TRINITY TODAY

Vol. XXXVIINovember

EditionOctober 30, 2015

Follow Jesus. Make Disciples.Transform The World.

1Special thanks to Trinity Presbyterian Charlottesville, VA for use of their children in worship resources for this newsletter. http://www.trinitycville.org

Newsletter of Trinity United Methodist Church, Winston-Salem, North Carolina

People were bringing little children toJesus in order that he might touch

them; and the disciples spoke sternly tothem. But when Jesus saw this, he was

indignant and said to them, ‘Let thelittle children come to me; do not stopthem; for it is to such as these that the

kingdom of God belongs.'(Mark 10:13-14)

It’s been a delight to see our childrenat worship, work, and play in October.The sanctuary was beaming as they led usin worship on October 18 with songs andsign language. The parking lot wasbubbling with spooky rascals roaming fromtrunks for treats. I recently heard acomment by someone that “the childrenhave taken over.” Wouldn’t that be ablessing! I celebrate the work ofeveryone behind the scenes to make thatpossible and am reminded of what aprivilege it is to create welcoming spacewhere our children can seek, share, serve,and encounter God’s love. We all know this story and thesewords of Jesus, and I suspect we all thinkfondly on them. Regardless of whetherJesus actually spoke the words, the factthat they appear in three of four gospelsmeans that they were an important part ofthe early Christian tradition. But inpractice—at least when it comes toworship—I imagine some of us are a bitmore like the disciples, occasionally“stern” about the presence of children inworship, particularly when we perceivethat presence as disrupting our ownworship experience. So how do weintentionally find ways to make space forall God’s children? Perhaps the bestadvice for parents or members alike isstraight from Jesus – Allow them to come. Children are a vital part of ourChristian faith and, consequently, ofChristian worship. Children help us

understand our faith better, and help model Christ for usin a way we might not have otherwise imagined.Children giggle, poke, and swing their legs simply becausethey are children. But they also can sing, pray, and givewith the congregation. Their presence in worship growsout of the biblical tradition and theological conviction thatchildren are members of the covenant community. For parents, bringing your child to church may, attimes, be a real exercise in patience. So are many otherfacets of parenting that we manage to get through. Wemust remember that baptized children are members ofChrist’s church, and they need to be among the peoplewho worship God. They may not participate just the wayadults do, but they are growing in understanding andlearning to take their places in the church family. Foradults, we need to remember young children in worshipmay be wiggly and noisy, but it is their birthright asChristians to worship. Our satisfaction comes in lateryears when we see them stand in the midst of the churchand go out into the world with a faith of their own. In an effort to continue fostering a place for all ages,especially our children, to seek, I encourage you to findtime this month to check out a new addition to your pewrack. There you will find a welcome reminder for us allof the ways we can be inclusive of children and familiesand take seriously our baptismal vows to nurture oneanother in the Christian faith. You’ll also find additionalarticles and tips throughout this issue to encourage ourparents and congregation in their efforts to “train up achild.”1

Playfully seeking, sharing, and serving,Pastor Norm

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November BirthdaysLift a prayer ...

for those receiving treatment or recovering:Violet Fincannon, Debbie Carpenter, Joann Mendes, Mary Catherine Bones, Nancy

Marshall, Chuck Dunn, Wilma Neubach, Sandy Taylor, Dottie Andrews, Frank Lucas,Susan Lawson, Bob Craft, Lenora Yates, Bill/Jennie Wilson (they have a new address -2055 Highfield Park Drive, WS 27127; phone, 999-8431).

for those in assisted living or nursing homes:Doris Braithwaite (Arbor Acres Health Care)Violet Fincannon (Brighton Gardens)Glenda Hauser (Springwood Care)Scott/Elva Lyles (Trinity Elms)Jean Ouellette (South Fork AL)Georgia Royall (South Fork AL)Ed/Emily Reams (Trinity Elms)Al Reams (Trinity Elms)Lucille Thomas (Arbor Acres)Sue Benson (Virginia)Grace Brewer (Pennsylvania)for those in the military:(Let us know when locations change)Nathan Alexander (USAF) Zachary Lancaster (Marines, Iraq)Joshua Wilson (US Army, Georgia) Tyler Kiger (US Air Force, Japan)Kenneth Raynor (USMC) John Shaw (Army 961st Eng. Co., Kuwait)for the bereaved:Naomi Davis on the death of her husband, Raymond, age 89, on October 23.for prayer requests:Whenever you have sickness or a personal need, God's people at Trinity stand ready to

join you in prayer. Names may be withheld. Requests may be given to Carol Baynes (765-2119) or any member of the Prayer Chain listed in your church directory.

