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Month of Musical

Masterworks See page 3 for more details on this musical tradition.

Help Provide a Child in Need With a Fresh Start to the School YearSee page 6 for more details on this annual mission project.

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One thing I have always loved about the Presbyterian Church (USA) is the freedom to question. From a young age, I was encouraged to engage faith with my mind as well as my heart, and to wonder about the God revealed to us in Jesus Christ. In my experience, curiosity is part of what it means to be Presbyterian.

I hope you have found Westminster to be a congregation that values curiosity, and have felt free to contemplate questions of faith with one another. Such inquisitiveness is essential to our spiritual growth, both as individuals and as a Christian community.

In the spirit of curiosity, we are launching The Why? Series. This series is an opportunity for you to voice your questions – anything from: “Why do we serve grape juice rather than wine during communion?” to “Why is the Trinity important to our understanding of God?” Greg and I will respond to some of your questions in upcoming Clergy Columns ... not in every issue of The Chimes, but as the season allows.

I’ll start with a question I’ve received from a handful of you – most recently from a particularly inquisitive 10-year-old: Why do you wear a white robe, while Greg wears a black one?

Well, I’m so glad you asked.

Greg wears a pulpit robe, which is similar to an academic gown. This is a common choice of vestment among Presbyterian clergy because

of our denomination’s commitment to education. Historically, the first Presbyterian presence in a given community was not a church, but a school. This emphasis is still evident through the ministry and mission of many PC(USA) congregations. At Westminster, we host the UrbanPromise after school program, encourage members to mentor students, fund educational scholarships for Congolese girls, and support the schools our partner churches have established in Syrian Refugee Camps.

This commitment to education is also clear in the way we train clergy. All Presbyterian ministers must first earn a bachelor’s degree, then attend seminary, where we take courses in Bible, Theology, Preaching, and Pastoral Care, so that we are better equipped to shepherd and care for God’s people. At different points in our denomination’s history, our church constitution has even referred to pastors as “Teaching Elders” – a reference to our role as interpreters of Scripture, theology, and tradition. As such, it is appropriate for any pastor in the Presbyterian Church (USA) to wear an academic robe in the pulpit. Some – like Greg – even have the credentials to warrant adding doctoral stripes to the sleeves. One reason I did not choose a pulpit robe for my first robe out of seminary is because I wanted to wait and see if I’d add “Dr.” in front of my name. The jury’s still out on that one.

So, why do I wear a white robe?

My choice of vestments is rooted in my sense of call. White is the color of baptism – the sacrament that affirms and celebrates God’s claim on our lives. Long ago, our ancestors in the faith welcomed new sisters and brothers into the covenant community once a year – at the Great Vigil of Easter. After a long season of preparation, these disciples came to the font. There they were washed in the waters of baptism and given a white robe – a symbol of their new identity as followers of Jesus Christ. My call to ordained ministry in the Presbyterian Church (USA) is an extension of our collective call to participate in Christ’s ministry of love, peace, and justice. That’s why I wear white.

Thanks for asking.

So, what are you wondering about? If you have questions you’d like Greg or me to respond to in The Why? Series, please contact me at sniesenthompson@wpc.org (Subject: Why? Series) or at 302-654-5214 ext. 103. We won’t promise to be experts (even if we are the ones in the robes!). But, at the very least, we’ll wonder with you!

Happy pondering,

THE WHY? SERIESSudie Niesen Thompson, Associate Pastor

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Month of Musical MasterworksAugust 2018

Continuing our only-at-Westminster tradition, the month of August brings a series of great instrumental works to enhance our worship of God at our 10 o’clock

worship services. Each Sunday during August, outstanding guest instrumental soloists present a major three-movement work as Prelude, Offertory, and Postlude.

This year the repertoire is all sonatas, with piano accompaniment by Paul Fleckenstein at the Steinway grand. Here is the line-up:

August 5 Carl Reinecke: Flute Sonata, “Undine,” op. 167 Kimberly Reighley, flute

August 12 Johannes Brahms: Cello Sonata no. 1 in E minor, op. 38 Douglas McNames, cello

August 19 Henri Vieuxtemps: Viola Sonata in B-flat, op. 36 Sheila Browne, viola

August 26 Francis Poulenc: Clarinet Sonata Christopher Nichols, clarinet

Coming Soon, to a Choir Loft Near You!Westminster Choir Begins 2018-2019 SeasonFirst rehearsal: Wednesday, August 29

Do you see all the happy smiles on the faces of those folks in the pretty blue robes in the choir loft on Sunday mornings? That’s because they are the smart ones who have decided to make the Westminster Choir a part of their lives. We have room for YOU! Won’t you give us a try? First and

easiest step: Call Paul Fleckenstein, music director, at (302) 654-5214, ext. 121. Or send him an email with your phone number, and he’ll get in touch with you: paul@wpc.org. If you like to sing, you owe it to yourself to do this. Exciting new season ahead. Take the leap; act now!

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High School GraduatesAshton Albert (daughter of Rich and Taryn Albert) Kennett High School Ashton will attend the University of South Carolina Honors College to study International Business.

Ellen Banker (daughter of Suzy and Ray Banker) Padua Academy Ellen will attend Villanova University.

Ryan Matthew Fischer (son of Jessica and Matt Fischer) Wilmington Friends School Ryan will attend the University of Southern California to study Music Production.

Jason Vaughan Lengel (son of Eric and the late Amy Lengel; grandson of Jack and Bunny Michener) Avon Grove High School Jason will attend Virginia Tech to study Engineering.

Katie Lynn Lengel (daughter of Eric and the late Amy Lengel; granddaughter of Jack and Bunny Michener) Avon Grove High School Katie will attend James Madison University to study Biology.

