successful relationships chapter 14. objectives distinguish among different kinds of relationships....
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Objectives
• Distinguish among different kinds of relationships.
• Identify benefits of good relationships.
• Analyze factors that influence relationships.
• Describe ways to build and maintain strong relationships.
• Identify characteristics of unhealthy relationships.
Key Terms
• Relationships
• Expectations
• Stereotype
• Tolerance
• Prejudice
• Discrimination
• Authority figures
• Self-esteem
Overview
• Chapter 14 discusses different types of relationships.
• It covers the benefits of having good relationships, and the factors that influence relationships.
• It also focuses on building and maintaining strong relationships and how to identify unhealthy ones.
Kinds of Relationships
• Relationship – connections you have with other people.
• Some relationships are close while others are more casual. • Relationships with parents or family tend to be close, while others such
as classmates or co-workers are more casual.
• What makes a relationship close?
• Give an example of relationships limited to a specific purpose.
Rewards of Relationships
• Companionship
• Love and affection
• Support
• Positive self-concept
• Expanded interests
Influences on Relationships
• How you address the people in your life. Mr., Mrs., Ms., Miss., Sir, or Ma’am.
• Roles and Expectations
• Personal Qualities
• Self-Esteem
• Stereotypical Thinking
Roles and Expectations
• Role – What is your role within the relationship? Son/Daughter, Co-Worker/Classmate? Your relationship depends on your role.
• Expectation – the wants and needs each person hopes to gain from the relationship.
• Roles also define the expectations. As a student you are expected to study and turn work in. As a parent you are expected to raise and guide children.
Personal Qualities
• Qualities also influence your relationships. • Values – beliefs about what is right and wrong
• Needs – fulfill certain requirements. Love, companionship, belonging, and acceptance.
• Interest and Abilities – Many relationships are because you have similar interests.
Self-Esteem
• Self-Esteem – Value or importance you place on yourself.
• High self-esteem enables you to have the confidence to meet new people.
• Also helps to steer you away from relationships that harm you.
• In turn, good relationships help to raise your self-esteem.
Stereotypical Thinking
• Stereotype – expectation that all people in a particular group will have the same qualities or act the same.
• Stereotypes get in the way of building healthy relationships.
• You can assume something that is not necessarily true.
• “never judge a book by it’s cover”
Qualities in a Strong Relationship
• Understanding
• Tolerance
• Dependability
• Willingness to Communicate
• Honesty
• Acceptance
• Patience
• Flexibility
• Respect
• Empathy
• Commitment
• Sense of Humor
Building Positive Relationships
• Good relationships don’t just happen. It takes work. You find ways to work through problems. • Start a relationship – talk to someone, find common ground
• Maintain a relationship
• Make time for others
• Give and receive
• Showing tolerance
Making Time for Others
• Make an effort to plan activities with people you care about and less time alone. STAY OFF CELL PHONE WITH OTHERS!
• Plan ahead to avoid conflicts with important family activities.
• Eat meals with you family as often as possible. Ask whether you can invite friends from time to time.
• Recognize that good relationships are worth the effort.
Showing Tolerance
• Tolerance – Respecting others beliefs and customs.
• Prejudice – an unfair or biased attitude toward an individual or group.
• Discrimination – treating certain people differently as a result of prejudice.
Understanding Authority
• Be courteous and respectful
• Practice self-discipline. Obey the rules.
• Tell the truth.
• Listen to what you are told. Ask questions if you don’t understand.
• Accept responsibility for your behavior. Admit your mistakes.
• When you have a problem, talk to a person of authority.
Unhealthy Relationships
• Physical Abuse
• Controlling behavior
• Isolation
• Low Self-Esteem
• Dependence
• Bullying
• Dishonesty
• Irresponsible behavior
• Illegal activity