu and Barr. Nachamada
30. 30. 30
31. 31. FIDA Nig. Abuja Members during the thanksgiving church Service at Dunamis International Gospel Centre Area 1, Abuja. FIDA NIG. ABUJA CELEBRATES TWO DECADES 31
32. 32. We congratulate you for two decades of FIDA Nigeria Abuja and a successful one year in office as the Chairperson, FIDA Nigeria Abuja. Now tell us a little but more about yourself. Who are your role models? I attended Catholic Primary and secondary Schools in Lagos, studied French in Geneva Switzerland, I later proceeded to the Buckingham University England where I obtained my First and second Degree in Law. God has always been my role model. My grandfather was the first Puisne Justice of the Supreme Court of Nigeria. My grandparents played an important role in shaping my life, they also remain my role models. FIDA is focused on protecting the rights of women and children , providing free legal services for indigent women and children, we also promote and enhance their advancement and protection through advocacy for legislations. We realize that the welfare of women and children lie the happiness of the home and the what are the key focus of FIDA? strength of the society and therefore focus in seeing that women are empowered to take care of themselves and their children. We promote principles and aims of the United Nations in their Legal, social and Political aspect. Charity they say begins at home in that sense we also strive to cater for our members who may require our help. Oh! Yes FIDA is doing its best to accomplish most of its set goals. we have been able to touch the lives of many indigent women and children in FCT with our meagre resources, we have mediated and intervened in Do you think that FIDA is living up to its mandate? Life is not worth living unless it is lived for others. This is a belief playing out in the life of a woman who says that she doesn't see obstacles even if they exist when she sets her heart to achieve a mission, she strikes a high note with the sterling qualities of courage, conviction, passion and commitment, great tools for becoming a true woman of influence. Armed with a master degree in law, which she obtained from the Buckingham University England and a towering height of six foot plus. Iyabode Ogunseye stands tall as the chairperson FIDA Nigeria, Abuja. In an exclusive interview with Queen Esther Magazine, she shares her visions and aspirations which are geared towards using her influence to improve the lives of indigent women and children and taking FIDA Nig. Abuja to a greater height. Excerpts:- IYABODE OGUNSEYE Chairperson FIDA, Nigeria-Abuja. IYABODE OGUNSEYEIYABODE OGUNSEYE SETTING THE PACESETTING THE PACE LL.B, LL.M (Buckingham), B.L 32
33. 33. 33 many cases of domestic violence, discrimination andviolation of human rights involving women and children in FCT and in most of the cases secured justice for our clients or influenced an amicable settlement between the warring parties. Many a time we have provided food items for some indigent women in FCT but the sad story is that they turn around to sell the stuffs and of course we can only attribute this action to poverty, a lot of families are impoverished and we need to do more to help them. We pay medical bills and legal fees for indigent women who run to us for help and often times pay their transport fare back to their homes. Our role in seeing that the health bill is passed at the National Assembly was vital to its success. FIDA is a Non-Govern mental and non- profit making organisation. Our I know it is expensive to run programmes like this. How do you get your funds? objectives are met by partnering with government individuals, corporate sponsors, embassies and relevant agencies. We rely on support from most of these organizations to finance our projects. Ans : We have received support from some quarters. We commend the FCT minister Senator Bala Mohammed and some others for their efforts in helping us carry out our mandate but our responsibilities are enormous. We need some more support and I implore all who care to be part of what we are doing to come on board and help. We also realize that Are you getting adequate support? many people are still unaware of our activities, people can only identifywith you when they are well informed about you, and therefore we plan to embark on an awareness campaign. Ans: We have established outreaches in places like the prisons, orphanages and rural settlements and a lot of people have benefited from these efforts. Our plan is to improve on what we are already doing. Other recommendations pertains the need to launch radio and TV programs, distribute handbills that will contain vital information about us. Also of primary importance is for FIDA to receive the recognition it deserves and its relevance felt .Our goal is to establish the presence of FIDA in all police stations across the country, we have written to the inspector General of police in this regard and he promises to look into our request. FIDA is positioned to become a house hold name in FCT and in the other parts of the country. This is a feat that has been achieved by other member countries. Gambia is a country that FIDA has become a force to reckon with. In what specific ways are you going to create this awareness? It is quite obvious that more women and children would have to benefit from your humanitarian works. How well do you relate with other agencies that pursue similar objectives? Are you in Chairperson & Margrate Thatcher at Backingham University
34. 34. 34 partnership with any? Apart from the publicity plan what other plans do you have in place? We are always open to partnership as long as it is in line with our mandate, we have continued to maintain an active position at the United Nations Women Consultative forum.We also partner with NAPTIP, to check the nefarious activities of people who traffic in persons. To a large extent we are care givers, in our work to protect the rights of women and children, we want to go the extra mile in providing what we term as a 'safe house' for abused and traumatized women and children, during their stay in the 'safe house' they will be catered for, counselled and helped to overcome the frustrations of the past. As soon as the funds and the land space are available we will embark on the construction and building of this particular house. The child rights act is an important document that must be made available to all children of school age; you must know your rights before you fight for its protection. Children must be made to know theirrights. You know they are our future leaders. Our plans to print many copies of the simplified version of the Child Rights Act and distribute to many schools is of paramount importance. In order to also help the school children internalise the provisions of the Child Rights Act they will be made to create a drama which they will present to translate all the issues contained in the child rights act. We have great potentials in our children. It is important we protect their rights so that they can reach their full potential. As part of the events to mark the twenty decades of FIDA Abuja we invited students from two schools in