Kala Richardson (daughter of Pamela Richardson) Saint Marks High School Kala will attend University of North Dakota to study Commercial Aviation and will be a part of the Air Force ROTC program.

Lindsay Singewald (daughter of Beth and Chris Singewald) Ursuline Academy Lindsay will attend the University of Colorado in Boulder to study Integrated Physiology.

Allison Smith (daughter of Drew and Julie Smith) Tower Hill School Allison will study Business in University of Delaware’s World Scholar Program. She will begin her first semester at the University of Auckland in New Zealand.

Kendal Trickey (daughter of Jennifer and John Trickey) Sanford School Kendal with attend St. Joseph’s University to study Biology.

College/University GraduatesPatrick Walker Bova (son of Mike and Carol Bova; grandson of Helen and Jim Walker) New York University – Gallatin School of Individualized Study Bachelor of Arts in Contemporary Art, Museum Studies, and Anthropology, with a minor in French

Kyle Carrick (son of Kim and Ron Carrick) University of Delaware Bachelor of Arts in Political Science

Arthur Guild “Gil” Connolly IV (son of Katy and Chip Connolly; grandson of Joan Connolly) Bates College, Lewiston ME Bachelor of Arts in Rhetoric

Charlotte Anne Deering (daughter of Sarah Mentzer) University of Delaware Bachelor of Arts in English and Women’s Gender Studies

Kevin Roland Flaherty, WPC Youth music assistant 2017/18 University of Delaware Bachelor of Music – Instrumental Music Education

Emily Harrison (daughter of Melissa and Sudzy Harrison) Elon University, Elon, NC Bachelor of Arts in Broadcast Journalism and Political Science

Alexandra Lynn Knepper (daughter of Marty Knepper and Barbara Stratton) West Chester University Bachelor of Arts in Athletic Training

Emily Stratton Knepper (daughter of Marty Knepper and Barbara Stratton) University of Delaware Bachelor of Arts in Criminal Justice, Minors in Psychology and Sociology

Congratulations and Best Wishes to the Class of 2018!

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Erica G. Linderman (daughter of Sue and Bob Linderman) Smith College, Northampton, MA Bachelor of Arts in History and Theater

Bethany Maxwell (daughter of Stephen and Sherri Maxwell; granddaughter of Dick and Jean May) Fort Lewis College Bachelor of Arts in Biology and Philosophy

Jordan L. Maxwell (grandson of Fred and Jane Iobst) University of Alabama, Tuscaloosa, AL Bachelor of Science in Political Science and Economics

Post-GraduatesEvan Whiteside Burt (son of David and Audrey Burt; grandson of Cynthia Kuespert) University of Texas – LBJ School of Public Policy Masters in Global Studies and a Masters in Middle Eastern Studies

Peter Robeson Cruice (son of Kathy and Chip Cruice) Suffolk University Law School, Boston, MA The Degree of Juris Doctor

Olesya Kuchma (daughter of Iryna and Ned Bedrossian) Jefferson College of Health Science Doctorate in Health Sciences

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Welcome, Kristen Wolanski

We are pleased to announce that Kristen Wolanski has been hired to become our new Nursery Caregiver, replacing Susan Sprague, who helped care for Westminster’s youngest children for over 20 years. As we say goodbye to Sue, we greet Kristen. Kristen is a member of Westminster, and she and her husband have two young children – Will (age 9) and Madison (age 2) – who participate in our programs on Sundays. Kristen has extensive experience caring for young children, which she is excited about bringing to her responsibilities in the Nursery. Kristen is also the daughter of our Reception Area Supervisor, Susan Alexander. We are so delighted Kristen has accepted this job! Please welcome her to this new role!

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Help Provide a Child in Need With a Fresh Start to the School YearFor many of us, childhood memories of a new school year include a special outfit for the first day of school, a new lunchbox or book bag, and brand-new school supplies…is there anything better than a brand-new box of perfectly sharpened crayons?! What about giving a fresh start to the school year to a young child in Wilmington?!

Since 2007, Westminster has worked with elementary schools in Wilmington to provide students in need with new backpacks filled with school supplies. In the first year of the project, we filled and donated 200 backpacks. We have gradually increased the number of backpacks and participating schools over the years, working our way up to 505 backpacks and four schools (EastSide Charter, Highlands Elementary, Shortlidge Academy, and UrbanPromise – as well as students identified through Family Promise and Delaware Futures) last year. Due to the historically overwhelming generosity of our congregation, our goal for this year is 600 backpacks donated to students through four elementary schools! To make this happen, we need your continued support.

Please consider purchasing a set of supplies to fill one (or more!) backpack(s) and bringing the supplies to church. There will be a trunk near the reception desk for donations. You can also donate $10 to cover the cost of the backpack. Or, if you’d prefer, you can write a check to cover the cost of the supplies ($10), the backpack ($10), or both. Please make your check payable to Westminster Presbyterian Church and write “Backpacks” in the memo line.

This project will launch with our Vacation Bible School program on Monday, July 23. Donations will be collected until Sunday, August 19; on that day, Westminster children are invited to bring their backpacks to church. Our pastors will bless their backpacks as well as the 600 donated backpacks during both worship services, helping launch the school year with God’s abundant blessings and the love and support of our church family. The backpacks will be delivered to the recipient schools during the week of August 20, and staff members at those schools will then distribute the backpacks to their students.

Please contact Karen Dietz (302-656-0343) or Sue Linderman (302-239-7650) if you have any questions, and thank you for your continued support of the backpacks project!

