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A Match Made in Heaven A Match Made in Heaven Equally Yoked” Equally Yoked” Pastoral & Lay Biblical Counseling Pastoral & Lay Biblical Counseling Webinar Webinar

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  1. 1. A Match Made in HeavenA Match Made in Heaven Equally YokedEqually Yoked Pastoral & Lay Biblical CounselingPastoral & Lay Biblical Counseling WebinarWebinar
  2. 2. Equally YokedEqually Yoked - Bible Counseling 101 (Equallyoked) A Better Understanding of Equallyoked for Pastors, Laymen, and Rank-in-file Church
  3. 3. In the image of GodIn the image of God he created them;he created them; male and female he created them.male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27Genesis 1:27 - Bible Counseling 101
  4. 4. Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. Matthew 5:48 - Bible Counseling 101
  5. 5. Family IdentityFamily Identity YourYour Family identityFamily identity is based on your surnameis based on your surname andand closely associated with your familys Civil Identity andclosely associated with your familys Civil Identity and your specific surname:your specific surname: Your SurnameYour Surname is that specificis that specific family name passed down-line, generation afterfamily name passed down-line, generation after generation, in a family lineage from whom the origins ofgeneration, in a family lineage from whom the origins of your surname to-the very youngest new born.your surname to-the very youngest new born. YourYour MiddleMiddle namename is a name given by your joint parentsis a name given by your joint parents traditionally - by inter-marrying families to protect thetraditionally - by inter-marrying families to protect the family against frauds, phoneys, and fakes out to usefamily against frauds, phoneys, and fakes out to use your reputable names as a tactic or strategy to profit inyour reputable names as a tactic or strategy to profit in multicultural finance.multicultural finance. YourYour First nameFirst name is a personalis a personal name given to you as a newborn by your parents - to bename given to you as a newborn by your parents - to be used in every day conversations - with a specificused in every day conversations - with a specific meaning concerning the reputation to live up to inmeaning concerning the reputation to live up to in society.society.
  6. 6. Be ye not unequally yoked together... II Corinthians 6:14 - Bible Counseling 101
  7. 7. Social IdentitySocial Identity YourYour Social IdentitySocial Identity is your sense of belongingnessis your sense of belongingness to a collective of identified important groups such as;to a collective of identified important groups such as; CitizenshipCitizenship: a Nation,: a Nation, ResidenceResidence:: Home, Property:Home, Property: OwnershipOwnership,, deeds, and co-ownership in Real estate,deeds, and co-ownership in Real estate, e.g., vacation homes, office buildings, land, and maye.g., vacation homes, office buildings, land, and may include motor homes, RVs, cars, boats, planes, etc.,include motor homes, RVs, cars, boats, planes, etc., ProfessionProfession: your trade, vocation, skill, craft boards or: your trade, vocation, skill, craft boards or union,union, TitlesTitles: in clubs, associations, organizations, etc.,: in clubs, associations, organizations, etc., Education: CredentialsCredentials, degrees, diplomas, certifications,, degrees, diplomas, certifications, documentation of schools successfully attended. Socio-documentation of schools successfully attended. Socio- economiceconomic ClassClass: Amount of money in bank, in stocks and: Amount of money in bank, in stocks and bonds investments, in bank notes and certificates.bonds investments, in bank notes and certificates. - Intro to Social Psychology
