agudas chai lites · 11/11/2011 · and around the synagogue. thanks again to steve and judith...
TRANSCRIPT
As I wrote at this
time last year, No-
vember often over-
laps with the He-
brew month of
Cheshvan. The only
month in our calen-
dar that, other than
Shabbat, has no other holidays. Our
scheduled time to come together has
to be found in other ways. Here at
Agudas, our options are many. You
can read in the rest of this monthly
Chai Lites for the details from Sis-
terhood, Brotherhood, Adult Ed,
Shabbat, Social groups. Take a close
look as there are new and fun pro-
grams at our synagogue.
Also, in the month of November, we
see the weather change to a bit more
gray and the air get chillier. The
wanna-be Oscar nominee movies are
beginning to populate the theaters.
And there appears to be a bit less
humor free flowing. So I want to
share with you what our congrega-
tional participants did during our
Simchat Torah celebration in mid-
October.
One of the tasks they were assigned
was to use a given story and biblical
text and then create a “Text mes-
sage” which could be sent to the
young generation. The resulting re-
sponses were great; too great to keep
to ourselves. Take a journey with us
Agudas Chai Lites Agudas Israel Congregation
Synagogue and Community Center, established 1922
Rabbi Rachael Jackson Located at 505 Glasgow Lane, Hendersonville, NC 28739
Phone: 828-693-9838
Website: www.agudasisraelsynagogue.org E-mail: [email protected]
November 2017 - 12 Cheshvan - 12 Kislev 5778
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RABBI’S MESSAGE Rabbi Rachael Jackson
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PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE
The following is the High Holy Day address I gave on
Kol Nidre. I was asked to publish it so that those who
missed it would get a chance to see what I said. En-
closed in your Chai Lites is a flyer with the pledge card
if you wish to catch up and make your HHD donation.
I am Linda Perkel, President of Agudas Israel Congre-
gation and I welcome you to Erev Yom Kippur and to
Agudas Israel on behalf of the lay leadership of your
congregation, your Board of Trustees.
Each year the Jewish calendar renews itself. So, as I was
considering how to address you tonight, I was struck by
the remembrance of Bill Murray in Groundhog Day.
So yes, Hineni – Here I am. I vaguely remember do-
ing this before.
In fact, this is the fourth time that I have had the honor
to address you on this awesome night, a fact that I can
easily remember without the help of a ground hog. I am
so proud to serve as your temple president and I find
this opportunity to speak with you humbling and yet
filled with so much happiness and joy. You might think
I’m pulling your leg with that last comment, but it is a
true joy to look out into our congregation and see this
closely knit congregational family who care for each
other, love to practice our faith and tradition and love
though the Torah, in less than 160 characters!
1) Creation Story: “It was all because of God!
2) Call of Abraham: “GO!”
3) Jacob’s Ladder: “Mom, just had the weirdest
dream!”
4) Joseph’s story: “Stay away from the bros”
5) Burning Bush: “What did you say His name
was?”
6) Ten Commandments: “Ten Rules – No stealing
No Killing No Fooling Around”
7) Holiness Code: “r u b-ing good 2 the old n
strange sez Lev 19”
8) Priestly Benediction: “If you truly want blessings,
it’s the priestly blessing”
9) V’ahavta: “Love your God with all your heart,
soul, & might”
Death of Moses: “ L Woe is me!”
10) I hope you have enjoyed reading these as much
as we enjoyed creating them. We look forward to
taking a journey through the Torah and through our
lives together this coming year.
Warmly
Rabbi Rachael Jackson
our temple. It is truly a blessing to greet familiar faces
and welcome guests.
I understand well that each of us is here for different rea-
sons, for our own, often deeply personal reasons. Please
recall with me now when you began your Agudas Israel
journey and why you first stepped inside our doors. Had
you just moved here and were looking for a Jewish home
for yourself and your family and joined us for Shabbat?
Did you hear that we had an amazing Rabbi? Were you
compelled to come here because your heart or your spirit
had been broken or bruised? Had you recently committed
to Judaism and needed a place to pursue your spiritual
goals? Had you experienced the loss of a loved one and
you needed a tender touch and compassionate ear? Were
you concerned about the changes in our political and so-
cial climate? Were you in search of community?
Each one of us has a story about why we first entered
this sacred place. Our stories are similar and they are dif-
ferent, they are relevant, and they are filled with richness
and diversity, just like each one of us.
We love our amazing Rabbi and all that you see hap-
pening here during these holy days and throughout the
entire year could not happen without her. But Agudas
Israel’s true essence, the real reason we love this commu-
nity...this Jewish family of ours, is the people with whom
you are seated right now, the people who open their arms
and embrace you without asking permission, and kiss
your cheek every time you come in . . . people who are
happy to see you, and simply want to be Jewish with
you. I am speaking about the genuine love and affection
that everyone here shares, no matter your age, your stature,
your gender, or your position in life.