FCT for a debate and we were overwhelmed with their brilliant performances. We are very hopeful that as we continue to push for legislations that will protect the rights of women ,people in authority will see the need to abolish some of the out- dated laws which of course were promulgated by our colonial masters. Our laws need to protect the rape victim. Rape cannot be done openly. We also know that the Human Rights Commission are helping to solve some of these complexities. The legal system seems to be tilted in favour of men such that women's rights are not given the same weight as the rights of men; our laws are unfairly biased such that women have an unduly heavy burden of proof to bear in cases of violence including rape. Is there any hope in sight? There is clearly inadequate social and political support for Nigerian women who desire positions of power and authority. Do you see the Nigerian woman overcoming this challenge? Do you encounter challenges in your course of duty? Let me tell you Nigerian men know of our abilities, they are always afraid to allow us leadership opportunities because they know we may perform better than them. Nigerian women in leadership positions have proved to be great achievers. If the 35% affirmative action (though I advocate for more percentage) is adequately implemented through committed and conscientious appointment and election of women in positions of authority, I believe it will go a long way in narrowing the gap. Therefore, our women should not give up hope. I am a result oriented person. I do not see challenges when I set my heart to achieve a mission. When you embark on a race to win a prize, do Current Vice Chancellor of Buckingham University Dr. Terence Kealey His Excellency Liyel Nwoke and Iyabode Ogunseye
35. 35. 35 you look back? you don't because if you do, you lose concentration and of course lose out in the race without getting to your destination. I set my goals, I commit them into the hands of God, pursue them with passion and determination and hope to achieve them, I never envisage failure. Our work is only hampered when we don't get the full co- operation of our clients we try to protect or help. Our traditions and believes have not helped matters, victims of domestic violence and rape are usually reluctant to continue a case after reporting to us because of the stigma associated with the matter. I remember a woman in Pyakasa here in FCT whose daughter was raped by a relative, the matter was reported to us, we got in contact with the woman, gave her some money for transport to facilitate her movement whenever she wants to come to us but as we made progress to bring the culprit to book, the woman stopped responding to us .We could not go further at this point. In law there is what we term as ''audi alterem partem'' that is hear from the other side .When cases involving two parties or more are reported to us, our first step is to hear the report of the other side. Unfortunately women who are abused by their husbands drop their charges as soon we demand to hear from their men. Community leaders have also posed a huge problem in the course of our duty, using their authority and influence they always interfere in our duty to protect any of their wards whose right has been violated. I may not be able to comment on this I wasn't so much in the picture before now but you know different people with different goals and focus, my ultimate goal is to take FIDA to greater heights, In the words of Mahatma Gandhi ''Be the change you want to see'' as a change agent, want to effect changes that will live a lasting impression. I felt the celebration was an important thing to do because if you do not celebrate yourself nobody will recognize your relevance. Ans: It is a great move in the right direction, we must protect female victims of domestic violence and You recently celebrated two decades of FIDA Abuja. Why did it take this long for you to mark your anniversary? We were recently informed by the media that female lawmakers are advocating for private court sessions for female victims of domestic violence and Rape so that they will be protected from stigma, what is your take on this? rape because we all know the response of the society towards these class of people, our society is not matured enough to accommodate people of this nature without stigmatizing them. With a private court session in place for female victims of domestic violence and rape, more women will able to open up and speak of their experiences. How do you punish an offender if his offence is not reported? I am very delighted about her appointment, she is a woman I have much confidence in .She is a humble person whose impeccable records to always score first in whatever she does show that she can transform the judicial system to what it is supposed to be. I am proud to tell you that she is a life member of FIDA and I know she is there to make us proud. I think what her primary concern should be is to curb the corruption that is evident in our judicial system and to put in measures where the time cases spend in our courts is reduced. Ans: It is as simple as it sounds ''She came and repositioned FIDA in its right perspective'' setting an example for others to follow. Can you share your feelings with us on the recent appointment of Justice Aloma Mariam Muhtar as the first female chief justice of Nigeria. Do you think the judicial system will receive a face lift under her leadership? What do you suggest should be her primary concern? QEM: What would you like to be remembered for after the end of your tenure as the chairperson of FIDA Abuja? Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande & Iyabode Ogunseye Hon. Mulikat Adeola Akande & Iyabode Ogunseye
36. 36. ost African societies not Monly condemn women who cannot have children, they castigate and stigmatize unmarried and divorced women as well irrespective of the factors responsible for their situations and statuses, and in modern society where women play multiple roles, they often face the problem of balancing between their personal and professional lives, successful women are often times stigmatized as prostitutes, once a woman achieves a measure of economic independence, she becomes burdened by the negative effects of social stigma. Listen sister, if you are in any of these situations and expect to get the support you understandably deserve from the world (when I say world) I mean your friends, enemies, parents, spouse, relatives and close associates, you may as well wait forever before you make any significant impart in your life. You need to take your destiny into your own hands and fulfill God's ordained purpose for your life. The story of the Samaritan woman in the Bible (John 4:5) paints a vivid picture of an unmarried woman who struggled to avoid the stigma associated with her status and in that bid had five husbands. Many would want to conclude that she was promiscuous but as far as I am concerned, that was as far from it. Now this is not a justification for promiscuity, no excuse is acceptable but the Samaritan Woman I suppose lived in a society where unmarried women were regarded as worthless and so felt devalued. In her search for validation, the disgrace she hoped to avoid by having a man brought her even deeper embarrassment. She failed to recognize the true source of her value and power which lied in the eternal purpose of God for her. Well the good news is that through the divine orchestration of God she eventually met with her purpose and was used by God to propagate his gospel and resolve an age long racial conflict. Now this story is a good example of a situation where women would spend all their time, energy and emotion seeking affirmation and fulfillment from men but never getting it because it was not men's to give, small wonder women still crave for fulfillment SUPERWOMAN 36