  8. 8. Social IdentitiesSocial Identities CitizenshipCitizenship:: U.S. CitizenU.S. Citizen ResidenceResidence:: New York, NYNew York, NY Ownership:Ownership: Home is paid forHome is paid for ProfessionProfession:: CounselorCounselor Education: Ph.D. DegreePh.D. Degree Titles:Titles: DoctorDoctor ClassClass:: Middle ClassMiddle Class CitizenshipCitizenship:: U.K. / VisaU.K. / Visa ResidenceResidence:: New York, NYNew York, NY Ownership:Ownership: RentingRenting ProfessionProfession:: ManagementManagement Education: M.B.A.DiplomaM.B.A.Diploma Titles:Titles: DirectorDirector ClassClass:: Middle ClassMiddle Class Example 2 - Intro to Social Psychology Example 1
  9. 9. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Romans 12:10 - Bible Counseling 101
  10. 10. Your Civil IdentityYour Civil Identity YourYour Civil IdentityCivil Identity is actually a uniqueis actually a unique mosaic of your present:mosaic of your present: Ethnicity, Political Party, Race, Color,Ethnicity, Political Party, Race, Color, ReligionReligion, Disability, Sex, Sexual (Pleasure, Disability, Sex, Sexual (Pleasure Preference) Orientation, Marital Status,Preference) Orientation, Marital Status, Family Status, etc.Family Status, etc. - Bible Counseling 101
  11. 11. Civil IdentityCivil Identity - Ethnicity: - Politics: - Religion: - Race: - Color: - Age: - Sex:Sex: - Sex preference: - Marital status: - Ethnicity: - Politics: - Religion: - Race: - Color: - Age: - Sex:Sex: - Sex preference: - Marital status: - Intro to Social Psychology de facto (in fact, in reality) personalitypersonalitypersonalitypersonality
  12. 12. Some Examples:Some Examples: Ethnicity: Euro-American Political Party: Republican Race: Anglo, Color: Light Religion: Christian Disability: None Known Age: 21 Sex: MaleMale Preference: Heterosexual Marital Status: Single Ethnicity: Euro-American Political Party: Republican Race: Anglo, Color: Light Religion: Christian Disability: None Known Age: 21 Sex: FemaleFemale Preference: Heterosexual Marital Status: Single Example 1Example 1 Example 2Example 2 - Intro to Social Psychology
  13. 13. Keep Gods CommandmentsKeep Gods Commandments And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength: this is the first commandment. And the second is like, namely this, You shall love your neighbor as yourself. There is no other commandment greater than these. Mark 12:30-31 - Bible Counseling 101
  14. 14. Do everything in love. 1 Corinthians 16:14 - Bible Counseling 101
  15. 15. - Bible Counseling 101 In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partnerequal partner in God's gift.... 1 Peter 3:7
  16. 16. - Bible Counseling 101 Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Proverbs 3:3
  17. 17. And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectnessthe bond of perfectness. Colossians 3:14 - Bible Counseling 101
  18. 18. Personal IdentityPersonal Identity Your Your PersonalityPersonality is is just how your capabilityjust how your capability is manifested in theis manifested in the way you personally:way you personally: observeobserve,, uphold, anduphold, and promotepromote what is right,what is right, such as-such as- Law abidingness,Law abidingness, Morality/Morality/ abiding inabiding in social moressocial mores, and, and Heartfulness/emotionalHeartfulness/emotional stability.stability. Your Your CharacterCharacter is the is the actual way your seen byactual way your seen by your peers as havingyour peers as having the capacity of just howthe capacity of just how you personally andyou personally and actively:actively: fight againstfight against-- Crime/infractions of theCrime/infractions of the law,law, Immorality/violatingImmorality/violating social mores, andsocial mores, and Infatuation/lust.Infatuation/lust. - Intro to Social Psychology is the sum of your social identity, civil identity, family identity and