Think for a moment about those who have made you
feel the warmth, the light, the welcoming and accepting
nature of our temple family. Think about the fact that
you, too, sometimes reach out and hug and plant that kiss
on those whom you see at temple. It is always a blessing
to be enthusiastically Jewish at Agudas Israel. It feels
good. In these unsettled times, it feels especially comfort-
ing. And to those of you who may only walk through our
doors for these holy days and other special occasions,
you should know that these people are here for you, too.
This amazing community of people, people just like you,
are here for you. Every year, every month, every week,
every day.
When Peter and I first walked through these synagogue
doors, we had no idea that our Jewish journey would be
formed and so enriched by the people of Agudas Israel
who have now, over these last years, become our dear
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BROTHERHOOD REPORT
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(Pres. continued from page 2)
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Although we did not hold a meeting in September, due
to the High Holidays, Brotherhood members and volun-
teers kept very busy with a variety of tasks and projects in
and around the synagogue.
Thanks again to Steve and Judith Levinson for allowing
us to access their property to cut the bamboo branches
needed for decorating the sukkah.
friends and family. More than 2 years ago, when Peter
was injured and subsequently experienced many health
problems, we were blown away by the loving outreach
and support from our Agudas Israel community. We
continue to experience the blessing of your friendship,
comfort and support, and we are grateful.
But you know, when I first came here did not think
about the payroll, the heating and air conditioning, the
roof or what it must take to maintain this sacred space
on a daily basis. However, I soon realized the responsi-
bility I have to support and maintain this temple not just
for me, but also for the others who would step inside to
worship and to learn. For those who will follow us.
Simply put, it is all of our responsibility to financially
support Agudas Israel to the best of our ability so that
the values, the commitments, and the best of Agudas
Israel can continue. I believe, as does Rabbi Jackson,
that you deserve nothing less. Rabbi consistently gives
above and beyond what we expect of her. It is her lead-
ership and the example she sets every day that inspire,
educate, and enrich our enjoyment of our temple. It
seems only right that we reciprocate with the best that
is in us.
Although BiIl Murray never talked about temple ex-
penses in Ground Hog Day, it bears reminding that
your Membership dues only covers 6o% of the costs of
heating, cooling and maintaining our building as well
as supporting our Rabbi, office manager and program-
ming. That leaves 40% of our budgeted expenses de-
pendent on your donations.
We need your help to sustain us. Please understand
how important your contribution is tonight and how
meaningful it is to our existence.
So how much to give? That is the great question. Yogi
Berra once said that hitting was 90% mental and only
50% physical. So if we follow that formula and you
give 140% of what you gave last year, that would
work. But what if you weren’t here last year?
Let me help you. The Talmud says that charity is
equal to all the commandments.
There are many reasons to give. Some people give
because they think it will help them to be inscribed in
the book of life for another year. We are in no position
financially or spiritually to pass judgement on
that. You can give tonight because you can enjoy our
services and our sense of community. Or you can give
because this is such a beautiful evening. You can give
because each of these, or any one of these, has touched
you tonight, or touched you during Rosh Hashanah, or
will touch you at tomorrow’s services. Or you can give
because you know how much we need it. After all, this is
your Rabbi, this is your synagogue!!!
I know that we have all been touched by the needs and
reached into our pockets to help those who have suffered
great losses due to hurricanes Harvey, Irma, and Maria.
And, there are many others throughout the world who ask
for our help. The need for Tikkun Olam is great. Tonight
though is about us, about Agudas Israel.
Please contribute joyfully and generously, and allow us
to continue to do all that we do for this community — to
provide, enhance and further establish the spiritual plat-
form from which we all benefit. I am happy to share with
you that each and every member of your Agudas Israel
Board has already pledged their High Holy Day Commit-
ment. Hineni.
A sweet, healthy and happy new year to each and every
one of you, and please accept my heartfelt thanks for al-
lowing me the amazing opportunity to serve as your Presi-
dent. It has truly been my honor.
L’Shana Tovah. Dr. Linda Perkel
MISHEBERACHS Speedy Recovery and Get Well Wishes to:
Scott Foster, Mitzi Lerner, Edward Lieber,
Vicky Lieber, Kenneth J. Robinson,
Marilyn Rosen, Teddi Segal, Frank Skolnick.
Bonnie's Byline
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(Brotherhood continued from page 3)
The Sisterhood Judaica Boutique booth at The
HardLox Jewish Food and Heritage Festival in his-
toric downtown Asheville was a great success. Not
only was it a financial success, but thanks to Teri
Nadler-Thorz’s vision, it gave Agudas Israel a great
presence and recognition for being the only congrega-
tion in Hendersonville.