Our church in mission

We seek to help our neighbors in our community, in ourcountry, and around the world through our gifts.

Mission Offerings for the Fourth Quarter of 2015 go toPrison MATCH of NC, Inc. to help incarcerated mothersand their children stay connected. Trinity's goal is to raise$300 for this mission. Envelopes for gifts are in pew racks.

Good Neighbor Fund: Your gifts are used for those inthe church and community who need temporary financialassistance.

The Do-Good Tree ~ in November we are asked tobring items for SCAN (Stop Child Abuse Now). Here is theirwish list needed at SCAN for newborns:

"New Baby" Diapers Receiving BlanketsBaby Lotion 4 oz. Baby BottlesBaby Wash/Baby Oil Nipples/Wipes/BibsWash Cloths Cans of Baby FormulaSnap Shirts (6-9 mos. & 9-12 mos.)Outfits (from 3-6 mos. to 9-12 mos.)Checks payable to "Exchange Scan"(DO NOT donate Baby Powder)

Trinity TodayPublished monthly by Trinity UMC

Norm Jones, Jr., Pastor765-0150 (church) 893-7029 (home)

828-980-4139 (cell)Email: rev.norm@alumni.duke.eduMary Hege, Admin. Assist./Editor765-0150 (church) 768-8503 (home)

692-0692 (cell)Email: tumcws@gmail.comWebsite: trinityumcws.org

Next Newsletter Deadline ~ Nov. 23

1 - Debbie CarpenterCamryn SearsTerry Walker

2 - Tim Gurganus4 - Christine Tinus

Sue Pettit5 - Madelyn Lewis

Bill Miller6 - Miles Necessary

Mark Rogers, Jr.Lenora Yates

8 - Mandy Billings10 - Margie Blakely

Toni CapellGlenn Price

11 - Andrew AllenDarrell BreedingSandra KirklandJosiah Pullen

13 - Mary Purgason14 - Connie Lowry16 - Arlene Gist17 - Paul Gibson

Kallie WitherowPaige Witherow

18 - Sonya Van Etten19 - Danny Colllins20 - Gavin Burton

Larry Ham24 - Dillon Hill25 - Eric Stewart26 - John Holt27 - Ann Cole28 - Terri Tyler29 - Robert Boyer

Melinda Watkins30 - Paul Gibson, Jr.

Lucille Thomas

Trinity's CommunityFood Pantry

Place items in purple binsnear the elevator

Cereal (1 box)Grits/Oatmeal (1 box)Canned Fruit (3 cans)Soup (1 can)Canned Veggies (5 cans)Pasta (1 box)Mac & Cheese (1 box)Pasta Sauce (1 can)Canned Meat (1 can)Peanut ButterCookies/Saltines

Remember...to help us keep the pantrystocked so we will have agood supply of items on handto prepare boxes for those inneed of help with food.

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Bless This Bunch!Office Volunteers:Thelma Schoolfield, Joe Hege, John NelsonWorship Leadership:Communion Assistants; Readers: Chuck Burkleo,

Cynthia Blair, Mary PurgasonKitchen:SSE cooks/cleanup crewsAround the Church:Bingo Leaders; Lawn Care Team; Cynthia Blair,

Jim Jones, John Nelson, Henry Marvin, Richard Harding

There isalways,always,always,

SOMETHINGto be thankful for.

Thanksgiving BeatitudesBe thankful that you don't already have everything

you desire. If you did, what would there be to lookforward to?

Be thankful when you don't know something, for itgives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times. During thosetimes, you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations, because they giveyou opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for each new challenge, because it willbuild your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach youvaluable lessons.

