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AAMETAUTUMN 2012
LIFEHE MAGAZINE OF THE ASSOCIATION FOR THE ADVANCEMENT OF MERIDIAN ENERGY TECHNIQ
EFT AROUND THE WOR
A Retreat i
RESEARCH
A Review of the Effectiveness
of EFT
DOSSIER 10-PAGE SPECIAL
CONFERENCE 2012
AAMET INTERNATIONALTHE VENUE:
Portuga
PLUS:SPECIAL EVENTS TO MAKE YOUR TIME EVEN MORE MEMORABLEThe Fabulous 4* Hotel Delta in Florence
EFTAT THE LONDON
2012 OLYMPICS
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Welcome!
Hi everyone
Im happy to welcome back our Life Magazine, packed with a
variety of empowering and inspirational articles and as an online
magazine, you can access it wherever you are in the world.
In this issue the spotlight is on our International Conference in
Florence, Italy and the hard work and preparations are paying
off as were now becoming very excited about the event. You can
connect with people from New Zealand, South Africa, USA, Turkey,
Norway, Australia, Mexico, Ireland, UK, Italy to name but a few
with more signing up every day.
You can sign up for a workshop on Matrix Re-imprinting, EFT Levels 1 & 2, Creat-
ing Wealth from the inside out, Tapping & Time Travel and The Healing Codes.
There will also be products on sale and the chance to win some fantastic prizes
including a Kindle. Sami Thorpe is offering free Qigong lessons and on the Saturday evening is our Gala Dinner
with entertainment. You can also take part in a wine tour of Tuscany. So dont leave it too late support your As-
sociation and meet with friends old and new.
Our new International status has helped us expand globally. We are recognised as the largest EFT Association
worldwide, providing access to a vast array of knowledge and expertise, not only in relation to EFT but help and
advice is available from our health care professionals and clinicians. Our new website will be launched end Octo-ber/early November and we will have a range of products, downloads etc on offer as well as a section dedicated
to EFT Research and healthcare professionals. We will also be reaching out to support groups and connecting
with innovators in the field of energy psychology with a view to forming a working partnership.
Were aware of members using EFT on celebrities, working as EFT volunteers in the community, appearing on
TV and radio talking on EFT. We have a member who has been given a grant to use EFT in the community and
another who is using it in the drugs community with great success. We want to convey this good news with other
members and the public. This is your magazine and we want to provide fresh and innovative ideas so why not
write for us? If you would like to write your story or if you would like to join as one of our regular contributors,
please contact [email protected] for more details.
Well, Ive done enough talking so I will let you read in peace and enjoy!Love and energy
Helena FoneAAMET International Chair
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Autumn 2012Contents
AAMET
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AAMET INTERNATIONAL CONFERENCE
Features
EFT AT LONDON 2012 OLYMPICS:
OLYMPIC ATHLETE BENEFITS
FROM EFT
INTERVIEW WITH A CELEBRITY:SOPRANO RACHEL COBB TELLS US
HOW SHE USES EFT
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ResearchEFT RESEARCH: A REVIEW OF THE
EFFECTIVENESS OF EFT
26
ArticlesSELF SABOTAGE: HOW TO BEFRIEND
YOUR INNER SABOTEUR
THE MEETING OF PARTS: HEALING
THE INTERNAL CONFLICT
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40
Dossier
THE TICKETS:ALL THE DETAILS
TO BOOK YOUR SEAT!
THE VENUE THE 4 STAR HOTEL
DELTA IN FLORENCE, ITALY
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24 THE PRESENTERS:INTRODUCING OUR
EXCITING LINE UP OF PRESENTERS
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8 EFT AROUND THE WORLD SERIE
A RETREAT IN PORTUGAL
Regulars
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Shannon was in an impossible situation. She had adream; she wanted to run her own therapy business. She
was passionate about this idea. She knew it was the direc-tion she wanted to go in her life.
Unfortunately, like many others she was caught in the
trap of needing to bring money in to live. She was in the
endless spiral of working with little to no time for herself
and her dream. She supported herself and did not have
the luxury of having the financial backing of a partner.
Her job involved working long hours, this left her very little
time and energy to forge forward. She just felt stuck as
firmly as if she was trapped in a cage!
During a filming session in Wales, Shannon volun-
teered for me to work on her using EFT. The energetic
shift occurred quickly. She felt the energy around her
change. By the end of the session Shannon saw her-self walking out of the company smiling. She finished
the session with an intense sense of knowing that she
was going to achieve her goal, she had no doubt at
all. She was ecstatic! She knew things had changed!
Things had changed alright, within about six weeks,
Shannon lost her job! But, she was not baulked by
that. She walked out of the company exactly as she
had imaged on the day we did the filming session,
smiling! Even as it happened she felt great.
Creating
Abundanceby making the
impossible...
Possible
by Tania A Prince EFT Master, NLP Trainer A complex situation,
Do you solve it using logic
or by modifying the Energy?
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The next day, she was offered a new
job, better hours and better pay.
The new job freed up some time
allowing her the space to develop
her business. An inevitable set of
circumstances had come into play
and Shannon was following with it.
It wasnt long before Shannon was
running her own successful therapy
business.
At the time of writing this article, I
gave Shannon a call to check where
she is now as this is several years
after that session. The last time we
spoke she told me she, couldnt be
happier, but that was a while ago. I
wanted to check her progress now.
Amazingly she said the same thing I
couldnt be happier. Her business is
going well.
The point I want to make is that if
you look at Shannons issue from
a logical point of view, it was near
impossible to solve. An amazing set
of circumstances needed to fall into
place. She literally needed to walk
into another job straight out of her
old one.
The new job had to have certain
criteria in it regarding the hours she
would be working, wages etc. Then
of course there is the set of things
that needed to happen for her to
end up with the therapy practice!
To try and plan that out would have
been difficult to achieve as there are
so many variables.
However from an energetic point of
view we only have to do one thing,
change the energy, the attraction
point.
Step back and tackle itenergetically
When we have do this the Law of
Attraction does the rest. The Law
of Attraction will draw to us those
things that resonate with us and the
opportunities etc.
Knowing this, it makes sense that
when you find yourself in a situation
such as Shannons (complex and dif-
ficult to resolve) rather than expend
tremendous energy trying to solve it
with logic, you step back and tackle
it energetically as your first choice
approach.
I would also add that when you think
about what you want, (with Shan-
non, she wanted to run her own
successful therapy practice), askyourself, what will having that do for
me? and if I had that right now, how
would that feel? Now all you have to
do is to get yourself out of the way
as Gary Craig so aptly put it, so that
you can have this feeling. Basically
you are putting yourself into a place
of allowing.
Get yourself out of the way
and just allow
There are various methods that you
can use to get yourself out of the
way, EFT being one of them. Inner
RePatterning is another.
Using Shannons case to highlight
what she needed to clear to get
herself out of the way, she had an
intense feeling of being trapped in
a cage. During the filmed session we
tapped this out until there was no
doubt within her that she would be
running her own successful therapy
business. She could feel herself hav-
ing it. (In my experience, even having
this one bright moment of being
in resonance with it, is enough to
create it I have had this experience
several times in my life!). Obviously
Shannon needed to take action
when the opportunities presented
themselves, but because she had got
herself out of the way, she could be
guided by her intuition and spot theopportunities as they arose and run
with them in a joyous way.
Inner RePatterning is another
energetic approach for creating
abundance. Inner RePatterning was
developed from EFT and inspired by
the work of Eckhart Tolle.
It is a mindful, heart centred, en-
ergetic approach that is solution
focused. It does not require analysis
or understanding the blocks that get
in our way.
Inner RePatterning comes
at this from a very different
angle.
We start the process by quietening
the conscious logical mind, creat-
ing a conduit to the state of pureawareness. Then we set an intention,
a goal for what we want to achieve.