Many thanks to all of the volunteers, who helped
shlepp, set up, sell, pack up, and shlepp again back to
Agudas. Special shout out to Teri and Michael Thorz,
Sam Gess, Linda Sauter, and Alan Cooper who
worked all day from an early start to a late finish, as
well as our Rabbi who cheerfully greeted and wel-
Thanks also especially to Alan Cooper and Dave
Monoson for tending to various maintenance and repair
issues in and outside the building, costs for which were
covered by donations from Brotherhood. I mention this
because most congregants are not aware of the amount
of work and dedication that is needed to keep the build-
ing in good shape. Repairs which are often not notice-
able, such as fixing cracks in the walls, or installing and
painting new hand rails leading to the Gazebo, fixing the
memorial wall etc..
All of this volunteer work, including security duty every
weekend and during the High Holy Days, is provided by
our Brotherhood members who take the time from their
busy weekly personal chores (and “Honey Do” Lists)
and in between doctors’ appointments, to help the Agu-
das Israel Congregation operate as smoothly as possible
and to ensure the comfort and safety of all our members.
With the coming winter months, we are losing some of
our manpower as a number of members migrate south to
Florida to bask in the sun and enjoy their “Early Bird”
specials. So those of us brave souls who are left behind
will continue to hold the fort until they return next
spring.
I would like to take this opportunity to wish all of you
who are migrating south for the winter a wonderful time
and we look forward to seeing you all back again in
2018.
With the changing season, it is now time for us to en-
joy the fall colors, and I recommend that you take the
time to tour the Blue Ridge region with your family and
friends, to view the beauty of our countryside, and take
some great pictures that you can share with others.
Shalom, Michael Thorz, Agudas Israel Brotherhood
comed so many people into our booth.
The Sisterhood momentum of activities continues…
make your reservations and save these dates:
Monday, November 20, 11:45am will be our Social
Lunch out at Olive or Twist in Hendersonville. Lunch
is on your own, but reservations are imperative so we
have enough seats. Contact Joan Kershner to make
your reservation (828) 243-2929 or joank-
Monday, December 18, noon, will be our Chanu-
kah luncheon – no charge for Sisterhood members,
$5 for guests/non-members. Hope you will save the
date and join us for a fun afternoon to celebrate Cha-
nukah with your Sisterhood.
In lieu of a January program, we are encouraging
our Sisterhood members to participate in the MLK: A
Day On, A Day of Service (Martin Luther King Day)
for a day of community service on Monday, January
15th (details to follow).
We continue to plan exciting programs every month
for you to enjoy (thank you to our Programming Vice
President, Joan Kershner); giving you a reason to be
part of a very special Sisterhood. Watch for a full cal-
endar of events coming this fall and winter. We hope
you will take advantage of our programs and partici-
pate. If you have a program suggestion, please do not
hesitate to contact Joan or myself.
Remember our Sisterhood Golden Book and
Trees in Israel when you want to honor a Bar/Bat
Mitzvah or other simcha (birthday or anniversary) or
make a memorial tribute for a loved one.
It is never too late to join Sisterhood…We invite all
new members, those who have not previously joined,
or those women who want to rejoin, to contact Sherry
Harris, Membership Secretary, for more information.
Without YOU we are one woman short! Sisterhood continues to be an integral part of the
workings of Agudas Israel. Join the fun, share in the
camaraderie! Let me know how I can help make your
membership more rewarding.
Shalom,
Bonnie Cooper, Sisterhood President
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THE PRESIDENT’S CLUB The President’s club is proud to announce the current and
growing membership. Membership requires that a five year
commitment of at least $500 per year, in excess of current
dues be made.
It is the objective of the members of the President’s Club to erase our defi-
cit. We intend for it to become nothing but a historical memory.
Rebecca Banadyga
Barbara & Dr. Michael Beckerman
Phyllis & Rabbi Philip Bentley
Dr. Stuart Cohn
Bonnie & Alan Cooper
C. Susan & Joseph Kaplan
Rebecca & Dr. Arthur Lebowitz
Vicky & Edward Lieber
Ginger & Dr. Sanford Marx
Dr. Linda & Peter Perkel
Teddi Segal
Iris & Dr. Paul Vanek
Deanna S. & Marshall Warshauer
Natalie Zitnick
Shalom, We are now into our 10th year of the
Agudas Angels. Thanks to so many of you, this project has been very
successful. It is wonderful that our congregational family is so generous.
Since your Angels contribution is in addition to your dues, we would like to recognize you in our Chai Lites during this fiscal
year 2017-2018.
____________________________________________ SPONSORS $180+
DEBBIE & WILLIAM LAVINE ________________________________________________________________________________________
FRIENDS $360+
DR. STUART COHN ________________________________________________________________________________________
PATRONS $500+
BARBARA & DR. MICHAEL BECKERMAN BARBARA GITTLEMAN
________________________________________________________________________________________
BENEFACTORS $750+
JAN FINANDER SCOTT ________________________________________________________________________________________
TRUSTEES $1000+
JOAN & IRVING KERSHNER NATALIE ZITNICK
________________________________________________________________________________________
HERITAGE CIRCLE $1800+ ________________________________________________________________________________________
PRESIDENTS CIRCLE $3600+ __________________________________________________________________________________________
FOUNDERS CIRCLE $5400+
TEDDI SEGAL ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________
May the coming year bring to you and yours, good health, peace,
and abundant blessings. L’Shalom
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Please cut this form out and return to the synagogue with your donations.