Be thankful when you're tired and weary, because itmeans you've made a difference. (Author unknown)

Take Note

UMM NewsThe United Methodist Men will meet at the K&W on

Healy Drive for dinner on Tuesday, November 3, 6:00 p.m.All men of the church are invited to attend this time offellowship.

UMW NewsThe November General Meeting of the United

Methodist Women will be on Wednesday, November 4, at6:00 p.m. This is a very important meeting. We will electand install officers for 2016. Our guest speaker will giveus a presentation regarding H.O.P.E. (the project thatprepares and distributes sandwiches to low income childrenevery Sunday). We will receive our annual World ThankOffering that goes to the mission of UMW, children andyouth.

Betty Gardner, UMW President

Renovation Covered Dish/Forum Nov. 15!You're invited to bring a dish for a lunch renovation

forum/dialogue in the Fellowship Hall following worship onSunday, November 15. Members of the Renovation teamand Capital Campaign will be present to share ideas andupdates regarding our renovation campaign progress andwill seek your input for next steps. Let us break bread andbreak ground together!

Stewardship ReminderAs temperatures and seasons change, this is a great

time to remind everyone to be good stewards of God'sresources. Please remember to lock doors and turn offlights when leaving the building. Turn air off or returnthermostats to their original setting following use. Thankyou for helping keep our campus inviting and loved.

Bill Davis, Trustees Chair

Prayer Garden thoughts ...The leaves have mostly changed to their radiant reds,

burnt orange, pale and lemony yellows but they also havestarted to let go. November is a time for family andappreciating all things at Thanksgiving. The first frostcame with most things surviving but this is the time forcolder weather. The leaves fall off their trees in prepara-tion for winter then we can also prepare for the celebra-tion of the birth of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. Wecould be like the trees by letting go of some thingsphysically, spiritually, or emotionally to prepare us for theHolidays. God can help us lighten our load going into thecold weather. Enjoy the outdoors as much as you canbefore the real winter winds and snow abound. Let Godbe our light to move us into a better place to help "createhis kingdom here on earth."

Susan Burton

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Trunk or Treat Pictures

Kids of all ages had agreat time at Trunk orTreat. (From top left andcircling around the page) are:Henry MarvinTrunks lined upHailey WootenBetty SluderCooper & KeatonKids in the bounce houseNaaman Jones

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Congratulationsto theClass

of2014

Raymond Davis and his wife, Naomi, joined Trinity onAugust 24, 1952 by certificate of transfer from Steele StreetMethodist in Sanford, N. C. Faithful in worship andmembers of the Wesley Asbury Sunday School Class, thecouple found great joy being with church friends and raisingtheir daughter, Debbie, at Trinity. He served his countryproudly in World War II in the Marine Air Corps. Andanyone who met him soon knew that he was a die-hardCarolina fan! He and Naomi celebrated their 71st weddinganniversary on October 20th, and she has cherishedmemories of their travels, dancing and playing golf.

Henry Marvin recalled: "As a fellow church member andas a friend, Raymond Davis was a 'rock' that you coulddepend on — whether it would be giving a helping hand orgiving you his honest opinion — an opinion that sometimes inchurch meetings went against the opinions of everyone elsein the room. Then came Raymond at his true self — afterthe vote was taken and his solitary position lost, Raymondwas ready to give his best efforts to achieve the wishes ofthe majority. If we can remember that and apply it to ourown conduct it would be one of many of Raymond'slegacies. Thank you, Raymond! — and if you will — pleaseput in a good word for the rest of us who miss you so. Godbless!"

John Nelson shared this thought: "Two years ago thispast August, when Raymond was a mere 87 years old, hecame to me as Chairman of Trustees and told me that Iwould need to get someone else to lock up the buildings afterchurch. He just didn't think he could do it any more. I'msure this was a hard thing for him to do, because it was thelast of many responsibilities that he had taken over the yearsthat he was giving up. He had served in many positions onthe Church Council; was an expert on the United MethodistDiscipline; was in the Choir for over a half-century (retiring

February 28, 2008); ordered Sunday School literature,changed the lettering on the outdoor sign, etc. But for morethan thirteen years, every Sunday (and I mean everySunday), it was Raymond that turned off lights, checkedthermostats, and locked all the doors in both buildings. Hedidn't rush off to lunch or socialize right after the service, hehad a job to do and he did it faithfully.