The goal we want to achieve is in
energetic terms, one of the best
possible outcomes. Then we put our
awareness on what blocks us from
achieving this, such as the memo-
ries we hold, thoughts, programmes
that we run etc. We dont have to do
anything other than flow with the
process and accept whatever pops
up. We just get ourselves out of the
way and flow with the process hav-
ing set our intention (goal).
In Summary
If we want to create abundance in
our lives we should deal with it from
a purely energetic point of view.
Avoid trying to logic our problems
out by analysing and understanding
them. Many people understand and
have analyzed their issues and yet
still have them.
-Identify what you truly want by ask-ing yourself,
What will having that, do for me?
If I had that right now, how would
that feel?
-Then tap using either EFT or anapproach such as Inner RePatterning
to get yourself out of the way, into aplace of allowing.
-Take action when it intuitively feelsright
To find out more about training
courses on EFT and Inner RePat-
terning run by Tania go to
www.eft-courses.co.uk
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EFT around the world series
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featuring
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my Mum was my only close relative,
so I chose to stay in the UK. My cat
was of a nervous nature and I could
not envisage how I would get him
safely abroad.
In 2009 my Mother was diagnosed
and died of cancer in the space
of 6 weeks, as I watched her fade
away I knew what I had to do, live
the dreams she had never had the
courage to and decided I would find
a way to transport my cat, all was
underway when again very unex-
pectedly he too died, they had left
me free emotionally, physically andfinancially.
The idea of Portugal had been sewn
a few years earlier by a friend who
was thinking of moving there and
then I saw a TV programme which
featured Portugal and then every
time Id meet someone who had
been, they would say Youll like
Portugal.
AAMET InternationalRepresentative for
Portugal, Janet Broughton
gives us an insight into her
EFT journey, and living and
working in Portugal...
EFT around the world series
Iwas first introduced to EFTin 2004 a year after I had bro-
ken my back in a horse ridingaccident. I had begun practis-
ing yoga in 1998, and as my
yoga journey progressed it
opened up many new pos-
sibilities in the field of Energy
healing.
At the end of 2004, 14 months after
my accident, I walked with a stoop
and took pain killers like sweets,having been referred to the hospital
specialist I was told that this was the
best I could achieve.
However I dont take no for an
answer so I was keen to explore al-
ternatives to the recognised medical
profession.
With a mind open to the possibili-
ties I met an EFT Practitioner and in
4hrs I was walking straight and pain
free this was something I had to
explore and as a teacher it is always
my desire to share my knowledge.
Therefore over the next 4 yrs I be-
came an EFT Advance Practitioner
and Trainer, an NLP Practitioner, a
Life Coach, a Reiki Master Teacher,
Colour Psychologist and came full
circle and began to train as a DRU
Yoga Teacher, giving up my full time
job to practise full-time.
Since beginning yoga I had at-
tended a number of yoga retreats
in a number of warmer European
countries, and whilst I enjoyed them
I knew I could enhance the offers, as
my original training and career was
in Hotel Management, so I was often
heard to say One day Ill have my
own yoga retreat but not whilst
Ive got my Mum and my cat Im an
only child, single and childless, my
father having died 20 yrs previous
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Portuga
It has to be green or Im not going!
I therefore came and explored and chose central Portugal
as this is where the properties that met my criteria and
my price range, were situated. I was a little sceptical as
people often describe hot countries as beautiful whereas
I often find them barren, so as I journied with a friend Isaid It has to be green or Im not going - When I tell peo-
ple in Portugal they laugh as this is one of the greenest
places on earth complimented by the reddest earth and
the bluest sky a true paradise.
I arrived at the end of May 2011 having sold up in the UK,
my houses, car, and business and have become a Portu-
guese resident. I have established a business called Yoga
Retreats in Portugal and I provide EFT as a therapy and
training courses to local residents (expats and Portu-
guese) and to clients who come to stay at my retreat.
As an energy practitioner I combine my skills to achieve
the best outcome for my clients, so although the follow-
ing case study was a client who came for Life Coaching;
EFT, NLP, Colour Psychology, Reiki and Meditation all
featured. EFT being the dominant therapy, as I find it so
effective in removing the barriers to clients achieving
their goals.
In writing this article the question came up as to how cli-
ents in Portugal differed from those in the UK and I would
say that they fall into two catagories; one being expatsand the other being Portuguese nationals.
For Portuguese nationals all this work is new and innova-
tive, this is a country who experienced a revolution less
than 40 yrs ago and half of the people still live life as it
was before the revolution, working and living off the
land, some unable to read or write and without running
water.
Yet for those born after the revolution and especially
those living in Lisbon and its surroundings then they are
highly educated living in very modern housing with all
modern amenities and it is these young professionalswho I have found to be my market.
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They are excited by all these new ideas and are eager to
learn, and of course speak fluent English so I am able to
practise in my native tongue. It also means I can spread
the practise of EFT by training Practitioners so that a
country and a people I have grown to love can benefit
hence my role as AAMET Representative for Portugal.
These young professionals have all the same issues as
anywhere else in Europe, a more localised one being the
bringing together of their world and that of previous
generations, not unusual in the UK either but for all of
them there is a definite start date.
Amongst the expat community UK and Ireland, Dutch,
American and South African to name a few, I find that my
work is in layers.
On the surface to make such a life changing decision
- uprooting to live in another country, it would appear
that these people are proactive and positive, confident
and sorted! However scratch the surface and this is not
always the case.
When I made my decision, as an NLP Practitioner, I
recognised that one of the decision making internal
programmes I used many times was Towards/Away
and it was always Away, so that whilst looking over my
shoulder at what I wanted to get away from, I didnt look
where I was going and many a time went from frying pan
to fire.
This time however I was very much going towards. I was
leaving a beautiful home in a wonderful location, fan-
tastic friends, and family and an established business.
However I was motivated to follow my dream.
Once I began to get to know people here I found thatthe reasons people came to live here were mostly to get
away from a situation they could no longer tolerate but
forgetting they were bringing themselves with them, the
issue does not change because of location.
Many were onto 2nd or 3rd marriages, seeking a fresh
start and for others, one partner wants to make the move
and the other doesnt but in order as one person told me
to stay married they made a move not of their choos-
ing. As well as bringing your problems with you create a
few more!
EFT around the world series
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PortugaThe desire to return to central Portugal is understandable
it is a place of peace and tranquility, life moves at a slower
pace - the heat makes sure of that. Months of glorious
sunshine, you automatically have a smile on your face. The
Portuguese people are warm and friendly, everyone is your
neighbour, they share what little they have, this is a coun-
try in dire economic need, yet I am inundated with fruit,
vegetables and eggs.
Portugal is simply heaven!There is space to breathe, Portugal is the same size as the
UK with only a 1/6th of the people and if I hear anyone
say Im so busy its an expat, a Portuguese person would
barely know what you mean, lunch is 2 hrs, to both eat and
then rest. I have found that my Portuguese friends and I
learn from each other about our different cultures, we are
fascinated by each other and gain so much from our friend-
ship.
To bring DRU Yoga here is also new, as I am the only DRU
Yoga teacher in Portugal. DRU is soft and flowing perfectly
suited to the warmth of the Portuguese sun as the muscles
are warm and relaxed and move easily. I introduce EFT to
my DRU Yoga students both at my weekly classes and my
retreats guests. I raise awareness of the mind body con-
nection; that even a tight
muscle is due to an emotiona
imbalance. Yoga is all about
creating balance physically,
emotionally and mentally. I
have 2 areas of specialism
Pre-natal Yoga and Back Care.
With my pregnant ladies weuse EFT to deal with any fears
around giving birth and the
huge life change of becoming
a parent as well as any physi-
cal issues for example aching
legs or poor sleep patterns. When I work with individuals
for improving the health of their back I use EFT to deal with
the emotional aspects including both cause and effect.
My clients benefit from the range of techniques that I
practice so I can individually tailor a programme for them.
