motivation: lecture 12 3/8/04 what directs and energizes your behavior?
TRANSCRIPT
Happy, absorbed, capable of greatness
“Think about the most wonderful experiences of your life; happiest moments, ecstatic moments, moments of rapture, perhaps from being in love, or from listening to music, or suddenly being hit by a book or a painting or some great creative moment.”
Peak Experiences
Open to new experiences, spontaneous, playful, loving, creative, self-accepting, energetic…
FLOW: An activity totally absorbs one’s focus
Forget normal worries & self-consciousness
Lose track of time
Feel confident & clear-headed
Emerge with sense of satisfaction & growth
Esteem Needs = Power & Achievement
– accomplish difficult tasks, outperform others, and excel
– acquire prestige and influence over other people
Energy, attention, stimulation, information & emotional support
When?– Stress, fear, embarrassment???
HIGH: “These shocks will hurt…In research of this sort, if we’re to learn anything at all that will really help humanity, it’s necessary that our shocks be intense”
LOW: “I assure you that what you will feel will not in any way be painful. It will resemble a tickle or a tingle more than anything unpleasant”
“10 minute delay” Do you want to wait: alone, w/ others, no preference?
Do we always want to be with others?
Not just anyone will do– P’s preferred to be alone than w/ students not in study
Stress doesn’t always motivate affiliation… Embarrassment: Sucking on large nipples and
pacifiers…– P’s preferred to be alone than with others
Naturalistic study: waiting for open heart surgery– Prefer post-operative than pre-operative room-mate
“We won! They lost!”
Students wear more university-affiliated apparel after varsity football wins
Conducting a survey of student knowledge of campus issues…– Can you tell me the outcome of that game?– Win: 32%– Loss: 18%
Evolutionary Psychology: an explanation
Gender differences in mate preference are a product of natural selection
– Favored mating behaviors that promote the conception, birth and survival of offspring
Men & women attracted to different characteristics and have different strategies
Ensuring reproductive success
Men
Possibility to father unlimited # of children
Rely on external cues like attractiveness to serve as guide for youth, & good health
Women
Careful selection of mate with resources for well-being
Value commitment, health, ambition, financial security
The dating marketplace: in 37 countries (N = 10,047)
Men’s values Physical
attractiveness “good looks” Being older than
spouse Low hip to waist ratio
Women’s values Socioeconomic status “good financial
prospects” “ambition and
industriousness” Being younger than
spouse
Big Misconception
Only thing that defines body = weight– SHAPE is not captured
Mind is designed to look for health based on LOCATION of fat, not just Fat vs. Skinny
1991 Singh developed series of figures from .7 to 1.0