the vow series 1 - 10am morning service | ptr. vetty gutierrez

THE VOWSERIES 1GEN 2:24

24 That is why a man leaves his father and

mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.

GENESIS 2:24

The number of marriage annulment and nullity cases filed in the country has been steadily rising for the past eight years, with an average of 28 couples seeking to have their marriages declared null and void per day in 2012, records from the Offi ce of the Solicitor General.

STATISTICS OF MARRIAGES IN THE PHILIPPINES

A total of 10,528 annulment cases were brought before the OSG last year, or over 1,000 cases more than the 9,133 fi led in 2011, government records obtained by GMA News.

-“The data from the OSG showed that 82 percent of those who fi led these cases had children and out of that number, 59 percent had at least one or two children, 22 percent had three to four children and one percent had five to six children,” the report said.

“It was learned that of those who fi led for annulment, 61 percent were women with 90 percent of them in their 20s, while only 4 percent were in their 30s,” the report said.

STATISTICS OF MARRIAGES IN THE PHILIPPINES

“The same study revealed that only 39 percent of men initiated the fi ling of the complaint with 70 percent of them in their 20s,” it said.

The report added that only 25 percent of the men who asked for an annulment were in their 30s or 40s.

It also noted that the longer the marriage, the lower the chances of the parties seeking annulment.

“Some 35 percent of married couples fi led their annulment cases within the fi rst five years of their marriage,” the report said.

The OSG report said that of marriages that lasted five years or more, only 26 percent ended in annulment, while those that lasted more than 10 years, only 17 percent opted for annulment.

STATISTICS OF MARRIAGES IN THE PHILIPPINES

The OSG report said that of marriages that lasted five years or more, only 26 percent ended in annulment, while those that lasted more than 10 years, only 17 percent opted for annulment.

The common ground cited for annulment was psychological incapacity. Other grounds included lack of authority of the solemnizing offi cer, bigamous or polygamous marriages and marriages where one or both parties were below the marrying age.

STATISTICS OF MARRIAGES IN THE PHILIPPINES

70% of married men and 60% of married women have extra marital affairs. 

Less than half of couples who are married will stay married for 15 years only. 

Every 10 to 13 seconds another couple divorces.

We want all of you to see the Big Picture of why God created for.

Marriage is God’s idea for you to enjoy life with each other.

STATISTICS OF DIVORCE IN USA

GOD CREATEDMARRIAGE FOR…

COMPANIONSHIP1

The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable

for him.” Genesis 2:18

Companionship

PARTNERSHIP2

God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase

in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground.”

Genesis 1:28

PARTNERSHIP

ROMANCE3

The man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh

of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man.” Genesis

2:23

ROMANCE

LIFE LONG COMMITMENT4

“So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not

separate.” Matthew 19:6

Marriage is design to be permanent. Divorce and or annulment will never be an option.

LIFE LONG COMMITMENT

HOW DO YOU LIVE IN THAT DESIGN OF GOD?

I WILL PRIORITIZE MY

SPOUSE

VOW #1

24 That is why a man leaves his father and

mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.

GENESIS 2:24

LEAVE MEANS TO ABANDON,UNITED MEANS TO STICK, TO CLING OR GLUED.

AFTER MARRIAGE THE PRIORITY SWITCHES FROM YOUR BLOODLINE TO YOUR SPOUSE.

SEVEN STICKY COMPETITORS OF YOUR SPOUSE.

YOUR PARENTS.1

YOUR CHILDREN.2

THE NEED OF OTHERS. 3

YOUR CAREER.4

YOUR HOBBIES.5

YOUR MINISTRY.6

YOUR FRIENDS.7

HOW TO PRIORITIZEYOUR SPOUSE

MAKE GODPRIORITY ONE1

Love the Lord your

God with all your

heart and with all

your soul and with

all your strength.

DEUTERONOMY 6:5

YOUR NUMBER ONE RELATIONSHIP MUST BE GOD. THIS IS THE VERY FOUNDATION THAT WE NEED IN ORDER TO BE BETTER SPOUSES. WITHOUT THIS THEN YOUR MARRIAGE WILL NEVER BE SUCCESSFUL.

GOD IS NUMBER ONEYOUR SPOUSE IS NUMBER TWO.

“But seek first his kingdom and his

righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as

well.”

MATTHEW 6:33

HEALTHY MARRIAGE COUNTS A LOT. NO MATTER HOW SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE IN ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE BUT YOU FAIL IN YOUR MARRIAGE THEN IT IS STILL UNFULFILLED LIFE.

SERVE YOURSPOUSE2

“Wives, SUBMIT to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of

the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of

which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to

Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in

everything. ”

EPHESIANS 5:22–24

“Husbands, LOVE your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave

himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with

water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or

any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way,

husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one

ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church— for we are members of

his body. ”

EPHESIANS 5:25–30

“However, each one of you also must LOVE his

wife as he loves himself, and the wife

must RESPECT her husband.”

EPHESIANS 5:33

ENJOY YOURSPOUSE3

May your fountain be

blessed, and may

you rejoice in the

wife of your youth

PROVERBS 5:18

CONCLUSION

OF THE SEVEN COMPETITORS WHICH ONE IS

THE TEMPTATION

FOR YOU?

WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO TO CHANGE YOUR

WAYS?

WHAT DO YOU NEED TO ASK

FROM GOD FOR?