BACKPACK CONTENTS• Marble composition books (3)• #2 pencils (1 dozen)• Box of 24 Crayola crayons

• English/metric ruler (6 or 12 inch)• Small glue sticks (2)

• Pair of scissors with blunt tips• Pink erasers (2)

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A Painful Chapter in Our HistoryExactly 50 years ago, Wilmington was a focus of nationwide attention. The assassination of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., in Memphis, TN, in April of that year led to rioting in many U.S. cities, but Wilmington was unique. The riots here on April 9-10 featured looting and arson as young black men turned their frustration and rage into action. Twenty vacant buildings, many slated for demolition as part of Federal urban renewal programs, were torched; several dozen people were injured; no one was killed.

Wilmington Mayor John Babiarz declared a state of emergency, imposed a curfew and requested help from Governor Charles Terry, who dispatched 2,800 Delaware National Guard troops, accompanied by the State Police, to patrol the city.

When the violence subsided, the Mayor and Wilmington corporate leaders asked Governor

Terry to remove the troops, but he refused and Wilmington suffered through the longest peace-time occupation by the National Guard in United States history. The subsequent nine months of occupation damaged Wilmington’s reputation, exacerbated existing tensions of race and class, accelerated ‘white flight’ to the suburbs and stifled the effectiveness of long-term programs aimed at correcting the urban conditions that cause riots.

City Supervisor O. Francis Biondi told the New York Times, “the National Guard here has become a symbol of white suppression of the black community. That may be a useful way to get elected, but who wants to … run a city under those circumstances?” The occupation of Wilmington dominated the 1968 gubernatorial election and Governor Terry was defeated in November. Within an hour of his inauguration in January 1969, Governor Russell Peterson

signed the order ending this painful chapter in our history.

All this took place against a backdrop of failed urban renewal programs that leveled blocks of city housing without replacement and the construction of I-95 that split Wilmington in two, setting the stage for deep animosities that developed during the 1970s over inter-district school desegregation and the relocation of the region’s primary healthcare facility. Many of the tensions of that time reverberate down to the present day.

Much progress has taken place over the intervening years, yet so much work remains to be done. Our church has engaged in significant local outreach programs in areas of housing, hunger, homelessness and education. Facing the legacy of racism and the challenges of violence in our city, we have the opportunity to build on those efforts, create partnerships with other congregations and organizations to help accelerate lasting change.

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Wilmington is an Outlier with Regard to Street ViolenceWe have the terrible distinction of leading the country in teen shootings with a rate more than double that of the number two city of similar size. Our city’s rate of shootings and fatalities has been high and increasing throughout the “great crime decline” when violent crime in most major cities has dropped significantly.

The consequences of this street violence impact everyone. Most dramatically it affects the residents in neighborhoods experiencing the violence (through suffering among victims’ families, fear, trauma, toxic stress and the downward

spiral of lost social cohesion). But it also has strong repercussions for businesses, taxpayers, visitors and would-be visitors.

Fortunately, there is good reason to be hopeful. Although there is no easy fix, we don’t need to re-invent the wheel. Through the great strides made in other cities we now have evidence-based models that we can draw on. It’s complex and requires strong leadership with collaboration among many entities, but changing the culture of violence is possible. And even though 2017 set still worse annual records for our city, the numbers were improving throughout the

year and continued improving through the first months of 2018.

Many folks in our community express an interest in doing something to help the situation, but don’t know how. There are many ways to get involved including financial support for relevant non-profits and voting for folks who are committed to addressing the issue. If you are able to dedicate time, one of the most impactful things you can do is sign up to mentor or tutor a city youth! And, keep reminding everyone you see that kids in our backyard are shooting each other and it’s not okay!

Source: https://www.delawareonline.com/story/news/crime/2017/09/08/our-babies-killing-each-other/100135370/

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What is the Role of the Church? “From Ferguson, Missouri, to Charleston, South Carolina, communities are suffering the lethal consequences of our collective silence about racial injustice. The church should be a source of truth in a nation that has lost its way. As the dominant religion in the United States, Christianity is directly implicated when we Christians fail to speak more honestly about the legacy of racial inequality. This is a critically important time, when leaders of faith need to address issues of race more thoughtfully, prayerfully, and courageously.”

Bryan Stevenson Author of “Just Mercy”

Founder of the Equal Justice Initiative

“God wants to know if we are courageous enough to try to break some things – like racism and violence and homophobia and inequality and disregard for God’s creation. Will we be extremists for the status quo, or will be extremists for the kingdom of God?”

The Rev. Dr. Gregory Knox Jones Sermon – June 10, 2018

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Westminster to Act on Combating Violence in Wilmington and Promoting Racial JusticeAt its May 21st meeting, Westminster Session approved the proposal of our Joint Mission Committee that Westminster form a “Peace and Justice Work Group.”

The Work Group will identify opportunities to impact the inter-related issues that contribute to the excessive levels of violence in our city and the racial injustices that impact our communities. We will seek to engage our congregation, individually and collectively, in actions that advance the causes of peace and justice in a way that:

• Educates our congregation about America’s racial history• Increases awareness of the role race plays in our society• Addresses foundational causes of violence in Wilmington• Identifies racial justice initiatives under way• Builds partnerships with local congregations and other organizations• Energizes Westminster members and friends to get involved, and• Supports projects with funding as appropriate.

If You Feel Called to Act in the Cause of Peace and Justice……please contact any of us who have volunteered to get involved. We would love to speak with you about the opportunities before us and help you find a way to connect.