  19. 19. Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning the two shall become one ... So then, they are no longer two but one... Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate. Matthew 19:4-6 - Bible Counseling 101
  20. 20. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another I Corinthians 7:3-5 - Bible Counseling 101
  21. 21. Liberal Arts Schools Some Suggested SchoolsSome Suggested Schools Liberty U., Lee U., Houghton Coll., Southern Adventist U.,Liberty U., Lee U., Houghton Coll., Southern Adventist U., Johnson U.,Johnson U., California Lutheran U., Northland Coll., Milligan Coll., Coll. of the Ozarks,California Lutheran U., Northland Coll., Milligan Coll., Coll. of the Ozarks, Cedarville U., Anderson U., Samford U., Bryan Coll., Corban U., Hendrix Coll.,Cedarville U., Anderson U., Samford U., Bryan Coll., Corban U., Hendrix Coll., Southwestern U., Centre Coll., Bethel Coll., Central Coll., Eastern U., BelmontSouthwestern U., Centre Coll., Bethel Coll., Central Coll., Eastern U., Belmont U., Luther Coll., Eastern Mennonite U., Southern Methodist U., MacalesterU., Luther Coll., Eastern Mennonite U., Southern Methodist U., Macalester Coll., Muhlenberg Coll., Gustavus Adolphus Coll., George Fox U.,Coll., Muhlenberg Coll., Gustavus Adolphus Coll., George Fox U., Southeastern U., Emory U., St. Olaf Coll., Hope Coll., Roberts Wesleyan Coll.,Southeastern U., Emory U., St. Olaf Coll., Hope Coll., Roberts Wesleyan Coll., Concordia U., NE, DePauw U., Whitworth U., Lafayette Coll., Wittenberg U.,Concordia U., NE, DePauw U., Whitworth U., Lafayette Coll., Wittenberg U., Taylor U., Abilene Christian U., Sewanee-U.of the South, Valparaiso U., TexasTaylor U., Abilene Christian U., Sewanee-U.of the South, Valparaiso U., Texas Christian U., Ohio Wesleyan U., Franklin Coll., Ouachita Baptist U., U. ofChristian U., Ohio Wesleyan U., Franklin Coll., Ouachita Baptist U., U. of Mobile, Gordon Coll., Covenant Coll., California Baptist U., Millsaps Coll.,,Mobile, Gordon Coll., Covenant Coll., California Baptist U., Millsaps Coll.,, Goshen Coll., Allegheny Coll., Union U., Westmont Coll., Union U., WestmontGoshen Coll., Allegheny Coll., Union U., Westmont Coll., Union U., Westmont Coll., Waynesburg U., Biola U., Wheaton Coll., Regent U., Presbyterian Coll.,Coll., Waynesburg U., Biola U., Wheaton Coll., Regent U., Presbyterian Coll., Baylor U., Davidson Coll., Rhodes Coll., Transylvania U., Pepperdine U.,Baylor U., Davidson Coll., Rhodes Coll., Transylvania U., Pepperdine U., Wofford Coll., Oklahoma Baptist U., Indiana Wesleyan U., Trinity U., AsburyWofford Coll., Oklahoma Baptist U., Indiana Wesleyan U., Trinity U., Asbury U., Hanover Coll., Chapman U., Messiah Coll., Nebraska Wesleyan U., IllinoisU., Hanover Coll., Chapman U., Messiah Coll., Nebraska Wesleyan U., Illinois Coll., Augustana Coll. SD, Point Loma Nazarene U., Erskine Coll., AugsburgColl., Augustana Coll. SD, Point Loma Nazarene U., Erskine Coll., Augsburg Coll., Calvin Coll., Azusa Pacific U., Concordia Coll., U. of Evansville, NorthColl., Calvin Coll., Azusa Pacific U., Concordia Coll., U. of Evansville, North Central Coll., Vanguard U. of SoCal, Seattle Pacific U., Oklahoma Christian U.,Central Coll., Vanguard U. of SoCal, Seattle Pacific U., Oklahoma Christian U., Patrick Henry Coll., Albion Coll., LeTourneau U., Oral Roberts U., John BrownPatrick Henry Coll., Albion Coll., LeTourneau U., Oral Roberts U., John Brown U., Oklahoma City U., Wartburg Coll., Alma Coll., U. of Tulsa, Grove City Coll.,U., Oklahoma City U., Wartburg Coll., Alma Coll., U. of Tulsa, Grove City Coll., Belhaven U., American U.Belhaven U., American U.
  22. 22. Be ye not unequally yokedBe ye not unequally yoked II Corinthians 6:14II Corinthians 6:14 Bible Reference: The Laymans Parallel Bible