As a qualified teacher of many years I bring to my training
courses both expertise and passion for my subject. Provid-
ing courses as residentials in the beauty of central Portugal
allows me to pamper my students whilst they learn, veg-
etarian food straight from the land and a pool for a dip to
refresh yourself, or visit our nearby river beach of crystal
clear water known for its healing qualities.
Dates for Janets next EFT level 1& 2 Residential Courses
5th - 7th October 2012
www.yogaretreatsinportugal.com
Case StudyI was approached by this client after they attended an
EFT workshop I ran and the decsion was to have Life
Coaching. The client is early 40s, came with a partner
from the UK 2 yrs previously as a compromise as my
client wanted to live in France, the partner continued
working in UK coming to Portugal monthly, whilst my
client had a vague idea of working in a bar and livingin the sun, as many people find the reality is that this
soon becomes boring and for people like my client life
lacked any focus.
It became clear that my client knew it was time to not
only change the lifestyle and find a focus but to end
the relationship and this felt sad that the dream had
not succeeded.
The feeling of sadness was at a 7, so we started with
Even though I feel sad over the way things have
worked out I totally and completely love and ap-
preciate myself I tap along with the client and startto introduce positives Glad I gave it a go, I am brave
to face up to the reality, and after one round it came
down to a 4 and the word was no longer sad but nerv-
ous as now my client was going to be alone again and
it wont be easy.
We discussed the implications of making the changes
the nervousness rose to a 5/6 so we stated Even
though I accept that it is time to move on I am nerv-
ous and thats understandable and I totally and
completely love and appreciate myself. We completed
a round of tapping and my client said How can I sayits not easy when I havent done it yet and it was a 1
/ 2. I asked my client what was left and the reply was
still just a little nervous, so that is what we tapped on
and it came down to a 1. Now my client felt postitive
and was looking forward to the future there was just
a niggling doubt about whether these feelings would
be sustained after the session. So we tapped on Even
though Im not sure EFT will continue to work once
Ive left the session I love and appreciate myself. As
we worked round I introduced positives such as, EFT
has already worked for me and will continue to do so.
My client then said Its OK now.
This had been part of my clients 5th session of Life
Coaching and we had one more following it. My client
ended the relationship, orgainsed for the partner to
buy my client out of the house and set about applying
for jobs back in the Uk and was offered 3 in one week.
Where previously a job with long term prosepects had
been important my client took a fixed term contract,
rented a house to build up the cash to return to cen-
tral Portugal on my clients own terms.
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Hailed as ercely dra-matic (The London Times)
having presented one of the
best impersonations I have
seen (Opera Magazine)
and possessing a pure so-
prano [with] charm and fra-
gility (Classical Voice) and
real vocal thrust (Opera
News), American soprano
Rachel Cobb has earned
critical acclaim in the Unit-
ed States and Europe as a
total performer with incred-
ible dramatic intensity.
Past engagements for Ms.Cobb include Miss Jessel in Glyndebournes pro-
duction of The Turn of the Screw, as Mim for the Duluth Festival Opera, Op-
era on the James and in Opera Pacifics production of La Boheme, The Merry
Widow with Opera on the James, Cio-Cio San in Panama, Donna Anna in Don
Giovanni with Madison Opera and the Westfield Symphony, as Pallade Ath-
ena in Glucks Paride ed Elena with The Caramoor Festival, Fiordiligi in Cosi
fan tutte, Beauty in Gianninis Beauty and the Beast with Baltimore Opera and
Kitty Hart in the Opera Pacific production of Dead Man Walking.
Other notable roles in her repertoire include Rosalinde in Die Fledermaus,
Tatiana in Eugene Onegin, Nedda in Pagliacci, Marguerite in Faust, Micala inCarmen, and Countess in Le nozze di Figaro.
Ms. Cobb has also achieved success on the concert stage in appearances
with the Fairbanks Symphony in performances of the Verdi Requiem and in
Washington D.C. with Strauss Four Last Songs.
Ms. Cobb was a first prize winner of the Farwell Award in Chicago, a Licia
Albanese-Puccini Foundation International Vocal Competition Grant Winner,
and a two-time finalist in the highly esteemed Loren L. Zachary Competition.
image courtesy of www.rachelcobbsoprano.com
An interview
with critically
acclaimedsoprano
Rachel Cobb
about how sheuses EFT
by Marie Hollidaywww.eftspain.com
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THE INTERVIEW
MH Rachel, as a critically acclaimed soprano of USA and
Europe famed worldwide, when did you start singing ?
RC I started taking lessons when I was 14. I always knew
I wanted to sing, but I didnt know I wanted to be anopera singer until I started learning about classical and
opera music through voice lessons. I always wanted to be
an actor and singer and opera fit in perfectly with what I
enjoyed doing.
MH What are the highlights of your career ?
RC Singing at Glyndebourne Opera in a super cool new
production of Turn of the Screw in 2006 was amazing as
Glyndebourne in Surrey, UK is recognised globally as one
of the great opera houses in the world.
MHAs lead soprano in many famous operas do you have a
favourite and why ?
RC I have so many favourites but singing Donna Anna in
Don Giovanni is really the most fun for me because it fits
so well into my voice.
MH With a new baby and a busy mum, do you have to train
vocally each day ?
RC I do try, and I dont always succeed but I definitelykeep my voice in shape. In fact, I feel like I am singing
better than ever now.
MH You have used Emotional Freedom Techniques in the
past tell us how you discovered EFT ?
RC It was so long ago, I cant remember who turned me
onto it but I started probably back in 2002 or so.
MH What do you use EFT for personally ?RC I have used it for soooo many things... for help with
visualization, for recurring bad thoughts and thought
patterns, for accepting myself for who I am (instead of
what dress size I wear), for helping me learn new vocal
techniques faster... Ive probably used it for 100 different
things. I have also helped a LOT of students and friends
with stage fright using EFT, and for various other things -
even broken hearts, and fear of flying!
MH Do you find EFT works for you ?
RC It works!
MH You have used EFT with some young vocals would you
tell us a little about this ?
RC I use it most often to help people get over stage
fright with auditions. It works really really well for this.
First I talk to them about what is going through their
head during the audition that leads to the fright... often
it is some variation of not being good enough, or as good
as the other people... and we first talk it through - I always
tell them it doesnt matter how good you are! You just
have to be the best you can be. The best singer doesnt
always get the part, in fact, rarely! You have absolutely
no idea what they are looking for- could be a look, could
be a height or matching look they are looking for, if theopposite leading part is already cast. It could be some-
one who has just the one rare quality that you have- so
being the best doesnt even help you. Being you will
either get you the job or it wont because they are look-
ing for someone else, so no use sweating it! Then we talk
through some other aspects and then do EFT until the
10 becomes a 1 (you know what I am talking about!).
Usually happens pretty fast.
MH Will you be using EFT with your baby ?
RC I have used it for him for all kinds of problems and I
findit works, though not as fast as I would like. I did see
something today about how you need to do EFT on your-
self first if you are going to do it for someone very close
to you, so I will try that next time.
MH Have you any opera events planned for the future ?
RC Im just getting back into the opera world after stay-
ing home with my baby for a year. I have some concerts
planned and some contracts that arent signed so I cant
say yet! But, I am excited for the future of my singing!
Stay tuned!
Rachel, thank you so much for your time in what we know is
a busy schedule for sharing with us how you use EFT in your
everyday life and if anyone would like to look in on Rachels
website for future dates and venues her details can be found
here.
www.rachelcobbsoprano.com
Marie Holliday an AAMET Trainer of Trainers from Spain interviewed the world famous soprano
Rachel Cobb and how she has used EFT for many years
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you areThAAMET
InternationalConference
27th -28th October 2012
Florence, Italy
Contents
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The Workshops
The Tickets
The Venue
There are many of us
now doing fascinating
and important work
with EFT and op-
portunities like this tomeet and share, learn
and laugh together are
vital. I am so looking
forward to meeting
old and new friends in
Florence!Sue Beer EFT Master
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vited to...Greatest Show On
Earth
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The Venue
Fine furnishings and renaissance art combine the style and
modernity of the 4 star Hotel Delta Florence with the magical
and historical city itself just a short distance away
The perfect venue for AAMET Internationals first
International Conference
Please visit www.aametconferences.comfor more information on the special discounted rate that AAMET has
negotiated for conference delegates.
