unit ii – chapter five child development. * distinguish among different kinds of relationships *...
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Unit II – Chapter Five
Child Development
Relationships andDating
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*Objectives
*Distinguish among different kinds of relationships
*Analyze factors that influence relationships
*Describe ways to build and maintain strong relationships
*Identify characteristics of unhealthy relationships
*Examine the reasons and methods of ending a relationship
*Explain reasons for dating different people before getting married
*Provide guidelines for responsible dating relationships
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*Kinds of Relationshi
ps
*A relationship is the connection you have with another person
*Relationships vary in three basic ways:
*Their degree of closeness
*Their purpose
*Their form
*Relationships can also be described as close or casual
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*Influences on Relationships
*Roles and Expectations
*An expectation is a want or need that a person hopes will be met in the relationship
*Example: children expect their parents to take care of them and parents expect children to follow the rules and listen
*Differences in expectations can sometimes lead to conflict – create an example in your notes
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*Influences on Relationships
*Self-Esteem
*High self-esteem gives you the confidence to meet new people and have new experiences
*High self-esteem also helps you steer clear of relationships that may harm you
*When people do not feel accepted, their self-esteem is likely to be low
*Sometimes people in this situation act like they do not care what others think of them
*EVERYONE has personal strengths that deserve to be recognized and celebrated
*Make it a habit to give sincere compliments throughout the day
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*Qualities in a Strong Relationship
*Understanding
*Tolerance
*Dependability
*Communicate
*Honesty
*Acceptance
*Patience
*Flexibility
*Respect
*Empathy
*Commitment
*Humor
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*Which Quality is Most Important?
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*Maintaining a Relationship
*Pay attention – keep in touch
*Participate – participate in activities with the important people in your life
*Plan Ahead – keep a planner to avoid conflicts
*Enjoy Meals Together – eat meals as a family as often as possible
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*Harmful Relationships
How do I know if I am in an unhealthy
relationship?
If he truly cared for me, he
would never threaten,
pressure or ask me to do
something that is against my
values.
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*Unhealthy Relationships
Physical Abuse
Controlling Behavior
BullyingIrresponsible Behavior
Illegal Activity
Dishonesty Isolatio
n
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*Unhealthy Relationships
*If you feel isolated, you feel separated and cut off from everyone but one person
*Inadequate means failing to meet an expectation. If you feel you are not good enough for someone, it is time to move on
*A person who feels dependent relies too much on someone else for their own happiness. It is far better to be with someone who encourages you to act independently
*People who are vulnerable are especially open to physical or emotional harm or are easily persuaded by pressure.
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*Ending a Relationship
*Reasons for ending a relationship include:
*It may be unhealthy
*Have outgrown the relationship
*Nothing left in common
*Not well-matched
*Someone moves
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*Ending a Relationship
*Ending a relationship is never easy
*It is best to make a clean-cut, do not drag the process out, that is unhealthy for all involved
*If you feel you need to explain the reasoning, try to avoid making “you” statements
*Example: Instead of saying, “You’re boring,” try, “I don’t think we have much in common.”
*Respect the person you are ending the relationship with – you are helping to create their self-concept
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*Responsible Dating
*Starting a Relationship
*Going out with different people
*Improves interpersonal skills
*Practices give and take
*Multiple experiences help you understand yourself better as a person
*Going out with a variety of people will help you discover the characteristics you will want in a permanent partner
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*Responsible Dating
*Going out as a group
*Avoid pressure that comes with going out as a couple
*Group dating makes it easier to get comfortable
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*Responsible Dating
*Going out as a couple
*Practice relating to a person one-on-one
*Does not mean you have a serious relationship
*Many teens go on casual dates with multiple people
*May decide to date exclusively
*Being a couple helps people get to know each other well
*Creates a sense of security
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*Responsible Dating
*Family Rules
*Some parents do not allow their children to date on person exclusively
*Concerns include:
*Limits opportunities to meet new people
*Might lose sight of long-term goals, like education
*Parents often have rules about what you can do and where you can go on a date
*Concerns include:
*Drug and alcohol abuse
*Unsafe driving
*Sexual pressures
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Even if you do not agree with their
dating rules, remember that
their purpose is to protect you
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*Responsible Relationships
*Dating can be fun, but it has a serious side
*You need to establish boundaries, or limits in a new relationship
*Plan ahead so you are prepared to handle situations that may arise
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*Personal Responsibility
*Healthy dating relationships:
*Practice responsibility and respect for themselves and their partners
*They stay true to each other’s rules and values
*They follow personal and family values
*Their mutual goal is to enjoy each other’s company
*Communicate
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*Going out on the date
*Talk about where you will go
*How will you get there and back?
*What are you going to do?
*Who will pay?
*When will you be back home?
*If you agree on the details beforehand, there will not be any uncertainties.
*It also sets expectations for the date, which fit within your boundaries
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*Three Components of a Relationship
*Intimacy – the first component; being close to someone and sharing personal things with them
*Passion – the second component; strong emotional feelings that move you to express them physically, verbally, etc.
*Commitment – the third component; promising to be true and faithful to that person
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*Sexual Responsibility
*Media often sends the message that sexual activity is an expected part of any dating relationship
*THIS IS NOT TRUE
*Although it seems a private matter, it often does not stay that way
*Reputations suffer, self-esteem can be damaged and you may lose your self-respect