Agudas Angels
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A big THANK YOU to all of our congregants for the
1800 pounds of food and supplies we collected and
contributed to the Interfaith Assistance Ministries.
Your generosity of spirit, your willingness to shop and
schlep, and drop off at Agudas Israel for delivery to
IAM is heartfelt.
Submitted by Barbara Gittleman
& Deanna S. Warshauer
Agudas Israel Congregation &
Henderson County Hunger Coalition Proudly Presents
Saturday, February 3, 2018
Flat Rock Playhouse
Downtown Hendersonville
Tickets & Donations Options
$35 Single Ticket
Advertise or place a Tribute
In the Program Guide Agudas Israel Congregation and Henderson County Coalition are proud to present “The French Connection”’ a brilliant afternoon of classical music.
Agudas Israel Synagogue is looking forward to our 100th anniver-sary, in 2022, and our legacy in Hendersonville. This fund raiser will assist in providing for our future.
Country Hunger Coalition is committed to relieving hunger in Hen-derson County by raising awareness. The money is distributed to Relief Agencies in Henderson County.
The funds raised will support
Mission Statements of both organizations.
“Community Involvement”
Tribute Section—Maximum 3 lines $40
In honor of. In Memory of, Thank You. Just A Note,
Rabbi Jackson Tribute Page.
Sponsor Listing—Your Name Listed $30
Business Section Listing (Maximum 5 lines) $50
Full Page Advertisement $100
Half Page Advertisement $65
Makes checks payable to:
Agudas Israel Congregation
Mail Check to:
Piano Concert
PO Box 447
Flat Rock, NC 28731
Online Payment: PayPal
www.agudasisraelcongregation.com
Credit Card Payment: Contact Sam
Inquires or Questions Contact Sam 773.213.2200
or Randye 201.953.3930
In compliance with Henderson County Fire Safety Regula-tions, all fire exit
doors, used for exiting and entering our building, must be kept clear of all obstructions, including but not limited to unattended motor vehicles which will cause delay in access for fire-rescue and police. In addition, it will hin-der people inside our building in attempt-ing to evacuate in case of emer-gency: There are five (5) fire exit doors; the main entrance doors under the covered driveway, two west far side doors which lead out into the parking lot area; the fourth is located to the rear of the library which is also used as an evacuation point and for the pick-up and /or delivery of items. The fifth door is also used as an evacuation point, for delivery and pickups, and not to be used to leave standing unattended vehicles parked." In addition, I ask everyone to make sure when they utilize our parking spaces that they lock their vehicles and make sure that valuables are either removed or locked away. In case the building has to be evacu-ated, the two double doors in the Social Hall, and the northeast door located in the Sanctuary, are to be used by the oc-cupants inside the building that leads to the "Founders Garden". which is the des-ignated gathering point for safety.
Thank you, Al Rosen, VP Building & Grounds
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IMPORTANT NOTICE! ANNOUNCING... the next program in our
quarterly Friday night Speaker Series...
This Speaker Series has two purposes: one is to
inform the congregation about the impressive num-
ber of organizations in Henderson County that pro-
vide services to our residents and a second reason
is to provide opportunities for Tikkun Olam wherever possible.
On Friday November 17th at 7:30, our guest speaker will be Ju-
dith Long, the Executive Director of The Free Clinics in Hender-
sonville.
The Free Clinics has a serious and important mission in our
community. This organization provides FREE medical care to low
income uninsured residents of Henderson and Polk counties.In
addition, help is available to individuals who have insurance but
face a coverage cap in their individual plans and need assistance in
paying for their medications. Working very hard to augment our
local health care system and bridge the gaps wherever they may be
are numerous volunteers and healthcare partners. Offering a vari-
ety of programs,The Free Clinics constantly strive to make our
most vulnerable neighbors healthier and better able to face their
health challenges.
Join us on the November 17th when Judith Long joins us to ex-
plain the vital services this organization provides.
We look forward to her visit.
Submitted by: Toby Linder
It is with much sadness that we note the passing
of Zachary Feinstein, son of Gerri Feinstein,
Iris’s daughter, and grandson of Iris Stewart.
Zichronon L’vracha
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The following names will be read at Shabbat services
PLEASE NOTE: * DENOTES HAVING A MEMORIAL PLAQUE. The Yahrzeit policy of our Temple is as follows: You have the choice of when to observe this anniversary. The date can be celebrated by the English calendar or the Hebrew. Please inform the office of which way you would prefer. A letter to remind you about your upcoming Yahrzeit is sent to you two weeks before the actual date. The name of your loved is read at the Friday evening service Immediately prior to the date of the Yahrzeit. Please keep the Temple Office informed of any incorrect dates. or new dates you wish to include.