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otel Delta, Florence
a Vittorio Emanuele, 3-50041
alenzano (Florence), Italy
el. +39 055 8876302
ax +39 055 8874606
mail: [email protected]
ww.deltaorence.com
Please make sure you quote
AAMET Conference rate
when booking.
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The PresentersHelena Fone Sophia Cayer Jaqui Crooks Russell
Cunningham
Dr Liz Boath
AAMET Interna-tional ConferenceIntroductionfollowed by Q&A
Helena is Chair and
founder of AAMET In-
ternational. In addition
she is also a qualified
Psychotherapist, Hypno-
therapist and an AAMET
Trainer of the Trainers.
Helena will be opening
the event and will give
a short talk on how the
Association has grown
since it was reformed as
a voluntary organisation
and her visions for the
future. A 15mins Ques-
tion and Answer sessionwill follow.
TransformationalTrauma Tech-niques
An EFT Founding Master,
AAMET Trainer of Train-
ers and author, who has
dedicated more than 12
years to full time private
practice and teaching.
She specializes in the
area of relief of complex
traumas.
Sophia will share
Transformational Trauma
Techniques that address
the essential elements
of trauma required to
assure success. She will
provide information that
goes far beyond clearingevents, helping you
understand how trauma
memories are held in
the body and releas-
ing them, recognizing
and eliminating trauma
loops and more. Learn to
create the pathways to
freedom and establish-
ing positive life patterns
as traumas are cleared.
Surviving yourFamily
An EFT Founding Master,
whos used EFT for 13
years, Jaqui is passionate
about sharing her
groundbreaking EFTtechniques. Clearing
stuck family and ances-
tral patterns, people
become their powerful
selves.
The way we live today
is the result of 1000s of
years of coping strate-
gies, which have little
relevance for us, today.
The view we have of
ourselves and our worldis influenced by our
ancestors, where they
lived, what happened
to them. We can accept
that, thank them for
their part in our lives,
let go of recreating their
limiting beliefs and allow
ourselves to become
who we are, without the
strait jacket of the past.
Alpha Repattern-ing
Creator of Alpha Repat-
terning Russell is a
qualified NLP Master
and Trainer, TimeLine
Therapist, and Work-
place Assessor & Trainer.
He is Director of NLP for
Life and the Australian
Institute of Self Develop-
ment. EFT and Alpha
Repatterning - Release
your past, Enjoy your
Present and Attract the
future of your dreams.
EFTers know that EFT is
most effective when it is
specifically focused. The
challenge is that most
of our initial core issues
occurred before the age
of 7 and most of us have
little or no conscious
memory or these events.
Alpha Repatterning
enables us to not only
resolve these issues but
to align our unconscious
mind with our dreams
and goals.
EFT researchand evaluation:Tapping into theevidence base
Dr Liz Boath is a Reader
in Health, with consid-
erable health research
experience. Liz is an
advanced EFT and
Matrix Reimprinting
practitioner and has EFT
publications, including a
systematic review.
The need for quality
research and evaluation
is essential if EFT is to be
accepted as an evidence
based intervention for
psychological disorders.
This presentation will:provide an overview of
the existing evidence
base for EFT; highlight
the pros and cons of
current research; and
identify gaps in the
literature. Recom-
mendations for future
research and evaluation
will be highlighted and
discussed.
AAMET International embraces EFT and all aspects of Energy Psychology and we are excited to introduce ouexciting line up of conference speakers and workshop presenters including 6 EFT Masters and 4 Doctors thawill interest anyone in this eld of work. AAMET International is the largest EFT Association worldwide whos
aims and objectives is to promote the work of EFT and to fund EFT research, part of the proceeds from this conference will be going to the AAMET Research Team. Please visit www.aametconferences.com for more informa
tion on the venue, our speakers and workshop presenters or more importantly, to book your seat!
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Dr AnthonyStarkey
Sue Stone Sue Beer Dr Phil Mollon Sam Thorpe
Healing Codes
Dr.Anthony Sharkey is
a medical doctor of 30
years. He is an ordained
Buddhist, and has per-
sonally taught 2 - 3000
people how to meditate.
He helps his patients
utilize spiritual practice
for self healing.
What if EFT or other
Energy psychology
techniques arent work-
ing despite your best ef-
forts? The Healing Codes
are a new (2001) Energy
Medicine modality well
worth adding to your
toolbox. Like EFT it is
easy to learn. It uses 4 (2
of which were previouslyundiscovered) healing
centres on the body
which are activated
using your fingertips. It
does not work directly
on the meridian system
or the chakras. At the
end of the talk you will
be well oriented to do
the Healing Codes your-
self and for your clients.
Uncovering theRoots of Addic-tion
Sue is an EFT Founding
Master, international
trainer, presenter and
writer, with a busy pri-
vate practice in London.
She is the author of the
widely acclaimed book
Healing the Addicted
Heart: 5 Stages of Trans-
formation.
Everyone wants to feel
better, to find comfort
or fill the hole inside - I
am not ok as I am. Our
addictions can tempo-
rarily make us feel better,
and when we have lost
the way, may be our bestoption.
Sue will present and
demonstrate the power
of heart-based EFT, with
5 keys to transform
the wounded self and
release us from our need
to self medicate with
anything from repeated
thoughts and emotional
patterns to food, sex and
drugs.
Understandingthe CAUSE of ill-ness with META-Medicine
Using simple examples,
Sam will demonstrate
the specific cause of
common illnesses
such as back, neck and
shoulder pain, eczema
and the common cold.
The presentation will
walk people through the
basic principles of
METAMedicine diagno-
sis and empower them
with the knowledge and
understanding that ill-
ness is part of a process
and something CAN be
done to bring the bodyback to health.The body
is one big metaphor
communicating to us
what our beliefs and
perceptions mean in
terms of our health and
wellbeing. When you
know what the mes-
sage is, you can work
with the perception and
the belief to transform
illness and restore health
and wellbeing.Whetherfor your own health or
for greater impact with
clients, understanding
the cause of dis-ease will
transform your life.
Lung MeridianBreathing & Spin-ning the EnergyFields
Combining his back-
ground as a psycho-
analyst with his passion
for energy psychology,
Phil Mollon developed
the approach called
Psychoanalytic Energy
Psychotherapy. With
a core profession of
clinical psychology, Dr
Mollon has worked in
the British NHS for 35
years. He is the author of
ten professional books
on psychotherapy.
As energy psychology
has developed, from itsorigins in Applied Kinesi-
ology, practitioners have
continued to find ever
simpler and deeper ways
of working to assist cli-
ents in releasing trauma,
anxiety, and other forms
of distress and dysfunc-
tional patterns. Since
stress is always pat-
terned in the breathing,
Lung Meridian Breathing
[LMB]involves a position-ing of the fingers in the
relevant alarm points,
stimulating the release
of stress through allow-
ing the breathing to
do whatever it wants.
The result is a rapid and
extremely deep release
of distress. There are
many applications of this
procedure.
our Special Celeb-rity Speaker andstar of hit UK TVshow The SecretMillionaire
Sue was in a place of
desperation, fear and
facing many of the
problems life can throw
at you, but she made it
her mission to work on
herself and transform
her life.with amazing
results. Sue uses EFT and
the Law of Attraction
and will share her secrets
with you.
From just ten pounds
left in her purse to be-
coming a star in Channel
4s The Secret Millionaire,Sue Stone has created a
wonderfully happy life as
a highly successful busi-
ness lady and mother
of 3. A life Sue never
thought possible.
ndrea Fredi Logosynthesis: the magic of words
The power of words can transform thought-forms and re-
integrate the fragments of knowledge scattered in space-
time. Logosynthesis is an evolving, elegant and effective
method developed by Dr Willem Lammers which extends
the frontiers of energy techniques and amazes all who take
the time to learn it and experience it.
