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Volume 17, Issue 7 Sivan\Tamuz 5776 July 2016 (631) 563-1660 67 Oakdale-Bohemia Road, Oakdale, NY 11769 www.bnai-israel.org Inside this issue: Rabbis Message 1 Shabbat on the Beach 1 Schedule of Services 2 Torah and Haftarah Readings 2 Cash for Causes 2 About Services 2 Bulletin Information 2 Sponsor an Oneg 2 Jewsish Boot Camp 3 $ A Week Club 3 Jewish Heritage Night 3 Ducks Concession Fundraiser 4 Emergency Blood Drive 4 Presidents Message 5 Religious School News 5 Bingo Volunteers Needed 5 Donations and Contributions 6 Friendship Group 7 Mazel Tov 7 Photo: Confirmation Class 7 Sisterhood Newsletter 8 Brotherhood Newsletter 8 College Connection 9 Photo: RS Graduation 9 July Calendar 10 August Calendar 11 Golf Outing 12 Photos: Fishing Trip 12 New Year Card Order Form 13 Wall of Honor Program 14 Making Strides Walk 15 Condolences 16 Yahrzeits 16 Advertisers 17 Temple Directory 19 In the Tanaya, the great philosophical work of Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, the Rabbi expresses the most radical of truths as expressed by the Torah: the inexistence of the universe. After all, what do the Torah verses say: You were shown to know that the Lord is God, there is none else(Dt. 4:35) and Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is One (Dt.) if not that nothing exists but the One being of God. This means that nothing exists and nothing happens outside the being of God; not one thought, action, feeling. All existence from the farthest reaches of space to the most minute elements in the atom are all a part of the Divine. Where then does this leave us? It imparts upon us the spiritual obligation never to stop opening ourselves to this Divine Being of whom we are a part. It requires each and every one of us to develop a spiritual and moral path that will take us to the God who is present. The onus to uncover divinity is upon you and me to unearth this truth, comprehend it, and incorporate it into our hearts and lives. When this is achieved, then all will be at Oneness with the One. Thinking ahead to Rosh HaShanah 5777 and the impact this, my 45 th High Holy Day with Bnai Israel, will have upon me, has called me to reflect upon my rabbinate and my life. I have devoted my entire life to this search to uncover the Divine within and to attempt to express this and teach this through my personal and professional life. This reflection has brought me to request from the congregation that it take on an Assistant Rabbi to enable me to begin devoting myself more intensely to this path than I could previously with the schedule I have been keeping. I look forward to continuing as your Rabbi for many years and God-willing decades to come. Judy and I also look forward to this year, which as each year before it, will be a blessed one with all of you. Have a safe and enjoyable summer. printed monthly Rabbis Message Rabbi Moss Shabbat on the Beach Be sure to put on your calendars Friday night, August 5 th at 6:30 PM at the Sayville Marina at the base of Foster Avenue in Sayville for our 2 nd annual wonderful, incredible, stupendous Shabbat on the Beach. Join us for an inspiring prayer experience in honor of Shabbat.

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Page 1: Rabbi s Message Rabbi Moss Inside this issueSivan\Tamuz 5776 July 2016 (631) 563-1660 67 Oakdale-Bohemia Road, Oakdale, NY 11769 Inside this issue: Rabbi’s Message 1 Shabbat on the

Volume 17, Issue 7 Sivan\Tamuz 5776 July 2016 (631) 563-1660 67 Oakdale-Bohemia Road, Oakdale, NY 11769 www.bnai-israel.org

Inside this issue:

Rabbi’s Message 1

Shabbat on the Beach 1

Schedule of Services 2

Torah and Haftarah Readings 2

Cash for Causes 2

About Services 2

Bulletin Information 2

Sponsor an Oneg 2

Jewsish Boot Camp 3

$ A Week Club 3

Jewish Heritage Night 3

Ducks Concession Fundraiser 4

Emergency Blood Drive 4

President’s Message 5

Religious School News 5

Bingo Volunteers Needed 5

Donations and Contributions 6

Friendship Group 7

Mazel Tov 7

Photo: Confirmation Class 7

Sisterhood Newsletter 8

Brotherhood Newsletter 8

College Connection 9

Photo: RS Graduation 9

July Calendar 10

August Calendar 11

Golf Outing 12

Photos: Fishing Trip 12

New Year Card Order Form 13

Wall of Honor Program 14

Making Strides Walk 15

Condolences 16

Yahrzeits 16

Advertisers 17

Temple Directory 19

In the Tanaya, the great philosophical work of Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, the Rabbi expresses the most radical of truths as expressed by the Torah: the inexistence of the universe. After all, what do the Torah verses say: “You were shown to know that the Lord is God, there is none else” (Dt. 4:35) and “Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is One (Dt.) if not that nothing exists but the One being of God. This means that nothing exists and nothing happens outside the being of God; not one thought, action, feeling. All existence from the farthest reaches of space to the most