Alyssa AtanacioLiz BaconSigny and John CarsonNancy and John DoyleSue FrostPeter GildnerMike GnadeDick Haden

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Ann JarrettDede JohnstonLynne KielhornMarlys KerrSandy KingSue LindermanDave McBrideSusan McPheeters

Lola MillerCarol and Mark MosherJane PalmerLucy PeeblesKris QuallsEric RuossKent SmithBarbara Winchester

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Wanted: Prayer Partners for Our YouthWould you like to get to know one of Westminster’s amazing young people on a more personal level? If so, then we would like to meet you! The leaders of the 2018-2019 confirmation class are now searching for prayer partners – adults in any decade of life – to support our high school aged students as they embark on this year of growing in their faith. The time commitment will be minimal, but the blessings will be maximal! For more information, please email Sue Spilecki at susanspilecki@gmail.com.

Why I’m Part of Westminster’s Peace and Justice Work Group Barbara WinchesterFor the past few years there has been a gnawing in my soul, a yearning to “help.” But frankly, with our community and nation facing so many societal issues I felt frozen, hamstrung. Should I get involved fighting the racial injustice of our justice system, advocate for better gun laws, push for reform in our public schools? The list goes on. All such important, urgent needs.

For 30 years I worked in downtown Wilmington. I taught children in our most needy of elementary schools. I have witnessed the continued incarceration of citizens in our city who are languishing in our prisons because they don’t have the financial resources to post bail or get legal counsel, who are then returned to society with no hope of finding employment. The disproportionate number of inmates of color is an ugly testament to continuing racism. It seems that in 30 years not much has improved, at least not as much as I had hoped. Perhaps I am being too cynical but the same problems continue to exist that have existed as long as I have been a member of this community.

Doing nothing is no longer an option for me. (Dr. Jones’s sermons might have egged me on as well!) Where this journey is taking me I don’t know, it doesn’t matter – at least I am moving and no longer stuck.

Lynne Kielhorn I’ve chosen to take on violence in Wilmington as both the focus of my “career/professional life” as well as my church life. After years in the corporate and entrepreneurial tech world, I wanted to go “all in” on something that would more directly make the world a better place. I considered many of the significant challenges around the globe, but ultimately couldn’t ignore the tragedy that kids in my backyard are shooting each other.

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Let’s Talk About It – A Periodic Series One Sunday each month – between worship servicesFacilitated by Sue Linderman

White people are unaccustomed to talking about race and its implications in their lives. Yet at some level everyone recognizes that racism and prejudice have a profound impact on our communities and our country. We need opportunities to experience the challenges and benefits that come from bringing racial issues into the light of day. Join us in small group discussions as we continue the journey of exploring our beliefs about race, with openness to differing opinions and respect for one another.

Our first discussion, on May 6th, considered the recent event at the Starbucks in Philadelphia, sharing perspectives on what happened and the implications for the ways we deal with cross-racial experiences.

Our second discussion, on June 10th, focused on the protests associated with taking a knee during the National Anthem.

Each month we will consider an issue of current importance as we strive to enhance our understanding of one another and seek to live as a free and equal society.

Get Ready for a New Book Discussion Group This Fall! As part of continuing our education and developing our awareness of racial justice issues in America, we plan to begin a monthly book discussion series starting in September. These discussions will be scheduled on Thursdays (afternoon or evening), which we find to be the ‘least busy’ days in the church calendar!

We’ve selected the first four books for discussion, which will take us through the end of the year. If you’d like to use some of your summer reading time to get a head start on these thought-provoking and inspiring books, here’s the list:

• “Waking Up White” by Debby Irving• “America’s Original Sin” by Jim Wallis• “Tears We Cannot Stop” by Michael Eric Dyson• “The New Jim Crow” by Michelle Alexander

We look forward to engaging in meaningful informative dialogue with one another. Hope to see you!

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Confirmation/High School Class Planning is Underway!

The leaders of the 2018-2019 confirmation class are looking forward to an interesting, meaningful year ahead! With a fresh, comfortable space where all high school aged students are welcome, we will explore our relationships with God as individuals and as a church family. By the conclusion of the course in late April, the youth will be able to articulate their own personal statements of faith. Those who would like to be confirmed will meet with our Session on April 20.

The classes will begin on Sunday, September 16 and be held during the 10:TEN education hour on Sunday mornings in Classroom 7. In addition to the typical classroom study and group collaboration, speakers and guests will contribute to our conversations. The youth will also be supported in their faith journeys by prayer partners from our congregation. We will have some fellowship events, and practice acting as Jesus’ hands in the world by engaging in some outreach activities.

In order for the class leaders to plan accurately, please register by July 1 for this class. Send an email to Susan Williamson, convener of the Christian Education Committee at susanwilliamson@comcast.net.

In God’s love, Sue Spilecki and the confirmation class leadership team – Mike Gnade, Sandy Wermus, Diane Chandler, and Rudy

Adult Education: Dead Sea Scrolls Dead Sea Scrolls (also Qumran Caves Scrolls) are ancient Jewish religious, mostly Hebrew, manuscripts found in the Qumran caves near the Dead Sea. The texts have great historical, religious, and linguistic significance because they include the second-oldest known surviving manuscripts of works later included in the Hebrew Bible canon, along with

deuterocanonical and extra-biblical manuscripts which preserve evidence of the diversity of religious thought in late Second Temple Judaism (530BCE to 70AD).

Presented by Alan Fox, Ph.D., Professor of Asian and Comparative Philosophy and Religion at the University of Delaware.

Thursday, September 20 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. Rodney Chapel

Visit www.cil-de.org for more information.

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Palestinian Cultural Dinner The Episcopal Church of Saints Andrew and Matthew invites you to a Palestinian Cultural Dinner with Chef Anan Zahr to benefit Playgrounds for Palestine (PfP).

Playgrounds for Palestine’s goal is to “uphold the Right to Play” by building playgrounds in Palestine. Help support PfP, all while enjoying a delicious Palestinian dinner. The dinner will consist of classic Palestinian dishes. This event will introduce the work of PfP, sale of olive oil, and Palestinian culture.

