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Using the Coaching Approach – Key Coaching Skills for Leaders & Managers
Presented to:
LINGOs Members Agencies October 23, 2013
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Marc Bowles, CEC, ACC, B.Ed & Licensed Trainer
Today’s Coaches for LINGOs
Alison Hendren, MCCCEO & Founder
What if everyone had coaching skills?
Our Vision is that they will. Our Mission is to see that they do.
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ANY question is okay!
You are accountable for your learning. (The more you give, the more you get!)
What we say in the room stays in the room!
When you bring real life scenarios to the day, please change names for confidentiality.
There is no hierarchy in the room. Everyone is at the same level.
It is ok for EVERYONE to make mistakes!(They show you are trying.)
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Coaching out of the Box ®
GROUND RULES
Our Objectives for today:
Introduce you to the other three core coaching skillsProvide some coaching demonstrations
Welcome!!
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1. Listening2. Encouraging3. Questioning4. Requesting5. Action Planning
Encouraging
Questioning
Requesting
Action Planning
Listening
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The 5 Core Coaching Skills
Coaching out of the Box ®
Review of Homework
1.What did you find was easy?
1.What did you learn about your “coachee” when you practiced listening and encouraging?
1.What did you find was hard?
Skill 3: Questioning
A critical skill and perhaps one of themost essential tools in your toolkit.
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The 5 Core Coaching Skills
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What does tolerating this situation cost you? What support do you need to say “NO”? What lesson do you keep getting over and over
again? What is getting in the way? Are you willing to ask for what you need? When does this become about what you need? What are you truly passionate about? What’s the worst thing that could happen if you
did that?
Taken from “365 Coaching Questions”
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Powerful Questions
challenges, moves to action, excites
tells people you believe in them
provides an opportunity to stretch someone
gives people a chance to get really clear
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The 5 Core Coaching Skills
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Skill 4: Requesting
Be clear about the request.
Be clear about the deadline.
Offer 3 possible responses:
1. Accept
2. Reject
3. Negotiate
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The 5 Core Coaching Skills
The Key Elements of Requesting
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Skill 5: Action Planning
WHO is accountable?
WHAT are they accountable for?
WHEN is it due?
WHAT support or resources are required?
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The 5 Core Coaching Skills
Coaching out of the Box ®
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1. Listening2. Encouraging3. Questioning4. Requesting5. Action Planning
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The 5 Core Coaching Skills
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Coaching Demonstration
Debrief
What did you learn?
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The 5 CORE Coaching Skills
WHAT You Need To Do
1. Listening2. Encouraging3. Questioning4. Requesting5. Action Planning
How will you integrate these into your Management and Leadership Toolkit?
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Action
What exactly are you committed to doing differently?
What resources do you need to do that?
What will be the biggest impediment to that?
What will be the biggest support in making this work here?
Where will you start?
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Coaching Demonstration
• Notice what skills were demonstrated?
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What are you walking away with as a result of our class today?
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Coaching + Courage =
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