minute elements in the atom are all a part of the Divine. Where then does this leave us? It imparts upon us the spiritual obligation never to stop opening ourselves to this Divine Being of whom we are a part. It requires each and every one of us to develop a spiritual and moral path that will take us to the God who is present. The onus to uncover divinity is upon you and me to unearth this truth, comprehend it, and incorporate it into our hearts and lives. When this is achieved, then all will be at Oneness with the One. Thinking ahead to Rosh HaShanah 5777 and the impact this, my 45th High Holy Day with B’nai Israel, will have upon me, has called me to reflect upon my rabbinate and my life. I have devoted my entire life to this search to uncover the Divine within and to attempt to express this and teach this through my personal and professional life. This reflection has brought me to request from the congregation that it take on an Assistant Rabbi to enable me to begin devoting myself more intensely to this path than I could previously with the schedule I have been keeping. I look forward to continuing as your Rabbi for many years and God-willing decades to come. Judy and I also look forward to this year, which as each year before it, will be a blessed one with all of you. Have a safe and enjoyable summer.

printed monthly

Rabbi’s Message Rabbi Moss

Shabbat on the Beach

Be sure to put on your calendars Friday night, August 5th at 6:30 PM at the Sayville Marina at the base of Foster Avenue in Sayville for our 2nd annual wonderful, incredible, stupendous Shabbat on the Beach. Join us for an inspiring prayer experience in honor of Shabbat.

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Schedule of Services & Holiday Events

Fri. July 1 Shabbat Service 8:00 PM Sat. July 2 Morning Service 10:00 AM With the Bar Mitzvah of Maverick Stow Sat. July 2 Afternoon Service 3:00 PM With the Bat Mitzvah of Lilia Sweeting Fri. July 8 Family Service 7:15 PM Sat. July 9 Afternoon Service 3:00 PM With the Bat Mitzvah of Mallory Teplitz Fri. July 15 Tot Shabbat 7:00 PM Shabbat Service 8:00 PM Fri. July 22 Shabbat Service 8:00 PM Fri. July 29 Musical Shabbat Service 7:30 PM

About our Services

Torah and Haftarah Readings

All items to be considered for inclusion in

the bulletin must be sent, preferably

in an electronic format, via email to

[email protected] or delivered to

the Temple Office by the deadlines shown

below. Accepted electronic formats are

Microsoft Word, Microsoft Publisher, or a

simple message in an email. If you are

submitting a picture to be considered for

inclusion, please make sure that it is a .jpg

file. If you have any questions about these

requirements, please call 775-6147or email

[email protected].

Deadline for the next bulletin is

July 10, 2016

Bulletin Information July 2: Shelach lecha Numbers ch. 13 through ch. 15 vs. 41 Joshua ch. 2 vss. 1 through 24 July 9: Korach Numbers ch. 16 through ch. 18 vs. 32 I Samuel ch. 11 vs. 14 through ch. 12 vs. 22 July 16: Hukkat Numbers ch. 19 through ch. 22 vs. 1 Judges ch. 11 vss. 1 through 3 July 23: Balak Numbers ch. 22 vs. 2 through ch. 25 vs. 9 Micah ch. 5 vs. 6 through ch. 6 vs. 8

Our Friday night worship is conducted in English and Hebrew. Services are every Friday evening. Our Shabbat Services are the 1

st, 3

rd, and 4

th Fridays at 8:00 pm. We

have a Family Service geared toward school age children the 2

nd Friday of each

month at 7:15 pm. The Rabbi will offer Birthday and Anniversary Blessings for the month at this service. We also have a Tot Shabbat Service geared toward pre-school children the 3

rd Friday of each

month at 7:00 pm. In a month where there is a 5th Friday we have a Musical Shabbat Service at 7:30 pm. Our Saturday Services are held when there is a Bar or Bat Mitzvah. These are open to the community. Please join us.