Raymond got quite a kick out of the fact that I told him Icouldn't find anyone willing to do the job that he did forthirteen-plus years ... it was going to take four of us to getthe job done! Today, it takes even more people, taking turnsto do the job!! Raymond was a great example to all of us asa true servant of God. Thank you, Raymond."

Carol Baynes says "Raymond was the friendliest man inthe church when she and her late husband, Paul, came toTrinity in 1964. The first Sunday they attended Raymondintroduced himself to Paul. He did the same thing on thesecond and third Sundays, making sure that a properwelcome was given and it made a lasting impression onthem. Raymond was known as a "picky" eater. WhenCalifornia Fresh restaurant opened he thought they had thebest food in town, and was heartbroken when it closed aftera few years. She thought he might just give up eating!"

Doris Link called and said "she and many other ladies inthe church had been going out to eat each week withRaymond and Naomi for years. First they started going toPete's in Clemmons, then moved on to Cagney's, the YachtHouse, and finally K&W. Often he was asked, "How do youmanage to be in the company of so many good lookingwomen?" "Oh," he replied, "I just went by the "home" andpicked them up for a night out!" After Doris' husband, Bill,died, she and Raymond sat beside each other in the Choir formany years, sparring over their opinions about the anthemsor Carolina and Duke rivalry. She says he is the only personshe ever knew who thought his watch kept perfect time!"

Raymond was at Hospice when he passed away. Naomiheld him close, told him how much she loved him, that hewas going to a better place and she would join him soon. Heopened his eyes for one final look at his beloved wife anddied shortly thereafter.

We send our love and sympathy to all those Raymondloved. May the peace of Christ be with you.

In Memoriam

Raymond L. "Dump" DavisFebruary 27, 1926 - October 23, 2015

For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them.(Matthew 18:20)

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Lake Junaluska Church Retreat

April 1-3, 2016(Register by January 30 to ensure availability)

Make plans now to join us for a time to be refreshedbody and soul. In addition to our adult retreat, we alsohave a component for families with children. Both groupswill have opportunities to fellowship. By selecting Springdates, rates are much more affordable. This retreat isopen to all. Register with a deposit by December 13, andreceive a $10 discount. Adults will be housed at LambuthInn and rates include 2 nights lodging and 5 meals.Families with children will be held at a retreat house nearthe new LJA playground and meals will be shared andprepared. A $40 deposit per person or per family isrequired for registration. Deposits are non-refundableafter February 28.

Contact Mary Hege to register!Email: tumcws@gmail.com/336-765-0150

Adults Retreat (per person) Families & ChildrenSingle: $220 Parent: $40; Child: $15Double: $145 5 & Under: $10Triple: $127 Example:Quad: $120 2 Adults + 3 Kids = $120

November is often a time associated with families andthankfulness. Within the church, we give thanks forall the saints (past and present) and we are certainlythankful for our church family. Take a moment togive thanks and remember our relational covenantwith each other.

Our Relational Covenant

At Trinity UMC, hospitality, warm friendship, love, andlaughter are always in order. As brothers and sistersin Christ, we will strive to conduct ourselves andrelate to one another by Scriptural standards.

We will ... • FIRST, seek God’s will. (Intentionallyinvite God into the process, remembering alldecisions are to serve God’s purpose).1

• Speak the truth honestly and encouraginglyin love. (Seek Harmony and Unity so ourwords and actions build up the church and eachother).2

• Seek to listen and understand beforeseeking to be understood. (Strive forcollaboration; willing to compromise,accommodate, or “let go”).3

• Seek and expect the good in one another;forgiving each other’s mistakes.4

• Treat each other as we wish to be treated.(including tone of voice, body language,disagreeing in love, and not making or takingsituations personally).5

• Pray when conflicts arise and followJesus’ process of reconciliation from Matthew18:15-22.1Matt. 22:37-39 3Rom. 12:9-18,2Eph. 4:15, 25-32 Phil. 2:1-54Col. 3:12-17 5Matt. 7:12

Hangingof the

Greens

SundayNovember 29

4:00 p.m.

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How Do Children Learn to Worship?

