save your family before they burn
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Save your
FAMILY BEFORE THEY
BURN Based on work of Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
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Praise be to Allah, Lord of the worlds, and peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his family and (ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص)Companions.
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"O you who have believed, fear Allah as He should be feared and do not die except as Muslims [in submission to Him]."
[QUR’AN 3:102]
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Who all needs to care my family??
Father? Husband?
Mother ?
I ?
You?
Brother?
Son ?
Relatives?
Children?
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EVERYONE
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All of you are guardians !! ,
and each of you is responsible for those under their guard.
Allaah will ask each guardian regarding those
under their guard and if they preserved or lost it.
[Al-Bukhaari (2554) and Muslim (1829)]
[Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh (4570) ]
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"And cooperate in righteousness and piety, but do not cooperate in sin and
aggression" [QUR’AN 5:2]
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O you who have believed, protect yourselves and
your families from a Fire
whose fuel is people and stones,
over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah
in what He commands them but do what they are commanded. [QUR’AAN 66:6]
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All of you are guardians, and all of you are responsible and
are held accountable
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A leader
Act based on
Qur’an and Sunnah
is responsible
for things under his guard
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A man is responsible
for his family
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A woman is responsible over the house of her husband
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A slave is responsible over the
wealth of his/her master
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How to protect our families from the Fire
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Keenness on teaching them the Book
of Allah the Exalted and the matters pertaining to their religion
1
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Stay connected
Recite Reflect
Memorize Learn Explanations
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Enjoining them to
perform obligations
and supervising them
e.g:- Salah
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Obligations we
must be watchful over
regarding our families
e.g:- Zakaah
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Keenness on worship-based
upbringing in family life
2
e.g:- voluntary prayers
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Teaching the family to
have praiseworthy manners,
shyness, and modesty
3
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“Advise yourselves and your families to
fear Allah, and teach your
family manners.”
Al-Bukhaari
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Warning the family
of the dangers of the people of
misguidance
4
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Certain criminals try to incite them to remove their covering and take them out of their homes in order to enjoy themselves with her, and
they call it "freedom" of women.
Undermining the Islaamic family and its size, and lessening the size of the Islaamic Ummah, and
they call it the plan of birth control.
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Safeguarding the
home from blameworthy matters
5
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A child might watch something reprehensible in the home, which would
embed itself in their mind slowly and
their heart would become inclined to sinful actions.
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Reprehensible matters in the homes
First category
Second category
Third category
e.g:- Smoking parents
e.g:- Cartoons
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Watching over women
who work
6
Women working is one of the great doors to spreading evil that were it not a matter of necessity or the premise of pious women, it would result in great corruption
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Keenness on educating and
disciplining the child from a
young age
7
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Da`wah (calling)
within the family
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Being a good role model
“The best among you are the
best among you to their families.”
At-Tirmithi (3895)
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Reward and punishment
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Encouraging them to sign up with
centers for memorization of the Qur’aan
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Establishing educational programs within the family
Educating children by way of stories
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Rights and manners on the head of the household
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The Prophet(ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص) when informed that
Abdullaah ibn Umar (ra) fasted every day and prayed all night, said: “I was
told that you pray by night and fast during the day.” He said: “I do so.” He (ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص) said:
“If you do so, your eyes will weaken and your soul will become tired. Your soul has a right on you, as does your family.”
Al-Bukhaari (1153)
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Giving the family their rights is one of the biggest means of saving them from the Fire
1. Spending on them
“If a man spends on his family while expecting the reward, he earns reward of charity.”
Al-Bukhaari (55)
2. Treating them with correct Islamic etiquette
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3. Kindness and joking
`Aa’ishah (ra) said: “I used to drink while I was menstruating, then would give it to the Prophet (ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص) and he would place his mouth wherever I placed mine and would drink. I would also eat meat while I was menstruating, then would give it to the Prophet (ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص) and he would place his mouth wherever I placed mine.”
Muslim (300)
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`Aa’ishah (ra) was with the Prophet (ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص) in a travel. She said: “I raced him, and beat him by foot. Then, when I gained some weight, I raced him, but he beat me. He said: ‘This is payback for that previous victory you had.’
Abu Daawood (2578)
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A woman might become angry with her husband, but if he jokes with her and makes her laugh, the problem would be over, and harmony remains within the family. We should not forget, also, that young girls and children need this kindness and joking behavior.
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4. Nightly chats
`Aa’ishah (ra) reported that the Prophet .used to have nightly chats with her (ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص)
Prophet (ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص) used to speak with his family for an hour before sleeping.
Al-Bukhaari (4913)
Tafseer Ibn Katheer (1/617)
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5. Keeping away from constant absence except for a need
“Travel is a part of punishment. One of you would be deprived of his food, drink, and sleep. If one of you completes
their needs, let them hasten to their family.”
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Disasters resulting
from the father's absence
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Society is suffering from the ill-effects of due to a father's absence.
What are we trying to achieve?
Are we trying to reach the level that the disbelievers have reached?
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6. Caring and taking their weakness into weak
Allah the Exalted created women weak, and likewise, men begin weak in their infancy and childhood years, and end up weak at the end of their lives. They days are also filled with times of weakness due to sickness. The head of the household that has a sound intellect takes this weakness in his family into account. So, he is compassionate with the weak and cares for them, while not burdening them with things they cannot handle.
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7. Serving and participating in the housework
Al-Aswad asked `Aa’ishah (ra) :“What did the Prophet (ملسو هيلع هللا ىلص) used to do in his home?” She
(ra) said: “He would serve his family, and when prayer time came, he would go out to pray.” In another narration: “He used to sew his clothes and mend his shoes; he would do what men do in their homes.”
Al-Musnad (24947)
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Helping one’s family has many benefits, such as
• Relieving the woman in helping her with some household chores.
• Making the wife feel that the husband is a good
husband in that he cares for and about her. • The man gains humility and turns away from pride
and glorifying his own self
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Keeping away from leisure and luxury, so that the person does not being among those who have condemned luxury when Allah the Exalted Said (what means): "And leave Me with [the matter of] the deniers, those of ease [in life], and allow them respite a little." [QUR’AAN 73:11]
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8. Showing compassion and affection to them 9. Not placing them in hardships and strenuous situations 10. Avoiding harming them 11. Protecting their secrets 12. Consulting them and seeking their opinions
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"Men are in charge of women by [right of]
what Allah has given one over the other and
what they spend [for maintenance] from
their wealth." [QUR’AN 4:34]
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Brothers in Islam:
Do we have aspirations to call your family to Allah? Is there a level that we wish to reach in terms of our men and woman?
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Do dua, it’s the
powerful weapon
of a believer
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Save your
FAMILY BEFORE THEY
BURN
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Together.. Towards.. Peace...
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