37. 37. even after marriage. The truth remains that men and women were never designed to be each other's source of fulfillment. Ladies, it is time to get it right. In a world that grasps for constant validation, it is easy you become a victim of societal pressure and demands with its attendant frustrations. To not achieve success or fulfillment in family or career does not mean you were disregarded or forsaken by God you don't have to wait for a man, a child or the opinion of others to define who you are. God has already given you a name, realize the spiritual perspective of your identity and don't be ruled by your desire for fulfillment from another source, you will be disappointed because man is incapable of being the source that God is. Develop a sense of purpose and decide to live everyday on purpose, don't put your life on hold until God delivers you from your circumstance because you want to avoid the shame of being labeled an old maid, a barren woman or a prostitute, don't neglect the call God placed on you, you must get busy performing your God-ordained assignment. Feeling sorry for yourself will only create more despondency and please don't ever welcome dirty pity-parties they will surely worsen your case, we must take our pain to God, but don't blame him for your circumstance, decide to excel where you are, no matter how much you hate your circumstances, always stick to your guns. Don't buy the lie of the world that you are inferior, a voice to be ignored, an empty vessel without honour, strip off all preconceived notions and worldly labels, redress yourself with God's salvation and validation and surrender absolutely to him. You must not allow life to labour you, discard every thought and opinion that contradicts what God says about you, what is man's judgment and opinion against God's judgment and opinion. It's time to know your worth and make no apologies for it, get a healthy perspective of your worth as a woman through Christ. Now, it takes strength to do this and that is the super in the woman. The super is not about arm wrestling or developing muscles you were not designed to have; it is about developing character muscles, it is about the internal energy you exert to overcome every militating force that divinely in-built determination you exhibit to conquer adverse situations and the tenacity you show in times of trials. You don't have to be tough to gain respect and influence, you can be your soft, warm, wise and feminine self and get everything accomplished. Your father who sees in secret will reward you openly. As we tap into the source of true fulfillment and validation of all we were created to be, a miraculous thing happens, we find contentment in whatever state we are in. Restoration, healing and wholeness are in the hands of God alone, so I say to you, love yourself by discovering yourself, be happy and live life to the fullest, believe me the rest of your life will become the best of your life. By Beatrice Chizaram Madu For Speaking engagements and Comments Call or text 08160313484 Email: touchgodonline@yahoo.com 37
38. 38. LARITAS BeautySPA your one stop beauty palace Braiding Weave-on Kiddies Hair Barbing Facial treatment Acne treatment Body Massage Luxury manicure Luxury Pedicure Full Nails Fixing Waxing Make up Natural Brazilian Hair Available Marykay products Available 2nd Floor, 911 Mall, 70 Usma Street, off Gana Street, Maitama Abuja. Tel: 07040500950,08023042244 laritasbeauty@gmail.com,info@;aritasonline.com, www.laritasonline.com 38
39. 39. he Queen Esther Beauty Pageant is an initiative of the Queen Esther Project and Tit is birthed out of a beauty pageant that has its records in the book of Esther in the Bible, where Hadassah who changed her name to Esther meaning star finds favour before the King and was chosen as the Queen. The book of Esther tells a story of Palace intrigues and genocide thwarted by a Jewish Queen of Persia named Esther. The competition aims to provide a platform for young Christian women to contest in a beauty pageant that upholds Godly Values, it is a celebration and an ultimate expression of true beauty; intelligence and integrity. it is a search for the most inwardly and outwardly beautiful and talented young woman who displays a Christian character and is a role model for this generation. It is specially designed to promote and extol the true virtues of womanhood, a platform created for young, beautiful and bold women to achieve their ambition, a ladder to ascend the throne of greatness and an opportunity to become a celebrity. It is a pageant like no other with Christian orientation and biblical values aimed at building confidence in young women who also seek to make a career in modeling. The selected Queen will be expected to act as youth ambassador for peace and change. The focus of the pageant and the responsibility of the queen are to draw attention to the realities of poverty, the plight of orphans, widows and abused women and to support the advocacy for the elimination of all forms of violence against women. The Queen also serves to promote the girl-child education and mentorship. It is also aimed at finding a young voice that will appeal to youths to shun negative social vices and ungodly habits such as prostitution, youth violence and drug abuse. Based on the Christian principles, guiding the competition appropriate attire will be required for all segments, there will be no swimsuit round and the contestants will be expected to behave in a manner befitting the title of Queen Esther. The initiator of the pageant, Beatrice Chizaram Madu believes that a platform of this nature will go a long way in building confidence in young women who will become world changers. THE ueen stherBEAUTY PAGEANT ...supporting the advocacy for the elimination of all forms of violence against women....supporting the advocacy for the elimination of all forms of violence against women. QUEEN ESTHER BEAUTY PAGEANT, A PAGEANT LIKE NO OTHER QUEEN ESTHER BEAUTY PAGEANT, A PAGEANT LIKE NO OTHER For enquiries, participation, sponsorship/partnership call:08160313484, 08023712007, 08037780342 Email: queeenesther540@yahoo.com The initiator Beatrice Chizaram Madu addressing the contestants We need sponsors and partners to help us meet with our objectives and drive the agenda forward. QUEENESTHER2010/2011QUEENESTHER2010/2011 DAPHNE OKORODUDUDAPHNE OKORODUDU QUEENESTHER2010/2011QUEENESTHER2010/2011 DAPHNE OKORODUDUDAPHNE OKORODUDU Daphne Okorodudu Queen Esther 2010/2011 speaking to young women Pageant Contestants and the initiator Beatrice Chizaram Madu (Middle) Pageant Contestants
