science of love - summary
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SCIENCE OF LOVE
By John Baines
“Corrupt Love” Summary
EVOLUTION OF LOVE
FUTURE
True, divine, conscious love
TODAY
Egoic, corrupt love
YESTERDAY
Pure utilitarian function
THE PROCESS
TRUE LOVE Genuine spiritual love
as part of the development of the
awakened being
Aw
aken
ing
into
a
cons
ciou
s be
ing CORRUPT LOVE
Egoic, unconscious,
disconnected mind version of love
CORRUPT LOVE
Corrupt love is a result of man not living in the divine truth of
consciousness and/or being lost in his ego identity.
It is only through conscious awareness that corrupt love can be
transcended within the human experience.
CORRUPT LOVE IS…
All forms of corrupt love are simply egoic, unconscious
psychological behavioural patterns.
All egoic behavioural patterns, whether called love or not, come from
fear.
Corrupt love is therefore psychological patterns we call “love” but
which are actually beahviours based on fear.
TYPES OF CORRUPT LOVE
! Ignorance
! Using Marriage
! Withholding Oneself
! Narcissism and Jealousy
! Amorous Human Automaton
! Vampirism
! Magnetic Drunkness
! Heterosuggestion
! Oedipus and Electra Complex
! Diana Complex
! Symbiosis
! Daydream Phantom
! Sado-Masochism
TYPES OF CORRUPT LOVE
! Compulsive Sexual Pleasure
! Macho & Matriarchal Behaviour
! Social Substitutes
! Having Children
! Artificial Obligations
! Loneliness and Anxiety
! Making a Women a Sex Object
! False Romanticism
! Frigidity and Impotence
! Hysteria
! There are 3 categories of Corrupt Love that all the types fall into:
! Most types of corrupt love are born out of being unconscious: • When people are unconscious, they live in an unhealthy ego and are therefore at the mercy
of a slew of negative psychological behavioural patterns
! When people are unbalanced in their masculine and feminine polarities, they
are unable to connect with their sexual counterpart • When this is combined with being unconscious, they are further subject to the psychological
patterns that result from this unbalanced energy
! Programming happens as a result of social and societal conditioning that
drives people to enter relationships for the wrong reasons
CATEGORIES OF CORRUPT LOVE
Unconscious Unbalanced Programmed
CATEGORIES OF CORRUPT LOVE
UNCONSCIOUS UNBALANCED PROGRAMMED
Ignorance Oedpius & Electra Using Marriage
Withholding Oneself Diana Complex Heterosuggestion
Narcissim & Jealousy Matriarchal & Macho Artificial Obligations
Amorous Automaton Frigidity and Impotence Having Children
Vampirism False Romantiscism
Oedipus & Electra
Symbiosis
Daydream Phantom
Sado Masochism
Loneliness & Anxiety
IGNORANCE
! Humankind is largely still unconscious and is therefore unaware of
what true divine love actually is
! True love requires total polarity between men and women
! Without awareness, men and women cannot attain this and
therefore remain in ignorance
USING MARRIAGE
! Marriage is not evidence of true love; it does not mean that true
love can’t exist within marriage but only that marriage does not mean
that it does exist
! A form of corrupt love is therefore those that see marriage as an
end goal, as opposed to true, divine love itself which does not need
marriage to exist
WITHHOLDING ONESELF
! A transactional style of relationship
! When there is a dichotomy between the internal an external
relationship
! Externally and physically there is an exchange; often where the
woman gives her body and the man gives money
! Internally, though, there is no real divine connection or love
NARCISSISM & JEALOUSY
! Jealousy is a pure egoic reaction that originates from a fear frequency
and is therefore not real love
! A jealous person is a true narcissist because to allow this emotion to
drive decisions is to act in pure self-interest
! Psycho-analytically, narcissism is self-centeredness arising from failure
to distinguish the self from external objects. This is the definition of pure
ego.
! Someone in a purely egoic state can never connect with true, divine
love.
AMOROUS HUMAN AUTOMATON
! Describes the partner of an extreme narcissist .
! The extreme narcissist is so deeply empty and so blindly connected
to the external world for a definition of themselves, that they seek a
partner to further define them, in that external world
! This person has been dubbed the “Amorous Human Automaton”
because of the required robotic qualities to be a partner of an
extreme narcissist.
HETEROSUGGESTION
! Describes the relationships that happen as a result of
programming through: • Societal “expectations” and public opinion • Cultural indoctrination - customs and traditions
! These are relationships that happen because it is felt that they
“should” happen (for whatever reason) not because of true love.
OEDIPUS & ELECTRA
! Individuals in these relationships are seeking a substitute for a mother
or father
! This is an egoic behavioural pattern, normally through a conditioned
childhood response which prevents the person from moving out of ego
! It can lead to many unhealthy issues mostly due to the parent-child
style of relationship required to fulfill this conditioned psychological state
THE DIANA COMPLEX
! When a woman exhibits an exaggerated masculine energy
! Science of Love holds that men and women must be in perfect
polarity and therefore any examples of unbalanced energy in either
male or female are forms of corrupt love
! This is a form of matriarchal and/or macho behaviour
! These behaviours are often triggered by an ego that feels
threatened.
VAMPIRISM
! Because the person is empty inside, they seek another to “suck”
the life from another.
! This is a function of living in pure ego and not being connected to
pure divine love internally.
SYMBIOSIS
! Where people find another person to fill the empty void inside
themselves instead of seeking true divine love to fill themselves so
they can then give properly to another in a relationship
! Describes an unhealthy dependence on the partner that is bred from
fear and not love
! It can be due to extreme insecurity, sadist or masochistic tendencies, or
living in an egoic personality pattern such as extreme shyness, ignorance,
etc.
DAYDREAM PHANTOM
! Defines themselves completely through daydreams formed and fed by
the external world
! They live in a false idea of themselves which eventually leads to intense
feelings of disappointment – there are documented psychological
disorders of this nature such as “Perfection Malfunction Disorder”
! Similar to those in symbiosis, the daydream phantom seeks “love” with
another person to fill an empty void internally
SADO-MASOCHISM
! Is another example of an unhealthy egoic behavioural pattern that
drives unbalanced relationships
! It is an example of a “symbiosis” relationship as described earlier
PSYCHOLOGICAL SEXUAL APPETITE
! Compulsive search for sex that ultimately drives behaviours,
actions and decisions
! The definition of a man “ruled by his penis”
! Driven by indoctrination and programming from popular culture –
therefore an example of Heterosuggestion
SUMMARY