expect respect…and give it ralph whalen & parents april 23, 2010
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Expect Respect…and Give It Ralph Whalen & Parents
April 23, 2010
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GoalsConnect with others.
Learn one idea about respect that will help you promote respect.
Learn from each other.
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RespectDisrespectful child.
What to do when your child is disrespectful.
What to do when someone is disrespectful to your child.
Handouts, evaluation and next seminars
General Comments
Partner Q. What topics of respect are important in your family?
Respecting Differences
Partner Q. How do you use the idea of strengths & challenges at home?
Valuing children
Partner Q. Too much respect?
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Benefits of Respect
For KidsI’m importantSelf respectTake risks
For ParentsRespect back
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Respect
I value myself and others,
appreciate our differences,
and treat others as I would want to be treated.
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Respect for OthersAge
Ability
Culture
Jobs
Opinions
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Other Areas of RespectPosition
Property
Environment
Animals
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Partner Talk Introduce Self
What topics of respect are important in your family now (or when you were young)?
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Respect
I value myself and others,
appreciate our differences,
and treat others as I would want to be treated.
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Students with Challenges
Read the book
Respect those with challenges
We all have challenges
Introduce special education personnel
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Michael Phelps Video
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Don't You Quit
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, When the road you're trudging seems all uphill, When the funds are low and the debts are high, And you want to smile, but you have to sigh, When care is pressing you down a bit- Rest if you must, but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,As every one of us sometimes learns, And many a fellow turns about When he might have won had he stuck it out. Don't give up though the pace seems slow - You may succeed with another blow.
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Often the goal is nearer thanIt seems to a faint and faltering man; Often the struggler has given up When he might have captured the victor's cup; And he learned too late when the night came down, How close he was to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out -The silver tint in the clouds of doubt, And you never can tell how close you are, It might be near when it seems afar; So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit - It's when things seem worst that you must not quit. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VkCFeNeqyHk
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RespectEncouraging Others
Encourage Yourself
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We all have challenges and strengths. How do you use this idea at home?
Partner Talk
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Respect
I value myself and others
.
No child can
give back
what he has
not received.
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Teaching Child to Value Self
Communication
Listen
Talk
Writing
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Teach Children To Value Self
Time
Finish
Learn new task
Waiting for you
To teach a virtue,one example (you) is better than a thousand lectures.
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Expectations
Consider child’s age
Accept their limitations
Accept their talents & temperaments.
“Respect others if you want to be respected.”
Philippines
Teach Children To Value Self
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Discipline In private
Learning opportunity
Consequences, not punishment
Teach Children To Value Self
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Teaching Respect
Communication with others.
Table manners
Special places
Special groups
Cultural differences
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P Share: Too Much Respect?
Can a child have too much self respect?
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Expect RespectEveryone is valuable
Tone of voice
Expressing opinions
Frustration VS Disrespect
Respect is
commanded,
not demanded.
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Disrespectful ChildDoesn’t value
Doesn’t know their place
Is Egocentric
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Why Parents Tolerate DisrespectDon’t know
Afraid of child
Doing it alone
Tried everything
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When Your Child is Disrespectful
Identify disrespect
Conflict resolution strategies
Ask for an apology
Get help if needed
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When Others Disrespect Your Child
Listen for feelings
Have faith in your child
Support your child
Monitor
Teach assertiveness
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Learning Respect from Others
Siblings
Peers
Other adults
Media
“Never look
down on anybody unless you’re helping
him up.” Jesse
Jackson
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Group ShareIn what way did others help you or your children learn respect?
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Evaluation
Handouts
Book Group
Next SeminarGrade 5 Friday, April 30
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Thank you for coming!
“ Self respect permeates
every aspect of your life.”
Charles Joseph “Joe” Clark