40. 40. SERENA FRANCISSERENA FRANCISSERENA FRANCISSERENA FRANCIS QUEEN ESTHER 2012/2013 SERENA FRANCIS THE ueen sther I t was a show of pomp and glamour at the second edition of the Queen Esther beauty pageant held recently at the Sheraton Hotel Abuja. The event that witnessed high status guests from various walks of life and an all glamorous affair on the red carpet left memories of young, beautiful women numbering seventeen who took up the stage to slog it out for the coveted crown of the title. The contested position was eventually won by a university of Port Harcourt undergraduate Serena Francis, Victoria Emodi who is also an st undergraduate emerged the 1 runner up and Jasmine Mbonu a Lagos based model was chosen as the second runner up. The event also played host to the first edition of the Queen Esther awards where some notable women who have excelled in their respective calling were honoured. F-signature, an Abuja based fashion outfit participated in showcasing their designs on the runway. It was also a time to introduce the queen Esther magazine to the public. The audience were unmistakeably entertained by thrilling performances from comedians and singers present including the new kid on the block, the gospel music sensation Jay-R. ABE UTY PAGEANT AND AWARDS 2012
41. 41. 41 The Initiator, Queen Esther Beauty Pageant and Awards Beatrice Chizaram Madu giving her welcome address The Initiator, Queen Esther Beauty Pageant and Awards Beatrice Chizaram Madu giving her welcome address Daphne Okorodudu Queen Esther 2010/ 2011 crowning her successor Serena FrancisDaphne Okorodudu Queen Esther 2010/ 2011 crowning her successor Serena Francis L-R: Victoria Emordi- 1st Runner Up, The newly crowned queen Serena Francis and the 2nd runner up Jasmine Mbonu L-R: Victoria Emordi- 1st Runner Up, The newly crowned queen Serena Francis and the 2nd runner up Jasmine Mbonu
42. 42. 42 Comedian Mr.Odey thrilling the audienceComedian Mr.Odey thrilling the audience The organizer MBGA Ejiro and FriendThe organizer MBGA Ejiro and Friend The Gospel Music revolunmist Jay-R performing at the eventThe Gospel Music revolunmist Jay-R performing at the event Event Anchors Chucks De general and partner on stageEvent Anchors Chucks De general and partner on stage Miss Heritage and her companionsMiss Heritage and her companions GuestsGuests
43. 43. 43 EntertainerEntertainer The Contestants entertaining the audienceThe Contestants entertaining the audience Stellarita Asogwa and MotherStellarita Asogwa and Mother R-L: Pst. Mrs. Opi Agha, Husband and a FriendR-L: Pst. Mrs. Opi Agha, Husband and a Friend Panel of JudgesPanel of Judges Prof. Princess Vivian Mottohmigan at the event Prof. Princess Vivian Mottohmigan at the event GuestsGuests
44. 44. 44 L-R: Catherine Ok ere, Emmanuella, Bose Sally and SisterpL-R: Catherine Ok ere, Emmanuella, Bose Sally and Sisterp GuestsGuests GuestsGuests Designs by F-SignatureDesigns by F-Signature
45. 45. 45 F-SignatureF-Signature
46. 46. 46 F-SignatureF-Signature
47. 47. 47 Recipients of Queen Esther Awards Stellarita Asogwa- Award for great entrepreneurial skills Stellarita Asogwa- Award for great entrepreneurial skills Catherine Okpere Representing Mrs. Yelwa Fatima Baba Ari (The Director FCT Sec. Educ. Board) For the Award of Excellence in Service Catherine Okpere Representing Mrs. Yelwa Fatima Baba Ari (The Director FCT Sec. Educ. Board) For the Award of Excellence in Service Pst. Opi Agha - Award for Excellent Service to God and Humanity Pst. Opi Agha - Award for Excellent Service to God and Humanity F-SignatureF-Signature
48. 48. 48 Adaeze Aniekwena -Marketing Officer Febson Hotels representing Febson Hotels For appreciation and hospitality award Adaeze Aniekwena -Marketing Officer Febson Hotels representing Febson Hotels For appreciation and hospitality award Mrs. Justina Egahis representative receiving the award for excellent service to God and humanity on her behalf Mrs. Justina Egahis representative receiving the award for excellent service to God and humanity on her behalf Uloma Chukwu receiving the award for her contributions to Youth Development Uloma Chukwu receiving the award for her contributions to Youth Development The organizer MBGA Ejiro receiving the Award for Youth Ambassador on behalf of christian - The winner of Glo Naija sings 2011 The organizer MBGA Ejiro receiving the Award for Youth Ambassador on behalf of christian - The winner of Glo Naija sings 2011
49. 49. 49 Competing for the conveted titleCompeting for the conveted title
50. 50. 50
51. 51. 51
52. 52. 52
53. 53. 53
54. 54. 54 Stellarita Asogwa recieving her AwardStellarita Asogwa recieving her Award A GuestA Guest Money Show T.V Presenter Nancy Illoh introducing the Queen Esther Magazine. Money Show T.V Presenter Nancy Illoh introducing the Queen Esther Magazine. Daphne Okorodudu -Queen Esther 2010 /2011 being ushered in Daphne Okorodudu -Queen Esther 2010 /2011 being ushered in
55. 55. 55
56. 56. 56 Celebrating Queen Esther 2012Celebrating Queen Esther 2012
57. 57. 57 Money Show T.V Presenter Nancy Illoh and MC Amana on the red Carpet Money Show T.V Presenter Nancy Illoh and MC Amana on the red Carpet
58. 58. 58
59. 59. 59
60. 60. 60 Nollywood actor King Joe (middle) during his visit at the campNollywood actor King Joe (middle) during his visit at the camp
61. 61. 61 L-R: Alex Nwankwo (Manager), Queen Esther Project -Daphne Okorodudu Queen Esther 2010/2011, Nollywood actor king Joe, the Queen Esther Project Initiator Beatrice Chizaram Madu L-R: Alex Nwankwo (Manager), Queen Esther Project -Daphne Okorodudu Queen Esther 2010/2011, Nollywood actor king Joe, the Queen Esther Project Initiator Beatrice Chizaram Madu Daphne Okorodudu -Queen Esther 2010/2011 and Friends at the pre-event Party Daphne Okorodudu -Queen Esther 2010/2011 and Friends at the pre-event Party The initiator of the Queen Esther Beauty Pageant Beatrice Chizaram Madu is surrounded by her girls as she marks her birthday during the pre-event birthday. The initiator of the Queen Esther Beauty Pageant Beatrice Chizaram Madu is surrounded by her girls as she marks her birthday during the pre-event birthday. L-R: Evido, Queen Esther 2010/2012 and Alex Nwankwo-Manager Queen Esther Project L-R: Evido, Queen Esther 2010/2012 and Alex Nwankwo-Manager Queen Esther Project Daphne Okorodudu - Queen Esther 2010/2011 flanked by Queen Esther girlsDaphne Okorodudu - Queen Esther 2010/2011 flanked by Queen Esther girls PRE-EVENT PARTY
62. 62. 62 Pre-event PartyPre-event Party Beatrice Chizaram Madu receiving birthday gifts from her girlsBeatrice Chizaram Madu receiving birthday gifts from her girls
63. 63. Coming soon!!! AFTER PITY WHAT NEXT ? A WAKE UP CALL Highlights:- 1. Paper Presentations that is centered on the theme of the event 2. Fashion Exhibitions on the runway and exhibition stands 3. The 2nd edition of Queen Esther awards 4. Little Queen Esther Beauty Pageant 5. Musical Concert Interested fashion exhibitors, participants, enquiries and sponsorship / partnership pls. call Chizaram :08160313484, Alex : 08037780342 THE ...extolling the true virtues of womanhood.... ...redefining values ueen stherPROJECT SUPPORTING THE ADVOCACY FOR THE ELIMINATION OF ALL FORMS OF VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN AND PROMOTING THE GIRL-CHILD EDUCATION AND MENTORSHIP FOR NATIONAL DEVELOPMENT. SPECIAL FOCUS: THE ROLE OF WOMEN IN NATION BUILDING. A ONE DAY EVENT PLANNED TO HOLD ON THE 1ST OF DECEMBER 2012 A ONE DAY EVENT PLANNED TO HOLD ON THE 8TH OF DECEMBER 2012 63
