Unit 4Unit 4

Giving a GiftGiving a Gift—Get It —Get It Right!Right!

Extension Extension ActivitiesActivities

Activity One:Activity One:Are You a Gifted Giver?Are You a Gifted Giver?

Activity Two:Activity Two:The Meaning of RosesThe Meaning of Roses

Activity One:Activity One:Are You a Gifted Giver?Are You a Gifted Giver?

Complete the Complete the sentences or answer sentences or answer

the questions by the questions by writing down your writing down your

answers on a sheet of answers on a sheet of paperpaper. .

1. The best reason for 1. The best reason for giving gifts is…giving gifts is…

a.to do the right thingb.to please othersc. to make a favorable impression on

others d.to receive gifts in return

2. When it comes to the 2. When it comes to the cost of a gift,… cost of a gift,…

a.I don’t really care about it b.I stay within my limits, buying as n

ice a gift as I can afford c. I spend as little as possible to get s

omething that will do d.I sometimes spend more than I fee

l comfortable with, often regretting it later

3. I usually give gifts 3. I usually give gifts that will…that will…

a.make a good impression b.do not cost much c.are useful and practical d.be liked by the receiver but

he or she might not buy it

4. Which of the following 4. Which of the following factors do you believe has factors do you believe has had the most influence on had the most influence on

your gift-giving attitudes and your gift-giving attitudes and habits?habits?a.family traditions

b.peer pressure and the expectations of others

c.social customs d.financial constraints

5. I believe that a gift 5. I believe that a gift given by a group of given by a group of

people is…people is…a.a good idea because a single item of

greater value can be given b.not as personal as separate gifts c.a great way to save money d.not a good way to impress others

6. When presenting a gift,6. When presenting a gift,……

a. I do so with confidence that the recipient will like it because I have such impeccable taste

b.I suggest it might be returned if it is not satisfactory

c. I smile and say, “I hope you like it.” d.I apologize, saying, “I was going to

give something else, but couldn’t find it, didn’t know what size….”

7. If someone returned a 7. If someone returned a gift I gave him or her,…gift I gave him or her,…

a. I would be highly offended, because I have impeccable taste

b.I wouldn’t care because I don’t put much thought into gift selections anyway

c. I would be hurt because the gift I selected was not satisfactory

d.I wouldn’t mind because I prefer that he or she has something with which he or she will be happy

8. When it comes to 8. When it comes to giving gifts at the office,…giving gifts at the office,…a. I think a collection should be taken

to purchase a nice group gift b.I believe it should not be done c. I think the right gift might ensure a

promotion, a raise, or cooperation d.I prefer to select my own

appropriate gift

9. When it comes to gift 9. When it comes to gift wrapping,…wrapping,…

a. I wrap gifts myself b. I generally have gifts wrapped at the st

ore where they were purchased c. I try to wrap gifts in a box from an expe

nsive department or specialty store other than where they were purchased

d. I usually give unwrapped gifts

10. I prefer to… 10. I prefer to… a.present gifts at a time I can be

alone with the recipient when he or she opens them

b.present my gifts in front of a group and have the recipient unwrap them in the presence of others

c. make gift-giving presentations as inconspicuous as possible

d.present my gifts at an appropriate time and place

11. Do you enjoy 11. Do you enjoy receiving gifts? receiving gifts?

a. No, because when someone gives me a gift, I feel obligated to buy gifts to thank the giver.

b.Yes, because gifts are a good indication of what others think of me.

c. No, because receiving gifts makes me uncomfortable and I am not always sure how to respond.

d.Generally, if they are appropriate for the occasion and the relationship, and the giver is sincere, then I do enjoy it.

12. What do you think 12. What do you think about giving money as a about giving money as a

gift? gift? a. It is not a good way to show your creativity and originality.

b.It is probably inappropriate, but it eliminates the dilemma of deciding what to give and allows the recipient to purchase what he or she wants.

c. It is generally acceptable if a person has indicated a need or desire for gifts of cash.

d.It is okay if you can’t think of anything else to give.

13. What do you think 13. What do you think about handmade gifts?about handmade gifts?

a.Handmade gifts are great if you can’t afford to buy something.

b.Handmade gifts are not appropriate under any circumstances.

c. Handmade gifts are generally the best gifts because the giver is giving a part of himself or herself.

d.Handmade gifts are appropriate only for close friends and family members with whose tastes you are familiar.