11/03/2017-11/09/2017 OBSERVER
Max Brandes………....Mr.&Mrs. Theodore Kaplan (Father) Sadie Karg Brown*…….....Lillian Swift Gaeser (Mother) Charles Eckenroth…….…..Barbara Monoson (Grandfather) Jesse H. Fischer*………....Martin Fischer (Father) Francine Meryl Fish*……...Phyllis Fish (Daughter) Robert Steven Gittleman*..Barbara Gittleman (Husband) Leo Goloff…………...……..Judi Goloff (Husband) Mollie Gordon* Edith Guttenberg……….....David Selsky (Grandmother) Herbert J. Halpern* Martin Heilbrunn……...…...Herbert Heilbrunn (Father) Dr. Philip R. Jacobs……....Claudia Case-Jacobs (Husband) Albert A. Kaplan* Joan Kaplan*………..……..Susan Aronowitz (Sister) Sidney G. Kay Irving Kay* Felix Kolodkin* Bernard Kushlefsky Tobias Landau Bessie Levitsky Baruch Linder*………….....Bernd Linder (Father) Sarah Mollie Michalove* Hannah Patterson* Sylvia Chizik Patterson*….Joyce Patterson (Mother) (Wife of Ben Patterson) Ruth Scharfstein Elena Thoms…………..…..Dr. Arthur Lebowitz (Sister) Valerie J. Warshauer……..Marshall A. Warshauer (1st Wife) Esther Younger…………...Shirley Younger (Mother-in-Law) Harry Morton Zheutlin*
11/10/2017-11/16/2017 Hyman Balk Judah L. Berger* Nancy Berman Gertrude Blank Avraham Daitch* Peter Dallo……………..…..Marlene Dallo Molly Dunitz* Morris Fred* Bernice Freedman Reiff..Roy Freedman (Mother) Maxwell Friedland……..George Friedland (Father) Frank Golden…………...Martha Stillman (Grandfather) Benjamin Kerner*……...David Fritz (Uncle)
OBSERVER
Jesse Kleinman……..….Lisa Wolford (Father) Charles Krause………....Martha Stillman (Father) Gloria Krell ………….....Leslie Moses (Mother) Helen Lazarus* Anna Lewis* Leslie Manning……..….Frances Keiter (Father) Lillian Ozur Simmie Patla* Chaim Richman ………..Lana Waltzer (Brother) Jacob Robinson………...Kenneth J. Robinson (Brother) Bob Rosen……………...Vicky Lieber (Brother-in-Law) Janet Rosengarten……...Richard Lawrence (Mother) Rosa Rubin*………...….Stuart Rubin (Mother) Anna Schlosburg* Bonnie J. Youngerman 11/17/2017-11/23/2017 Melvin Harold Aftel*…Iris Stewart (Father) Shep. Alpern* Alan Aronowitz……….Susan Aronowitz (Husband) James Burst………….Dr. Kelley Singer (Father) Shirley Carnow……...Norman Carnow (Mother) Arthur Cohen………..Randye Unsell (Father) DeBois Edmunson Isaac Eskenasy*…….Edith Eskenasy (Father) …………….Diane Aldrich Eskenasy Murrey Forgang……..Lawrence Forgang (Father) Gladys Fredman…….Sherry Harris (Mother) Sidney Gross…….....Charlene B. Carstens (Father) Samuel Harris…….....Sherry Harris (Father-in-Law) Mollye Shapiro Karesh* William Wolf Kayne*...Monica Kayne (Father) Allan Burton Kessler* George Lazarus* Helen Mandelstamm Roz Maurer…………..Mr.&Mrs. Bruce Maurer (Bruce’s Mother) Juanita McClees…….William McClees Sarah Paly……….......Harry Paly (Mother) Margaret Scharf William Schieren…….Susan Aronowitz (Father) Max Schoenfeld
OBSERVER
Marilyn Schwartz*…………...…..Beth Glassberg (Mother)……………………...…...Iris Schwartz Douglas Segal* (Brother)……………………...…..Patty Torcellini (Son)………………………..…….Teddi Segal ………………………………...…..Cheryl Goode Anne G. Simkin……….……........Larry Simkin (Mother) Frank Sitzer*…………………......Carole Sitzer (Father-in-Law) Miriam Y. Stacher…………...…..Robert Youngerman (Sister) Jean Title……………………..….Esther Roberts (Mother) Bert Tumpson Anna Vanek ……………………...Dr. Paul Vanek (Mother)
11/24/2017-11/30/2017 Blanche Bernstein William Cohen* Ira Marvin Goldstein* Henry Goodman Martin Heilbrunn Sidney Junov*…………………...Barbara Kay Beckerman (Father) Sidney Kay Miriam Sarah Kessler* ………….Frances Stollmack (Mother) Esther Leaman…………………..Salem Leaman (Mother) Elizabeth Steinberg Lieberman.. Shirley Younger (Mother) Sidney Morse…………………….Sandy Morse (Father) Alice Brown Nelson*…………….Lillian Swift Gaeser (Sister) Morris Oxer……………………….Stuart Oxer&Wendi Harris Dominick Pietrunti……………….Donna Sherwood Ruth Proper Perry Rudnick* Leonard Sisselman……………...Mr.&Mrs. Irwin Sisselman (Brother of Irwin) Shirley L. Solomon Blanche Watsky………………….Harold Watsky (Mother) Louis A. Younger………………...Shirley Younger (Father-in-Law)
Agudas Chai Lites page 9 November 2017
Lifecycle Moments
November is National Caregiver Month! Jewish Family Services of WNC Offers Support to