Andrea will present Logosynthesis in theory and practise
with demonstrations and exercises.
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Armando Pintus Monica Broad-foot Johnson
Dr Maria Paola
Sepiacci
Amanda Castello Judith RiveraRosso
Healing Codes
At the conference,
Armando Pintus will de-
scribe how his approach
to his work as a psy-
chologist has changed
enormously since he
began applying energy
psychology methodolo-
gies; how the time and
duration of treatments
have changed, as have
the treatment environ-
ments (from Business
Coach to the improve-
ment of sports perform-
ance to the treatment
of psychological and
psychosomatic prob-
lems with patients.) He
will provide specific
examples of applications
and their results and
will also discuss how
he addresses situations
where traditional EFT
is unsuccessful (using
a technique he calls
EFT del profondo and
EFT for evolution and
personal development,
which combines EFT,
NLP, Logosynthesis and
other energy psychologymethods).
EFT in schools &for test anxiety
Monica has a M.Ed in
Counseling and Guid-
ance, EFT Level 3 Practi-
tioner, NLP Level 1 Used
EFT in school for 6 years
for test anxiety, sports,
grief, trauma, learning
disabilities. Worked with
students, teachers and
parents. Monica is also a
National presenter.
This session will be two-
fold; 1. Many students
come to school with
extreme stress related
to their lives outside of
school. I will teach you
a protocol that will calm
your class in order to getmore learning accom-
plished. This protocol
respects the privacy of
the students and can
be taught to the whole
class at once. It will save
you much time at the
behavioral level. 2. You
will learn how to reduce
test anxiety, yours and
your students, by prac-
ticing this protocol in
our group session.
Emotions, illnessand healing
Surgeon, specialist in
strategic integrated
psychotherapy, derma-
tologist, homeopath,
acupuncturist, Advanced
NLP practitioner, Omega
NEI Health Coach and
Trainer, EFT Coach and
Trainer.
Emotions, Illness and
Healing. When an abnor-
mal or inapproapriate
reaction to a certain situ-
ation becomes chronic,
our normal physiological
responses transform,
creating an organic
pathology. By working
with the emotions, youcan activate the healing
process. The restructur-
ing methods of both
cognitive psychotherapy
and integrated strate-
gic therapy allow us to
interpret these situations
more functionally and
consequently, with less
emotional impact
EFT for palliativecare
Law graduate, Simonton
Foundation counsel-
lor trained by Carl
Simonton, EFT expert
in France, trained by
Genevive Gagos.
Specialised in pal-liative care training and
bereavement support.
In addition to individual
counselling, she lectures
and runs groups and
courses throughout Italy.
EFT is becoming an
ever more important
complementary tool for
healthcare professionals.
Amanda will illustrate
the value of EFT as atherapeutic support in
complex and sensitive
environments such as in
palliative care, accompa-
niment to the end of life
and in the bereavement
process. She will high-
light specific areas where
EFT can successfully
support the terminally
ill, the bereaved, and the
family over and above
the support provided byhealth professionals.
EFT for OtherLives: Past,Present & Future
Whether the concept
of past and future lives
is accepted as real or
imagined as fantasy, the
facts remain that it is
sometimes the energy
work done in connection
with real or symbolic
past life trauma that
brings resolution to
problems in this lifetime.
As Gary Craig wrote in an
early article concerning
his work with the past
life trauma of his client,
Sometimes we need
to go waaaaaay back to
resolve a problem.With
our EFT tapping tech-
niques, combined with
muscle testing and/or
dowsing, we are able to
fairly easily and often
quickly reach into the
distant past to help our
clients resolve persistent
present day problems
in much the same way
as we would help them
clear a recent trauma
they experienced lastweek.
Andrew Lewis - Tapping into the best medicine, Laughter
Andrew has been a practitioner of EFT since early 2004, having trained in person with Gary Craig, and is now
an international trainer of EFT. He also teaches yoga and has more recently become a teacher of Laughter Yoga
which he has creatively combined with tapping. When you can laugh about your own problems, or your client
is able to laugh during an EFT session, you know you are making good progress. Besides the fact that laughter
is the best medicine, as the research proves, and thus being therapeutic in its own right, laughing can be an
excellent pattern interrupt and can stop a cycle of negative thoughts/feelings in its tracks. Combining laughter
therapy with EFT can considerably speed the healing process and its fun great fun too.
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Karl Dawson EFT Master, Creator of Matrix Reimprinting and Hay House Author
Matrix Reimprinting is a collection of new cutting-edge techniques created by EFT Master
Karl Dawson. They combine EFT with understandings from the new biology, epigenetic and
quantum science, to create RAPID personal change. Workshop dates: October 29/30/31&1st
Nov- 4 day training costs full price 470.00 GBP /early bird 390.00 & 2 day training costs full
price 310.00/early bird 270.00. Please visit www.aametconferences.com to register.
The Workshops
Who would you be without fear of the future or regret for the past? Would you like to find
out? Heal emotional patterns, end self-judgement, limiting beliefs, and addictive behaviours.Begin loving yourself, others and the world.Lighten Up! Friday 26th October One Day work-
shop 10 till 5 pm costs 95 GBP Please visit www.aametconferences.com to register.
The workshop offers you the opportunity to get hands-on, practical experience of a range
of practical tapping and other techniques to start moving you, your mind, your energy and
your clients in the direction of success.You will leave having practiced a range of new andunique techniques to propel you forward. Workshop dates: 25th - 26th October costs full
price 310.00 GBP...early bird 270.00 Please visit www.aametconferences.com to register.
The workshop will consist of some theoretical introduction of the healing codes, some im-
portant differences between it and EFT and then lots of practice in the group so that by the
end of it you will be well orientated to share the Healing Codes with your clients. Monday
29th 2pm - 4pm (2 hr Workshop) Cost 40 Euros Please visit www.aametconferences.com to
register.
An Energy Psychotherapist and AAMET Trainer, Nancy has taught EFT since 1996. She is pas-
sionate about providing a solid foundation in the beginning skills needed to become an EFT
Practitioner.This AAMET approved 3 day course is designed to give participants basic skills
and practical experience in foundational techniques as well as advanced skills in the meridi-
an-based healing modality, Emotional Freedom Techniques. Dates: 24th, 25th, 26th October
- 10 am - 5 pm - Cost 290 euros Please visit www.aametconferences.com to book.
Nancy Gnecco, AAMET PRACTITIONER TRAINING IN EFT LEVELS 1 & 2
Dr. Anthony Sharkey, An Intoduction to the Healing Code
Bennie Naude, Creating Wealth from the Inside out
Emma Roberts, Tapping and Time Travel
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et ready for The Greatest Show on Earth
The question oneveryones lips is, Have
you reserved your ring-
side seats yet? Not had
a chance? Well, tickets
are at a premium and
are selling fast. You
dont want to miss the
iconic, World renowned
peakers that AAMET International has lined up for you.
eldom have you had so many talented and skilled ener-sts presenting at the same conference. Whats more,
here will be opportunity for you to register for several
re and post- conference workshops where you can meet,
hare ideas and network with fellow EFT practitioners,
orldwide. All- in- all, it promises to be an unforgettable
vent. Miss it and you will regret it!
You have 2 choices for winetasting tours!Join us for an extremely interestingTuscan wine tasting tour - you havea choice of 2, and taste all the typicalwines from the most famous regionsaround Tuscany.
Visit www.aametconferences.com formore details or to book.
Special Events to make your experience even morememorable ...
Your ticket awaits...
Join Us at our Special Gala DinnCost 32 GBP
Book your place when registering. For menu det
and to book visit www.aametconferences.com
200 Standard price(applies to all after 31st July 2012)
Tickets priced in GBP due to our payment software
Please mention if you are AAMET member when you b
your ticket.