Sunday, July 22 3:00 – 6:00 p.m.

The Episcopal Church of Saints Andrew and Matthew 719 N. Shipley Street, Wilmington, DE 19801

$75 per person

For tickets, go to https://playgroundsforpalestine.org/dinner-with-chef-anan-zahr/

Co-Sponsors: Delaware Episcopalians for Middle East Peace Delaware Churches for Middle East Peace Delawareans for Palestinian Human Rights

VBS Decorating Days Westminster’s Vacation Bible School theme this year is “Rolling River Rampage: Experience the Ride of a Lifetime with God!” Plan now to use all your creative juices to help us create the great outdoors inside our church walls. We can incorporate rafting equipment, camping gear, artificial Christmas trees, tarps, sticks, and more. Our decorating days are Saturdays, July 14 and 21. VBS is July 23 – 27, 2018.

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VBS 2018 REGISTRATION FORM – Return by Friday, July 13  

Child’s Name  ________________________________________________________________________________________________  Birthdate  _______________________________________  Grade Entering in September 2018  ______________________________  Address  ____________________________________________________________________________________________________  Parent(s) Name  ______________________________________________________________________________________________  Home Phone  __________________________________________ Cell/Work Phone  _______________________________________  Emergency Contact and Phone  __________________________________________________________________________________  Allergies/Special Needs  _______________________________________________________________________________________  Parent Email (required)  ________________________________________________________________________________________  Make registration check ($25 per child/$40 max. per family) payable to Westminster Presbyterian Church. Write “VBS” in Memo line. Send check and BOTH forms to:  Westminster Presbyterian Church, 1502 West 13th Street, Wilmington, DE 19806                  Or email registrar Lisa Stoddard at lisstoddard@gmail.com 

VACAT ION  B I B L E   S CHOOL  2018  

8:45 a.m. – 12:00 noonAge 4/Pre‐K to Grade 6

 

Each day, we will take kids on awesome “river”  adventures  alongside  Jesus  and his followers. 

PLAN NOW TO JOIN US AT WPC FOR A FUN‐FILLED VBS!  Cost: $25 per child/$40 max. per family

Day 1:  Jesus Calls the Disciples   Find Adventure on the River.  Day 2:  Jesus Accepts Mary & Martha  Find Acceptance on the River.Day 3:  Jesus Walks with Zacchaeus   Find Joy on the River. Day 4:  Jesus Shares a Special Meal   Find Rest on the River. Day 5:  Jesus Makes a Promise   Find Peace on the River. 

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RELEASE FORM MUST ACCOMPANY VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL REGISTRATION FORM

Westminster children/youth program volunteers and employees are subject to background checks. Westminster also performs a child protection registry check through the Delaware Justice Information System. Westminster does not require fingerprinting of our volunteers or employees. Program: ________________________________________________________________ Child(ren): _______________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________ By signing this release, you acknowledge that you are informed of and accept Westminster’s policy regarding volunteers/staff for children’s programs: _____________________________________________________________________________ Parent (Guardian’s) name - Please print _____________________________________________________ ______________________ Signature Date

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Iftar Dinner – A Lesson in Intentionality By Sue Bryde

At precisely 8:14 p.m. on Sunday, May 20, Westminster Presbyterians sought to quiet their grumbling empty stomachs. At that moment, official sundown, our Muslim guests broke that day’s Ramadan fast…but only after extensive prayer. Having not eaten or sipped any liquid since 3:00 a.m., their first bites to break the fast consisted of bread, dates and water as their food intake was chosen with care.

May 20th was only one day of the month of Ramadan which commemorates the first revelation of the Quran to Mohammad according to Islamic belief. It takes place in the ninth month of the Islamic calendar.

The central principle of “Intentionality” in faith was explained by University of Delaware professor Dr. Muqtedar Khan. If you sleep in one Saturday morning until noon, you don’t then decide it would be a good day to fast. You commit to that intention at 3:00 a.m. He refers to this as training for piety in that one is submitting to God’s will. Just as in the New Testament book of Matthew, there is a directive to cast out evil and during Ramadan the fasting Islamic community is daily to: (1) pray five times a day, (2) refrain from quarreling, (3) refrain from using coarse language and (4) refrain from marital relations. This concept of intentionality was further expanded upon in that we know the God who understands our hearts judges our actions by our intentions. Not words, but actions.

In speaking with the children who were present, they are most eager to be old enough to also fast with their parents and older sibling – perhaps seeing this as a rite of passage. I must confess I saw a tremendous smile from one child who said, “Wow! Church food is the best!” His mother explained that the highly seasoned traditional foods served in the mosques often don’t suit their children’s Americanized palates. The same child’s teenaged sister reflected on her thirst during the month of Ramadan when passing a water fountain at school. She offered that thirst served as a reminder of why she was fasting.

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Dr. Khan in his remarks pointed out that there are five pillars which unite the Abrahamic faiths (Christianity, Judaism and Islam):

• One God• Fasting• Charity

Sadly, nearly 80% of religious hate crime victims are members of the minority Abrahamic traditions – Judaism and Islam. Sharing an Iftar meal with our Muslim neighbors allows us to share knowledge, awareness of our similarities and develop comfort with differences. Casting such light on our similarities rather than our differences is the light that will extinguish religious intolerance, Islamophobia and anti Muslim bigotry. Such events as this Iftar shared breaking of the fast work to promote the American values of religious tolerance and understanding.

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Interested in Stephen Ministry? Beginning this September, Stephen Ministers will offer a new training class. Class will meet on Tuesday evenings through the end of the year. There will be no class on holiday weeks. Stephen Ministers offer one-on-one Christian caregiving to individuals experiencing a personal crisis in their lives. They offer support, caring and listening. They are a reminder that we are not alone and that God is always with us. If interested, visit the Stephen Minister table during Summer Tea (following the 10:00 a.m. service) or contact a Stephen leader – Jill Getty, Ellie Furry or Sue Weissinger.