Share a SIMCHA

Sponsor an ONEG

Let everyone celebrate with you for your

Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation,

Promotion, or any other occasion you would

like to share.

Contact the Temple Office

(631) 563-1660

Purchase your STOP AND

SHOP gift cards here!

You pay face value

and the Temple earns

5% of the cost.

To buy cards call

Sandy Weber

(631) 921-6345

Debby Lazen

(631) 584-5931

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Summer has arrived and with it comes vacation

plans and a relaxing, enjoyable time. There are lots

of things to look forward to doing. But you also

need to remember your $ a Week Club. You can

include your contributions with your dues (clearly

marked $ a Week), pay it separately throughout the

summer, or plan to “catch up” in the fall.

Remember: In order to earn your certificate at

Simchat Torah in the fall, you have to be paid in full.

Congratulations to all who have started or finished

their club dues this year.

Welcome new member Aaron Silver.

Jewish Boot Camp IV will be held this year on Saturday morning, August 28th at the Temple. Jewish Boot Camp is an enjoyable and inspirational way to gear up for the new year 5777. This year’s theme will be: Kabbalah: The Education of our Soul. As the holy days approach, many of us are seeking the keys that will open us to the Divine. As Rabbi Hillel Zeitlin wrote, “It is because God’s light shines in us that we have a longing and desire for transcendent mystery.” Boot Camp IV will have three presentations that hopefully will invigorate your soul for the coming year. Rabbi Moss will teach a unit on the teachings of Rabbi Hillel Zeitlin (1871-1942) who was a true Tzaddik as he walked on the Nazi death march wearing his tallit and holding a copy of the Zohar in his hand. Two other units will have teachers from the Breslov and Chabad communities. There is no fee for this program. Tell your friends. The time of the program will be in the August bulletin.

Jewish Boot Camp IV

August 28, 2016

Tickets are $12 each

Contact the Office to buy your tickets!

(631) 563-1660

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With four Ducks games under our belt, manning the concession stand at Ducks' Stadium has netted B'nai Israel over $2,000 so far this season. More than two dozen volunteers have worked at least one game and several have worked them all to date. No prior experience is required. Training is minimal and happens on the job.

More volunteers spread the work load and we are looking for additional help for our July games on Sunday evening, the 17th, reporting at approximately 3:30 and Saturday evening the 30th reporting at 5:00 PM. The Saturday game is billed as a

"fireworks extravaganza" and concession workers are welcome to stay for the show following the game.

Volunteers must be at least 16 years old. For additional information and to volunteer for either or both of these games please go to [email protected].

Thanks. Joel

Long Island Ducks Concession Stand Fundraiser

Upcoming Games and “Report Times” Sunday, July 17th 3:30 pm Saturday, July 30th 5:00 pm Saturday, August 13th 5:00 pm Tuesday, August 23rd 5:00 pm Saturday, September 10th 5:00 pm

TUES, AUGUST 2

2pm to 8pm

B’NAI ISRAEL

REFORM TEMPLE

[email protected]

As the July bulletin was getting ready to go to press, including a reminder about our August 2nd blood drive, we were notified by the Long Island Blood Center that they have declared a summer blood emergency situation. They asked if B'nai Israel could help in a major way and offered a "sweetener" as part of the deal. Could we raise the target objective on August 2nd from 35 to 55 pints of blood if they provided additional staff and two Mets tickets to a game of the donor’s choice TO EVERY DONOR?

The single largest donor group supporting the Blood Center is our high schools. While that speaks well of our community's teenagers, the down side is the absence of this key demographic during the summer months. Vacation plans further reduce the pool of potential donors. Therefore we schedule a drive in early August each year to help fill that void. Recent difficulties at Dowling College and a second large sponsor in the Oakdale area caused several other blood drives to be canceled just as blood reserves on Long Island were beginning the usual summer dip.

While we have never before collected 55 pints of blood in a single drive, we came close following the Hurricane Sandy emergency, and with the added incentive of Mets tickets, agreed to the plan. Achieving that goal will require the entire B'nai Israel community to step up. It is a mitzvah that each pint of blood provides life-saving treatment for up to three patients in their time of need. But then each donor will receive two tickets to a Mets game they select during the remainder of August and September. See the flyer on our website, Facebook page, and Temple lobby to see how you can participate. Please keep in mind that teenagers not able to donate at school over the summer can participate along with adult members of the family.