These prices includes full buffet lunch both Saturday a
Sunday plus mid-morning and mid afternoon tea / coff
refreshment breaks., plus attending the 2 days listenin
all the speakers
Not included: your accomodation costs, gala dinner tic
pre & post conference workshops, registration fees.
Registration deadline: 15th October 2012
To book your tickets for this event and any workshops
wish to attend please visit our website
www.aametconferences.com
Morning Health Qigong Practice 7.00- 7.30am
Free to all, no experience required. Begin your daywith 2,500 year old practice of Ba Duan Jin (8 Excel-lent Exercises) Qigong.
These gentle and beautiful stretching exercises bal-ance body mind and spirit, opening up the merid-ian system to universal energy. Release blockagesand tension and supercharge your system for theday with this relaxing and exhilarating movingmeditation. To see Sami doing Ba Duan Jin on theGreat Wall of China, visit
www.brightonhealthqigong.com
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Lets take acloser look
at EFT
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EFT research
Dr Liz Boath, Prof Tony Stewart and Angela Carryer have pub-
lished a narrative systematic review of EFT.This narrative systematic review identified and assessed the
quality of all published randomised controlled trials (RCTs) of
EFT in order to:
evaluate the effectiveness of EFT in treating a range of psy-
chological disorders
to compare the effectiveness of EFT with other interven-
tions used for treating those disorders.
EFT was shown to be effective in treating Post Traumatic Stress
Disorder ( PTSD), fibromyalgia, phobias, test anxiety and athleticperformance.
EFT was shown to be superior to diaphragmatic breathing (DB),
Progressive Muscular Relaxation (PMR), an inspirational lecture
and a Support Group. Only Eye Movement, Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) was superior
to EFT.
Given the methodological limitation of these RCTs, further good quality research on EFT is warrant-
ed. For a full copy of this review please go to:
http://www.staffs.ac.uk/faculties/health/research/cpsi/areas_of_focus.jsp
Dr Liz Boath, Prof Tony Stewart and Angela Carryer from Staffordshire university have published
a qualitative and quantitative article on EFT for presentation anxiety in Innovative Practice in
Higher Education. The research shows that 15 minutes of EFT led to a significant reduction in SUDS
(p=0.002) and on the Hospital Anxiety and Depression Scale (HAD; p = 0.048) and the HAD AnxietySubscale (p=0.037). There was no significant difference in the HAD depression Subscale (p=0.719).
Immediately following their presentation, the students were invited to take part in a brief face to
face interview to explore their use of and feelings about EFT.
The qualitative data revealed three themes: nerves, novelty and the practical application of EFT.
The results suggest that EFT may be a useful addition to curricula for courses that include oral pres-
entations. For a full copy of the article go to:
A narrative systematic review of the effectiveness of
Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)
Dr Liz Boath
EFT in reducing Presentation Expression Anxiety
Syndrome (PEAS) in University students
http://journals.staffs.ac.uk/index.php/ipihe
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1. All problems were once solutions. The problem wasdeveloped in response to some event. So, in EFT, we look
for what caused the problem. If I dont make enough
money is the problem, and that is really a solution, thenwhat is the REAL problem? Maybe its I have to work too
hard to make money so youd find where you learned that
and tap with that. If you are overweight, what could being
overweight be protecting you from? If you arent getting
enough clients, what negative thing would happen if you
did get more clients?
2. Working with the disruption of the energy that causesnegative emotion is sometimes not enough. Many times,
we need new resources. If procrastination is the problem
and its solved, what do I do when Im overwhelmed or I
dont like what Im supposed to do? If my back problemgoes away, then my disability supplement goes away.
3. The subconscious mind reacts according to specificrules it has learned, even if those rules are out of date. Even
today, we are reacting to what we learned long ago. Work-
ing with where we learned those rules, those specific core
events, works wonderfully and the Generalization Effect, or
Gary Craigs forest, comes tumbling down.
4. Watching live demos and being able to ask questions isextremely helpful. One attendee gave the example of see-
ing/witnessing your work with the demo and the simplebut profound (when it comes to trauma) technique of go-
ing to the end of the story and doing tapping work on that
first...then going back to the event from the beginning and
doing whatever EFT work after some healing took place to
prepare and resource them was invaluable.
5. Many events are related-like a beavers log dam. Youcan work on the recent ones which are like the top of the
dam. But getting to the logs at the bottom of the dam the
earlier or even childhood events where the original learn-
ing occurred brings the issue dam down sooner, just like
EFT Demonstration in Florida
Top Ten EFT
Learnings in
a WorkshopAAMET Certified EFT Trainer, Karin
Davidson asked her AAMET Level 3
attendees what were the most useful
things they learned...
pulling the bottom logs out first. And sometimes they can
be more stubborn because of all the similar and reinforcing
events on top of them.
6. Its all just feedback. Dont take it personally. If you aretruly centered on the client, you can ask the client clarifying
questions without leading them. There is no wrong, just
feedback.
7. Confidence comes from trusting EFT and knowing yourlimits. If EFT is not working, then we havent gotten to the
bottom of it yet. Theres something else there. Keep at it.
Dont think you are doing something wrong. Theres noth-
ing wrong with NOT being an expert on everything. Keep
learning. Just dont go where you dont belong.
8. Trust what you do know, find out more when you dont.You wouldnt be tapping with someone if you didnt believe
it could help them. Keep studying so you can learn more.
Rely on the basics, they always work. Its OK to tap with
people while youre learning as long as you are honest with
them. No one will ever be perfect. See number 7.
9. Continuous tapping during the entire session can be ex-tremely helpful. Making the OK sign with you finger and
thumb like an O, and then moving your thumb on top of
your index finger so its pressing on the index finger point is
non-invasive. Tapping, pressing or rubbing that point while
the client is talking - in between the actual EFT tapping
rounds - is simple, easy and useful.
10. Community. Sometimes EFT is just too weird forfriends and family. Spending time with other EFT enthu-
siasts is great. From an attendee: It was wonderful to
participate in a workshop with others interested in and
working in the energy field, learning with and from them.
Karin Davidson can be reached at:
[email protected] www.howtotap.com
Insights
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Self Sabotage:How to Befr
your Inner Saboteur
Article
by Mayan Schraders
Mayan Schraders passion has always been to help peopleexpress the essence of who they really are. Originally from The
Netherlands, where she trained as a creative therapist, she emi-
grated to New Zealand in her early twenties. She has been working as a psychotherapist, men-
tor, clinical supervisor, spiritual director, trainer and coach for the past 20 years. She is also an
artist and brings a depth of both personal and professional experience to her work.
The following article is based on her presentation at the Wellington, New Zealand EFT Conference in 2011
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It is my belief that we are much morecapable, creative and expressive than we
allow ourselves to be. Helping people
embrace their more expressed self is my
passion. And it is always a journey. When-
ever we step outside our comfort zone, our
inner saboteur is ready for action. This is not
because we want to trip ourselves up; ratherit has to do with our hardwiring for safety
and survival of the species. Anything that
feels new or strange will subconsciously be
experienced as a threat.
If we can understand how our inner sabo-
teur works we can learn to work with it.
Here are some things I have learned about
self-sabotage: Our subconscious mind proc-
esses 20 million environmental stimuli per
second. Our conscious mind just 40. (Relax
and grow Rich, by Michael Hutcheson andClaire Wadey .)
We respond to stimuli, whether they are
conscious or subconscious. This means that
we often respond without either knowing
it or without knowing why we respond in a
certain way. Another way of putting it is: 5%
of us is conscious and 95% of us is subcon-
scious.
Our inner saboteur springs from our sub-
conscious. It is the job of the subconscious
to protect us from harm. Our subconsciousdoes not differentiate between a physical,
emotional, mental or spiritual threat. The
response will be the same: protect!
Also the subconscious doesnt differentiate
between the past and the present or future. The physi-
ological responses are the same.