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Welcome, New Members! Maura Curran moved to Newark last summer from Iowa, where she lived for four years while completing a PhD program. She is single. Although she grew up in New Jersey, she considers Massachusetts the place she’s originally from after living there for several years. She currently works as a postdoctoral research Speech Language Pathologist at the University of Delaware, researching child language disorders. She found Westminster as she was working her way through local churches as she searched for a new church home. She has been attending Westminster since the fall.

Patricia and John Ellis were both born in Pennsylvania. They moved to the Wilmington area two years ago. Shortly thereafter, they married and had their first son. Soon they began attending Westminster. They decided on Westminster because they are related to the McKeown family, who strongly recommended the church. John is an operator at PES and Patricia is a homemaker.

Rob Jenkins and Gathoni Murugi-Jenkins, who live in North Wilmington, attended the children’s Christmas service last year with their two daughters, Murugi (9) and Ciru (6). The entire family was delighted to witness the Biblical Storytellers, meet members of the congregation, and listen to Dr. Jones preach. Since then the family has continued to regularly attend Sunday services. Rob was born in Delaware and attended Newark High School. He pursued his undergraduate studies at York College. After college, he returned to Delaware and began his career at MBNA (now Bank of America). After a decade in banking, Rob joined Comcast where he works in their Business Services division as a Consultant. Originally from Kenya, Gathoni immigrated to the United States to pursue her collegiate studies. She obtained her undergraduate degree from Immaculata University and her Master’s degree in Business Administration and Marketing at the University of Delaware. Following graduation, Gathoni worked at the Corporation Service Company (CSC) before taking time off to raise their two children. Once Ciru began kindergarten, Gathoni created her own business and returned to the workforce. One of her clients is New Castle Presbytery, where she started to learn about WPC from the staff at the presbytery: Jim Moseley (former Executive Presbyter) and Donna Scully (Administrator). When Rob is away from the office, he enjoys spending time with his family, traveling, coaching his children’s sports teams (soccer and basketball), reading, playing sports and rooting for his Philadelphia sports teams. In her free time, Gathoni enjoys volunteering at her children’s school, spending time with her family, traveling, indulging in new culinary delights, reading, and photography.

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Think “Christmas Boxes” This July!Too early? No! Plan ahead and remove the hassle of last minute Christmas shopping and be kind to your budget as well. Take advantage of ShopRite’s CAN-CAN sales during the middle of July, usually the 2nd and 3rd weeks of the month. ShopRite’s CAN-CAN sales offer extra savings on a large variety of canned goods without a limit on the number of cans you can buy.

The list of canned food items that go into the Christmas Boxes Westminster packs each December includes: green beans, corn, cranberry sauce, yams, and fruit. You can buy these items at ShopRite at significantly reduced prices if you shop in July. If storing your purchases until late November or December is a problem, please contact Marlys Kerr or Carol Mosher. Either of them will be glad to arrange storage space at Westminster.

Joe and Kelly Westcott, along with their children, Morgan (9), Charlotte (6) and Joey (2), and dog, Jack, live about two blocks from Westminster on Rodney Street. They love their neighborhood and neighbors, several of whom are WPC members. They have lived in Wilmington for over 10 years. Both Joe and Kelly grew up in Lancaster, PA, but attended different colleges. Joe graduated from the University of Delaware and works at Capital One. Kelly graduated from Penn State and is an elementary school guidance counselor in the Red Clay School District. Both are very active: Kelly is an avid runner and Joe enjoys Cross Fit and golf. Their family loves taking trips to Cape May Point, NJ and Avalon, NJ. They are excited to be members of WPC!

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Very Grateful for This Experience By Mary-beth Howard

I retired from teaching after 34 years in various grade levels and classrooms, in June of 2016. By September of that year, and lasting until recently, I found myself in Joan Leof’s wonderful and warm class “Write to Heal.” While the time was right for me to retire, in reality it proved to be quite a transition. We know life is one transition after another. This one was big for me. I grieved the loss of my students, who I dearly loved (and my splendid colleagues, and our rich, exciting multicultural curriculum).

Joining Joan’s welcoming circle of people brought me back to the page. As an undergrad English major – and graduating with distinction in English for a poetry project, a devoted journal writer, and subsequently a published poet – all the years of teaching left me little time for writing. Perhaps that is one reason I was led by the Spirit to storytelling, both Biblical and “folklorical.”

Teaching provided daily opportunities to talk, verbally lead, and to tell stories. Over the years, I have had thousands and thousands of conversations with people, mostly children, sometimes in one day alone! What a relief it was, after so many years, to finally write again. To be quiet and write. I wrote about

teaching, friendships, my students, my marriage, my children, my mother, my whole family, my disorientation, my childhood, cherished memories, my love and relationship with nature, storytelling, my feelings of loss, my dreams and goals. I shared what I chose with my classmates, all very wise, gifted and compassionate people.

While our class was reading It’s Never Too Late to Begin Again by Julia Cameron (author of the acclaimed The Artist’s Way), I established an almost daily practice of writing, which Cameron calls Morning Pages. Over time, this has become a kind of meditation for me. I write about

my feelings and perceptions, I write poetry, I write lists, I record dreams, I write rough drafts of letters, I write prayers. On any particular morning, if my Morning Pages reaches the prescribed volume of three, I most always come to the place of gratitude. Gratitude subdues my complaints, my hurt feelings, my confusion, my pain, and my doubts.