Because we anticipate a larger turnout than we've had in the past, including members of the Oakdale community and Dowling College, making an appointment at a time convenient to you is more important than ever. Please call the Temple Office, 631-563-1660, or go on line, and make a note on your calendar to help us on August 2nd.

Thank you.

Emergency Blood Drive August 2nd

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I recently attended the 2016 Confirmation class service held here at the temple. It was a beautiful service, complemented by the presence of the choir and a large turnout by the congregation and the families of the students being confirmed. The students each explained why it was important for them to have completed this part of their Jewish education. The overriding theme of the speeches revolved around family. This is something that I found particularly endearing. The definition of family cannot simply be defined by the blood relatives we have. It extends to all of those people who are invested in our lives, those who care about us and who help us to develop into the people we become. It appeared to me that each of the students had a strong sense of family and value the connections they have made here at B’nai Israel.

After witnessing the aftermath of the horrors that occurred in Orlando, it is more important than ever to be there for people- all people, regardless of race, creed¸ color or sexual orientation.

When we bleed, we all bleed the same color of blood. We are all living our lives, trying to do the best for ourselves and those around us. We must continue to be a family for each other, supporting each other and striving to make the world a better place. I congratulate the students of the Confirmation class of 2016. It is my expressed hope that they continue to do what they can to make the world a better place for their families, related or not.

President’s Message Steve Sonkin

Religious School News

You should have already received your registration packets for next year. If you have not, please call the Temple

office or download the forms from the Temple website. Please return them as soon as possible!

We will be offering four evening Hebrew classes in July and August. The dates are July 5, July 12, August 9 and

August 23 from 7:30-9:00 pm. All Religious School students are encouraged to attend these sessions to maintain

their Hebrew competency during the summer months. Please call the Temple Office to register.

The Religious School book sale will be held on September 6th from 6:00-8:00 pm.

Enjoy the rest of your summer!

Bingo volunteers are needed more than ever. Help is not needed every week. When fill-in volunteers are needed, due to illness, vacation, family commitments, etc. your help and support will be greatly appreciated. There is absolutely no pressure to volunteer if you are not available when contacted. There are mainly two time slots when volunteers work: -From 6:00-7:15 p.m. -From 6:00-9:00 or 9:30 p.m. We are located just south of Veteran's Memorial Highway on Locust Avenue. The address is: 1644 Locust Avenue, Bohemia You will be trained when you arrive and work as a team with other volunteers. The revenues from bingo help the Temple to run in so many ways. Please volunteer now by placing a phone call to me at 631-584-5931. If I am not home, leave a message, including your name and telephone number and I will contact you to discuss more specifically what volunteers do every Wednesday night. I have been volunteering at bingo for nine years and my husband for roughly twenty years. Try us out; I guarantee you will like it. We would love to have you join our team of volunteers who support B'nai Israel! Thanking you in advance for your support. Debby Lazen 631-584-5931

Bingo Volunteers Needed

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We gratefully acknowledge the following donors for their contributions to B’nai Israel Reform Temple:

Religious School Heather Gerkins & Roee Tadmor Thank you Rabbi Moss for officiating at our wedding General Fund Angela Pariselli Donation Yahrzeit Donation Sonia Margolis In memory of my grandfather Isaac Wenowsky Sonia Margolis In memory of my uncle Max Kwalbrun Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Toby Bolson In loving memory of my husband Alan Bolson Barry & Wendy Schlactus In appreciation or the nursing home visits Help a Family Eugene Baraw In loving memory of Marilyn Baraw Eugene Baraw In memory of Marty Ullman Irwin & Rodelle Jessie Donation Gerald & Rochelle Slochevsky Donation Ethan William Snair Fund Grandma In loving memory of my beloved Ethan Gammie & Pop Pop In loving memory of our beloved Ethan Gammie & Pop Pop Congratulations to our Grandson Elliot Ray for earning his Junior Black Belt in Jui Jitsu! Grandma Mazel Tov to all of my fabulous grandchildren for their terrific achievements this year! Ira Rosenfeld Memorial Scholarship Fund, In Memory of Ira Rosenfeld Dennis & Janet Steiner The D’Agostino Family Jay & Claire White Rosemarie Herley & Theresa Camiller Michael & Jean Minella Rosemarie & Louis DeGennaro Angelo & Barbara Belli Jennie Mistretta Santo & Ann Mandanici Laurie Garafalo Carolyn Nehl Becka Kolodkin Angela Rosenfeld In memory of Doris Motlin JoAnn & Philp Mistretta Gavin & Debby Hanlon Gerry & Yaffa Lecce Irene Meyer Gloriann Felicetta The Flannelly & Tauriello Family Eric, Lauren, Charlotte, Walker Layne Barbara Borg Patricia Panatier The Lyons Family David & Deborah Schwartz Angela Rosenfeld In memory of Beulah Dolling Suzanne Grushoff & Francis Grillo Norman & Emilee Rosenbaum Norman & Emilee Rosenbaum In memory of Doris Motlin Fran Leiboff Marcia & Marty Hochheiser

