negotiaton know-how
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Learn how to negotiation with everyone from your 5-year-old to your toughest customer and feel good about the outcome.TRANSCRIPT
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Negotiation Skills for H.R. Professionals DEMO SessionOctober 13, 2009 • 1:00 pm
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Housekeeping Items:– The phone line WON’T be muted, please put
your phone on mute– This webinar is being recorded
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Webex 101:
Click to raise your hand
Click to answer YES to a question by the instructor
Click to answer NO to a question by the instructor
Use emoticons to express your feelings
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How to Use the White Board
Annotation Tools
Text Tool
You must hit the Enter Button to display your response!
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Learning Objectives for Today:1. Present the e-Learning Live approach to the topic of
negotiating.2. Give you the e-Learning Live approach to learner
engagement.
Content Agenda:
Techniques to recognize and clarify hidden motivations at the bargaining table.
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ShareYour Point
ofView
When you hear the word NEGOTIATE, what immediately jumps into your head?
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• Trying to find mutual agreement • Trying to get the best deal • Trying to convince someone to do something • Win/Win• I win and you lose (it’s true!)
What is a negotiation?
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To negotiate simply means that you are having a back and forth conversation
aimed at reaching an agreement.
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Uncover Underlying Motivations
• Your “negotiating” position is above the water line.
• Your motivations are beneath the water line.
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9 times more 9 times more mass lies mass lies beneath the beneath the waterline!waterline!
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What you cannot see will sink your ship! What you cannot see will sink your ship!
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This is what you get under the water line
• Perceptions • Assumptions • Feelings • Attitudes • Needs • Expectations
• Intentions• Communication Styles • Values • Suspicions • Conflict Styles
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There is a lot of valuable information
when you are willing to look underneath the surface of things!
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ShareYour
Experience
Using the white board, I would like to create a list all of the positive attributes your company wants from its employees. Use the left side.
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ShareYour
Experience
Using the white board, now create a list all of the positive attributes your employees want from the company. Use the right side.
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We all want the same things. It looks like we are at odds only because we are looking at things only from our narrow perspective!
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The Catch!
• Naïve Realism – we think that we are rational and reasonable that that everyone else will look at the same situation and reach our conclusion.
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When we are negotiating, we tend to polarize people and situations for two reasons:
1. We can only see what separates us--not all the wonderful things that bring us together, and
2. We think that everyone SHOULD see things the way we do!
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Studies show that skilled negotiators spend 4x more time thinking about and looking for the other person’s motivations. They know that once they uncover the motivation, they can come to an agreement.
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Active listening skills
“A gossip is one who talks to you about others; a bore is one who talks to you about himself; and a brilliant conversationalist is one who talks to you about yourself.”
Lisa Kirk
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Reflecting Back – you feed the basic facts back to the speaker. The essential content of the message is not changed.
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Reflecting Back Example
Message: I’ve told Mary that if she comes in late one more time that I’m going to have her fired. She was late again THIS morning. Typical!!
Reflection: You’ve talked to Mary about her being late and she was late again this morning.
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Reflecting Back Example Message: Every time I try reach Bob my
email or voicemail just gets lost in a pit! I mean, he NEVER calls or emails me back.
Reflection: You’ve called and emailed but haven’t heard back yet.
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ShareYour
Experience
How can this technique improve your negotiations?
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• Reframing -- The process of reframing the message includes restating the message in a way that: – Maintains the basic
concern/issue – Maintains the level of
seriousness
AND . . . AND . . .
Reframe the picture
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AND,AND, . . . presents the message in such as way that it is
• Productive • Non-threatening • Non-judgmental
Reframe the picture
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Reframing ExampleMessage: I’m angry. You should have made
it clearer how these changes would effect me.
Reframe: You feel strongly that you needed more information from me.
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Reframe Tips and Tricks • Note to yourself the speaker’s judgments and
perceptions. – They are sure that it was intentional, not because of
some other circumstance. – You had a duty to tell the speaker about the impact to
them. – The situation was so bad that they are “entitled” to call
and tell you about their feelings. – Your actions demand a change in action in the future.
• Do you see anything else?
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ShareYour
Experience
What do you see below the surface of the following message?
I’m angry. You should have made it clearer how these changes would effect me.
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To get to the underlying issues you need to ask a specific kind of question!
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Clarifying Questions • Are open ended
• Allow the speaker to tell you what they think is important
• Helps you think of a resolution to the problem, even if you initially thinkinitially think the answer is No.
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1. What is your greatest concern here today?
2. What bothers you the most about that suggestion?
3. What about that is important to you?
4. Could you tell me more about that.
5. What does that look like to you?
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ShareYour
Experience
Let’s create a list of clarifying questions specific to your role in H.R.
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ClosingFeedback
• Share one insight about negotiating that you got from participating in today’s demo class.
OR if you prefer
• Ask your question now.
Thanks for participating!
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You negotiate all day long. When under pressure to negotiate, whether it is with a vendor or two feuding employees, remember these three keys to your negotiation success.
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Thank you for your time!
Jeanette [email protected]
Kristie [email protected]
Next Demo Class is Oct. 27th @ 1pm CDT/2pm EDT