1.by Rachael Urban

2. Parentingis delayed gratification If you measure the success of your parenting by theshort term wins and losses parenting can seem like a discouraging road. Ultimately, this about the future. Thekey is consistency and follow throughNot controlling your kids but teaching them to make wise choices. 3. Train up a child in the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it. Proverbs 22:6 4. Personalitiesplay a part in character Overall character is something that is taught 5. AcademicSuccess Athletic Success Musical Ability Looks Hard Work or Effort is a CharacterTrait (Doesnt matter A or B did you give God your BEST) 6. KindnessDiligenceHonestyPerseveranceAttentiveness 7. Prayfor your child Teach specifically Model Reward With praise! With prizes! 8. Kindness What is it? What does it look like? Praiseevery time you possibly can Have the word stay up around your class or home You know they have it in their heart and head when 9. In. Books In your own speech and actions In board games In videos or TV shows 10. Itis cute now but will it be in 5 years, 10 years, as an adult? AmI focusing on what is most important or what is most urgent? 11. Ourfamily is a Team! (Team Urban) God and the four of us! The Urbans always give because we believe it is better to give than receive The Urbans always go above and beyond what is expected. WHAT ARETRADITIONS are you using to build a team of character? 12. Itisnt not about winning the game its about how we play the game. The effort is rewarded not the score 13. Choresand responsibilities Games Notmaking excuses for them when someone tells you something your child did wrong 14. Whois your closest neighbor? Your sibling! 15. Hewashed the disciples feet There is a humility that needs to be taught Affirm what the world doesnt 16. J.O.Y. Jesus First, Others Second, YouLast Everyone is a winner when they obey! A fool gives vent to his anger but a wise man keeps himself under control Proverbs 29:11 Be kind and loving to each other Ephesians 4:32 Do everything without complaining or arguing. Philippians 2:14-16