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Extending the Introvert, Directing the Extrovert

The Swiss psychologist, Carl Jung, developed a way to categorize our inborn tendencies.

Katherine Cook Briggs and Isabel Briggs Myers elaborated on Jung’s theory to create theMyers-Briggs Type Indicator, an assessmenttool that helps identify personality preference.

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Myers-Briggs Type Indicator “Inborn” preferences

Extrovert Introvert

Sensing iNtuition

Thinking Feeling

Judgment Perception

Flow of energy

Way of making decisions

How take in information

Describes your life style

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Introversion and extroversion aren’t fixed categories. There is a personality spectrum, and an individual maybe any place along that continuum.

Extrovert IntrovertAmbivert

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Extroversion and Introversion is a PREFERENCE.We all can function in the either world, but we prefer to act in a way that is more comfortable for us.

I prefer to study in a group. I prefer to study alone.

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Quiz: Are You An Introvert or An Extrovert?Y N○ ○ 1.  I prefer one-on-one conversations to group activities.○ ○ 2.  I often prefer to express myself in writing.○ ○ 3.  I enjoy solitude.○ ○ 4.  I seem to care about wealth, fame, and status less than my peers.○ ○ 5.  I dislike small talk, but I enjoy talking in-depth about topics that matter to me.○ ○ 6.  People tell me that I’m a good listener.○ ○ 7.  I’m not a big risk-taker.○ ○ 8.   I enjoy work that allows me to “dive in” with few interruptions.○ ○ 9.   I like to celebrate birthdays on a small scale, with only one or two close friends or family members.○ ○ 10.  People describe me as “soft-spoken” or “mellow.”○ ○ 11.   I prefer not to show or discuss my work with others until it’s finished.○ ○ 12.   I dislike conflict.○ ○ 13.  I do my best work on my own.○ ○ 14. I tend to think before I speak.○ ○ 15.  I feel drained after being out and about, even if I’ve enjoyed myself.○ ○ 16.  I often let calls go through to voice-mail.○ ○ 17.  If I had to choose, I’d prefer a weekend with absolutely nothing to do to one with too many things scheduled.○ ○ 18.  I don’t enjoy multi-tasking.○ ○ 19.  I can concentrate easily.○ ○ 20.  In classroom situations, I prefer lectures to seminars.

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Energized by being around other people

Expresses thoughts and emotions freely

Tend to think as they talk

Acts and then (maybe) reflects

Often friendly, talkative and easy to know

EXTROVERT

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What May Identify an Extrovert Student

● Chatty and talkative, maybe even interrupting you

● Sits or stands close to you

● Tells you more than you really need (or want) to know

● May have changed their mind about their major 2-4 times

● Friendly, easy to like

● May be more stressed than you would expect

● More likely to make requests

● Leans in, maybe too close (especially if you are an introvert)

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Directing the Extrovert Student

☺Prefers talking to listening.

☺ Works through problems out loud.

Be patient with their chattiness, bringing themback to the issue at hand (repeatedly) if necessary.

Realize they may talk about options and sometimes by the time they are through talking they have solved the problem.

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☺ Prefers to take action quickly.Encourage them to take more time making decisions like picking classes, changing majors, etc.

☺ Like to be put in direct contact with new people and experiences.

Support their involvement in clubs, and organizations, but caution against over socializing if grades are suffering.

Directing the Extrovert Student

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Energized by being alone

Keeps thoughts & emotions private

Like to think before they speak

Observes situation before participating

Reserved, quiet & internally focused

INTROVERT

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Warren Buffett

Hillary Clinton

Moses

Charles Darwin

Steven SpielbergGlenn CloseJulia RobertsHarrison Ford

Introvert

Lauri, Susan & Terry

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● Listens closely

● Will think before speaking or acting

What May Identify an Introvert Student

● May sit at a distance from your desk or lean away from you

● May be overwhelmed with new experiences…especially as a new freshman

● May be experiencing unhappiness with a (extrovert) roommate

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☺ Happier being on the fringe of activity.

☺ Likes to work independently or in small groups.

Extending the Introvert Student

Suggest studying in the library or other quiet place if study groups are uncomfortable, but encourage them to participate in class discussions. Start smalland let confidence grow.

Encourage joining clubs, activities or service groups in their interest area…they don’t have to run for leadership positions (although they often make great leaders)

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☺ Excels at focusing for long periods of time.

☺ Enjoys being alone to recharge.

☺ Prefers to avoid a lot of partying, loud boisterous events, and late night adventures.

Extending the Introvert Student

Suggest there is nothing wrong with this feeling. About 1/3 of other college students feel the same way.

It’s okay to recharge alone. Much of our most creative thinking is done when we are alone. Just don’t hide.

Knowing this is your strength makes learning easier.

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Introvert does not equal shy.

There is little or no difference between men and women in introversion and extroversion.

Individuals tend to rate themselves as more introverted than their associates judge them to be.Introverts prefer to focus at one thing a time.

Extrovert are better at multitasking.

TriviaExtrovert perform better than introvert in the presence of television distraction.

Extroverts are significantly higher on concerns about global issues than introverts.

The introvert is about as familiar with the everyday happenings in his

environment as the extrovert.

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The Ideal!Extrovert

Introvert

The Ambivert

Ambivert is a term used to describe people who fall more or less directly in the middle and exhibit tendencies of both

groups. An ambivert is normally comfortable with groups and enjoys social interaction, but also relishes time alone and away

from the crowd.

They are comfortable in both worlds!

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What is your preference?

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References

Fawal, J. (2012, April 23). College and the introvert. USA Today, [online] available: http://www.usatodayeducate.com/staging/index.php/blog/college-and-the-introvert

Cain, S. (2012, February 6 ). Secrets of a super successful introvert. [0nline] available: http://www.oprah.com/spirit/Successful-Introverts-Being-Soft-Spoken-Isnt-a-Bad-Thing

Davis, F.; Rulon, P. Gossip and the introvert. [online] The Journal of Abnormal and Social Psychology. Abstract from: PsycINFO Record.

Furnham, A, Gunter, B. and Peterson, E. (1994, December) Television distraction and the performance of introverts and extroverts. Applied Cognitive Psychology. 8.7, p 706-711

Cain, S. Quiz are you an introvert or an extrovert (and why does it matter?).[online] available: http://www.thepowerofintroverts.com/2011/01/27/quiz-are-you-an-introvert-or-an-extrovert-and-why-does-it-matter/#comments

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References (continued)

Walsh, B. (2012, February 6). The upside of being an introvert (And why extroverts are overrated). Time, 179, p9-45.

Ruf, D., Radosevich, D. (2009 Oct-Dec) How personality and Gender may relate to individual attitudes toward caring for others. Roeper Review. 31.4, p207-216

Heidbreder, E. Measuring introversion and extroversion. [0nline] The Journal of Abnormal and Social Psychology 21.2. Abstract from: PsycINFO Database Record.

Heidbreder, E. Introversion and extroversion in men and women. [online] The Journal of Abnormal and Social Psychology 22.1. Abstract from PsycINFO Database Record

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