Donations & Contributions

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Karen and Ed Sweeting on the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter Lilia Nora and Richard Stow on the Bar Mitzvah of their son Maverick Dr. Steven & Amy Teplitz on the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter Mallory If you have a Mazel Tov you’d like to let the congregation know about please email [email protected] so we can include it in our next issue of the bulletin.

B’nai Israel wishes

to:

-Shalom- by Donna Paskin

Come, have a nosh and learn a little, Or laugh along with friends.

Enjoy the camaraderie. See miles of smiles again.

With outstretched arms we welcome you.

We'll help you feel at home, To smooth the ripples of the day.

Shalom, my friend, shalom.

It was a pleasure to see the terrific turnout at our June lunch meeting at the Hidden Oak Cafe. We didn't have any control over the weather, but we did need the rain.

For our July 13th 12:30 brown bag lunch and meeting, we will be enjoying a presentation by Canine Companions for Independence. I am sure we will all learn more information on what our canine friends are capable of adding to the lives of the people they serve.

In August, I think we will do our annual tea party, with members providing finger sandwiches, scones, and other light refreshments, as well as a variety of teas to share, of course with spirited conversations.

As always, I look forward to our next meeting.

Roberta Rosen

Friendship Group

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Confirmation Class of 2016

Are you on our

weekly email list?

go to bnai-israel.org

to sign up

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Our next Brotherhood Breakfast will be

Breakfast and a Movie!

July 17, 2016 at 10:00 am

Please join the Brotherhood for another wonderful bagel and lox

breakfast (fruit too) and a very special presentation. The date is

Sunday July 17 at 10 am. The movie Yankles will be shown. This is

a fun movie about a washed-up ballplayer who gets a second

chance at life when he manages an Orthodox team.

Please RSVP to the Temple office to let us know if you plan to

attend so we can be sure to have enough breakfast for all.

Thank you again for your support. Harvey Kalbalkin & Barry Saffren [email protected]

We are always looking for ideas to bring in speakers, have an outing, or event.

Please reach out and let us know your ideas.

Call Barry on his cell at 631-235-1886

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Sisterhood Newsletter

I am honored, excited and proud to be the incoming Sisterhood President. My name is Karen Sweeting and I have been an active member of Sisterhood for many years. I have held positions as the head of children’s programing and also co-chair with the amazing Joyce Amato on the programing committee.

Summer is upon us and we will be having a planning committee meeting on July19th, 6:45 pm at the Temple. This is to have a discussion and go over ideas for programing for the upcoming year. If you have any ideas for programs or are interested in coming to a meeting please feel free to contact me by emailing [email protected] or Joyce Amato or Yaffe Lecce.

I would like to also take this opportunity to give a huge thanks to our past President Shari Kaufman for the amazing job she has done for the past several years and her continued work and support with Sisterhood. I would like to also thank the entire Sisterhood board who has been supportive and confident in their decision to nominate me as the new Sisterhood President.

Looking forward to a great year and have a wonderful summer. See you in the fall.

P.S. it’s never too early or late to sign up to be a member of Sisterhood.

MONTHLY

NEWSLETTER

The Sisterhood Judaica & Gift shop is open each Friday

night after services, by appointment, or during Sisterhood

Events and Meetings. Please call the Temple office for

more information or to make an appointment.