64. 64. THE ...Celebrating women of honour and distinction ueen stherAWARDS he prestigious Queen Esther Awards is an initiative of the TQueen Esther Project and it is designed to honour women who fought through tough times to affect positive changes in their communities. It celebrates the contributions and achievements of women in our society and promotes African women of substance and youths who have contributed immensely to the overall development of the society and therefore paves the way for the younger generation. God's desire as demonstrated in the biblical character of Queen Esther whom he used as an instrument for national salvation and preservation is to see women, despite their challenges and backgrounds, excel in their varied capacities as soul winners, business executives preachers authors, wives, mothers, grand mothers, community leaders, kingdom financiers, world ambassadors for God as truly God's special women of today who will imprint their footsteps on the sands of time. THE ...Celebrating women of honour and distinction ueen stherAWARDS STELLARITA ASOGWASTELLARITA ASOGWA Award RecipientAward Recipient 64
65. 65. 1.Women who have exhibited great entrepreneurial skills. 2.Women who have strived in the ministry of God's work 3.Women who have achieved success in political leadership and governance 4.Women who have made huge contributions to child, youth and women development in Nigeria. 5.Women who have made great difference in the lives of the less privileged ones. 6. Organizations focused in advancing the cause of women and youths in our society. 7. Women who have distinguished themselves in the academic world, imparting humanity through their initiatives. 8. Men who are committed to the welfare of indigent women and children . NOMINATIONS FOR THE SECOND EDITION OF THE QUEEN ESTHER AWARDS 2012 WILL BE RECEIVED UNDER THE FOLLOWING CATEGORIES: FOR NOMINATIONS CALL 08160313484, 08037780342 or send an email to queenesther540@yahoo.com THE ueen sther AWARDS Award Ceremony holds 8th December, 2012 ...Celebrating women of honour and distinction 65
66. 66. 66 Application ends 30th November, 2012
67. 67. M arriage is a cherishable union between a husband and his wife or wives. It is indeed honorable and desirable. Because of these attributes about marriage, most women believe that getting married is the highest achievement in a woman's life. Some have an idealized picture of a happy-go- lucky life they are going to live in their Frankly, it is impossible to live without hitches here and there at one time or the other. You'll never truly know yourself or strength of your relationship, until both have been tested by adversity. Such knowledge is a true gift for it is painfully won. Sometimes hitches or adversity may come in form of home foreclosure, ADDING VALUE TO YOUR MARITAL STATUS BARR.(MRS) BASSEY E.J.NTUK 67
68. 68. 65 are going to live in their unemployment or evaporation of hard- earned savings suddenly. A family can overcome all these and bounce back with the understanding and team effort by spouses. If you doubt this, read the story of J.K.Rowling, an unemployed mother who said during her rock bottom times, she realized she still had a daughter and an old typewriter. She braved up and put the old typewriter to use. That became the foundation for rebuilding her life; perhaps you've heard of her series 'Harry Potter'. The idea to write novels started with her old typewriter. Grace also had a similar story, Her husband was a happy working-class staff of Ajaokuta Steel Industry. While his job was still running, she humbly approached her husband to assist her with fund to start a small-scale business, her husband being so persuaded gave her some money with which she started her ice cream business. She was able to generate money to finance her part-time training on catering. Having completed her catering training, she opened a big eatery in town. Soon after, Ajaokuta Steel Industry was liquidated. Her husband became jobless, but thank God for her business, the proceed from her business was more than sufficient to take care of all her family needs that her husband's lack of employment was not felt. Who says it is not good for a wife to work and generate money? It could save both husband and wife from mental trauma during trying times, promote good health and love between couples. Wives should look beyond relaxing at home. Leave your comfort zone and try to add value to your personalities. Equip yourself with education or learn a trade. Who knows, it could help in 'rocky times'. 68 ALL SHINNING STAR VENTURESALL SHINNING STAR VENTURES Cleaning of offices, Hotels, Homes and just completed site Suppliers of Cleaning Materials A trial will convince you. Pls.contactusforyour Training&Skillacquisition onourproducts Industrial Development Centre, Idu Layout Phase II, Idu FCT-Abuja Tel: 08036200739, 08032913365, 080267707776
69. 69. You have come, made an impact and gone These phrase caught my attention as I perused through the very many enviable tributes written to the Late Chief Mrs. Hera Okiro by those who understandably feel the pain of her death and of course my desire to find out why she attracted a huge volume of these great tributes was triggered. I went on a fact finding mission. My interaction with the First Lady of Rivers-State, Her Excellency Mrs. Judith Amaechi during the Burial Ceremony of the deceased gave me the chance to hear from a woman who believes that Chief Mrs. Hera Okiro lived a worthy and fulfilled life. With more discoveries I was challenged to live a life of legacy. As I x-ray many attributes and achievements of Mummy Okiro as was fondly called, I pray you will learn from the lesson she presents. Lesson No. I: She brought succor to the needy people who encountered her: Many testified to this. Mr. Money Bag, Mrs. Money Bag, What are you doing to put smiles on the faces of indigent people around you? Are you a politician? The promises you made to your people before your election, are you fulfilling them? You may not be as affluent as you want however, you can contribute to the welfare of a less privileged one. Remember you have been blessed by God to become a blessing to others. Lesson No. II: She committed her life to the service of God CELEBRATING A WOMAN OF WORTH CHIEF MRS. HERA OKIRO CHIEF MRS. HERA OKIROCHIEF MRS. HERA OKIRO 31st July, 1961 -26th April, 2012 During my interaction with the First Lady of Rivers-State, Her Excellency Dame Judith Amaechi (left) 69
