5 Toxic Texting Mistakes You Don’t Realize You’re

Making

Mistake #1: Revealing Your Feelings Too Soon

"Hey I think I'm starting to really like you“

This is a BIG no-no… and it might be pretty obvious, but if you send her this kind of text, you will shortly get the "let's just be friends" talk.

A (less obvious) variation: "had a great time with you last night, can't wait to see you again!"

This isn't as obvious as the previous text, but if yousend this to a girl too early in the relationship or"talking" phase, she's going to sense that you're too“HUNGRY” and it will push her away.

Mistake #2: Sending The “Checking in” “Nice Guy" Text

"hey how's your day going?"

or

“I hope you’re having a great weekend!”

These are the type of texts that have no purpose... other than to seek an "instant hit" of validation when she responds.

You might send this text when you keep thinking about a girl and you feel the urge to "check in" with her

However… whenever the girl picks up her phone and reads a text that doesn't strike emotions in her, it only lowers her intrigue for you…

Mistake #3: Being too Available For Her

Remember This: Those Who Look Hungry, NEVER Get Fed

In other words, don't jump at every opportunity you have to be available to her.

For example, you're out with your friends having fun on a Friday night. The girl you really like texts you "what are you doing?”

And then…

You naturally get excited and say to yourself "this is my big chance!"

...so you agree to drop what you're doing and respond to her message RIGHT AWAY, or you even leave your friends to go hang out with HER.

This is a big mistake guys make... which I've done plenty of times in the past…

And here’s why…

When a girl sends you “what are you doing?” on a Friday night, what she really is doing is TESTING YOU.

And she is wondering the following:

- How much does this guy like me?

- How quickly will he reply?

- Will he leave his friends and go hang out with me on a Friday night?

If you fail her test and do whatever she wants, what you're really saying is:

"I'm not doing anything as important as talking to you"

And once you suggest to a girl (who isn’t your girlfriend)… that she is too important to you… she senses that you have her on a PEDESTAL, and her attraction for you PLUMMETS.

Mistake #4: The “Trap” of Getting into Long Text Conversations

This is a HUGE mistake almost all guys have fallen into.

They get into LONG, drawn out conversations with a girl... and slowly… but surely… they text themselves into the FRIEND ZONE.

And let me tell you why…

See, when you’re texting a girl, and you’re not ESCALATING towards the next step… too much rapport will build up and sexual tension will EVAPORATE.

So always escalate towards the next step of getting a girl out.

Your goal in texting should be simple: Trigger her emotions, propose a meet-up, and get her out.

Mistake #5 Not Knowing How to Trigger Her Emotions

In the previous slides of this presentation… you probably read that you NEED to trigger a girl’s emotions if you want to get her interested in you…

Let me tell you a bit on how to do that…

Remember this… EMOTIONS = ATTENTION

So when you spark a girl’s (or anybody’s) emotions, you catch her attention… and she suddenly has YOU in her mind.

Girl doesn’t text back? Well, catch her attention enough, and she WILL text you back!

(By the way, this is the underlying principle of my 3 hook texts to text her back FREE cheat sheet)

Some examples of emotions you can create on a girl… to catch her attention... are

Laughter, Excitement, Curiosity, Suspense, and even some mild ANGER.

If a girl doesn’t text back, it is an extremely powerful tactic to use an EMOTION CREATING TEXT that COMPELS her to text you back…

Specifically, a CURIOSITY-creating text will do the trick (remember, curiosity is one of the emotions)

So I went on and created a PDF “cheat sheet” for you called the 3 types of hook texts to get her to text back…

How to Make a Girl Text You Back

3 Types of Hook Texts That Get Her to Text Back

it’s a Free PDF report, and you can click here to get it.

Go ahead and read it… I know you’ll get something useful from it.

Specifically, the texts on page 4 of the report have proven to be very effective in getting a girl to text you back.