Family Caregivers! Jewish Family Services of WNC (JFS) offers programs and services to support the needs of family members providing care or support for an elder or for an individual with a disability. Family members often find themselves overwhelmed by their caregiving responsibilities, and all too often may overlook needs for their own self-care and health. A caregiver’s need for respite time for themselves can be met by enrolling their loved one in the JFS Elder Club. This program serves older adults of all faiths who would benefit from socializa-tion, friendship, exercise, stimulating activities, and a nutritious lunch, in an enjoyable, structured group setting. Professional staff and trained volunteers facilitate and supervise the program. Elder Club is offered on Tuesdays and Thursdays in Asheville, and on Wednesdays in Hendersonville. Transportation may be arranged to each location. The Elder Club provides the caregiver with the peace of mind that their family member is safe and well cared for. Caregiver support services at JFS also include: care coordina-tion and guidance to services and community resources, pro-vided by a JFS Social Worker, and individual mental health coun-seling with a JFS Licensed Clinical Social Worker. JFS accepts most Medicare, BCBS-NC, and other insurance. Inquire to con-firm your individual health insurance coverage. A sliding fee scale based on income is available for uninsured individuals. Jewish Family Services of WNC (JFS) is a social service agency providing a comprehensive continuum of care for all the people of Western North Carolina. In addition to the Elder Club, counseling services, and social work assistance, information and referrals, JFS provides Jewish holiday kosher meal deliveries, and a food pantry; JFS also administers WNC Jewish Federation Keren Ami Funds, and the Atlanta-based Jewish Educational Loan Fund for interest-free student loans. We also offer meaning-ful and rewarding opportunities for volunteer service, and we are currently in need of additional volunteers for Elder Club programs in Asheville and Hendersonville. JFS services and programs are open to all people regardless of faith, race, color, gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity, country of origin, age, or ability. For further information or to make an appointment for any JFS service, call: 828-253-2900 or email: [email protected]. To learn more about JFS, please visit: www.jfswnc.org. WNC Jewish Federation Supports Jewish Family Services of WNC! WNC Jewish Federation (WNCJF) is the only central fundraising organization for the Jewish communities of Western North Caro-lina. WNCJF raises and distributes funds to sustain our commu-nity organizations that make our strong, vibrant community what it is and what it will continue to be. Jewish Family Services of WNC is the only Jewish social service agency in Western North Carolina and we depend on Federation for a very significant an-nual allocation in order to continue to provide services to hun-dreds of deserving individuals in our region each year.
Bernd and Toby Linder received the 2017 Richard C. and
Vina L. Sauer Charitable Leadership Award. As the Community
Foundation of Henderson County’s most prestigious award, it
recognizes community leaders who live with a focus on personal
philanthropy. As determined and visionary philanthropists, the
Linders have stated “We are interested in trying to improve the
quality of life for future generations in Henderson County.”
We, as a congregation, are very proud to have the Linders as
members of our community here at Agudas Israel.
For 50+ years, through a specific donation in her will,
Francee Sherman, has made a specific donation for fresh flow-
ers for High Holy Day services. The flowers are beautiful. This
is an ongoing donation, and Agudas Israel is extremely appre-
ciative of this generous donation.
On Saturday, November 18, 2017 from 1:30 to 4 pm there will
be a Celebration of the Life of Carola Cohn. The gathering will
be at The Mountain Lodge and Convention Center. Their tele-
phone # is 828-693-9910. The location is 755 Upward Road in
Flat Rock, NC. If you plan on coming, please RSVP to
[email protected] or call Nancy Cohn at 805-461-1212.
Mazel Tov to Audrey and Uzi Shemesh on the marriage of
their son Amit to Alison Reed in Atlanta.
Agudas Israel Congregation wishes a Mazel Tov to Sheila J.
McKinna on her conversion to Judaism on August 31 2017.