70. 70. and lived according to his dictates: Your primary purpose on this earth is to serve and worship your creator. Don't allow issues that are of no eternal value to rob you of your relationship with God. After your sojourn here on earth, you will be required to give account of your stewardship to God. Lesson No. III: She mentored many: Somebody who needs improvement and advancement in life has been put under your care. Are you adding value to the life of that individual through impacting knowledge and wisdom? Are you making deliberate efforts to place the person on the right path to achieving success in life? Think about it if you had not been mentored perhaps you wouldn't have assumed your present enviable position. Lesson No. IV: As a mother she catered for her children, as a wife she contributed to the success of her marriage and the upliftment of her husband: Realize your unique qualities woman and remember that you have been positioned in your matrimonial home to play the vital role of overseeing domestic affairs and holding forth the home front. Don't ever neglect this aspect of your marriage in pursuit of personal achievement. Lesson NO. V: She gave back to the society: God expects you to give back to society what he has given to you. He has placed you in that capacity as a leader to effect change. Late Chief Mrs. Hera Okiro, during her tenure as the president of POWA is reputed today to be the brain behind the erection and completion of a dignifying edifice that now replaces the ramshackled makeshift accommodation that housed the POWA Secretariat. If we are opportuned, we must do things that ensure that we go on living even after our death, in other words we must try to leave a lasting legacy behind us. Lesson NO. VI: She never gave up on life until her demise: Life may present very many unpleasant experiences to you, be it ill-health, lack, loss of a loved one, feeling of rejection and abandonment, failure and hopelessness but remember, it can never be over until it is over. We always hear of desperate situations turning around to become a story of triumph and victory. Never give up. Now the final note brings us to the big question What would you be remembered for when you leave planet earth? Perhaps you will find the answers as you apply these invaluable lessons drawn from the very life of Chief Mrs. Hera Okiro. On behalf of the management of Queen Esther Magazine we commiserate with the Okiro family, most especially Sir Mike Okiro and we pray that God should grant them the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss. QE 70
71. 71. C hief Mrs. Hera Okiro, the late wife of Former IGP Sir. Mike Okiro was laid to rest amid pomp and ceremony at the Egbema Rivers-State country home of Sir. Mike Okiro. Dignitaries from all walks of life thronged the venue of the ceremony which kick started at the Holy Trinity Catholic Church Maitama Abuja. The First Lady, Rivers-State Her Excellency Dame Judith Amaechi, Imo-State Governor Owelle Rochas Okorocha, the Inspector General of Police Muhammed Abubakar, Rivers-State Governor Rt. Hon. Rotimi Amaechi were among prominent personalities that graced the occasion. LATE CHIEF MRS. HERA OKIRO Wife of Former IGP Sir. Mike Okiro 71
72. 72. 72 The Okiros
73. 73. 73 Rt. Hon. Chibuike Amaechi -Governor of Rivers- StateRt. Hon. Chibuike Amaechi -Governor of Rivers- State Sir Mike Okiro and GuestsSir Mike Okiro and Guests Sir Mike Okiro and Sir Peter Odili former Governor, Rivers -State Sir Mike Okiro and Sir Peter Odili former Governor, Rivers -State The Inspector-General of Police Muhammed Abubakar and the Minister of Police Affairs Caleb Olubolade The Inspector-General of Police Muhammed Abubakar and the Minister of Police Affairs Caleb Olubolade Chief Theodore Orji-Governor of Abia state and Mr. Peter Obi Gov. of Anambra state Chief Theodore Orji-Governor of Abia state and Mr. Peter Obi Gov. of Anambra state Man of the people Owelle Rochas Okorocha Governor of Imo State Man of the people Owelle Rochas Okorocha Governor of Imo State Sen. Osita Izunaso and a guestSen. Osita Izunaso and a guest
74. 74. 74 Sir Mike Okiro being consoledSir Mike Okiro being consoled Her Excellency Dame Judith Amaechi The First Lady, Rivers- State Her Excellency Dame Judith Amaechi The First Lady, Rivers- State Her Excellency Dame Judith Amaechi signing the condolence registerHer Excellency Dame Judith Amaechi signing the condolence register Sen. Ike Nwachukwu signing the condolence registerSen. Ike Nwachukwu signing the condolence register Sir Peter Odili and His wife Justice Mary OdiliSir Peter Odili and His wife Justice Mary Odili Royal Personalities at the eventRoyal Personalities at the event Her Excellency Dame Judith Amaechi The First Lady, Rivers- State commiserating with Sir Mike Okiro Her Excellency Dame Judith Amaechi The First Lady, Rivers- State commiserating with Sir Mike Okiro
75. 75. 75 Dr. Adamu Babangida (Emir of Abaji and Chairman Council of traditional rulers Dr. Adamu Babangida (Emir of Abaji and Chairman Council of traditional rulers Prince Henry Okafor MD ISOPADEC at the event Prince Henry Okafor MD ISOPADEC at the event Achike Udenwa - Former Gov. Imo State and Wife Achike Udenwa - Former Gov. Imo State and Wife Senator Ifeanyi ArarumeSenator Ifeanyi Ararume Sir Mike Okiro and the IGP Muhammed AbubakarSir Mike Okiro and the IGP Muhammed Abubakar
76. 76. 76 Catholic knightsCatholic knights Father LawrenceFather Lawrence
77. 77. 77 Police Officers wivesPolice Officers wives Sir Mike Okiro and SonSir Mike Okiro and Son Royal PresenceRoyal Presence Cross Section of GuestsCross Section of Guests Police Officers WivesPolice Officers Wives Glory and FriendGlory and Friend
78. 78. 78 Media CommitteeMedia Committee Yvonne leading the burial trainYvonne leading the burial train L-R: The PublisherQueen Esther Magazine - Beatrice Chizaram Madu, Sen. Osita Izunasor, Anayo and Chibuzor L-R: The PublisherQueen Esther Magazine - Beatrice Chizaram Madu, Sen. Osita Izunasor, Anayo and Chibuzor
79. 79. OXTRICH PURE VEGETABLE OILOXTRICH PURE VEGETABLE OILOXTRICH PURE VEGETABLE OILOXTRICH PURE VEGETABLE OILOXTRICH PURE VEGETABLE OIL A BRAND OF PURE SOYA OILA BRAND OF PURE SOYA OIL PRODUCTS OF OXTRICH CREATIONS LTD. Head Office: NF 4 Maiduguri Road, Kaduna State For Distributorship Enquiry: +234 708 280 1622, +234 7067 4264 46 ...NOW AVAILABLE NATION WIDE IN ALL OPEN MARKET, AND RETAIL STORES NEAREST TO YOU. CHOLESTEROL FREE 41ltrs41ltrs 18ltrs18ltrs 25ltrs25ltrs Content processed by: Sunseed Nig. Nig. Plc New Jos / Road Dakaci Zaria State Factory Address: No. 5 Oxtrich Creations Road Ungwan Barde, Sabo Kaduna, Kaduna State. VITA M IN A FO R TIFIED NAFDAC REG. NO. A1-8272 79 Body Polish Skin Facials Massage Nails Pedicure Piercing Unisex Salon Aerobics Sauna Tatoo Waxing Gym XCIBER URBAN SPA AND HEALTH CLUB LTDeiber No: 71, Fourth Avenue, Citec Villas, Gwarimpa Estate, Abuja, Nigeria. 08037090752, 08057692205 BBPIN: 25F5BC00 AEROBICS Mon - Sat 6am - 8am VIP 7AM - 10PM Other Services Mon. - Sat 6am - 10pm Sunday 1pm - 10pm ...Beauty simply delivered