Children learn to worship by worshipping with the congregation Sunday after Sunday.• They learn they belong to Christ and are welcome in Christ’s church.• They come to know, through repetition, the Lord’s Prayer, the creeds, the Doxology, and the beautiful songs of our faith.• They build memories of shared experiences of Christian community that they may draw upon when they are older.• They are enriched by the beauty of music and art as creative expressions of praise and as human responses to God.• They hear stories from the Bible read and interpreted, and they begin to see Christian worship as one place where God mayspeak to them and be with them.• They witness the drama of baptism and the Lord’s Supper—both visible signs of God’s grace, kindness, and favor.• They discover that they are valued as people by God and by God’s people at church.

Special Provisions for Children in Worship

• Children’s bulletins and updated wiggle bags with games and crayons are available in the narthex.• Children who need a break can make use of space in the narthex or front porch for a few minutes. The service can oftenstill be heard from there.• Nursing mothers are welcome to use the Infant Nursery and rocker in the Education Building where the service can beheard or the parlor across from the kitchen.• Changing tables can be found in the renovated women’s restroom behind the sanctuary or the soon to be finished unisexrestrooms and infant nursery on the first floor of the Education Building.• Quality childcare is available in the nursery for children three and under during worship and Sunday School.• Children four and older are encouraged to experience congregational worship. Our pew worship cards offer greatsuggestions for parents and adults to help children get the most from worship. (Sitting near the front will provide childrenwith a better view of the service so they can see what’s happening and additional floor space for Godly play. Beinga “worship friend” for a child by inviting them to find the hymn or draw prayers is a special gift for parents who maybe nervous about their child in worship.)• Pastor Norm loves to incorporate children in worship. Please let him know if your child wants to help in the service in someway. He will also offer regular opportunities and invitations to assist during services like a story for all ages or during baptismand communion.

Kid’s Community Movie Night- November 6, 6:30pm -

Join us for popcorn, candy and see the latest Pixar hitInside Out on the big screen in the Fellowship Hall. Thisevent is free and open to all kids and parents in thecommunity. Sponsored by the Children/Youth MinistryTeam.

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A Letter to Parents with Young Children in Churchby Jamie Bruesehoff

You are doing something really, really important. Iknow it’s not easy. I see you with your arms overflowing,and I know you came to church already tired. Parenting istiring. Really tiring. I watch you bounce and sway trying to keep the babyquiet, juggling the infant car seat and the diaper bag asyou find a seat. I see you wince as your child cries. I seeyou anxiously pull things out of your bag of tricks to try toquiet them. And I see you with your toddler and your preschooler.I watch you cringe when your little girl asks an innocentquestion in a voice that might not be an inside voice letalone a church whisper. I hear the exasperation in yourvoice as you beg your child to just sit, to be quiet as youfeel everyone’s eyes on you. Not everyone is looking, butI know it feels that way. I know you’re wondering, is this worth it? Why do Ibother? I know you often leave church more exhaustedthan fulfilled. But what you are doing is so important. When you are here, the church is filled with a joyfulnoise. When you are here, the Body of Christ is more fullypresent. When you are here, we are reminded that thisworship thing we do isn’t about bible study or personal,quiet contemplation but coming together to worship as acommunity where all are welcome, where we share in theWord and Sacrament together. When you are here, I havehope that these pews won’t be empty in 10 years whenyour kids are old enough to sit quietly and behave inworship. I know that they are learning how and why weworship now, before it’s too late. They are learning thatworship is important. I see them learning. In the midst of the cries, whines,and giggles, in the midst of the crinkling of pretzel bagsand the growing pile of crumbs, I see a little girl whoinsists on going two pews up to share peace with someoneshe’s never met. I hear a little boy slurping (quite loudly)

