responsibility: give it to get it ralph whalen, parents & students december 2, 2009 welcome
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Responsibility: Give It to Get It
Ralph Whalen, Parents & Students
December 2, 2009
Welcome
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Student Panel
Parent Q: Reaction to Students
Guidance
Adding Responsibilities
When Not R.
Financial R.
Q & A
HandoutsNext SeminarsEvaluation
Meeting Overview
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GoalsConnect with others.
Learn one idea about responsibility that will help you in your family.
Learn from each other.
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Middle School Students
How have responsibilities at school changed from grade three to grade eight?
At home?At School?For Self Care?For Others?
Grade 8: Carl B.Dominique B.
Grade 7: Alex L.Vergil H.Vincent H.
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Middle School Students
What consequences have you “heard” parents use for irresponsible behavior?
At home?At School?For Self Care?For Others?
Grade 8: Carl B.Dominique B.
Grade 7: Alex L.Vergil H.Vincent H.
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Round Table Discussion
Introduce Yourself
What did the students say that you think all parents should hear?
What surprised you?
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Why ImportantAge 18
Competence
Confidence
Self Esteem
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Why A Grade Three UnitPreteen Age
More Choices
Field Trips
Camp
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Grade 3 Teachers’ Expectations
Classroom Routines
Organize Materials
Follow Directions
Homework by Yourself
Ask for help
Control Actions
Go Quietly to __
Work time VS Playtime
Bonus: Show initiative
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What Would You Do?
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What Would You Do?
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Student Sheet
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Student Sheets
Partner Talk: What could you change?
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More Responsibilities Guidelines
Age
Safety
Ability
Family values
Cost
Rites of passage
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Giving New Responsibilities
Decide what
Time for training
Model
Freedom to fail
Watch for Monkeys
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Irresponsibility Consequences
Natural Consequences
Logical Consequences
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Would You Do This?
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Logical ConsequencesLink behavior to consequence
Goal: to teach
Immediacy
Testing period
Consistency
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Responsibility Problems
Not enough
Too much
Domestic help
Not doing his/her part
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Partner Discussion
Look at the handout. What logical consequence could you use?
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Social Responsibility
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Financial Responsibility
Spend, Save, Give
Trip money
Gift money
Allowance
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AllowancePurpose
Earned or given
Age to start
Amount
Parameters
Age to end
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Q & A
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SummaryHandouts
Evaluation
Next Year?