(631) 563-1660

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Religious School Graduation Service

Children going away to college are embarking on a new chapter in their lives. We, at B’nai Israel Reform Temple,

would like to stay in touch with your children while they are away at college. Please allow us to be an important

connection to home. By signing up, on Chanukah, Passover, and Purim, each student will receive a fun and thought-

ful package to enjoy from “home”.

We had over a dozen participants last year. They enjoyed dreidels and candy for Chanukkah, Hamentashen, candy,

and juice for Purim, and a bag of treats for Passover. The feedback from this project was very favorable. It brings

some of the traditions from home to the college dorm.

Please help us keep current on your children’s college contact information by completing the form on our website.

Please fill out a separate form for each child that you have away in college.

Go to http://bnai-israel.org/community/college-connection

Thank you!

College Connection

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18th Annual

Rabbi Dr. Steven A. Moss Golf Outing

Monday, September 19, 2016 The Vineyards Golf Club Riverhead, NY

Brotherhood Fishing Trip Photos

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B’nai Israel Reform Temple

New Year’s Card Don’t miss out on this great opportunity to wish the entire congregation L’Shana Tova! Add your name to the Temple’s New Year’s Card which will be mailed to the entire congregation.

$10 per individual name example : Aaron Schwartz

$18 per family name examples: Aaron and Sarah Schwartz or The Schwartz Family

Additional cards will be available for $1.00 each so you can send to your friends and family.

Please contact Jeannette Berman at (631) 775-6147 if you have any questions.

Your name will be part of the design!

Your Name _______________________________________________________________________________

Phone Number __________________________Email ________________________________________________

# of individual names _______ x $10 = $__________

# of family names _______ x $18 = $__________

# of additional cards _______ x $1 = $__________ Total Due $______________________

___ Bill Me ___ Payment Enclosed Credit Card: __Visa __MC __Amex

Card Number ____________________________________ Expiration Date _____________

Please Indicate how you would like the name/s to be written on the card.

PLEASE PRINT CLEARLY.

New Year’s Card Order Form

All Orders Must Be Received

by September 2, 2016

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Walk of Honor Program B’nai Israel Reform Temple 67 Oakdale Bohemia Road, Oakdale, NY 11769

(631) 563-1660 www.bnai-israel.org

Contributing to the Walk of Honor Program, located at the entrance to the Temple building, is a great way to honor a family member, memorialize a loved one or leave a legacy for yourself and your family. A paver on our new entranceway makes a wonderful birthday or holiday gift.

Each paver purchased costs $72.00

Please provide the necessary information below and mail or bring it to the Temple office.

Name ________________________________________________________

Address ________________________________________________________

Phone ________________________________________________________

Please PRINT exactly what is to appear on the brick.

Character Limit is 14 per line. Spaces and punctuation count as characters.

There is a maximum of three (3) lines per paver.

Payment Information

# of pavers ___ x $72.00 = _______ (Amount Due)

⃝ Payment Enclosed. Please make check payable to B’nai Israel Reform Temple.

⃝ Credit Card Card # _________________________________________ Expiration Date __________

Signature _______________________________________________________________

We accept VISA, MasterCard and American Express.

If the address associated with the credit card is different from above address please provide the billing address.

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JOIN US! Finish the Fight Against Breast Cancer Making Strides Walk on Sunday, October 16 at Jones Beach

Meeting time for those wishing to carpool: 7:30 a.m. at B'nai Israel Reform Temple Name: _______________________________________________________ Email: _______________________________________________________ Phone: _______________________________________________________ ___ I will be walking on October 16th

Donations can be made by Check made payable to American Cancer Society and mailed to B’nai Israel Reform Temple

ATTN: Sandy Weber, 67 Oakdale Bohemia Rd, Oakdale, NY 11769, to ensure our team gets credit for your donation.

Credit Card through our Team page on the Making Strides website go to http://main.acsevents.org/goto/birtoakdale Links will also be placed on www.bnai-israel.org and our Temple Facebook page.

Questions?

Call or email Sandy Weber (631) 588-9043 [email protected]

Please consider joining our team. Breast Cancer has touched all of us in one way or another! Show your support! You do not need to walk to donate. Help us reach our goal!

