be the change newsletter, november 9th
TRANSCRIPT
The Stall Street
Journal
For a moment, I want you to just sit
there and reflect on everything good
in your world. How do you know
that these things are good? How do
you know that other parts of your
world aren’t good? How do you find
support when the tough get’s going?
Now, I want you to imagine your
world without your support systems,
without those standing in the corner
willing to stand up for you and make
sure that you feel safe. Unfortunately,
there are many people in the world
(on the UNH campus included) who
do not have to imagine these support
systems not existing because for
them, it is a reality. Let that thought
sink in for a moment…
Now, I want you to think of how you
can change that reality for these peo-
ple. For a moment, think of yourself
as a puzzle. What are the many piec-
es that make up the picture that is
“you.” Now, break those pieces up
with the largest piece representing the
part of you that is the most im-
portant. How would you know that
this piece of your identify was com-
promised? How would you know
that there was someone there to sup-
port you. What would that support
look like?
At the bottom of this page, there is
an awesome mantra that ends with
“be the change.” Change is a tough
word with a whole lot of empty
meaning if there are not actions to
back up the change. Similarly,
change can be miseducative (to edu-
cate improperly). So with that being
said, how do you see yourself as be-
ing “part” of change.
One way of using your privilege is by
being an Ally. An Ally is someone
who stands up against derogatory lan-
guage or actions in order to foster a
safe and welcoming local and global
community. Being an ally can create
change; however, you must remem-
ber that being an ally is about more
than just saying you “accept every-
one,” and more about providing
awareness, education, and support.
At UNH, there used to be a “word
choice” campaign. The intention be-
hind it was great-someone would say
something derogatory, someone
would “word choice” them and es-
sentially move on from the comment
or actions. While the intentions were
very good, the outcome was that peo-
ple were just being silenced and nev-
er learning the “why” behind why
something was “word choiced.”
This is where change can only hap-
pen if there is concrete effort behind
it-for example, if someone is walking
down the hallway and says something
negative using words that are actually
what others use to identify them-
selves, I might say to them “what are
some other words you can use other
than that?” No harm has been done
at this point. In most instances,
friends often say “yeah, sorry another
word is this.” Additionally, I may try
to educate these people so they un-
derstand the “why” behind what they
are saying is not cool.
Being an ally is more than a four let-
ter word...it is about standing up for
those who are in marginalized groups
and fostering a welcome environment
for everyone.
Be the change.
Free Candy
This is an awesome video about being a bystander and how
it only takes the power of one to make a difference.
BYSTANDER REVOLUTION
This is a powerful message from a man by the name of
Skyler who speaks about people calling his transition
“easy.”
SKYLER ELEVEN
Ever been put into a box? Come learn how the danger of a
single story and the impact it can have on our worldview.
THE DANGER OF A SINGLE STORY
Learn how to tell someone they are a racist.
JAY SMOOTH
This is a collection of some of my favorite videos that relate to
social justice topics. I have watched these videos at least 10 times
each and have learned something about myself and more im-
portantly others each time I have watched them...please watch
and enjoy...what else are you going to do while you sit there?
Free Candy
Hall Vacuum
Games
Jennifer Lentz ‘98
Director of Operational
Improvement & Strategy
An Alumni Speaker Series Focusing On Leadership
Tuesday, November 18, 7:30-8:30am MUB 332
Want To Be Happier, Stay In The Moment
Talk By: Matt Killingsworth
The Music Mentors Program
brings in music industry
figures to impart leadership
lessons in a music-centric
environment.
Do you have the UNH
Live Safe App?
Allows you to send anonymous
texts, tips or video to UNH Police.
Allows your friends, family or UNH
Police follow you on a walk across
campus.
Must select UNH as your home
location.
Free Candy
Hall Vacuum
Games
International Education Week!
*Open to All*
November 15-22, 2014
Diwali
Photo contest
Films
Steel Drum Band
Games from Around the World
Chinese Calligraphy
Henna
Music
Origami