TZEDAKAH LIST NOVEMBER
ADULT EDUCATION FUND
IN HONOR OF
By Books for Good
IN MEMORY OF
Carola Cohn
By Ginger & Dr. Sanford Marx
BUILDING FUND
IN MEMORY OF
Harry Gold
By Beverly French
GARDEN/LANDSCAPE FUND
IN MEMORY OF
Babe Blatt
By The Blatt Family
Stanley Sitzer & Arthur Rubin
By Carole Sitzer
GENERAL FUND
IN HONOR OF
Happy & Healthy New Year to all our friends
By Ruth & Rabbi Sanford Marcus
Linder’s winning 2017
Sauer Charitable Leadership Award
By Margaret Novit
Son Amit’s Marriage to Alison Reed
By Audrey & Uzi Shemesh
Rabbi Rachael Jackson
By Joan Stuart
Teddi Segal Speedy Recovery
By Natalie Zitnick
IN MEMORY OF
Sam Baxt
By Melanie Baxt
Harry M, Fritz
By David Fritz
Edward, Doris & Larry Patterson
By Mr. & Mrs. Alan Patterson
Joseph Gittleman
By Claudia & Barry Rudes
Frankie Ryttenberg
By Harry Ryttenberg
Zachary Feinstein (Grandson of Iris Stewart)
By Natalie Zitnick
Tzedakah– Acts of Loving Kindness
ADULT EDUCATION
IN HONOR OF
Thank you for classes
By David O’Conner
IN MEMORY OF
Carola Cohn
By Natalie Zitnick
ENDOWMENT FUND
IN HONOR OF
Teddi Segal
By Marlene & Raymond Wiener
MITZVAH DAY FUND
IN HONOR OF
BAKED COOKIES
By Phyllis & Rabbi Bentley
By Adele Groban-Kosowsky
By Frieda & Michael Hodes
By Debbie & William Lavine
By Linda Liebman
By Toby & Bernd Linder
By Claudia & Barry Rudes
By Iris & Dr. Paul Vanek
By Deanna Warshauer
JOEY’S BAGELS
By Natalie Zitnick
By Brotherhood Agudas Israel
IN MEMORY OF
Beatrice & Dudley Berson
By Dr. Judi Berson-Levinson
& Steven Z. Levinson
ONEG FUND
IN HONOR OF
Sponsor Oneg 09/15/2017
By Marlene & Raymond Wiener
IN MEMORY OF
Carola Cohn
By Forward Discussion Group
Anne W. Kaplan; Hyman Kaplan;
Liba Sprague
By Eileen & Dr. Michael Stang
Genia & David Friedberg
By Iris & Joe Stewart
RABBI DISCRETIONARY FUND
IN HONOR OF
Texas Relief
By Agudas Israel Sisterhood
By Susan Aronowitz
By Barbara & Dr. Michael Beckerman
By Agudas Israel Brotherhood
By Bonnie & Alan Cooper
By Laurel Ela
By Phyllis Fish
By Rosemary & Samuel Gess
By Barbara Gittleman
By Dr. & Mrs. Stuart Glassman
By Sherry Harris
By Marcia & Melvin Hecht
By Frieda & Michael Hodes
By Deb Karlin
By Debbie & William Lavine
By Nora Levin
By Vicky & Edward Lieber
By Sandy Morse
By Dr. Linda & Peter Perkel
By Dr. Linda & Peter Perkel
(from the Mah Jongg group)
By MaryAnn & Alan Pollack
By Harry Ryttenberg
By Janie & Frank Skolnick
By Randye Unsell
By Iris & Dr. Paul Vanek
By Deanna Warshauer
By Deanna S. and Marshall Warshauer
By Marlene & Raymond Wiener
By Natalie Zitnick
Happy Birthday Barbara Gittleman
By Wilma Pomerantz
Happy Anniversary
Marlene & Raymond Wiener
By Wilma Pomerantz
Sheila McKinna Conversion
By Marlene & Raymond Wiener
Thank you Rabbi Jackson
By Marlene & Raymond Wiener
Rabbi’s Fellowship
By Natalie Zitnick
IN MEMORY OF
Gladys Cohen & Martin Richman
By Randye Unsell
TZEDAKAH INADVERTENTLY OMITTED
FROM OCTOBER CHAI LITES Due to an unforeseen event, the following is the list of
Tzedakah missed in the October Chai Lites.
Agudas Chai Lites page 10 November 2017
(Tzedakah continued on page 11)
It is through the generosity of people like these that we prosper and grow.
Thank You.