Look for our Wall of Hope in

the Social Hall

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Yahrzeits The following names of loved ones whose Yahrzeit are observed during the preceding

week will be read before the Kaddish Prayer at the Friday Evening Service on:

Please Contact the Rabbi...

Please call Rabbi Moss at (631) 472-5272 when some-one is sick or if there is a death in the family so that the Temple can extend its assistance. Before making any funeral arrangements, please call Rabbi Moss at (631) 472-5272

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July 1st Rosaline Abrams Gregory Baker Anna Berger Lillian Berman Barbara Bloom Rose Denker *Mary Falk Helen Tuck Fine *Gloria Goldson *Sol Heilbraun Louis Jacobson *Estelle Joseph Bernard Miller Edna Perlman *Etta Reiser Claire Rifkin *Israel Rothbart Eva Evelyn Schaefer Jacob Schneebalg Anna Schwartz *Morris Stotsky Minnie Waldman *Sir Nicholas Winton Robert Wollman July 8th

Grace Cleveland Yetta Forman *Leo Garvin Norman Goldsmith Samuel Goldsmith Felicia Hersh *David Israel Louis Lehrbaum *Bert Leibowitz Jessie Lieberman Evelyn Lennox *David Levy *Edna Lewinson

Carmella Mandanici Samuel Margolis Margaret Maxian Libby Packard Yetta Rosenthal Betty Silver George Sparling Irving Ziegler Harold Zuckerberg July 15th Samuel Bossert Murray Caen *Lillian Garvin Bernard Gerber *Lillian R. Gittleman *Morris Goldsher George Isaac Charles Krasner Charles Levine *Allen Miller *Miriam Penn *Barbara Sharman Betty Silverstein *Rose Strum *Andrew Terrizzi Florence Wright July 22nd *Max Chapoff *Philip Chapoff Emil Gilbert Edith Greenstein *Miriam L. Hofstadter *Rose Leiboff Elaine Lewis Sylvia Murdock *Irving Paskin Anna Peck

Edward Richard Rubin *Richard Rubin William Sandak Eve Schechtel *Dr. Arnold Schillinger *Irving Schreiber *Arthur Schwartz Selma Schwartz Alfred Scott *Minnie Seltzer Caroline Stander Rose Sokolik Aaron Solomon Texin Jacob Tulkop Louis Waldman July 29th *Leonora Ainbinder *Ann Baker *Julius Baker Joan Bukzin Murray Fink *Sarah Finkelstein *Pauline Goldsher *Isidore Helfer *Rudolph Korten Donald Levine Thomas Francis Man-ning *Matilda Pallik *David Jonathan Peper *Diana Prince *Arthur Sacks *Joan Sands *Ida Sattler Theda Silverman *Richard Craig Tatt Ann Tannenbaum Michael Warner

* Indicates a Memorial Plaque is lit in the sanctuary.

Condolences. . .

The B’nai Israel Congregational Family extends its deepest condolences to the Stoll family on the loss of Ronnie’s

father, Irving Avnet. May they find comfort in the blessings of good memories that will always be theirs.

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Your Ad Here Contact Temple Office for Details

(631) 563-1660 [email protected]

Cost is $125 for one year

Your Ad Here Contact Temple Office for Details

(631) 563-1660 [email protected]

Cost is $125 for one year

Your Ad Here Contact Temple Office for Details

(631) 563-1660 [email protected]

Cost is $125 for one year

410 Motor Parkway,

Hauppauge, NY 11788

631-435-1101

SHALOM MEMORIAL CHAPELS, INC.

Funeral Directors

Complete graveside service with casket $4530.00

760 Smithtown ByPass, Smithtown, NY 11787 Tel: (631) 360-1600 Fax: (631) 630-7978

www.shalommemorialchapelsinc.com

[email protected]

I.J. MORRIS, INC. Jewish Funeral Directors Since 1888

21 E. Deer Park Road , Dix Hills (631) 499-6060 55 North Station Plaza, Great Neck (516) 487-8600 46 Greenwich Street, Hempstead (516) 486-2500 1895 Flatbush Ave., Brooklyn (718) 377-8610 114-03 Queens Blvd., Forest Hills (718) 263-5365 21 W. Broad Street Mt. Vernon (914) 664-2062

www.ijmorris.com

Preplan—call for information Monuments by I.J. MORRIS, INC.

