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Using the Coaching Approach – Key Coaching Skills for Leaders & Managers

Presented to:

LINGOs Members Agencies October 23, 2013

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Marc Bowles, CEC, ACC, B.Ed & Licensed Trainer

Today’s Coaches for LINGOs

Alison Hendren, MCCCEO & Founder

What if everyone had coaching skills?

Our Vision is that they will. Our Mission is to see that they do.

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ANY question is okay!

You are accountable for your learning. (The more you give, the more you get!)

What we say in the room stays in the room!

When you bring real life scenarios to the day, please change names for confidentiality.

There is no hierarchy in the room. Everyone is at the same level.

It is ok for EVERYONE to make mistakes!(They show you are trying.)

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Coaching out of the Box ®

GROUND RULES

Our Objectives for today:

Introduce you to the other three core coaching skillsProvide some coaching demonstrations

Welcome!!

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1. Listening2. Encouraging3. Questioning4. Requesting5. Action Planning

Encouraging

Questioning

Requesting

Action Planning

Listening

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The 5 Core Coaching Skills

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Review of Homework

1.What did you find was easy?

1.What did you learn about your “coachee” when you practiced listening and encouraging?

1.What did you find was hard?

Skill 3: Questioning

A critical skill and perhaps one of themost essential tools in your toolkit.

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The 5 Core Coaching Skills

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What does tolerating this situation cost you? What support do you need to say “NO”? What lesson do you keep getting over and over

again? What is getting in the way? Are you willing to ask for what you need? When does this become about what you need? What are you truly passionate about? What’s the worst thing that could happen if you

did that?

Taken from “365 Coaching Questions”

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The 5 Core Coaching Skills

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Powerful Questions

challenges, moves to action, excites

tells people you believe in them

provides an opportunity to stretch someone

gives people a chance to get really clear

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The 5 Core Coaching Skills

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Skill 4: Requesting

Be clear about the request.

Be clear about the deadline.

Offer 3 possible responses:

1. Accept

2. Reject

3. Negotiate

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The 5 Core Coaching Skills

The Key Elements of Requesting

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Skill 5: Action Planning

WHO is accountable?

WHAT are they accountable for?

WHEN is it due?

WHAT support or resources are required?

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The 5 Core Coaching Skills

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1. Listening2. Encouraging3. Questioning4. Requesting5. Action Planning

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Coaching out of the Box ®

The 5 Core Coaching Skills

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Coaching Demonstration

Debrief

What did you learn?

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The 5 CORE Coaching Skills

WHAT You Need To Do

1. Listening2. Encouraging3. Questioning4. Requesting5. Action Planning

How will you integrate these into your Management and Leadership Toolkit?

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Action

What exactly are you committed to doing differently?

What resources do you need to do that?

What will be the biggest impediment to that?

What will be the biggest support in making this work here?

Where will you start?

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Coaching Demonstration

• Notice what skills were demonstrated?

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What are you walking away with as a result of our class today?

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Coaching + Courage =

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