An example: Your conscious (5%) choice is to writean article about your work. Logically, this seems to
be a good idea because it will get you more visible
in the professional arena, which may lead to morework. It will also sharpen your own thinking on this
topic in the process.
Three months later you havent done anything. Why?
Your subconscious (95%) says: What!? Are you
crazy?! People might not agree with what you say,
they might think you dont know what youre talking
about, or they might laugh at you. No way are you
going to do that!
Our subconscious is wired to protect us
All of us have a collection of experiences in which we
have felt humiliated or not good enough, starting from
our early childhood. Our subconscious is wired to protect
us from further hurt, in this case by undermining our con-
scious goal of writing this article. We might be shamed
again and the subconscious is doing everything it can to
prevent that from happening.
If you look at our evolution, we started with a reptilian
or primitive brain which has all the hardware for oursurvival. It is hardwired for the survival of the species. Its
from our primitive brain that our fight, flight or freeze
response is triggered. Its from here that we know when
were hungry or cold. As we evolved, so have different
parts of our brain, creating different layers on top of the
primitive brain.
Even though we have come a very long way in learning
how the brain functions, we still dont know which areas
actually contain the conscious mind, other than the neo-
cortex; the thin layer of brain tissue behind the forehead.
You could picture a stimulus reaching the brain from thebottom up, first the primitive brain, then the other parts
of the brain and finally the neo-cortex. Experiments have
shown that the neo-cortex can be the last neural area to
know when a decision is made: the other, more primitive
areas of the brain, may have already dealt with the issue.
Here is an example of how your subconscious can affect
you, without any conscious awareness.
Imagine youre walking along on a nice sunny day, feel-
ing great and all of a sudden you dont feel so good, but
you dont know why. Youve responded emotionally to
a stimulus which was noticed by your subconscious butnot your conscious awareness. Someone has just walked
by wearing exactly the same t-shirt as your friend. As it
happens you are having some conflict with your friend at
the moment. This instantly triggered feelings of conflict
and sadness, without conscious awareness.
The language of the subconscious includes images,
smells, sounds, associations and body sensations. For us
to communicate with
our subconscious
more effectively we
need to use the rightlanguage.
Dr Bruce Lipton , a cel
biologist, has written
about his research
and how it has com-
pletely changed his
view of life. His book,
The Biology of Belief
is well worth a read.
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Article: Self Sabotage
Bruce was interviewed for the EFT Tapping World
Summit 2011. He says that during the second half
of the pregnancy and the first six years of life our
brains are functioning at theta level, which means
we are basically in a hypnotic trance. This means
that everything that we experience during that time
just goes into our brain, without any discernment. A
lot of these experiences will sit in our subconscious,
because our contextual memory doesnt startfunctioning until we are about three years old. It is
during these early years of life that we also develop
our core beliefs.
Our core beliefs are beliefs about ourselves and how
we fit in the world. By the time we are three we usu-
ally already have these beliefs in place, despite the
fact that we are unable to have abstract thought at
that age. Our beliefs form through repetitive expe-
riences and our need to take meaning from those
experiences. Core beliefs, together with other early
life experiences, form the foundation of who we aretoday.
There are a small number of core beliefs which
come in a million flavours. They are varieties of: Im
not good enough (and no matter what I do I will
never be), Im not deserving, Im not lovable, the
world is not safe, and I dont belong.
Later in life we continue to make decisions and
choices based on this early input, which is primarily
stored in our subconscious. The result is that, sub-
consciously, our six year old self can end up making
crucial life decisions.
It is essential - in my mind - to uncover the core
beliefs and work with them. We cant work with that
which is out of consciousness so we need to find
ways to make the subconscious conscious.
And EFT is the perfect tool for this, and is also one of
the few techniques that have an impact on our hard
wiring.
It is also important to know a bit more about our
emotions. Our emotional response is many times
faster than our thinking response. That makes sensewhen you remember about the stimuli processed
by our subconscious. We have on average of 40- 50
emotions per hour.
The physiology of emotions is well explained by Dr
Candace Pert in her book Molecules of Emotion .
We can use our emotions as our individualised and
sensitive guidance system, as they provide us with
acute internal and external feedback. If the emotion
is intense say over an 8 on the SUDS it will be
very difficult to even engage our logical thinking.
How can we befriend our inner saboteur?Our inner saboteur is by nature outside our awareness.
Therefore we need to gather more information by doing
some detective work. We can increase our awareness and
catch our inner dialogue. What are we telling ourselves? Do
we repeatedly say the same (negative) thing to ourselves,
without previously noticing?
I remember a time when life was challenging, and at one
point I realised that I was repeatedly saying to myself: Lifeis like pushing an elephant
uphill. Say that often
enough and it becomes
a belief, which I will then
continue to find evidence
for. If I have another saying
such as: Easy is good, Im
much more likely to attract
ease into my life, as Ill be
finding evidence for that
belief. Remember a belief
is just a thought that has
been repeated often.
We all have limiting beliefs.
They too can be out of our awareness. Notice your judge-
ments of others, as they often are expressions of a limiting
belief we hold.
See if you can spot incongruences between what you ver-
balise and what you feel.
Ask yourself probing questions or complete these state-
ments to get more insight into your subconscious process:
I will be successful when..
I will be happy when.
The only way for me to achieve what I want is..
The reason why Im not there yet is.
The downside of being successful/healthy/happy is.
Instead of getting frustrated with ourselves when we self-
sabotage, we can view it as a cue indicating that we are
stepping outside our comfort zone, trying something new.
For instance, in weight loss it is very common for people
to have a certain weight that they just cant get below. As
soon as they get to this weight they put more weight back
on. Realising that this is a challenge because youre step-
ping outside your comfort zone is the first positive step to
overcoming this problem. If you tap for this comfort zone
problem, youll make it possible to create a new comfort
zone, and you might uncover some subconscious experi-
ence related to this weight, which you can then clear as
well.
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EFT at the
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AAMET Trainer,
Carey Mannuses EFT on
London 2012Olympic Athlete,
Abi Oyepitan
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I had an Achilles injury and was finding it difficult to m
forward I literally couldnt even run at all after the oper
My coach told me about Carey and I thought that I wou
it a try, as I had nothing to lose. During the first session
pain in my Achilles seemed to just release and Carey has
shown me how to use tapping technique for pain relief. I
seen a real benefit with the level of pain Ive felt in my Ac
during training. I think the negative feeling that I was ass
ing with my Achilles definitely made the pain worse. I re
that the injury was definitely linked to emotional issues.
have dealt with the issues, I am pain-free Abi Oyep
Having mastered her own pain, Carey believes that everyone deserves to be pain-free, and is therefore devoting her life to helping
ers in the areas of chronic pain and injury. She runs a busy clinic at Londons Harley Street and Liverpool Street and has been featur
many media outlets such as The Sun, Daily Express, Sweet Magazine, Health & Fitness Magazine, a TV pilot called The Food Magic
and a Channel 4 show entitled The Wager. Carey is the go-see person for many celebrities, sports professionals and world-class ath
She is looking forward to the future and helping people to transform chronic pain and injury into physical freedom. For more deta
Careys work or to contact her, please visit her blog, http://careymann.wordpress.com/ or her new website www.careymann.co
Further News:AAMET Trainers at the Olympics
AAMET EFT Trainer & Advanced Practitioner, Carey Mann
Abi Oyepitan came to see me in 2010 after suffering an injury in 2004 which halted
her career. Abi and I started using EFT and within 15 minutes the condition of her
injury had changed. She had no pain when rotating her ankle, and no stiffness.
We then tested the work on a running track as Abi needed to be able to run so that
she could start training again (something that she hadnt been able to do since her
operation), where she eventually ran free from any pain, tightness or stiffness. Abi
continued to use the tapping along with her usual rehabilitation programme and
later in 2010 she made a winning comeback securing gold and silver medals.
As she has done amazingly well in the London 2012 Olympic trials, I wanted to takethe opportunity to find out more about her experience of EFT, and how it helped
her rehabilitation from chronic injury to Olympic status.