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@

BE YOUR OWN GUEST

WAITERS/WAITRESSES BARTENDERS/GRILL PEOPLE

(631) 745-1180 or (631) 580-4432

YOU BE THE GUEST, WE’LL DO THE REST!!!

MITZVAH CATERERS AT THE NORTH SHORRE JEWISH CENTER

YOUR PLACE OR OURS WEDDINGS, BAR/BAT MITZVAHS, BRISSIM, BABY NAMINGS,KIDDUSHIM, SHIVA MEALS, ELEGANT

DINNER S, OFFICE, BBQS OR ANY EVENT ASK FOR ANDREW OR IRWIN (516) 351-0661

“Mitzvah caterers will gladly donate a portion

of your bill back to your organization”

STRICT ORTHODOX RABBINICAL SUPERVISION

Your Ad Here Contact Temple Office for Details

(631) 563-1660 [email protected]

Cost is $125 for one year

SALT LIFE PROPERTY MAINTENANCE

Rob: 631-626-4645

Shoveling & Snow Plowing Planting, landscaping, pruning, Fall cleanups,

mowing, small tree work, small household jobs, driveway seal coating, & power washing

Your Ad Here Contact Temple Office for Details

(631) 563-1660 [email protected]

Cost is $125 for one year

Luscious Chocolate, with Personalized Ribbons

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B’nai Israel is limited to these caterers for any celebration in the Temple Social Hall. Bagels N a Hole Lot More Port Jefferson Station location (631) 474-4445

Lessing's Caterers (631) 277-7800 (631) 581-0022

Mitzvah Caterers of Plainview (516) 938-1310 (516) 351-0661

Woodbury Kosher (516) 681-7766

Zan’s Kosher Caterers (631) 979-8770

Miller Place Bagel & Deli (631) 331-4576

Temple Caterers

Temple Directory

President, Steve Sonkin [email protected]

Past President, Seth C. Berman [email protected]

Vice Presidents: Buildings & Grounds, Paul Weber [email protected] Fundraising, Debby Lyons [email protected] Administration, Arthur Diamond

Treasurer, Dennis Steiner

Financial Secretary, Barbara Abrams [email protected]

Recording Secretary, Martha Kolodkin

Trustees: Natalie Berhumoglu, Jeannette Berman, Dave Ellner, Paul Fink, Thea Gunther, Allen Kaminsky, Michael Lambert, Debby Lazen, Richard Motlin, Stephanie Plewka, Rita Porwick, Barbie Saslau, Joel Silverman, Amy Teplitz, Jay Tuller and Adrienne Wilber.

Representatives: Brotherhood: Barry Saffren, Sisterhood: Shari Kaufman, School: Debby Farrell

Legal Representative: Steven Taitz

Clergy

67 Oakdale, Bohemia Road, Oakdale, NY 11769 Website www.bnai-israel.org Phone (631) 563-1660 Fax (631) 563-9816 Email [email protected]

1644 Locust Avenue, Bohemia

(631) 244-9057

Bingo Hall

Temple Office Staff

Chairperson, Alice Lambert

(631) 589-1375

Religious School Office

(631) 563-1663

[email protected]

Bar/Bat Mitzvah Scheduling

Fran Baker

(631) 567-1537

Rabbi Dr. Steven Moss (631) 472-5272 [email protected] Cantor Ilana Plutzer [email protected]

Board of Trustees

Committees, Groups, and other individuals to know...

Choir Director, Roselyn Selmanoff

Sisterhood President, Karen Sweeting [email protected]

Brotherhood President, Barry Saffren [email protected]

Membership, Joel Silverman [email protected]

Ritual Chairperson, Amy Teplitz [email protected]

Donations Committee [email protected]

Groundskeeper, Joel Silverman Custodian, Tom Smollins

Yarmulke Orders (631) 472-1888 Harriet Jacobs (for Bar/Bat Mitzvahs and Weddings)

Outreach, Ritva Gottesman (631) 804-9545 [email protected]

Bulletin, Website, Email [email protected] Jeannette Berman (631) 775-6147

PJ Library [email protected]

Religious School

Karen Smollins &

Kim Rogers-Schade

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Non-Profit Org. U.S. Postage

PAID Permit No. 42 Oakdale, N.Y.

11769

67 Oakdale-Bohemia Road, Oakdale, NY 11769 (631) 563-1660 www.bnai-israel.org