every last drop of his communion wine out of the cup,determined not to miss a drop of Jesus. I watch achild excitedly color a cross and point to the one inthe front of the sanctuary. I hear the echoes of“Amens” just a few seconds after the rest of thecommunity says it together. I watch a boy justlearning to read try to sound out the words in theworship book or count his way to Hymn 672. Even onweeks when I can’t see my own children learningbecause, well, it’s one of those mornings, I can seeyour children learning. I know how hard it is to do what you’re doing, butI want you to know it matters. It matters to me. Itmatters to my children to not be alone in the pew. Itmatters to the congregation to know that families careabout faith, to see young people... and even on thoseweeks when you can’t see the little moments, itmatters to your children. It matters that they learn that worship is what wedo as a community of faith, that everyone is welcome,that their worship matters. When we teach childrenthat their worship matters, we teach them that theyare enough right here and right now as members ofthe church community. They don’t need to wait untilthey can believe, pray or worship a certain way to bewelcome here, and I know adults who are still lookingto be shown that. It matters that children learn thatthey are an integral part of this church, that theirprayers, their songs, and even their badly (or perfect-ly-timed, depending on who you ask) cries and whinesare a joyful noise because it means they are present. I know it’s hard, but thank you for what you dowhen you bring your children to church. Please knowthat your family — with all of its noise, struggle,commotion, and joy — are not simply tolerated, youare a vital part of the community gathered in worship.

Part of Something Big

As a Stephen Ministry congregation, Trinity UMC is part of a big network of care. There arethousands of Stephen Ministry congregations representing more than 150 Christian denominationsacross the U. S., Canada, and the world. The Stephen Ministries headquarters is based in St.Louis, Missouri, and can connect our Stephen Leaders with Stephen Ministry congregationsvirtually evrywhere in the country. So if you have a relative or friend far away who is in need ofcare, talk to one of our Stephen Leaders, Dorothy Murphy or Pat Slaughter. They may be able toconnect your friend to a Stephen Ministry congregation in his or her own neighborhood.

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Saying Thank You ...

Dear Trinity,I want to thank all of you for the prayers, calls, and

cards I have gotten during my recent back problem andsurgery. I am a lot better but still have some pain. Thanksagain for all that has been done for Malcolm and me. Godbless you all.

Sue Pettit

Dear Trinity UMC,You are truly a blessing! Thank you for providing the

meal for our Large Group last Thursday! We thank youfor your continued support of Wesley. God is doingamazing things and we pray that God is working in the lifeof Trinity.

In Christ, Wake Forest Wesley

Dear Trinity Family,Thank you all for the food and the cards, and especially

for your thoughts and prayers for me and my family duringmy most recent down time! It feels good to know I havefamily behind me.

I especially thank Doris Link, Carol Baynes, PeggyReavis, Virginia Affeldt for the Wednesday night SSEsupper and Dorothy Murphy from the Stephen Ministry.Thank you! I felt everyone's prayers! I love you all!

Debbie Carpenter

Resurrection: Youth RetreatJan. 22-24 ~ Pigeon Forge, Tennessee

Cost: $40 Deadline: Nov. 30www.resurrectionyouth.com

Register immediately with Patti Beechey or Megan Link.Friends are encouraged to attend. If you would like to

sponsor a youth or make a donation to cover their expenseplease contact Mary Hege in the church office.

Resurrection is an annual event of worship and spiritualgrowth for youth and youth mentors. Each year over12,000 come together in Tennessee to celebrate the Godof The Resurrection. Through inspirational words andmusic, young people encounter the Lord in new and deeperways. This year features Chris Tomlin, Fred Lynch, andBellarive. For many, Resurrection is an opportunity forconversion, decision, and revival. For others, it is arealization that their faith needs to grow deeper and moreserious. Resurrection is hosted by the youth ministry ofthe Holston Conference of the United Methodist Church.Although Resurrection has become a large gathering overits 30-year history, the focus of the event has remainedconstant: the individual young person and their relationshipto Jesus Christ. We recognize the leadership of theirparents, their peers, their leaders in their local churches,and youth groups to grow in radical discipleship that canchange the world.

Register by Nov. 30 withPatti Beechey 331-3891, home; 703-8521, cellEmail: pattibeechey@hotmamil.comMegan Link 765-1163, home; 287-2256, cellEmail: meganllink@hotmail.com

Trinity's Veterans will be honored Sunday, November8, with a reception sponsored by the SonShine Circle from12:15-1:00 p.m. in the Fellowship Hall. Please join us inexpressing appreciation to ourVeterans for their service toour country.