After the interview she mentioned that she had been to the hospital to get a scan
as she was experiencing pain in her shoulder. We did a few minutes of tapping.
Click the link below to see what happened...
http://youtu.be/gOIdDqkdbTE
AAMET Trainer, Peter Donn and his wife Tamara took part in
the amazing Olympic Opening Ceremony. Read all about it:
http://www.watfordobserver.co.uk/news/9808608.Kings_Langley_couple_to_take_
part_in_Olympic_opening_ceremony/
AAMET Life Magazine editor, Kay Gires London 2012
Olympic experience included meeting her Olympic hero,
Mark Foster and the opportunity to hold an Olympic torch!
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EFT in Sport: competitive horse riding
EFTis so powerful for dissolvingemotional blocks and letting us do our
deep work that we may overlook its suit-
ability as a simple relaxation technique to
help us achieve Peak Performance.
Id like to share a recent example, using EFT with a
group of horseback riders who were preparing for a
Hunter-Jumper show.
I met with these riders in a group while they were
doing a week-long riding clinic, and gave them a
15-minute introduction to EFT and how to use it.
The group was all-female and included youth and
adult riders of varying experience and skill levels.
Some had received EFT instruction from me before,
and others were new to it. A few of them were prac-ticing to ride in a show four days later.
I asked the group for one example of a problem a
rider was having in the clinic. One young rider, rid-
ing a lesson horse that can be notoriously stubborn,
volunteered, I cant keep Blue from diving in off the
rail (meaning, trying to trot in to the center of the
arena instead of following the fence around.) I asked
her how she felt when that happened, and she said
Frustrated. Excellent example, which I used to teach
the group how to tap.
We tapped on Even though I cant keep Blue fromdiving in and it makes me frustrated, Im a great
rider. Given that there were several youngsters, I
chose this closing phrase rather than I deeply and
completely accept myself. We did not use a SUDS
level to check this statement; I was going for a more
generalized, group experience with these riders.
I had everyone check their body sensations after the
round, and they each noticed some degree of relaxa-
tion.
As the class resumed, I also took a couple of the
riders aside to show them how to tap while in the
saddle. For horseback riders, EFT is a great modality
because they can use it while mounted. (The riders
safety comes first; the horse needs to be calm and
still, the rider needs to have a hand on the reins, and
there should also be a person on the ground to give
a hand if the horse does become restless.)
While working, I periodically looked for Blue, the
problem lesson horse, and noticed that things
seemed to be going well.
After about half an hour, I checked in with Blues young rider
for her perspective, and she reported that she was having no
trouble keeping him on the rail. She also jumped him suc-
cessfully as the class proceeded to practice their jumps.
I then showed the riders two tapping points for the horsesthat often produce calm; different horses prefer different
points. One point is on the horses forehead, roughly where
the sworl of hair is, or what we think of the third eye spot;
the second is on the horses upper lip, between the nostrils
or about an inch lower (the exact spot depends on the horse,
some horses will lip your fingers if youre too close to the
mouth, but will respond well to tapping higher on the nostrils
This was all the work I did with these riders in their clinic.
Four days later, I attended the show to give a hand with the
tapping for those who needed it. Two youth riders and two
adult riders used EFT in real-time between rounds, to improvetheir performance. Each used it while mounted, either with
me or with their trainer/instructor. The trainer and I watched
the rounds, and worked with the riders on specific elements
and the results from the show were as follows:
Sarah, a youth rider, was nervous in her first class, and it affected
her performance and her placing. She had been tapping on
generally doing well, but after placing last in the first class, she
and her trainer then focused the EFT technique. They narrowed
it from working on generally doing well in the show to the ele-
ments she needed to improve. Sarah went on to win a first place
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There are several significant takeaways for amateur com-
petition from this example:
EFT was taught mechanically, and applied only to execut-
ing specific skills
We did not work on any emotional issues, and we narrowly
defined our desired outcomes: Keeping Blue on the rail, or
Improving my two-point
At the show, we kept the rounds short and we kept them funTheir trainer/instructor reinforced this tool, tapping with
them or asking me to do so, and encouraging them to tap
with each other. This helps give it credibility to the rider,
who can then use it openly and with the assistance of team-
mates as part of her tool-kit
Although the riders themselves knew they improved, the
results and judges comments also provided an objective
measure of how the EFT had helped
An added bonus for riders is that horses look for coher-
ence in humans; that is, when biological systems such
as brainwaves and heart rhythms become regular andsynchronized. This gives a focused and relaxed energy
that the horse, a prey animal expert at picking up on
energy states, responds to. The horse can then also relax
and access its own skills, and the team of horse and rider
reinforces one another positively.
Thus, the use of EFT with easily-quantifiable goals and a
focus on relaxation and skill-execution helps both horse
and rider.
These results can be generalized to any sport or hobby.
For amateur competitors, the relaxing and focusing
aspects of EFT may be all they need to allow them to
access the skills they have practiced at home and accom-
plish their goals.
Article by Ange Dickson
Finn, an AAMET-certi-
fied Level 2 EFT Prac-
titioner. She is based
in the Houston, Texas,
USA, and works withclients over the phone
and via Skype. Ange
has helped clients with
issues including physical pain, health and well-being,
work-related stress, equestrian sports and relationships.
Visit her on the web at www.TapIntoYourself.com or
www.RideWithoutFear.com. Contact her via email at
in her more-difficult canter
flat class, executing her
skills solidly.
Emma, a youth rider mov-
ing up to Maiden Riders
Division, wasnt as relaxed
and solid as she needed to
be in her first rounds. Her
horse refused a fence, and
rushed a few others, due to
Emmas nervousness on the
more challenging course.
Her trainer zeroed in on her
two-point position, (the
position a rider takes when
going over a fence) and
told Emma that she was
not getting into two-point
which was affecting herjumping. Before her last
class, Emma and I tapped
two rounds specifically on
her two-point position; in
her last class, her two-point
position was solid and
her jumps were clean. She won Reserve Champion for the
division, and the judge specifically complimented her two-
point position in the last round.
Helen, an adult beginning rider riding in her first show,
placed last in her first class, struggling with an understand-able case of nerves. To add to Helens challenges at her first
show, she is from Russia and has only been in the US a short
time. Her inexperience on horseback, language barriers,
and show nerves gave her a lot to overcome. Between her
first and second round she used her EFT skills, conquered
her nerves, and finished 3d in the most challenging class of
her division, the ridden pattern equitation class.
The judges comment to the trainer/instructor on these
riders: All of your students rides got better as they went
along. This is significant because riders and/or horses
often become tired as the show goes on. Either the rider or
the horse, or both, are likely to become less organized and
less focused toward the end of the day than they were at
the beginning. To see a consistent pattern of improvement
among a group of riders of different ages is rare, and a
significant outcome.
The trainer commented that EFT kept all her riders focused.
Each of the EFT rounds used during the show was done in
less than five minutes, while the riders were mounted. The
riders had fun using their tapping skills!
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The
Meetingof Parts
Healing theInternal
Conflict
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In my practice as a psychotherapist andEFT practitioner, I make extensive use of the
Parts process, based on the NLP model of
Six Step Reframe and significantly expanded
and developed by Fran Burgess www.nlpand.
co.uk in the approach she named Personality
Alignment.
Whilst helping a client to meet and communi-cate with their own Personality, Parts can be
successfully done through talk therapy alone.
I find that adding EFT to this approach signifi-
cantly enhances and speeds up the process of
alignment and internal peace-making.
When trying to make changes in your life, you
may have heard yourself say something like,
One part of me really wants to be healthier
and go to the gym, but another part just
wants to sit in front of the TV eating crisps, or
Its like I have an angel on one shoulder and adevil on another, or Ive been really good all
week, but today Ive been really naughty, or
simply I feel torn between...
Metaphorically, you can think of your overall
personality as a team of workers, all striving
towards better health, wellbeing and success
of the whole system, the organisation you!
The problem arises when some