14. How much time and 14. How much time and thought do you put into thought do you put into

choosing a gift?choosing a gift?a. I usually get something that the recipient has requested to ensure a positive response.

b.I spend as little time as possible. c. I like to spend much time so I can

take into account the likes and interests of the receiver.

d.I usually put off buying gifts until the last minute and end up purchasing the first thing that will do.

15. When it comes to 15. When it comes to holiday gift-giving,…holiday gift-giving,…

a. I think it is an excellent time to enjoy the spirit of giving

b.I think that things are much too commercialized

c. I exchange gifts with family members and keep items on hand to give to friends that bring an unexpected gift

d.I believe it is a great time to improve relationships by giving carefully calculated gifts

16. What do you consider 16. What do you consider appropriate thanks for a appropriate thanks for a

gift? gift? a.A verbal “thank you” is enough. Writing notes is a nuisance.

b.If you really want to impress someone, both verbal and written thanks are necessary.

c. A preprinted thank-you card with my signature is appropriate.

d.A handwritten note should be sent as soon as possible after the gift is received.

Now, check your Now, check your answer for each answer for each

question following question following the chart on the the chart on the

next page, and see next page, and see how many points how many points you get in total. you get in total.

          1. A (2)       B (3)        C (4)            D (1)                      2. A (4)       B (3)        C (1)            D (2)                    3. A (4)       B (1)        C (2)            D (3)                       4. A (3)       B (4)        C (2)            D (1)                        5. A (2)       B (3)        C (1)            D (4)                        6. A (4)       B (1)        C (3)            D (2)                        7. A (4)       B (1)        C (2)            D (3)                       8. A (2)       B (1)        C (4)            D (3)                   9. A (3)       B (2)        C (4)            D (1)                   10. A (2)      B (4)        C (1)            D (3)                   11. A (1)      B (4)        C (2)            D (3)                  12. A (4)      B (2)        C (3)            D (1)                  13. A (1)      B (4)        C (3)            D (2)                   14. A (4)      B (1)        C (3)            D (2)                   15. A (3)      B (1)        C (2)            D (4)                  16. A (1)      B (4)        C (2)            D (3)         

Type A (Type A (16-2716-27 points) points)You don’t really like to give gifts to others, especially when you have to. However, remember that giving presents are never obligatory, and you don’t have to be upset when the next wedding, graduation, or birth announcement arrives. Gift giving will be more enjoyable if you focus on giving spontaneously to those persons you care most about and for the occasions in which you have a genuine interest.

Type B (Type B (28-3928-39 points) points)Your heart is in the right place and your gift giving is generally motivated by a desire to do the correct thing (although you are not always sure just what that is). Having become somewhat mechanical in the process of gift giving, your gifts might be predictable and unimaginative. Try to be more resourceful and creative and you will be well on your way to becoming a great gift giver.

Type C (Type C (40-5140-51 points) points)As a gift giver, you are generous and put a lot of time and thought into your gift selections. You believe gift giving is just another way to creatively express your feelings for others. Your gifts are carefully chosen and presented at just the right time. They are often accompanied by personal notes. Because your gifts reflect an attentiveness to the needs and desires of others, many people consider you to be a perfect gift giver.

Type D (Type D (52-6452-64 points) points)You might be trying too hard to impress others and often spend more than you can afford when choosing a gift. When gifts are given with strings attached, they might be interpreted as being manipulative in nature. Because your true feelings are seldom expressed in your gifts, others might not be sure what gifts from you mean. If you really want to make an impression on others through gift giving, choose presents sincerely and with consideration for the interests of the recipient.

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Activity Two:Activity Two:The Meaning of RosesThe Meaning of Roses

Each rose color has a Each rose color has a special meaning. Do special meaning. Do

you know their you know their meanings?meanings?

Red Roses Mean…Red Roses Mean…

“I love you.”

respect and courage

White Roses Mean… White Roses Mean…

““You’re heavenly.”You’re heavenly.”

reverence and humilityreverence and humility

innocence and purityinnocence and purity

secrecy and silencesecrecy and silence

Pink Roses Mean…Pink Roses Mean…

gracegrace

gentilitygentility

Pink Roses and Yellow Pink Roses and Yellow Roses Usually Stand Roses Usually Stand

for…for…

joyjoy

gladnessgladness

freedomfreedom

Together, Red and Yellow Roses Stand for…

jovial and happy feelings

Rosebuds Mean…Rosebuds Mean…

youth

beauty

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