White Poinsettias will be in the chancel for Christmas.Place your order by Nov. 29. Cost: $7.50 each.

Watch for an order blank in the bulletin very soon.

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District Highlight

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District and Conference Events

Upcoming Dates

November 12 Friends of UMAR LuncheonThursday, November 12, 12:00-1:00 p.m.Maple Springs UMC, 1569 Reynolda RoadInvite Friends, Host a TableContact Cameron at 704-659-7624 orCameronH@UMARinfo.co

November 19 Charge ConferenceThursday, November 19, 7:00 p.m.Burkhead UMC, 5250 Silas Creek Parkway,This is a combined meeting for our WesternWinston-Salem Missional Network(Ardmore, Bethel, Burkhead, Centenary WS,Hanes, Maple Springs, Mt. Tabor, Trinity,and Wesley Memorial).

Open Arms Community of the United Methodist Church437 E. Sprague Street, Winston-Salem 27127

Loving God and NeighborKingdom Meals

During the school year, Open Arms serves an average of 140 meals each weekto regular program attendees. A lot of food is bought to do a lot of cooking!Donating food and meals is a very valuable gift that you can offer in service to God.

How is God calling you to help?Donate food.Bring prepared meals to serve.Enjoy the fellowship of cooking a meal in the Open Arms kitchen.For more information call Open Arms at 336-724-0850.

Travel with Dr. Pattersonto Ireland in 2016

Join Dr. Jeff Patterson, our district superintendent, as he travels to IrelandJuly 26-August 4, 2016. The tour, sponsored by Educational Opportunities,will arrive in Dublin and pass through the Irish Midlands, where John Wesleyrepeatedly returned to preach and shepherd the circuits and societies. VisitConnemara; worship with a UM congregation in Killarney and tour BlarneyCastle. Visit Rock of Cashel and end the trip back in Dublin to tour St.Patrick's Cathedral. Costs are $3,396 from Charlotte or $3,400 fromGreensboro, basic tour and guided sightseeing, daily buffet breakfast anddinner, deluxe motorcoaches, first class hotels, etc. You may add a pre-tour toScotland (July 23-27, 2016) for $1,098. Register early and save $55. Pleasecontact Dr. Patterson at 725-4502 or jpatterson@wnccumc.org.

Yadkin ValleyHighlight

Food for ThoughtGreat Midweek

Opportunity this Fall

Wednesdays12:00-1:00 p.m.Centenary UMC

651 W. 4 1/2 St., WS

Would you like a spiritual fill-upduring the week?

Rev. Jonathan Brakewill speak on the theme

"You Believe in God, but..."Lunch is $7 and includessalad, main course, sides,

beverage, dessert.Doors open at 11:45 a.m.and the message begins

at 12:10 p.m. with dismissalto return to your work or other

activities by 1:00 p.m.For details, weekly menu,

message title, and YouTubevideos of past presentations,

go to the church's websitewww.centenary-ws.org

and look under "Worship."

Dr. Jeff Patterson, 725-4502District Superintendent

jpatterson@wnccumc.orgAmy Johnson, 725-4502Administrative Assistantajohnson@wnccumc.org

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November Calendar

10:30 BibleStudy6 UMW DinnerMtg.6:30 Praise Team6:45 Covenant

Veterans Day10-2 FH resv,10:30 BibleStudy6:30 Praise Team6:45 Covenant

10:30 BibleStudy

6:30 Praise Team6:45 Covenant

10:30 BibleStudy

6:30 Praise Team6:45 Covenant

UshersBaxter Slaughter, Pat SlaughterWilma Neubach, Jerry Lawson

Musikgarten10 ages 0-311 ages 3-55:30-8 StephenMinistry7 Chancel Choir

Musikgarten10 ages 0-311 ages 3-512 MGlo @Bethany Baptist7 Chancel Choir Musikgarten10 ages 0-311 ages 3-55:30-8 StephenMinistry7 Chg. Conf.7 Chancel Choir

Office ClosedThanksgiving

Day

6:30 KidsCommunityMovie Night

10-12 FoodPantry open

Office Closed10-12 FoodPantry open

Daylight Sav. Time endsCommunion Sunday8:30 Early Worship9:30 Coffee Fellowship9:45 Sunday School11 Worship12:15 Trinity Youth