80. 80. e all are born with an inbuilt ability to DO Wanything in life if only we choose to and are willing, for nothing can stop the human will, like it is said when there is a will there is a way. The will of human soul is the strongest force on earth, whenever a man becomes wiling, there is no limit to what he can do or achieve. In Genesis 11:16 The Bible clearly confirmed this 'and the Lord said, Behold, the people is one, and they have all one language, and this they begin to DO: and now nothing will be restrained from them, which they have imagined to DO. Friend, can you imagine men attempting to build a tower which will reach the heavens, in those days when there were not (HOPE BOOSTER) YOU CAN DO IT much sophisticated building equipments like we have today, 'Mission Impossible! You would say, But God Himself who made man knows what man can DO said it was possible if they were not stopped. Friend, you can DO it, whatever dream you have in your heart can be realized, you just have to discover what it takes and give it what it takes. When in 1900 the Wright Brothers, Orville Wright and Wilbur Wright the two Americans Who invented and flew the World's first successful airplane told their father Milton Wright who was a Bishop about their intention to invent the airplane, he told them it was not possible because if God wanted humans to fly He would have created them wings, but today men are not only flying in the air they are literally living in the air. Friend, the impossible is possible, it does not matter how many times you might have tried and failed, you can still succeed. All great and successful people have experienced failure at one point in time, in fact, past failures can fuel your drive for future success. So give it a trial again knowing deeply inside you that YOU CAN DO IT Powered By House Of Hope Foundation Int'l (HOHFI) Email: houseofhope2011@hotmail.com, twitter.com/hohfi, facebook.com/houseofhope2011 80
81. 81. THE CHURCH HAS BECOME THE GREATEST KILLERS OF TALENT - ASU EKIYE he name Asu Ekiye rings a bell in the Tminds of many gospel music lovers both within our borders and beyond. He is a prince of the Niger Delta whose songs in his native language shot to stardom and since then he has continued to wow his fans with his spectacular tunes. Asu Ekiye is a trained accountant who left his profession as an accountant to pursue his calling and passion as a gospel artiste. This immeasurably gifted singer who has received many local and international recognitions for his outstanding works takes us back to where his journey started. 81
82. 82. We know that Asku Ekiye is a popular gospel act but there are still more for us to know. Can you give us some more details about your background. As you already know, my name is Asu Ekiye and I am from Alegbiri Ekuromi Local Government Area of Bayelsa State. I also share a biological link with my people in Trumo Brutu Local Government Area in Delta State, so I speak Ijaw. I had my early education in Warri, my secondary education was at Huston College Warri. I later proceeded to University of Port Harcourt to study Accountanc y. I never saw myself going to school because I wanted to be a musician, I have always wanted to be an accountant, but in the course of pursuing my career, I realized I was called to be a gospel musician. Accountancy to me was a profession while music to me was a calling, a spiritual calling and then, the desire to fulfill the mandate of my spiritual calling took a higher precedence over my professional calling, from this perspective I am doing what I am doing today as a gospel musician. When I was in the University we used to have a club called gospel singers club where gospel singers meet and fellowship . That was where I actually develope d the main desire to express my talent in music. You know, I didn't really see it as At what point did you take your first step to answer to your spiritual calling and what was your road to success like? something I was actually going to do. I had an experience that finally influenced me into embracing my calling as a gospel musician. I was working in a firm of Chartered Accountants based in Port Harcourt and one fateful day my boss came into the office and stumbled on me playing a keyboard and singing my song, he got so infuriated on the grounds that I neglected my duty to do other things and then made a strong suggestion that I resign from my job and concentrate on my music. The drive for music was so strong and I looked for every opportunity to express it. When I joined the Royal House of Grace led by Rev. Prince Zilly Aggrey, my longing was to give expression to that yearning, that musical expression. My music career started but on what I will term as a wrong footing because before now I received a revelation that I would be an internationally acclaimed musician but I misconstrued it to mean that I would have to sing like an American Artiste to receive an international recognition. So I spent several years singing like Kirk Franklin, Don Moen, Donnie McLurkin, just like the Stereotypical American musician, basically I thought that my singing like an American will eventually 82
83. 83. take me to America but I didn't know that God had a different plan. I continued in this manner but never got the recognition I so desired at this point I went to God and He told me to be original. I changed my mode of expressing my music, and started singing in my native language, I came up with E- eehewowo ehewowo.. and it turned out to be a bombshell, an instant hit, I called it the Niger Delta Style. Coincidentally, it was when the agitation for resource control was just beginning to gain momentum in our country. The Niger Delta People hijacked it. It also became the favorite of many people from other parts of the country. The result was massive, the song was marketed by Ebenezer Obey, a popular Yoruba musician, he also nominated it for an international award, from here, barrage of awards started pouring in. I was the first Nigerian to win an award in a major music competitive award. The Channel O, Gospel Music Award where I was awarded the best African Gospel Artiste Award, I received this award a second time. Subsequently, I received an invitation to Europe from there, I proceeded to London where I staged a lot of performances, people from other countries also showed great interest in me. I can only explain my success and transformation in simple terms - commitment, faith and the divine hand of God having a place in my life. It is wonderful to be where I am today but I have the desire to go beyond this level, in the Bible Paul said Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended but this one thing I do forgetting those things which are before. I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus (Phil. 3:13), so this is my working philosophy right now. Do you think you have reached the peak of your musical career? Do you think the church is doing enough to help upcoming gospel artistes so that they can blossom like you? Ans: This will sound very controversial and many pastors will not like the statement I am going to make but the truth must always become the truth, no matter how you try to suppress it, it will eventually come to the fore. The church has become the greatest killer of talents, God has blessed the Nigerian church so much but right inside the church the talents are frustrated, so the young ones look for different outlets to develop and express themselves and when the outlets come in form of secular talent hunt tools like glonaija sings, American Idol, West Africa Idol and Project Fame, they run into these programmes because of the pent-up frustration in being a Christian, working days and nights, singing in the choir and hoping that one day the church will help you to excel in your calling as a singer. I am sorry to say this but I never received any form of support from my church at the time. I worked in the church as a music director for ten years, yet the pastors could not contribute money Does this mean, you were not supported by your church at your budding stage? 83