In my writing, I also ask for Holy guidance. I ask and I ask, and I try to listen. Sometimes when I am very quiet, still, and open, I receive a gift, an insight, a new idea, knowledge of a different path, another option. With Joan’s gentle guidance, and ever-flowing

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A Letter From Rob Prestowitz, UrbanPromise Executive Director Dear Friend,

Last week, we buried two young men on back to back days. I’ve known them and their families for nearly 20 years. George was just shy of thirty and though he died of ‘natural’ causes, it was extremely premature. His death had far more to do with the stresses our kids experience than with nature. George’s good humor could light up a room. He’d held a solid job for eight years and I was so proud of what George had accomplished given what he had faced.

The other young man, Eli, was 22. He was murdered. Over the years I’ve been to many funerals like this. They always punch you in the gut. And they always give me a fire to do more, love more, persevere more. It’s life and death and we choose life.

I remember seeing Eli hanging with some of his boys on the East Side, maybe eight years ago. I rolled down my window and he came over to speak to me. I always appreciate when the youth do that, they don’t have to. I just shot the breeze with him, but I sensed a few things and they felt urgent. I spoke with the principal of our high school that day and asked him to

make a push to get Eli into the UrbanPromise Academy. I was certain that if we couldn’t get him an education, things would end badly. Despite our best efforts he did not enroll.

When I learned Eli had been murdered I remembered our conversation on the corner and the anxiety I felt . Now it had ended badly. Could I have done more for him and for George? The answer is always “Yes.” At UrbanPromise we will always strive for “Yes”.

Just today, I passed by my office to sign some checks, and there was Adam Spangler, our 5th and 6th grade teacher, tutoring 6th grader Ryan on overdue homework. Adam and Ryan were on Spring Break, but there he was helping Ryan.

“Ryan! What are you doing here on Spring Break vacation?” I asked, happy to see him so unexpectedly.

“Mr. Spangler is helping me catch up so I can improve my grades!” He said it so hopefully, full of real gratitude, like someone thrown a life line.

We’re just people, and we fail a lot, but I can say with gratitude that the staff at UrbanPromise absolutely pour themselves out to do everything we can to prevent things from ending badly. Adam is moving Ryan to “Yes” on his own time off, because he loves Ryan, he loves God, and he knows that God has placed him in the breach, and Adam will do everything he can to stand for Ryan.

When we lose the Eli’s we feel it. But I also know there are a lot more Ryan’s than Eli’s. I have no doubt that as you read this you feel just what I feel, loss and hope. You feel that because we are partners for “Yes.” Your gifts, your support, your prayers, and your love for our kids, our staff, for justice, for God -they give us the strength to stand in the breach and fight for “Yes.” We fight together. Thank you and God bless you.

Sincerely, Rob Prestowitz

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How Each of Us Can Help the Homeless in Our Community Many of you have recounted stories of seeing or meeting someone on the street who asks you for money — for help. As Christians, we want to help someone in need, but help someone in what we believe will be a constructive way. Following our May Urban Mission Committee meeting, Jim Carter sent the following email to members of the Joint Mission Committee.

At the last Urban Mission meeting I shared on the topic of the “homeless bags” which Polly and I make up and carry in our cars.

Last winter at one of the many Code Purple nights, I spoke with Bill Perkins about what we could give to the homeless folks standing in the median strips.

Bill was emphatic about NOT giving money unless we were interested in helping support drug and/or alcohol habits. He said that feeding them was the best action, but not very practical in the median strip before the traffic light turned green.

He suggested giving toiletries – items which have virtually no “street value” but that were useful and would be appreciated. Bear in mind that the homeless have access to day centers and shelters at night where they can shower and do laundry.

The homeless bag was born. These are not inexpensive, but we have cut the cost to the bone by shopping at the Dollar Tree on Miller Road by Home Depot or Dollar Tree on Silverside by Chuckie Cheese’s. I have managed to get the price down to slightly over $6.00 per bag.

Please note, it is important that items such as tooth brushes be individually wrapped – the homeless have had their share of problems and are wary when something was given to them by a stranger – there are many sick people out there.

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Staff Anniversaries Craig Checkel, Security (15 years in July)

Susan Alexander, Reception Area Supervisor (15 years in August)Thank you, Craig and Susan, for your years of faithful service, and congratulations

on your anniversary at Westminster! We are so blessed to have you!

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Obviously, one can make simpler and less expensive bags, or provide no toiletries at all – you could make up bags with granola bars or Lance crackers, anything. When these folks write on their cardboard signs – “anything will help” – they really mean it.

I have been asked by some cynics, “How often do these get thrown back at you?” Answer: has never happened, but I guess it could tomorrow.

I gave one of these to a man at the corner of 202 and Broom Street by Fulton Paper. I always tell them to take care of themselves, to be careful and wish them good luck. I gave him the bag as he trudged north past the cars – he thanked me and added the standard “God Bless You!” The light stayed red a little longer than usual for some unknown reason and he passed my truck on his way back to the end of the island. On his way back, he was inspecting the contents of the bag. As he passed, he thanked me again and added, “Thanks for seeing me as a real person.”.........a humbling experience.

Jim

You may have noticed on the table at church next to Susan Alexander’s desk this display. The cards are from Friendship House and they say: If life has hit a wall, We can help you. Call 302-482-2271.

These cards are for you to pick up and keep in your car, bag or coat pocket to give to someone in need who approaches you on the street. These cards are for you to use – please take several or more. Friendship House has walked with thousands of individuals and families to help them get back on a path of empowerment and self-sufficiency. This is one way we all can help those who are homeless or at risk of becoming homeless in our community.