(Tzedakah continued from page 10)
Tzedakah– Acts of Loving Kindness MUSIC FUND
IN MEMORY OF
Nathan Samuels & Barbara Rosen
By Vicky & Edward Lieber
ONEG FUND
IN HONOR OF
Adele & Laurence Kosowsky
– Sponsor Oneg for their birthdays
IN MEMORY OF
Joan Kosowsky
Laurence Kosowsky
Joseph Gittleman
By Linda Liebman
RABBI DISCRETIONARY FUND
IN HONOR OF
Toby Linder – Woman of Valor
By Bonnie & Alan Cooper
Sarah Monoson’s Bat Mitzvah
By Frieda Michael Hodes
RITUAL FUND
IN HONOR OF
Various donors for Pizza in the HUT
IN MEMORY OF
Nathan Wiener
By Marlene & Raymond Wiener
YAHRZEIT/BEREAVEMENT FUND
IN MEMORY OF
Herbert Simon
By Barbara & Alan Ehrlich
Adeline Barowsky
By Edith Eskenasy
HIGH HOLY DAY APPEAL
Rosemary & Samuel Gess
Elaine Cohen & Louis Saul –
In Honor of Aunt Fannie Krawcheck & Uncle Anchell Gold
Dr. Linda & Peter Perkel
Susan & Sidney Williams
Marlene W. & Raymond G. Wiener
Dr. Teri Nadler-Thorz & Michael Thorz
Adele I. Groban-Kosowsky
Kate Dalton – In Honor of Lisa & Tom Wolford
Sharon & Jerry Salatino
Sheila J. McKinna
Harry Ryttenberg
Rebecca Banadyga
Bernard Apple
Lenore & Scott Foster
Diane Eskenasy Aldrich & Tim Aldrich
Natalie Zitnick
Adele & Laurence Kosowsky
Norma & Albert Pasternack
Linda L. & Tom Sauter
Lynne Durbin-Crane and Peter Crane
C. Susan & Joseph Kaplan
Zsa G. Lobel
Marilyn S. & Allen H. Rosen
Esther & Dale Roberts
Marcia & Melvin Hecht
Iris & Joe Stewart
Vicky & Edward Lieber
Agudas Chai Lites page 11 November 2017
BIRTHDAYS
NOVEMBER & DECEMBER 2017
ANNIVERSARIES
NOVEMBER & DECEMBER 2017 Janie Skolnick………….. Fri. Nov. 3rd Dr. Burton Black………...Sun. Nov. 12th Harry Ryttenberg……......Mon. Nov. 13th Barbara Seeman………..Wed. Nov. 15th Albert Pasternack ……….Sat. Nov. 18th Sharon Lemelman……….Mon. Nov. 20th Vicky Lieber……………...Thur. Nov. 23rd Bill Lavine………………...Fri. Nov. 24th Marcia Hecht …………….Tues. Nov. 28th Melvin Hecht …………….Mon. Dec. 4th Eileen Stang……………..Mon. Dec. 4th Raymond G. Wiener…….Fri. Dec. 8th
Iris & Dr. Paul Vanek……….Mon. Nov. 6th …..29th anniv. Bonnie S. & Alan Cooper…..Thur. Nov. 9th ….48th anniv. Linda & Perry Reihs………..Sun. Nov. 12th…..39th anniv. Marcia & Melvin Hecht……..Sat. Nov. 25th…..53rd anniv. Rosemary & Samuel Gess..Thur. Nov. 30th ….48th anniv. MaryAnn & Alan Pollack…...Sun. Dec. 10th ….50th anniv. C. Susan & Joseph Kaplan..Fri. Dec. 22nd…...49th anniv.
Phyllis Bentley…………..Tues. Dec. 12th Mark Lemelman ……….Thur. Dec. 14th MaryAnn Pollack………..Thur. Dec. 14th Sharon Wooten………….Sat. Dec. 16th Arnold S. Orenstein……..Sun. Dec. 17th Larry Simkin……………..Mon. Dec. 18th Dr. Michael Beckerman.. Tues. Dec. 19th Jerry Garfinkle…………..Tues. Dec. 19th Nora Levin ……………….Fri. Dec. 22nd Barbara Monoson ……….Sun. Dec. 24th Rosemary Gess………...Wed. Dec. 27th Susan Garfinkle………...Thur. Dec. 28th
Agudas Chai Lites page 12 November 2017
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BOARD OF TRUSTEES 2016-2018
President: Dr. Linda Perkel 685-1683 Vice President: Allen H. Rosen 595-1497
Secretary: Lenore Foster 595-9885 Treasurer: Phyllis Bentley 697-1954 Past President: Dr. Paul Vanek 697-0787 Trustees: Cya Ashley 712-3079 Sam Gess 676-6720 Debbie Lavine 630-202-8731 David Monoson 891-2531 Honorary Trustee: Marilyn Rosen 290-5333 Sidney Williams 699-1283
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SISTERHOOD 2016-2018
President: Bonnie Cooper 1st VP Hospitality: Barbara Monoson 2nd VP Fundraising: Karen Murray 3rd VP Program: Joan Kershner Recording Secretary: C. Susan Kaplan Corresponding Secretary: Marilyn Rosen Treasurer: Phyllis Bentley Past President & Liaison to the Board: Natalie Zitnick Trustees: Lenore Foster Dr. Teri Nadler-Thorz Iris Stewart Phyllis Fish Toby Linder Parliamentarian: JNF Trustee: Linda Reihs
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BROTHERHOOD 2016-2018
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