8:30 Early Worship9:30 Coffee Fellowship9:45 Sunday School11 Worship12:15-1 Veterans DayCelebration-FH

8:30 Early Worship9:30 Coffee Fellowship9:45 Sunday School11 Worship12:15 Trinity Youth

Christ the King SundayThanksgiving Special Off.8:30 Early Worship9:30 Coffee Fellowship9:45 Sunday School11 Worship

1st Sunday of AdventPoinsettias orders due8:30 Early Worship9:30 Coffee Fellowship9:45 Sunday School11 Worship4 Hanging of the Greens

6 UMMenDinner Mtg.@ K&W

6:30 ChurchCouncil

2 MGlo @ ArborAcres

7 Chancel Choir

Musikgarten10 ages 0-3

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10:30 MorningGlories Circle-FHMusikgarten10 ages 0-3 7 BINGO-FH8 DAA-Ed. Bldg.

Musikgarten10 ages 0-3

8 DAA-Ed. Bldg. NewsletterDL for Dec.calendar/articlesMusikgarten10 ages 0-37 BINGO-FH8 DAA-Ed. Bldg.

Musikgarten10 ages 0-3

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Nursery(Choose 8:30 or 11:00)11/1 Dana Raynor11/8 Bill Davis11/15 Betty Gardner11/22 Sandra Walker11/29 _______________

GreetersBrenda JonesArlene Gist

Hospital VisitorsWeek of:11/1 Mary Culler11/8 Peggy Reavis11/15 John Nelson11/22 Frankie Jones11/29 Lee Capell

9:30 SonShineCircle-FH

Service List

DVD DeliveryWeek of:11/1 Peggy Reavis11/8 Peggy Reavis11/15 Sandra Walker11/22 Mary Culler11/29 Mary Culler

Coffee FellowshipShirley GentryHenry Marvin

November 1st ~ Remember to"Fall Back" one hour

Editor's Note: Our October issue featured our Stephen Ministry program and listed the Stephen Ministers inour congregation. We especially thank Sandra Walker for her leadership as a Stephen Minister.

Our apologies that her name was inadvertantly left off.

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This is the November Edition of Trinity TodayDecember Newsletter Deadline is November 23

1 - Pastor's message2 - Our church in mission

November Birthdays3 - Happy Thanksgiving

Take Note4 - Trunk or Treat Pictures5 - LJ Church Retreat - April 20166 - In Memoriam - Davis7 - Children in Worship

Kids Community Movie Night8 - Letter to Parents9 - Saying Thank You

Resurrection: Youth Retreat10- Yadkin Valley Highlights11- November Calendar/Service List12- Thnksgiving Special Sundays Offering

CommunionSunday, Nov. 18:30 & 11:00

THANKSGIVING SPECIAL SUNDAYS OFFERING – Nov. 22

Six times throughout the year, United Methodist congregations celebrate Churchwide Special Sundays with offerings.Your support is critical to the survival of these important ministries and for sharing God’s gifts around the world. Bysupporting these Special Sundays you offer refuge in times of disaster, promote peace and justice, provide scholarships andstudent loans, reach out to the community, teach skills to encourage self-sufficiency and share the love of Jesus Christ withGod’s people everywhere.

We have chosen to combine these observances into one Sunday. The money received in the special offering Nov. 22 will bedivided equally among the six areas so please give generously as God has given generously to us.

Human Relations Day –The offering strengthensoutreach to communities in the U.S. and Puerto Rico,encouraging social justice and work with at-risk youth.

One Great Hour of Sharing- The offering goes to theUM Committee on Relief that brings hope and providesrelief from hunger and disasters. 100% goes directlytoward specific aid.

Native American Ministries Sunday – 50% of theoffering nurtures missions in Native Americancommunities within our Conference and the restprovides seminary scholarships to Native Americans.

Peace with Justice Sunday – The offering isdivided equally between our Conference and theGeneral Board and used for ministries that promotejustice and reconciliation.

World Communion Sunday – The offering providesscholarships for racial and ethnic minority students.

United Methodist Student Day –The offeringprovides scholarships and loans to UM studentsattending an accredited college or university withinour conference.