All packed in a 1 gallon Zip Lock; contents and pricing, see photo:

Tooth brush – Colgate ($1.00) ............................................................. $1.00 Tooth brush case (4/$1.00) .................................................................. $0.25 Tooth paste – name brands, I buy is the largest tube ($1.00) ............ $1.00 Deodorant – name brands, Speed Stick, Axe, Sure ($1.00) ................ $1.00 Moist wipes – individually packed, we give 10 (20/$1.00)................. $0.50 Tissues (6/$1.00) .................................................................................. $0.16 Disposable twin blade razors (2) – Assured (10/$1.00) ..................... $0.20 Bar soap in a zip lock bag – Yardley (3/$1.00) ................................... $0.33 Shampoo – Head & Shoulders or Herbal Essence ($1.00) ................. $1.00 Comb (6/$1.00) ................................................................................... $0.16 Hand Sanitizer – Assured (3/$1.00) .................................................... $0.33 Chap Ice – Chap Stick knock off (3/$1.00) ......................................... $0.33 Friendship House card and Summer / Winter Weekend Survival Guide

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Flying Solo Activities for July and August We are a group of singles who meet to support each other through social activities and fellowship. All are welcome to join us, and we are always looking for new participants. Curious about Flying Solo? Contact Bill Kaye at billkaye3@verizon.net.

BrunchWe meet on the first and third Sunday of the month for brunch at 11:15 a.m. at Catherine Rooney’s on Delaware Avenue (yes, it’s open!). Upcoming brunch dates are July 1, July 15, August 5 and August 19.

Fireworks – 4th of JulyWe will have dinner first at Iron Hill Brewery on the Riverfront at 7:00 p.m., followed by watching fireworks. If possible, we will try to sit on the upper deck and watch the fireworks from there, or after dinner move outside to watch. RSVP to Nancy Colbert at colbert055@comcast.net by June 30.

Blue Rocks at Frawley Stadium – Friday, July 13RSVP to Bill Kaye by July 1. We have a tailgate before and after the game. Bring a lawn chair and food to share.

Friday Night Dinners – July 20, August 10 and August 24 (non brunch weekends)Let us know if you have any restaurant ideas. Contact cathylang36@yahoo.com for information.

Delaware Shakespeare Presents “Much Ado About Nothing” – Friday, July 27Rockwood Park at 7:00 p.m. Weather permitting. Shakespeare’s merry war of wits between the sexes. Come see Del Shakes Community Tour veteran J. Hernandez as Benedict and the Barrymore Award-winning Krista Apple as Beatrice in this joyous production with all-original music by Michael Hahn. Contact cathylang36@yahoo.com for information.

Wednesday Evening Concerts in Battery Park, Old New CastleConcerts from 6:30 – 8:00 p.m. Bring a lawn chair. Contact Margo Reign at margoreign@gmail.com if interested. July 18: The Jimmy’s 80s Tribute Band. August 8: Club Phred.

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Recent Deaths

Those Who Have Joined the Church TriumphantWe remember the families of those who recently died. We pray that they will be comforted

in their loss and be assured that their loved ones have joined God’s heavenly kingdom.

John P. Jessup April 28, 1948 – May 1, 2018

Betty P. Murchison September 9, 1925 – May 25, 2018

Frederick G. Alekel September 15, 1947 – June 2, 2018

Douglas M. Clarke (husband of member Ellen Clarke)

Died June 3, 2018

Frank M. Pickering July 10, 1924 – June 11, 2018

Jean B. Lewis October 27, 1922 – June 16, 2018

In Loving Memory

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Church Office Closings

The church office is closed on the following days in July and August:

• Wednesday, July 4• Fridays in July (except July 27

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ideas of how to approach journal writing, plus the wonderful people in my class, I believe I was healed by writing while inviting the Spirit into my process. I continue to write and fill notebooks with the workings of my heart and soul. And I am deeply grateful to Joan and her wisdom, and my very special classmates.

Think about it, you too may want to “Write to Heal.”

If so, here are some of the guidelines and information. You must be willing to make a commitment to the group, although we understand you may not be able to attend every week. Writing never has to be shared,

but discussions are often open and deep. Confidentiality must be observed. Joan, facilitator, has been keeping a journal for over 50 years and helping others do so for three decades though her business, “Write to Heal.” You may find out more about her work as a facilitator and author at www.joanleof.com.

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Time: Thursdays from 10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. | Place: Church Library | Fee: $15.00 weekly

Kindly contact Joan at (302) 584-4563 or joanleof@aol.com if you want to explore this further. She also offers private sessions if the timing doesn’t work for you.

Sunday Worship Schedule

Through August 26 (Summer Schedule) Service in Rodney Chapel at 8:15 a.m. Service in the sanctuary at 10:00 a.m.

September 2 One service in the sanctuary at 10:00 a.m. September 9 One service in the sanctuary at 10:00 a.m.

For a full schedule of all events and programs for children, youth, and adults on Sunday mornings and throughout the week, please check our up-to-date calendar at: calendar.wpc.org

13th Street Food Truck

Festival Save the date for our 2nd annual 13th Street Food Truck Festival scheduled for Sunday, September 9, at 11:00 a.m. We need volunteers to help make this event successful. Please contact Tara Hoopes at tara.hoopes@verizon.net if you are interested in helping.

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Pastors The Rev. Dr. Gregory K. JonesThe Rev. Sudie Niesen Thompson The Rev. Jill Getty

WPC Director of Marketing and Communications Nicole Hughes

Graphic Design by Trellist Marketing & Technology

Next Chimes Deadline: Monday, August 6, at 11:00 a.m. For the September 2018 Issue Submissions can be made at www.wpc.org/communications

Sunday, August 1911:00 a.m.Community Hall

Beat the heat! Scoop up your friends and family and join us for ice cream, fellowship and fun for the kids. It’s a great way to “chill out” and brighten up your summer day!