84. 84. 84 for me to invest in my talent. I struggled and when the support was not forthcoming, the fire of music in me drove me to say to myself, if the church cannot give me support then I would have to look for it elsewhere. I realized that the church had no agenda for my gift, they were only interested in exploiting my gift to populate the church, I worked year in and year out, yet no encouragement from people I perceived to be my mentors. They had the capacity to provide the sixty thousand naira I needed to produce my first album but they did not give it to me. I turned to an elder in church who was so rich, this is one pathetic story I have always told, I kept going to his house everyday of the week for nine months, all to no avail I couldn't receive a dime form him. I sought for a job and got one, I worked, saved up some money and was able to finance my album production the album became a success. The turn of events, will make any one aspiring to succeed to remain steadfast. The very elder who did not support me with the sixty thousand naira I requested from him was at one time a governorship aspirant for Bayelsa State and because of my popularity with the youths, he envisaged that he would get the votes and support of the teeming youths in the State if he gets me involved in this election campaign. I was approached in this regard but I told my pastor who was his emissary about my resolve to withdraw any kind of support I had for him and rather vote for his opponent. People like this do not deserve to be in leadership. Their only mission will only be to frustrate their subjects and prevent them from reaching their full potentials. Some leaders don't realize that the young man you support today can be a blessing tomorrow. The Nigerian church can be counted as one of the richest in the world, if they can devote 0.01% of their money to imparting young people and helping them to realize their dreams things will become better, obviously when they succeed they will remember the church and come to give back to the people that supported them. Young Christians have continue to suffer because the church has refused to rise up to its responsibilities. What I am doing now is to find ways of encouraging the young people and see how they can also get empowered and be able to find expression for their gifts. My advice for any young person who is gifted and needs to express his or her gifts but lacks the financial resources and sponsorship to do so, is to look for a job that will attract some income, when you are able to save up some money you can now invest it in making your first start. With a tangible and an impressive product to show, recognition will surely come. It is important to also seek for any opportunity to express your gifts. You may not know who is watching. I used to go from church to church begging people to allow me perform, many of the occasions I was driven away but after I produced my video, top personalities from every part of the country began to look for me. I became a sought after. Be wise, don't beg forever. Start to do something for yourself and God will start to bless you. I just released a new album and it is receiving a lot of attention from different parts of the country. There is a TV Channel called Kingdom Africa, they recently held their first music award show in Lagos and my song in my latest album was rated the best traditional gospel in What advice do you have for young people who want to follow your footsteps. What is your latest work?
85. 85. 85 Nigeria. I make a lot of input, cosmetic work, location, costumes and choreographic are all my concept, the director now interprets them. We met in the university, we studied the same course, Accounting. Coincidentally, she also joined the same church I was attending at the time, (Royal House of Grace in Port Harcourt), both of us were in the church choir but the revelation that she was going to be my wife didn't come until I left the church some years later, I went back to the church I left to go and locate my missing rib. She has become a very strong supporter of my work. We didn't own anything when we married but today, the story has changed. After our marriage, we had a major challenge, for seven years we were faced with the challenge of having children. On the seventh year, God opened the door and now we have four children - three boys and one girl. My boys are warming up to become my back-up singers, they are always trying to dress and sing like me. Your videos are usually spectacular. Now let's talk about your family how did you meet your wife? This is definitely an inspiring story. How did you react during the trying period? Let me tell you this, sometimes when I share this part of my life with people, they think I am trying to be over spiritual, at times they say it can never be real. I was led by the spirit of God to ask for my wife's hand in marriage, when I went to her, she told me that she had waited for me for three years because God also ministered to her concerning me, but as the social tradition is a woman does not initiate the first move when it comes to marriage. She actually got engaged to another man but one month into that relationship she confirmed that God instructed her to break the engagement, she did and one week later I appeared on the scene. I have a unique destiny, my history confirms it. When I was sixteen years old, one pastor friend of mine told me to pray concerning the wife I will marry, irrespective of how long it will take me to marry. I became born again at sixteen and started praying for the wife I will marry. I asked God to prepare my wife. The early period of our marriage was turbulent but God kept us together. For me when my frustration gets to a level I release myself and praise God, my wife was worried but I was always jumping on the altar. You know when you are a person who is always in the habit of praising God, situations may come that may test you but people who are always in the habit of praising God are always happy people. I remember when I was performing in a church in London called KICC, I told them while performing that I did not have any child but was dedicating my songs to the children that God was to bring my way. It is also a wonderful privilege for me, I believe in relating with everybody who comes to me; that is why I always have a relaxed protocol around me, once I have this kind of opportunity, I make use of it. We thank you for sparing this time, out of your busy schedule to grant this interview. QE
86. 86. N igeria's Former Inspector General of Police Sir Mike Okiro recently at Sheraton Hotel Abuja made t h e p u b l i c presentation of a book he authored entitled Overcoming